Jan 042019
 

When (2019): Saturday, January 12, 2019 · 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM

Where: Baltimore Playhouse
3010 Washington Blvd, Baltimore, MD 21230 Google Map

Cost: $20.00

Dress code: All white attire

To Attend: see the Fetlife page: Snowball 2019 by Weekend Reunion

You may have been to a white party, but you’ve never been to a white attire playparty for people of color, because it’s never been done until now!

Introducing Snowball by Weekend Reunion!

Put on your all-white fetish attire and come play and party all night in our massive 12,000 square foot playspace at The Baltimore Playhouse! Whether you want to be in a scene or just watch, you won’t want to miss this incredible first time winter event. Our fully furnished playspace has a lounge for relaxing and socializing, a little’s play area for coloring and candy consumption, wrestling mats, suspension rigs, photo booth, snack bar, and plenty of cozy corners and stations for you to make all your kinky dreams come true.

Weekend Reunion parties don’t stop when the playspace closes, so meet us back at the hotel at 2am for more playing and partying. Our Snack Suite will be open until break of dawn with music and refreshments. For out-of-towners (and locals who just want to get out of the house for the weekend) we will be staying at our favorite kink-friendly hotel, the Clarion Hotel BWI. If you check in on Friday meet us down at the bar around 8pm for drinks and mingling.

Clarion Hotel BWI Airport/Arundel Mills is a 15 minute drive to Baltimore Playhouse and will be offering a discounted rate to all Snowball attendees. In order to be placed on the Snowball floors with other kinky guests you must ask for the Snowball block when making your reservation. Call (410) 712-4300 and press “0” to reserve your room. Check-in 3pm, Check-out 12pm.

It’s January so mind the weather and give yourself plenty of travel time! No liquor, cellphones, smoking or touching without permission inside The Baltimore Playhouse. Use designated parking lots and whatever you do, do not leave your car on Parkman Avenue. Bring a valid ID card and sign a waiver at the door. You and your guests must all be on the RSVP list in order to attend.

Weekend Reunion events are sex positive. All ethnicities, sexual identities/orientations and lifestyle structures are welcome. No intolerance of any kind is allowed. ¡Vamos a celebrar!

Jun 082018
 

Centaur Motorcycle Club presents Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend.

In it’s 48th year, this is the best attended Leather event in the Washington DC metro area.

Featuring the Mr. MAL contest, Bootblacking, Leather Cocktails and the REVIVAL dance party, your weekend includes access to the Exhibitor Hall and a number of social events.

Jun 082018
 

The Premier rope educational event in the Southeast USA is held in August every year.

F.I.R.E.: Because 121 Hard Points Can’t Be Wrong!

One of the top rope conventions in the United States, F.I.R.E. brings you a schedule packed with classes, including a photography track and dedicated photo lab, amazing presenters from around the world, a fantastic array of vendors, and a dungeon with more hard points than any event you’ve ever seen!

See the presenter list on their Registration Page 2019.

Jun 082018
 

Turtle Hill Events bought this event in early 2018.  If you have been looking for the Geeky Kink Event held in Piscataway New Jersey every summer, you’ve found it!

 

 

Jun 072018
 

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March

CAPCON 2020
10th year
March 5 – 9, 2020
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://chicagoageplayers.com
Contact:   https://chicagoageplayers.com/?page_id=664
Tagged:   AgePlay
Open to Age Players and Diaper Lovers. Sold out early in 2019. Watch this thread on Fetlife; badge sales start late June/Early July.
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Florida Kinky Campout presents Critter Camp
March 7, 2020
Plant City, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.floridakco.com/critter-camp.html
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/floridakco
Tagged:   Camping, Pony, Furry, Pup
Tent Camping – RV spots are limited – Presenters and Playtime. Critter Camp looks to educate and share the various animal modalities ranging from primal play, leather puppies to furries and everything in between. Our goal is to come together as a fuzzy community and share and learn about our differences to see how we all relate! Little are welcomed and encouraged to join us at Critter Camp! Fetlife Group

MX Virginia Leather Contest Weekend
2nd year! Virginia’s MX Leather Contest
March 13 – 14, 2020
Richmond, Virginia
Web Site:   https://mxvirginialeather.com/
Tickets:   https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4251495
Contact:   https://mxvirginialeather.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather
This Leather Contest is all inclusive regardless of gender or sexual identity. Meet and Greet on Friday night, contest on Saturday. Vendors, afterparty, bootblacks, more. All events will happen at Fallout.

Tethered Together
Rope, Yoga, and Shenanigans: Rope Reimagined
March 13 – 16, 2020
Providence, Rhode Island
Web Site:   https://tetheredtogether.net/
Tickets:   https://tetheredtogether.net/tickets/
Info:   info@tetheredtogether.net
Schedule:   https://tetheredtogether.net/schedule-at-a-glance/
Tagged:   Rope, Polyamory
Tethered Together is a convention blending rope bondage, polyamory, circus arts, and dance. We start with rope and bring additional opportunities to learn in all directions. At Tethered, experts in one arena can become dilettantes in others. We have collaborative and exhibition art, attendee-led meetups and socials, open rope space, flow arts and dance space and three nightly dungeon parties in addition to nearly 100 classes plus a Ropenspace!
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Zero Discrimination Picnic
2nd Annual
March 14, 2020
Fort Cooper State Park, Inverness, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/157936275630676/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/citrusequality/
Tagged:   Pride, LGBTQ+
Sponsored by the Democratic Equality Caucus of Citrus County. Free food and drink, fun activities, everyone is welcome to this family friendly event. Located in and around the Pavilion at Fort Cooper State Park. The first twenty carloads will get in free. After twenty, the park will charge $3 per carload up to eight passengers. Lunch will be served around noon. We will be having hotdogs, veggie dogs, Hamburgers, chips, potato salad, fresh baked desserts, bottled water, and sodas. Bring lawn chairs if you’d like.

Leather Fleamarket & Play #39
Vendors and Dungeon time
March 21, 2020
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   http://www.the-crucible.com/
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Vending is 11-7. Play starts at 9 pm.
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Leather Leadership Conference 2020
LLC XXIV: Leaders Serving Leaders
March 20 – 22, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.leatherleadership.org
Tickets:   https://llc2020.eventbrite.com/
Contact:   http://www.leatherleadership.org/index.php/contact
Tagged:   Leadership, History, Education
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Twisting Culture
@ The Playhouse
March 20 – 22, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site:   http://www.twistingculture.com/
Tickets:   https://www.twistingculture.com/index.php/register
Contact:   rsvp@twistingculture.com
Tagged:   Leather
A celebration of the diversity found in the Leather Culture throughout the northeast alternative sex-positive community! Northeast Person of Leather Region contest feeds International Person of Leather (Sin City). Classes and auctions by day, Carnality Carnival play party at night.
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Young Swingers® Week
7th Year
March 21 – 28, 2020
Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica
Web Site:   https://www.youngswingersweek.com/march-hedonism.html
Tagged:   Swingers
Couples only, week long vacation. There are nude pools, clothing optional pools, all-inclusive bars, and an array of activities going on throughout the day. Plus, you can go snorkeling, sailing, kayaking, and paddle boarding most anytime during the day.

1763 Spring Fling
7th Annual
March 28, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.1763.net/copy-of-wicked-wonderland
Contact:   http://www.1763.net/contact-us
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Last year, 1763 welcomed 17 vendors and hundreds of guests for a day of kinky shopping, great food fun! Fetlife Event page for 2019

Dark Side of the Con
North America’s 3-day Dark-alternative Convention
March 27 – 29, 2020
Parsippany, New Jersey
Web Site:   http://darksideofthecon.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dark-side-of-the-con-4-tickets-59336878200
Contact:   http://darksideofthecon.com/contact/
Tagged:   Fetish, Vendor Faire
Live shows, club nights, vendors, panels, activities. Yes, Live Bats are in the entertainment line up.
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Florida Kinky Campout
March 26 – 29, 2020
Plant City, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.floridakco.com/kinky-camp-out.html
Info:   floridakco@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping
Tent Camping – RV spots are limited – Presenters and Playtime. All World Acres calendar

April

Kinky Kollege
Spring Break
April 3 – 5, 2020
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   http://www.kinkykollege.com
Contact:   http://kinkykollege.com/contact/
Tagged:   BDSM
60 classes by 17 instructors. 15,000 square foot play space with over 75 pieces of equipment. Lots of vendors

MTTA Academy
slave Weekend (Females)
April 2 – 5, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
An intense weekend experience, retreat-like, aimed to find your true slave heart, life introspection and clarity for your future. This event is open to males (cis or trans) slaves / subs regardless of their level of experience. If the event is full, ask for waitlist status.
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Sprung
It’s like a black family reunion but a whole lot kinkier!
April 4, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site:   http://www.weekendreunion.com/sprung.htm
Contact:   http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged:   BDSM, AgePlay
At The Playhouse. Sampler Stations in the afternoon. Playdate Icebreaker at 4 PM. Dungeon opens at 9 PM. Little’s Day Care. We party all night! Friday from 8 PM to closing there is a cocktail meet and greet at a nearby hotel.
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The AIS Tri-State Scandal 2020
Cincinnati, Northern KY, Southern Indiana… Get ready for some AIS Style Kinky Fun
April 3 – 5, 2020
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/SCANDAL/home.html
Tickets:   http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/SCANDAL/tickets.html
Info:   baraknsheba@gmail.com
Tagged:   BDSM,Rope
Hotel event with one day of classes, two nights of play, dedicated rope space, and more. Produced by the Adventures in Sexuality team. Limited to 200 tickets.
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Organ Grinder’s Ball
25th year
April 25, 2020
Cleveland, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.fetishplayland.com/
Tagged:   Fetish, Performance
At the Cleveland House of Blues

Body Magick festival
18th Year
April 16 – 19, 2020
All World Acres, Tampa, Florida
Web Site:   http://divineecstasy.org/bodymagick.htm
Info:   info@divineecstasy.org
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Camping, but some stay at motels a few miles away. Learn and experience sacred sexuality in a safe relaxed atmosphere. Sex magick workshop and ritual, sacred sexuality rites, body painting, erotic massage, chakra dance, poly talk, drum circles, couple’s yoga, heart centered aromatherapy, more.

Capital Ball Weekend
I’m late! I’m late! for a very important date!
April 16 – 19, 2020
Upstate, New York
Web Site:   https://www.albanypowerexchange.org/events/capitalball/
Info:   CapitalBall@Albanypowerexchange.org
Tagged:   Fetish
APeX in the Adirondacks. Hotel takeover, plus cabins.
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Exxxotica Expo Chicago
Everyone Does It!
April 17 – 19, 2020
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://exxxoticaexpo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/CelebrateSexyCHI/
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
The EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest event in the USA dedicated to love and sex and features non-stop entertainment, hundreds of adult stars and hours of educational seminars.

Les Bon Temps Spring Fling Anniversary
Come help LBT celebrate our 8th anniversary!
April 18, 2020
The Rack Room, Milton, Florida
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/846927
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/RackRoomAdmin1/
Tagged:   BDSM
Demos, Vendors, Play Party. A block of rooms have been reserved at a nearby hotel.
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The M/s Gathering
5th Year: Learn, Share, Grow
April 16 – 19, 2020
Wilmington, Delaware
Web Site:   http://themsgathering.com/
Tagged:   Leather, BDSM
2019 sold out in January. Registration scheduled to be available October 1.
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Beat Me In St. Louis
XXII: BDSM Event, Educational Seminars, & Play Party
April 26 – 28, 2019
St. Louis, Missouri
Web Site:   http://beatmeinstl.com/
Contact:   http://beatmeinstl.com/register/
Tagged:   BDSM, Pup, Pony
Hotel takeover. The Mid-West’s Premier BDSM Event, Educational Seminar, & Play Party. Tickets available NOW.

Bikers Bears & Mayhem
Bears, Leather, Fetish, Bikers and Pups
April 23 – 27, 2020
Gettysburg, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://www.bearsbikersandmayhem.com
Tickets:   https://www.bearsbikersandmayhem.com/event/run-passes-tickets/
Info:   charles@bearsbikersandmayhem.com
Tagged:   Leather
The first large event in the US to combine the Bear, Leather, Fetish, Motorcycle and Puppy Communities.
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Boardwalk Badness Weekend 2020
It’s going to be a long hard weekend!
April 22 – 27, 2020
Atlantic City, New Jersey
Web Site:   https://ssnyparties.com/
Info:   SSNYParties@gmail.com
Tagged:   Spanking
Featuring the Boardwalk Academy for Girls. Bad Boys will be punished Friday at 1 PM April 24. Presented by the Strictly Spanking Network.
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CLAW
CLAW 19
April 25 – 28, 2019
Cleveland, Ohio
Web Site:   https://www.clawinfo.org/
Tagged:   Leather

New York Rubber Ball/Miss Rubber World
On hiatus, seeking sponsors
April 27, 2020
New York City, New York
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/missrubberworld
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/pg/missrubberworld/about/
Tagged:   Rubber
Last held in April 2017?

Rochester Erotic Arts Festival
April 26 – 27, 2019
Rochester, New York
Web Site:   http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish
Performances, Swing parties, Dungeon times, Workshops, and a nude swim.

Shenanigans Leather/Kink Weekend
Issue: 3!
April 24 – 26, 2020
Sawmill, Dade City, Florida
Web Site:   http://shenanigansleatherandkink.com/
Contact:   http://shenanigansleatherandkink.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather, BDSM, Camping
Demos, Classes, Vendors, the Florida Critter Contest, and SHENANIGANS in an atmosphere of inclusivity. Vendor Application
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The Stone Soup Run
April 26 – 28, 2019
Camp River’s Edge, Dewy Rose, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.cesentinels.org/run-info/
Tagged:   Camping, Leather
Presented by the Coastal Empire Sentinels. Facebook Membership to the campground and accommodations are the responsibility of attendees. New membership is $20 and primative tent sites are $20/night. RV sites and cabins are also available though we encourage tenting with us down by the river. Facilities include bathhouses, heated pool, hot tub and the trails.

Wingnut Stables Spring Slave Hunt
April 27, 2019
Wingnut Stables, North Carolina
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/753824
Tagged:   Pony, Fetish, Camping
Come run in the woods with us! Or watch the festivities at base camp. Either way, you’ll have a kinky good time! The prey are released into the woods, and then the hunters hunt them down using paintball guns. Hunters that capture prey are allowed to claim the bounty on that prey.

May

Frolicon 2020
NOT Easter Weekend in 2020
April 30 – May 3, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.frolicon.com/
Contact:   https://www.frolicon.com/contact-us
Tagged:   Geek/Kink Swirl
Kink – Think – Parties – Dungeon – Entertainment – unusual photography policy, unusual vending policy. Assume nothing. Read the rules.

Bear Mayhem
8th Year – The Bear camp out for Charity
May 3 – 5, 2019
Camp River’s Edge, Dewy Rose, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.bearmayhem.com/
Info:   wturpin1970@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Proceeds benefit Lost N Found Youth. VIP pass for 2 meals and endless cocktail parties.

International Olympus Leather
Promoting A Positive Image of the Leather Lifestyle
May 3 – 5, 2019
Augusta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.olympusleather.com/
Tagged:   Leather
The Olympus Leather Mr/Ms/Mx International & Regional Titles seek to promulgate traditional Leather values without bias regarding an individual’s age, ability or identity.

NC Leather Contest
2019
May 4, 2019
Charlotte, North Carolina
Web Site:   http://northcarolinaleathercontest.com/
Contact:   NCLeatherContest@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Contestants will compete for the tile of (Mr. or Ms. or Mx) North Carolina Leather. The winner will represent the Tradesmen and the State of NC as our Leather Representative. This is a feeder for SELF.

THE Beltane
May 1 – 5, 2019
Darlington, Maryland
Web Site:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/the-beltane.html
Contact:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/contact.html
Tagged:   Sex
Celebrating Sacred Sexuality. We all have in common a belief that every act of love and pleasure is special and divine. We come together each Spring to celebrate Sacred Sexuality in all of its forms. Pagans, Buddhists, Atheists, even some Judeo-Christian folks. Straight and LGBTQ. Vanilla and kinky. We all have in common a belief that every act of love and pleasure is special and divine. Come explore with us.

All Day Shop and Play
@ Playhouse
May 16, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site:   https://baltimoreplayhouse.com/allday/
Tagged:   BDSM, Vendors
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Altsex NYC Conference
5th Annual
May 1, 2020
New York, New York
Web Site:   https://altsexnycconference.org/
Tagged:   BDSM, Polyamory
The AltSex NYC Conference is a forum designed to disseminate information in a respectful, sex positive, and affirmative manner, including but not limited to kink and BDSM, polyamory and consensual non-monogamy, non-binary identifications, and non-traditional relationship and kinship structures. NYS SW CE credits are available. Program is AASECT approved.
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Camp Pahsome
May 10 – 12, 2019
Camp River’s Edge, Dewy Rose, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/camp-pahsome-tickets-48972674588
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/249606279216551/
Tagged:   Leather, Pup, Camping
Join 2017 Southeast puppy pup Havoc to celebrate the unique bond of pups and handlers with food, fun, drinks, and classes.

Furry Weekend Atlanta
Pirates!
May 9 – 13, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.furryweekend.com/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/FurryWeekendAtl
Tagged:   Furry
We welcome everyone interested in their furry side; fursuits are not required! Bring your favorite cosplay and add a furry twist by picking up some ears and tails in our Dealers’ Den! Hundreds of hours of programming, enormous game rooms, an artist alley, fursuit dance competition.

Power eXchange Summit
A three day celebration of power exchange
May 10 – 12, 2019
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.powerexchangesummit.org
Contact:   https://twitter.com/pxsevent
Tagged:   BDSM
Web site not updated for 2019 but dates are confirmed. As of Feb 26 Registration is still not possible.

Servant’s Retreat 2
SR2
May 10 – 12, 2019
Raleigh, North Carolina
Web Site:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/37-servant-s-retreat-2
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/749026
Tagged:   BDSM
At Wingnut Stables. SR 2 is an action and results oriented weekend for those who serve.

Carnival Spectacular
@The Crucible
May 18, 2019
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   https://calendar.google.com/calendar/r/day/2019/5/18?eid=N2xnMGZucjQ3M2xkdHViNDZnMnY4MmtqbXMgdGhlY3J1Y2libGVkY0Bt&ctz=America/New_York&sf=true
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/755519
Tagged:   BDSM
Hosted by Sinfully-Naughty Playductions (Subby-Girl and secret_lady). Demo stations for fire play, flogging, mummification, wax, and more.

Chicago Non-Monogamy Conference
Building Community Connection Through Inclusivity
May 18, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://chicagononmonogamyconference.com/
Contact:   chicagononmonocon@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory, Academic
Facebook

Network for a New Culture Spring Camp East
The Heart of Knowing
May 15 – 19, 2020
Abrams Creek Center, Mount Storm, West Virginia
Web Site:   https://cfnc.us/springcamp/
Contact:   info@cfnc.us
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Meet other poly people at a deeper level, learn the skills needed to handle your relationships, and become a part of a supportive network of people who share your relationship values…. Spend up to 5 days in a rustic woods-and-water setting, hang out around a bonfire, enjoy a song circle, cuddle up at a snuggle party, learn to take your relationships to the next level, and build connections with others.
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TRC Annual Vendor Fair
The Red Chair
May 18, 2019
Birmingham, Alabama
Web Site:   http://theredchair.org/
Info:   trcleadership@gmail.com
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Vending: Noon-4:00 pm. After party in the evening, seperate admission.

Beyond Leather
BL 13 – Positive Energy
May 28 – 30, 2020
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site:   http://beyondleather.net/
Info:   slavebonnie@beyondleather.net
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
IPE Contest
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Transpire 2020
Holiday Inn Orlando East / UCF Area
May 29 – 31, 2020
Orlando, Florida
Web Site:   https://transpireflorida.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/485738132322220/
Tagged:   LGBTQ+
Transpire is a conference in Orlando, Florida for the entire transgender spectrum and their loved ones. It features forums for trans men, trans women, non-binary individuals, friends and families. Forums with professionals, along with social gatherings to get to know other people traveling down the same road.
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Memorial Day Weekend

Alterna-Prom
Theme is Space Farce this year
May 23, 2020
Tampa, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/191717515523160/
Tagged:   LGBTQ+
Hosted by UNITY Leather and Fetish and Christoph’s. SPACE, the queerer frontier. These are the voyages of the Starship UNITY. Its one night mission: to seek out people who did not go to their Prom (or couldn’t) as who they are or with who they wanted; to seek out new and exciting memories; to boldly go as your bad selves. Enlist with our crew at Alterna-Prom and help build a strange new world of excitement. Use code “CRI” to reserve hotel room at this link by May 2.

Bizarre Bazaar
A Gathering of Kinky Vendors and Artisans
May 25, 2019
East Stoney Creek, Ontario
Web Site:   http://clubedge.net/BizarreBazaar.html
Info:   info@clubedge.net
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Twitter See http://clubedge.net/Calender.html

Camp Crucible
Clean air, Dirty Living
May 23 – 31, 2020
Darlington, Maryland
Web Site:   http://www.campcrucible.com/
Tagged:   Camping, AgePlay, Fetish, Pony
Every year there is a different theme. There be Pirates! The best Pony Camp as always. KidsCamp.
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Fetish Factory Anniversary Weekend
25th year
May 20 – 24, 2020
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site:   https://fetishfactory.com/florida-fetish-weekend/
Info:   info@fetishfactory.com
Tagged:   Fetish, Rubber, Latex
All access pass was $240 in 2019. 5 days, 9 parties, hotel takeover.

Florida Fetish Weekend 25
Westin Hotel
May 21 – 25, 2020
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site:   https://fetishfactory.com/florida-fetish-weekend/
Tickets:   https://store.fetishfactory.com/tickets-more/fetish-party-tickets/
Tagged:   Fetish
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International Mr. Leather
May 23 – 27, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   http://www.imrl.com/
Info:   info@imrl.com
Tagged:   Leather
IML and International Mr. Bootblack contests. Twitter Congratulations to Mr. Jack Thompson! #JackIsMyIML

PALS Annual Picnic & BDSM Olympics
May 23, 2020
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/874132
Contact:   http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a day of games, free food, 50/50 raffle, and camping.

ROPECRAFT Chicago 2020
Kinky Bondage Conference
May 22 – 26, 2020
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://www.ropecraft.net
Tickets:   https://www.eventbee.com/v/ropecraftchicago#/tickets
Tagged:   Rope
ROPECRAFT is a bondage conference that is “Knot-for everyone.” Top, bottom, and switch education with Western, kinbaku, & other styles in a sex-positive inclusive & consent-focused space!

Smoky Mountains 2020
A Near Perfect Vision of an ABDL Dream
May 20 – 24, 2020
Smoky Mountains
Web Site:   https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeIS5Kdw5Rdlh7qFaf4eBULGAf0Dn5bupWLlol7_eXeygCcEg/viewform
Tagged:   AgePlay
3 days of ABDL kinky fun in a house in the mountains. Gokarts, ziplines, whitewater rafting, rope courses, and other fun activities.
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xBiz Miami
Trade Show
May 24 – 26, 2019
Miami, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.xbizmiami.com/
Tagged:   Trade Show
Presented by Chaturbate, XBIZ Miami will offer a fresh look at the most profitable opportunities in adult entertainment, featuring an expanded lineup of educational, networking and special events in an entirely exclusive setting.

June

Pittsburgh Bridge Spring Fever 2019
May 31 – June 2, 2019
Camp Davis Campground, Boyers, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pittsburgh-bridge-spring-fever-2019-tickets-53772100801
Contact:   http://www.pittsburghbdsm.com
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping
Clothing optional tent camping with kinky, sex-positive adults. Near Pittsburgh. Parties, play, classes, food, music, dancing, and fun.

Revival Kamp
In the Pioneer Valley area of Western Massachusetts
June 2 – 9, 2019
Massachusetts
Web Site:   http://www.smakonline.org/kamp/
Contact:   http://www.smakonline.org/kamp/#contact
Tagged:   Camping
Salem MA Area Kink (S.M.A.K.) invites you to particpate in a unique Kamping experience that brings together people from every corner of the BDSM, leather, and the sex-positive worlds. Attendance is capped at 110.

Atlanta Poly Weekend
2020 dates coming soon, they say…
June 7 – 9, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://atlantapolyweekend.com/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/ATLPOLYWKND
Tagged:   Polyamory
Atlanta Poly Weekend is a family-friendly three day conference focusing on education, activism, and social networking for ethically non-monogamous people and their supporters. Drag Show, Pool Party, Coffee Socials, Drinks with Presenters, Tons of Classes, Free and Fast STI Testing, and much more!!! Sponsored by The Relationship Equality Foundation
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Black Poly Pride
2nd year
June 4 – 7, 2020
Washington, DC, USA
Web Site:   https://www.blackpolypride.com/
Info:   BlackPolyPride@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory
Unapologetically Black polyamorous conference co-founded by @TheRealChanee & @calicoeyez215. The weekend will include social gatherings, two days of panels and workshops, “family” breakfasts, a Heaux Down, an intensely melanated pool party, and brunch! (What’s a bougie black weekend without brunch?)
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TOMKAT – Spring
June 7 – 14, 2020
Fox’s Haven, West Nipissing, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://tomkatcamp.ca/
Tickets:   https://tomkatcamp.ca/product-category/registrations/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/TOMKAT_Campout
Tagged:   AgePlay, Camping
All Adult Ages Camping event for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Daddies, Mommies, Littles and Bigs. The dates are firm, even though they may not yet appear on their web site.
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Twisted Tryst – The Gathering
Camping with Swingers and Kinksters
June 6 – 9, 2019
Indiana
Web Site:   http://www.twistedtryst.com/
Contact:   https://www.twistedtryst.com/contact
Tagged:   Camping, Pony
Brings swingers, kinksters, and free spirits together. Lodging available for those who don’t or can’t use a tent. Twenty+ seminars in three educational tracks: kink, sexuality, and spirituality. Expect more than 300 attendees.

Dark Odyssey Fusion
Kink, Sex and Spirit
June 23 – 29, 2020
Northern, Maryland
Web Site:   https://darkodyssey.com/
Info:   info@darkodyssey.com
Tagged:   Camping, Hedonism, Pony
A Pet Play and Agility Course is part of Kinky State Fair. Fire spinning, self suspension rope jam, Carnal Casino, exploration stations of Long Night At Camp, and other special events. Price changes and discount deals are announced on thier Twitter.
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Kinky Vendor Fair
June 15, 2019
Toronto, Ontario
Web Site:   https://www.instagram.com/p/ByqfzZ8B01R/
Info:   info@discreetodyssey.com
Tagged:   Fetish, Vendors
Showcasing the versatile space at D.O.T.

SELF – Southeast Leatherfest
SELF 25: Connect
June 11 – 14, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://seleatherfest.com/home
Contact:   http://my.yapp.us/SELF
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather, Fetish
Including the Southeast Person of Leather contest, and SouthEast Master/slave, SouthEast Bootblack, Ms. SouthEast LeatherFest, SouthEast LeatherFest boy, and Mr. SouthEast LeatherFest.
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CornCon
14th Year
June 22, 2019
Bloomington, Illinois
Web Site:   http://www.leatherpalooza.com/corncon.html
Info:   Leatherpalooza@gmail.com
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
Education, friendships, pup play and in the evening some dungeon time. Check Leatherpalooza on Fetlife.

Florida Leather Sir/ Leather boy/Community Bootblack Event Weekend
5th year
June 18 – 21, 2020
Parliament House Resort, Orlando, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.flsb-fcbb.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/755332
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish, Leather
Florida Leather Sir/ Leather boy/Community Bootblack contests. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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Kinky Camp Out
5th Annual
June 21 – 23, 2019
York, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/744137
Tagged:   Camping
Presented by York Play Group.

Citrus County Pride
Second year
June 29, 2019
Crystal River Mall, Crystal River, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/402075810538863/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/citrusequality/
Tagged:   Pride
Sponsored by the Democratic Equality Caucus of Citrus County. Family friendly event with a raffle, free live music, and discounts from the food court vendors. In 2015 there were more than 25 booths and a large happy crowd.

Litha – A Midsummer Celebration
June 28 – 29, 2019
Westland, Michigan
Web Site:   https://m.bpt.me/event/4223639
Info:   bookbluecrowtalent@gmail.com
Tagged:   Hedonism
A Norse pagan midsummer celebration. Dancing, rituals, private dungeon, vendors. Performances by Blue Crow Talent. DJ Darks choir, vendors, drum circles. Via Exoticon Detroit

SEEN in Tampa Bay 2019
Sisters Empowering, Evolving and Networking
June 29, 2019
Largo, Florida
Web Site:   https://levelupjourneys.wordpress.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/seen-in-tampa-sisters-empowering-evolving-networking-registration-55662593315
Schedule:   https://levelupjourneys.wordpress.com/seen-in-events/
Tagged:   BDSM
For 21+ women and those who identify as women, a day of classes, connections and community. Produced by Level Up Journeys.

July

Anthrocon
Surf Pacific
July 4 – 7, 2019
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://www.anthrocon.org/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/anthrocon
Tagged:   Furry
Pittsburgh’s Premier Furry Convention, 23rd year!

Atlanta Bear Fest
Super Bears!
July 4 – 7, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.atlantabearfest.com
Contact:   http://www.atlantabearfest.com/contact.asp
Tagged:   Leather
Southern Bears presents ABF’19

TES Fest
Sexy summer fun!
July 3 – 5, 2020
Piscataway, New Jersey
Web Site:   https://www.tesfest.org/
Contact:   https://www.tesfest.org/
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather, Fetish
BDSM/Leather/Fetish/Sex Positive hotel takeover.
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Cirque De Boudoir – Summer Sleaze Ball
Time to get sleazy!
July 11, 2020
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/181631
Tickets:   https://www.cirquedeboudoir.com/en/
Tagged:   Fetish
Sleazy lineup of great DJs, Performers, GoGo dancers; sleazy visuals by Bunnyguts, sleazy play areas, sleazy dance floor and more.
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Club Edge Anniversary Play Party
9 Years
July 13, 2019
East Stoney Creek, Ontario
Web Site:   http://clubedge.net/
Info:   info@clubedge.net
Tagged:   BDSM
Twitter See http://clubedge.net/Calender.html. Fetlife Event Page.
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Con of Thrones
July 12 – 14, 2019
Nashville, Tennessee
Web Site:   http://www.conofthrones.net
Contact:   https://twitter.com/conofthrones
Tagged:   Geek
Facebook.

MTTA Academy
slave Weekend (Males)
July 9 – 12, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
An intense weekend experience, retreat-like, aimed to find your true slave heart, life introspection and clarity for your future. This event is open to males (cis or trans) slaves / subs regardless of their level of experience.
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Naughty in N’awlins
Parties, Entertainment, Playspace
July 8 – 12, 2020
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   https://www.naughty-events.com/cover-naughty-in-nawlins/
Tickets:   https://members.naughty-events.com/events/24501/orders/new
Info:   info@naughty-events.com
Schedule:   https://naughtyinnawlins2019.sched.com/
Tagged:   Hedonism
“Includes the worlds biggest (and only) “Swinger’s Pride Parade”.” Two hotels are taken over for this event. A room at one of them is required to attend. You get access to a huge number of parties and performances. 2019 schedule is linked, for now.

Polywood Camping 2019
July 12 – 14, 2019
Eganville, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://polywoodcamping.wixsite.com/home
Info:   polywood.camping@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
A kid-friendly poly camping weekend, at Raven’s Knoll Campground. Swimming, showerhouse, food truck. Camper hookups available, dogs welcome.

Southeastern VA Community Kink Fest
2nd Annual
July 12 – 14, 2019
Dragon Manor, Barhamsville, Virginia
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/689417
Tagged:   BDSM
Near Williamsburg. Outdoor nudity permitted. Vendor fair, Presenters, Kinky Dessert Contest.

Summer WoW – Weekend of Wickedness
An all-inclusive BDSM weekend in beautiful upstate NY
July 8 – 12, 2020
Northeast of Albany, New York
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/groups/106232/about
Info:   MKDesires@yahoo.com
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping
Long laid back camping weekend with presenters – add Thursday if you want to. Reservations opened December 1, 2019.
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Weekend Reunion: Fireball
It’s like a black family reunion but a whole lot kinkier! 2020 date TBA
July 13, 2019
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site:   http://weekendreunion.com/fireball.htm
Contact:   http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged:   BDSM
Fiery demos, outdoor cigar social, vendors with fireplay supplies. ¡Vamos a celebrar! Read this if you are new.

Camp FurCub
July 20 – 27, 2020
Fox’s Haven, West Nipissing, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.campfurcub.com/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/CampFurCub
Tagged:   AgePlay, Camping
ABDL Camp for Baby Furs and those who love them. Registration is open.

FetCamp 2019
July 19 – 21, 2019
Massachusetts
Web Site:   https://www.fetcamp.com/
Contact:   https://www.fetcamp.com/contact_us
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping
$200 tenting, $250 cabin. Photo package: $20. Classes, playtime, outdoor fun.

Sanctum
5th Year
July 18 – 22, 2019
Grand Valley, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/sanctum-2019-registration-58645781110
Info:   campsanctum@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping
Kinky Camping: workshops, games, Dom/sub auction, Saturday night dance, play area. Registration link is live! Fetlife Group

Stars and Stripes in Leather
TLC 2019
July 19 – 21, 2019
Triad Area, North Carolina
Web Site:   http://tarheelleatherclub.org/events/tlc-stars-and-stripes-run-2019/
Tagged:   Leather
Annual run of Tarheel Leather Club. Featuring The Return of the NC Boot Black Contest!

Young Swingers® Week
July 20 – 27, 2019
Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica
Web Site:   https://www.youngswingersweek.com/july-hedonism.html
Tagged:   Swingers

Albany Bound
Leather Bear Weekend
July 26 – 28, 2019
Albany, New York
Web Site:   http://www.albanybound.com
Info:   albanyboundmaster@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
At Rocks77. See http://www.bearalbany.com/

APeX C2K: Camping Cookouts & Kink
July 25 – 28, 2019
Albany, New York
Web Site:   https://www.albanypowerexchange.org/c2k/
Contact:   https://www.albanypowerexchange.org/reg/e/21/c2k19-camping-cookouts-kink
Tagged:   Camping
Open Space style infoshare program at a clothing-optional campground. Please join us for a beautiful day of Picnic, Education, Play, and Saturday night BBQ.

International Puppy and Handler Weekend
IPTC and IPC
July 25 – 28, 2019
Indianapolis, Indiana
Web Site:   https://www.ipahw.com/
Contact:   https://www.ipahw.com/
Tagged:   Pup
Established 2001.

Pan American Canine Konvention
P.A.C.K. Weekend
25 – 28 July, 2019
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.kennelklub.ca/pack-weekend
Contact:   http://northbound.com/p.a.c.k.-2019.html
Tagged:   Leather, Pup
Presented by the Black Eagle Kennel Club.

Pennsic
War!
July 26 – August 11, 2019
Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://www.pennsicwar.org/
Tagged:   SCA

August

Butchmanns On The Road – Cincinnati
4th Pansexual Butchmanns Experience
August 2 – 4, 2019
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/butchmanns-on-the-road-2019-tickets-49358539721
Contact:   info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. Sponsored by The Power Exchange Event Centre, Inc./ MAsT ORV Cincinnati.
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C.O.P.E.
BDSM Education and Playtime
July 31 – August 1, 2020
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/splash.html
Info:   Owner@adventuresinsexuality.org
Tagged:   BDSM
Hotel Takeover; 10,000 square foot dungeon. COPE: The Central Ohio Perversion Excursion produced by Adventures in Sexuality. Tickets on sale April 10, 2020.

Camping in Miramichi
Two weekends and the week between
August 1 – 12, 2019
Miramichi, New Brunswick
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/736812
Info:   campingnb2@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping
Includes two weekends but you can come for just one weekend or just one day. Stockade, St Andrews Cross, Kiddy Pool, 24 acres of fun, Lots of Trees, and a 400lb capacity hoist, Portopotties, Littles Playspace, Fire Play, Fire Cupping, Wax Play. There’s a motel about 20 minutes away for those who can’t camp.Some campers will make a trip to Kellys Beach in the Kouchibouguac National Park.

Southeastern Alliance of Leather Weekend
August 1 – 4, 2019
Parliament Resort of Augusta, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/498631343990016/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/Southeastern-Alliance-of-Leather-SEAL-1465752350364669/
Tagged:   Leather
Contests: Southeast LeatherSIR, Southeast Leatherboy, Southeast Community Bootblack, Southeast Trainer, Southeast Puppy, and the first Ms. Southeast Leather Pride. Register

Fetishcon
19th Annual Fetish Industry Trade Show
Aug 8 – 11, 2019
St. Petersburg, Florida
Web Site:   http://fetishcon.com/
Contact:   http://fetishcon.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   Fetish, Trade Show
Large vendor and exhibitor floor. http://fetishcon.com/exhibitors-vendors/. 4th Annual Fetish Awards – see Vimeo too.
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Fierté Montréal Gay Pride
8 – 18 August, 2019
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   http://www.fiertemontrealpride.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/fiertemontrealpride/
Tagged:   Pride
English http://www.fiertemontrealpride.com/en/ The largest gathering of the communities of sexual and gender diversity (SGD) in the Francophone world.

Forbidden 2019
August 8 – 13, 2019
Vittoria, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   http://www.forbiddenatthepoint.com/
Tagged:   Camping
Camping, Kink, nudity. Reservations for Forbidden 2019 open on Thursday, April 18, at 7:00 PM. Expected to sell out that evening.

Leather Weekend Fusion, Montréal
9 – 11 Août, 2019
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.fusionmtl.ca/
Tagged:   Leather

Pittsburgh Bridge High Summer Campout 2019
August 9 – 11, 2019
Camp Davis Campground, Boyers, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://pittsburghbdsm.com/
Info:   pittsburgh.bridge@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping
Clothing optional tent camping with kinky, sex-positive adults. Near Pittsburgh. Low cost, less structured, low key event without an educational program.

RelateCon Atlanta
First Year
August 7 – 9, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.relatecon.org/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/relateconatl
Tagged:   Polyamory
RelateCon provides a unique and supportive gathering place for polyamorous people to connect as a community through educational workshops, social spaces, and opportunities for networking. The core value of this conference is to empower healthy relationships across a myriad of configurations.
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Southeast Black & Blue
BDSM Educational Weekend
August 9 – 11, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.sebbevents.com/
Info:   nitro@southeastlsb.com
Tagged:   BDSM
At the Atlanta Eagle! Southeast Black and Blue, LLC is a not-for-profit organization with 100% of the proceeds raised throughout the year going to support its educational outreach, resources and activities.

Vendor Fair at Impact
August 9 – 10, 2019
Memphis, Tennessee
Web Site:   http://www.impacthome.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/773458
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Must be screened to attend. Contact impactmembership@yahoo.com or PM impactmembership on FetLife.

F.I.R.E. Florida Intense Rope Experience – Click for more info
Premier bondage and rope education event in the Southeast US.
August 15 – 18, 2019
Orlando, Florida
Web Site:   http://fireorlando.com/
Tickets:   http://fire2019.eventbrite.com/
Info:   FireEventInfo@gmail.com
Schedule:   https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vQwIjmbQxwjHEpgFh0qLnWWnEa38AalwF4YrLEVh7jzEYdoNkp9PlD3EFz6JN53IHh1JL-K5sGALi0y/pubhtml
Tagged:   Rope
Last year had 120 hard points. See the 2019 presenters list here.
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MI ROPE EXPO 2020
@Dark Side of Kink
August 14 – 16, 2020
Waterford, Michigan
Web Site:   https://www.miropeexpo.com/
Tickets:   https://www.smirc.info/smirc-2020
Info:   MIRopes69@gmail.com
Tagged:   Rope
Instruction, Performances/Demos, and Play.
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Network for a New Culture Endless Poly Summer
August 16 – 21, 2019
Abrams Creek Center, Mount Storm, West Virginia
Web Site:   https://cfnc.us/endlesspoly/
Contact:   info@cfnc.us
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Meet other poly people at a deeper level, learn the skills needed to handle your relationships, and become a part of a supportive network of people who share your relationship values…. Spend up to 5 days in a rustic woods-and-water setting, hang out around a bonfire, enjoy a song circle, cuddle up at a snuggle party, learn to take your relationships to the next level, and build connections with others.
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Polycamp Northeast
5th Year
August 14 – 17, 2020
Lakes Region, New Hampshire
Web Site:   http://polycampne.com/
Info:   polycampne@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory, Camping
PolyCamp NorthEast is a place for polyamorous folks to come together to relax, learn, play and create community. For one fabulous weekend, we will take over a large summer camp in the beautiful New Hampshire Lakes Region. We hope you will join us! Registration Deadline is in July. The agenda is set in an unconference style.

Southern Comfort Transgender Conference
August 15 – 17, 2019
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site:   https://sccfla.org/
Tickets:   https://sccfla.org/fullconference
Contact:   https://sccfla.org/contact
Tagged:   LGBTQ+
The Southern Comfort Conference has built a reputation as a safe place for LGBT people with a familial atmosphere, and aims at inclusiveness. It attracts people from all over the United States, offering the opportunity for social and other interaction. From the conference’s founding in 1991 until 2014, the conference was held in Atlanta, GA. At the conclusion of the 2014 conference, the board of directors announced that SCC would move to Ft Lauderdale, Florida.
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Steel City Eroticon
and The Bondage Ball
August 15 – 17, 2019
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://bodyshopclubs.com/events/23681
Tickets:   https://bodyshopclubs.com/events/23681/orders/new
Contact:   events@bodyshopclubs.com
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish, Polyamory
Poly mixer Thursday 7-9. Vending, art exhibits throughout the weelend. Saturday classes range from Kink 101 to Vulva Casting. Polyamory Discussion Panel. Erotic Fashion Show 5 PM Saturday. Saturday night Bondage Ball is a 21+ BYOB event, listed here separately. There are off-site play events.
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The Bondage Ball 2019
At The Body Shop
August 17, 2019
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/294239324697777/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/BondageBallPittsburgh/
Tagged:   Fetish
When the spectacular talents of vaudeville collaborate with the mysterious world of kink and fetish … therein lies the Bondage Ball! Prepare yourself for an event so inclusive and spectacular that it will be a veritable Noah’s Ark for the arts, performances, music, and fetish! Join our incredible lineup of talented individuals as we unite to raise money for Breast Cancer Research and help spread breast cancer awareness!

THE Dungeons and Geekdoms NE – Click for more info
August 21 – 23, 2020
Hartford, Connecticut
Web Site:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/the-dungeons–geekdoms.html
Tickets:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/register-ne.html
Contact:   http://www.turtlehilleventco.com/contact.html
Schedule:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/programming1.html
Tagged:   Geek/Kink Swirl, AgePlay
Geek/Kink hotel takeover. Tea, blanket fort, cosplay and LARP by day, dungeons at night. One dungeon is sex positive and has a medical play area. Littles Daycare. YAPP is available, email cat@turtlehillevents.org.
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Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit
10th Annual conference
August 15 – 18, 2019
Alexandria, Virginia
Web Site:   https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/WoodhullSFA
Tagged:   Sex, Education, Activist
The Sexual Freedom Summit features human rights activists, sexuality educators and researchers, professionals from the legal and medical fields, authors, sexual freedom movement leaders and organizational partners all working toward the time when sexual freedom is fully recognized as a fundamental human right. #SFS19

BDSM Writers Con
This event was canceled in 2018. No 2019 dates have been posted.
August 16 – 19, 2018
New York City, New York
Web Site:   http://bdsmwriterscon.com/
Contact:   http://bdsmwriterscon.com/contact-us
Tagged:   Writers
Dedicated to writers and readers of Dominance and submission. We are the ONLY conference in the world to offer writers and readers the ability to discover the complexities of Dominance and submission through workshops, live demos, and fascinating hands-on experiences while you interact with your favorite–and soon-to-be favorite–BDSM authors.

Exodus
Third year
August 22 – 25, 2019
New Hampshire
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/766440
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/156970
Tagged:   Camping, Pony, Pup
Clothing optional camping retreat. Call for ponies, pups and other critters

Submissive Journey Weekend
August 20 – 23, 2020
Pigeon Forge, Tennessee
Web Site:   http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/
Tickets:   http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/apply-to-attend-sjw/
Info:   info@submissivejourneyweekend.com
Schedule:   http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/sample-schedule/
Tagged:   BDSM
SJW is a relaxed weekend of classes, connections and camaraderie in the Tennessee mountains. Started in 2007 by a couple of Leather s-types who saw the need for us little letter people (LLP) to have our own hang-out, SJW has consistently proven itself to be a retreat that doubles as a personal growth seminar.
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Labor Day Weekend

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp
Kink, Sex and Spirit
September 1 – 7, 2020
Northern, Maryland
Web Site:   https://darkodyssey.com/
Info:   info@darkodyssey.com
Tagged:   Hedonism
Price changes and discount deals are announced on thier Twitter.
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Dragoncon
33rd Year of Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Gaming
August 29 – September 2, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.dragoncon.org/

Gummbalaya Rubber Weekend
Rupper Pervs, Rubber Pups, and Rubber Pigs are always welcome!
August 30 – September 2, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   http://lsrubber.net/gummbalaya/
Contact:   http://lsrubber.net/contact-us/
Tagged:   Rubber
11th Annual Signature event of the Lone Star Rubber Corps.

Master/slave Conference 2020
Annual educational event dedicated solely to Master/slave relationships
September 3 – 7, 2020
Falls Church, Virginia
Web Site:   http://masterslaveconference.org/
Contact:   http://masterslaveconference.org/contact-us/
Tagged:   BDSM
MTTA, Inc. presents a 5 day 4 night conference. Home of the Northeast Master/slave Contest. Keynote: Mister Blue, International Master 2018. Online Registration & Hotel Room Booking will open March 2020.
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Mephit Fur Meet
MFM: Home for the Holidays!
Labor Day Weekend, 2019
Memphis, Tennessee
Web Site:   https://www.mephitfurmeet.org/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/mephitfurmeet
Tagged:   Furry
Since 1996!

Montréal Fetish Weekend
A Week Long Celebration of Kink
September 2 – 8, 2020
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   http://montrealfetishweekend.com/
Tickets:   https://montrealfetishweekend.com/tickets/
Contact:   https://montrealfetishweekend.com/contact/
Schedule:   https://montrealfetishweekend.com/events/
Tagged:   Fetish, Pony
16th year: 5 days and 5 nights, numerous parties. One of the world’s largest fetish gatherings. Join their email list to get discounts.
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Southern Decadence
48th Year
August 29 – September 2, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   http://www.southerndecadence.net
Info:   info@southerndecadence.net
Tagged:   Pony, Parade, Fetish
https://www.facebook.com/SouthernDecadenceNOLA/, https://www.facebook.com/southerndecadence/, Facebook, Ponies!, Fetlife, Contact @poniegirl

September

Exxxotica Expo Miami
Everyone Does It!
September 6 – 8, 2019
Miami, Florida
Web Site:   https://exxxoticaexpo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/1438717909597730/
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
The EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest event in the USA dedicated to love and sex and features non-stop entertainment, hundreds of adult stars and hours of educational seminars.

Sex Down South
~Fluid~: 5th Annual Atlanta Sexuality Conference.
September 5 – 7, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   https://www.sexdownsouth.com/
Tickets:   https://www.sexdownsouth.com/registration
Info:   marla@sexdownsouth.com
Tagged:   Sex
Sacred/Spiritual/Tantric Sexuality ~ Religion & Sexuality ~ BDSM/Kink/Costume Play ~ Polyamory/Non-monogamy ~ Sex in the South/Geographical implications on Sexuality ~ Race & Sexuality ~ Aging & Sexuality ~ Disability & Sexuality ~ Youth Sex Education ~ Communication & Healthy Relationships ~ Single Life ~ Trans*, Gender Non-Conforming & Genderqueer Sexualities ~ Lesbian/Gay/Same Gender Loving/Bisexual/Queer Sexualities ~ Reproductive Justice ~ Sex Worker Rights ~ Trauma and Sexuality
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SexPo Cleveland 2018
3rd Annual
September 7, 2018
Cleveland, Ohio
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/2029227637313975/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/SAVEatCWRU/
Tagged:   Polyamory, BDSM
Hosted by CWRU Greek Life and SAVE, SexPo is a convention intended to remove the taboo associated with openly discussing sex and sexuality. We aim to open minds and push boundaries, giving everyone the chance to ask questions they may not be able to ask in any other setting, generate an ongoing dialogue regarding sex and sexuality, and encourage a sex-positive culture throughout Case Western and the greater community. (2019 date pending)

Southern Coastal States Leather Contest
September 6 – 8, 2019
Camp River’s Edge, Dewy Rose, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.cesentinels.org/scsl-contest/
Tagged:   Leather
Mr. Southern Coastal States Leather, Ms. Southern Coastal States Leather, and the Southern Coastal States Leatherboy. Excellent titleholders history on the contest web site. Camp Web Site

TOMKAT – Fall
September 13 – 20, 2020
Fox’s Haven, West Nipissing, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://tomkatcamp.ca/
Tickets:   https://tomkatcamp.ca/product-category/registrations/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/TOMKAT_Campout
Tagged:   AgePlay, Camping
All Adult Ages Camping event for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Daddies, Mommies, Littles and Bigs. The dates are firm, even though they may not yet appear on their web site.
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Florida Power Exchange
FPE VIII: Destination Diversity
September 17 – 20, 2020
Tampa, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.floridapowerexchange.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/florida-power-exchange-2020-tickets-83877167867
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/74342
Schedule:   https://my.yapp.us/FPE2020
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
Breaking out. Breaking even. Bootblacks, presentations, community, and fun! This is an adult alternative lifestyle-focused event involving all aspects and modalities in power exchange. Click here for contest information
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New Orleans Burlesque Festival
11th Annual Festival
September 12 – 15, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   http://neworleansburlesquefest.com
Info:   neworleansburlesque@yahoo.com
Tagged:   Burlesque
Crowing the Queen of Burlesque. Three nights of performances.

Ponies In The Northland
Second Year
September 13 – 15, 2019
Duluth, Minnesota
Web Site:   http://ponysinthenorthland.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ponys-in-the-northland-tickets-63580898178
Info:   foxden@mfi.net
Tagged:   Pony, Camping
Pony time, presenters, barn dance, camping, at the original venue for the IPPC, Dark Paradise.

Twisted Tryst – Rendezvous
Camping with Kinksters
September 12 – 15, 2019
Indiana
Web Site:   http://www.twistedtryst.com
Contact:   https://www.twistedtryst.com/contact
Tagged:   Camping, Pony
Brings swingers, kinksters, and free spirits together. Lodging available for those who don’t or can’t use a tent. Twenty+ seminars in three educational tracks: kink, sexuality, and spirituality. Expect more than 300 attendees.

Sand Castle Society Beach Party 2020
Where the beach, sun and spanking meet for a great vacation
September 24 – 27, 2020
Tampa, Florida
Web Site:   https://gulfcoastsandcastlesociety.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/845797
Tagged:   Spanking
Presented by the Gulf Coast Sand Castle Society.
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South Carolina Pride in Leather
V
September 20 – 22, 2019
Columbia, South Carolina
Web Site:   https://www.scprideinleather.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/311560272890771/
Tagged:   Leather
South Carolina Leather Contest. Register

THE Crossroads
A terrific little sacred sexuality event
September 19 – 22, 2019
Ramblewood Retreat Center, Darlington, Maryland
Web Site:   http://crossroadsgathering.com/
Tickets:   https://coilregistration.regfox.com/crossroads-2019
Contact:   https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/contact.html
Schedule:   https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vSsJH_4lUryI-FKlpTVBC-54ahc7JJFoMI8IHt21tFhaC2D_pIh8R0DlEwPBKy7XUi5qSZS6WTErIlD/pub
Tagged:   Camping
Sometimes smaller is better. Smaller workshop sizes, more time to get to know people, We all have in common a belief that every act of love and pleasure is special and divine.
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The Mark’s Fourteenth Anniversary Gala
and Vendor Faire
September 21, 2019
Nashville, Tennessee
Web Site:   http://themarkbycpi.org/
Info:   info@themarkbycpi.org
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Vendor Faire Fetlife EventAnniversary Gala Fetlife Event. Doors open at 10 AM for the Faire. Gala starts at 8 PM.

Women of Drummer 2020
September 25 – 27, 2020
Ramblewood Campground, Darlington, Maryland
Web Site:   http://www.womenofdrummer.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-women-of-drummer-contest-weekend-tickets-75488551289
Contact:   http://www.womenofdrummer.com/contact.html
Tagged:   Leather, Camping
Annual Women of Drummer Contest • Women, Queer and Men Play Spaces • Dance Party • Uniform Party • Interactive Skill-Building Workshops • Hospitality Suite & Bootblack Lounge • Cigar & Bourbon Social • And more! Weekend Package includes five meals, cabin space and access to all activities!
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Great Lakes Leather Alliance
~~CANCELED~~
September 26 – 29, 2019
Indianapolis, Indiana
Web Site:   http://greatlakesleather.org
Contact:   https://greatlakesleather.org/index.php/about-us/contact-us
Tagged:   Leather, Pup
Leather Title Contests including Master, slave, LeatherSIR, Leatherboy, Ms Leather Pride, Power Exchange Triad, Bootblack, and Great Lakes Pup & Trainer. Some contestants withdrew, publishing statements as to their reasons. Refunds have been promised.

Liquid Red Detroit
5th Year
September 28, 2019
Detroit, Michigan
Web Site:   http://www.liquidreddetroit.com/
Info:   liquidredlv@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish, Pony, Pup
Miss/ Mr Bondage Detroit contest 2019, Hostess Noir Halo, Chaos Talent Fire Shows, Alyssa Jade Rope Bondage, DJ Darks Choir and DJ Phobos, MadameKross Bondage Booth and of course the Liquid Red Design Lingerie Fashion Show.
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Mr. Virginia Leather
Knight Hawks of VA
September 26 – 29, 2019
Norfolk, Virginia
Web Site:   http://www.leathercruise.com/mr.-virginia-leather.html
Contact:   http://www.leathercruise.com/
Tagged:   Leather

Sand Castle Society Beach Party 2019
Where the beach, sun and spanking meet for a great vacation
September 26 – 29, 2019
Tampa, Florida
Web Site:   https://gulfcoastsandcastlesociety.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/719857
Tagged:   Spanking
Presented by the Gulf Coast Sand Castle Society.

Wingnut Stables Fall Slave Hunt
September 28, 2019
Wingnut Stables, North Carolina
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/788836
Tickets:   https://www.groop.zone/event/135
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/Caretta
Tagged:   Pony
Come run in the woods with us! Or watch the festivities at base camp. Either way, you’ll have a kinky good time! The prey are released into the woods, and then the hunters hunt them down using paintball guns. Hunters that capture prey are allowed to claim the bounty on that prey. Raffle (on Fetlife)
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October

Mates Leather Weekend
XXIII
October 3 – 7, 2019
Provincetown, Massachusetts
Web Site:   https://www.matesleatherweekend.com/
Contact:   https://www.matesleatherweekend.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather
Leather * Uniforms * Rubber

Midwest Leather Weekend
October 4 – 6, 2019
St. Louis, Missouri
Web Site:   http://mrmidwestleather.squarespace.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/MidwestPuppyContest/
Tagged:   Leather
See Mr Midwest Leather and Midwest Puppy Contest, Facebook

PALS Ample Samples
October 5, 2019
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site:   http://pals-fl.com/
Contact:   http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged:   BDSM
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a day of education and a hotel play party annually.
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Philadelphia Leather Pride Night
11th year
October 5, 2019
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://plpn.org/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/PhiladelphiaLeatherPrideNight/
Tagged:   Fetish, Leather
Charity Auction, Bootblacking, Leather Dance Party. New Owners! See the Facebook page for more info. Web site not updated yet as of July 27 2019.

The DC Fetish Ball
Columbus Day weekend
October 13, 2019
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   http://www.DCFetishBall.com
Listed 2019 date is based on last year’s date and is subject to change.

US Littles International Ageplay Retreat
October 7 – 14, 2019
Winter Park, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.uslittles.com/
Contact:   https://www.uslittles.com/contact.html
Tagged:   AgePlay
Hotel Takeover weekend for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Littles and Bigs. Play space full of toys. Classes, roundtables and workshops. Crafts, Pageant, Movie Time, Vendors, Raffles.

American Brotherhood Weekend
30th Year! Leather Contest and Brotherhood Weekend
October 11 – 13, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://www.americanbrotherhood.com/
Contact:   https://www.americanbrotherhood.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   Leather
Leather Archives and Museum and Touche’, LRA

Bizarre Bazaar
A Gathering of Kinky Vendors and Artisans
October 12, 2019
East Stoney Creek, Ontario
Web Site:   http://clubedge.net/BizarreBazaar.html
Info:   info@clubedge.net
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Twitter See http://clubedge.net/Calender.html
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Crimson Moon Spanking Spooktacular
26th Year
October 10 – 13, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://www.chicagocrimsonmoon.org/party-registration
Contact:   https://twitter.com/chicrimsonmoon
Tagged:   Spanking
Spanking, Littles, Middles, Discipline, Halloween Costume party and the Kangaroo Court. This is the LAST Crimson Moon event.

DomCon
Pro and Lifestyle BDSM/Fetish
October 10 – 14, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   https://www.domcon.com/
Contact:   https://www.domcon.com/home/custom?page=Contact+Us
Tagged:   Fetish, Pup, Pony
Mistress Cyan presents The World’s Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention. Pet Show and Awards for Cutest Pet * Best Behaved Pet * Best Costume * Best Pet Trick

Jax Fet Fest
Oct 10 – 13, 2019
Jacksonville, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.clubkinkjax.com/jax-fet-fest/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tickets-to-attend-the-2019-1st-annual-jax-fet-fest-october-10-13th-tickets-71221869529
Contact:   https://www.clubkinkjax.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   BDSM, Pony, Rope
Classes, Vendors, Raffles, Games, Dungeon time, based at Club Kink Jax. Buck of the Waterhole is presenting pony play. Blaise and Raven presenting rope. Marshall of EMT Toys leads the Spank A Thon.
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Network for a New Culture Fall Camp East
Re-Inventing Society
October 11 – 15, 2019
Abrams Creek Center, Mount Storm, West Virginia
Web Site:   https://cfnc.us/fallcamp/
Contact:   info@cfnc.us
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
2019 Theme: Co-Creation. The CFNC team will offer the basics: an event orientation, opening circle, ZEGG Forums, Connection Pods, Boundaries training, Sensual Space orientation, and a Love Ceremony. Other than that, the workshops and activities are up to you! Any and all participants have the chance to offer a workshop, and participants also get to choose which workshops happen at camp.
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SCONY
Spanking Weekend in the Mountains
October 11 – 13, 2019
Pocono Mountains, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://www.scony.com/events/
Info:   Margaretsweekend@aol.com
Tagged:   Spanking
Ms. Margaret has reserved a quaint, 25-acre resort nestled in the Pocono Mountains just two hours outside of New York City and very close to Allentown, PA. This event happens Spring and Fall. You can stay 2 extra days – see the web site for info.

Unity Munch 2020
The largest annual black munch event in the world!
October 17, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site:   http://weekendreunion.com/unitymunch.htm
Contact:   http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged:   BDSM
Dinner this year will be held at GrandE Buffet & Grill which is conveniently located 15 minutes from the hotel and features American, Asian and Mexican cuisine. After dinner we’ll head to the Baltimore Playhouse for a massive play party. If you’ve never experienced a playspace packed full of kinky black folks, you are in for a treat. See web page for complete info. Also, Read this if you are new.

Columbia Leather Order
Phoenix Rising “Into the Sun”
October 18 – 20, 2019
Camp River’s Edge, Dewy Rose, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.columbialeatherorder.org/phoenix-rising.html
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/phoenix-rising-birds-of-a-feather-tickets-59415083113
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/1790052417706893/
Tagged:   Leather
Campground fees apply.

Exxxotica XXXL
Everyone Does It!
October 20 – 27, 2019
Edison, New Jersey
Web Site:   https://exxxoticaexpo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/CelebrateSexyNJ/
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
The EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest event in the USA dedicated to love and sex and features non-stop entertainment, hundreds of adult stars and hours of educational seminars.

Fantasy Fest
October 16 – 25, 2020
Key West, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.fantasyfest.com/
Contact:   https://fantasyfest.com/contact/
Schedule:   https://fantasyfest.com/schedule/
Tagged:   Fetish
Click on “Little Black Book” on the Schedule page.
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Leather Fleamarket & Play #38
LF&P
October 19, 2019
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   http://www.the-crucible.com
Tagged:   Vendor Faire, Dungeon
Vendors by day; play by night. Vending: 10 AM – 7 PM. Play Party: 9 PM – 2 AM. Vending open to all, at no cost. Play party requires membership and is priced at $20.
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Mr. Indiana Leather
at Greg’s Indy
October 18 – 20, 2019
Indianapolis, Indiana
Web Site:   https://indianaleather.com/indiana-leather-weekend/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/350918642459868/
Tagged:   Leather
Meet and Greet Friday; Contest Saturday night. Victory brunch Sunday. Saturday – Kink U Classes by Titans of the Midwest. Winner goes to IML.

TeddyCon – Click for more info
Grow * Laugh * Learn * Play * Connect
October 17 – 20, 2019
Allentown, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://teddycon.org/
Info:   Info@TeddyCon.org
Tagged:   AgePlay
Hotel Takeover weekend for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Littles and Bigs. Play space full of toys. Classes, roundtables and workshops. Crafts, Pageant, Movie Time, Vendors, Raffles. Registration closed soon after it opened but there may be a waitlist.

Young Swingers® Week
October 19 – 26, 2019
Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica
Web Site:   https://www.youngswingersweek.com/october-hedonism.html
Tagged:   Swingers

Boo Fest 2019
Save the Date!
October 25 – 27, 2019
York, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/744146
Tagged:   Camping
Presented by York Play Group. Kinky Halloween costumes

Endless Night
New Orleans Vampire Ball
October 26, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site:   http://endlessnight.com/
Tagged:   Fetish Ball
A Venetian Masquerade meets a Vampire Court, with the elegance of a Burlesque Cabaret and the energy of a Rock Concert.

Kinky Kollege
Homecoming
October 25 – 27, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   http://kinkykollege.com
Contact:   http://kinkykollege.com/contact/
Tagged:   BDSM
50+ classes by 17 instructors. 15,000 square foot play space with over 75 pieces of equipment.

PhEERfest 2019
Sincinnati’s Only Halloween Edge Play Event
October 25 – 27, 2019
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pheerfest-tickets-61342643498
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/723247
Tagged:   Fetish, BDSM
Tickets are on sale now. Vendors, classes, parties!

STIMULATE Annual Halloween Ball
October 25, 2019
New York, New York
Web Site:   http://stimulate-me.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/STIMULATE.nyc/
Tagged:   Fetish
Check stimulate.eventbrite.com for currently available tickets.

November

US Election 2020
Because this is ridiculous
November 3, 2020
USA
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/525575
Tagged:   Election
Get out and make your fetish / LGBTQ vote count.
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1763 Wicked Wonderland
Save the Date
November 9, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://www.1763.net/
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Vendors by day, dungeon by night!

Florida e-Fest
Livin’ in an Anal Erotic Paradise
November 8 – 10, 2019
Clearwater, Florida
Web Site:   http://www.floridaefest.org/
Info:   dancer48066@yahoo.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Annual con for Enema Fetish. “Tyler Reunion Group”.
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Foundations in Mastery
When only excellence will do.
November 6 – 8, 2020
Fairfield, Ohio
Web Site:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/39-foundations-in-mastery
Info:   asst2msgross@bdsmclasses.com
Tagged:   BDSM
This three-day seminar is a call to excellence for Tops, Dominants, and Masters.

KinkyCon
KINKYCON XIII
November 8 – 10, 2019
Manchester, New Hampshire
Web Site:   http://www.kinkyconnh.com/
Contact:   http://www.kinkyconnh.com/contact
Tagged:   BDSM, Polyamory
Kinky Con is an annual conference celebrating the education and exploration of BDSM, polyamory, gender identity, alternative sexuality, and welcoming people of all ages (18+), race, sexual orientation, gender identity, and spiritual belief.

Leather History Preservation Weekend
Four Fabulous Years
November 6 – 8, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site:   http://lhpfoundation.org/lhpf_events/lhpf_weekend/index.html
Tickets:   http://lhpfoundation.org/lhpf_events/lhpf_weekend/index.html
Contact:   http://lhpfoundation.org/contact/index.html
Tagged:   Leather
LHPW 2020 is a weekend devoted to the preservation and promotion of the tradition of sharing our oral history. It is a weekend of camaraderie and fellowship, with multiple presenters sharing their experiences. In the tradition of the best of Leather events, there will be cocktails, play time, vendors, networking and FUN!
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Mr. International Rubber
Rubber Blowout Weekend
November 8 – 10, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site:   https://mirubber.com/
Tagged:   Rubber, Pup
Lube wrestling, Rubber Pup events, Code Party, and of course, more and more! Market Day is only $10, admission to every event is $200+.
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MTTA Academy
Master Weekend
November 5 – 8, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule:   http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
For all genders and orientations. If the event is full, ask for waitlist status.
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Ponies, Critters and Kinksters in the Swamp
Camping with Criters and Kinksters
November 8 – 10, 2019
Springfield, Louisiana
Web Site:   https://www.poniesonthedelta.net/kinksters-critters
Tagged:   Pony
This event is a laid back event where ponies and handlers can mingle, practice, and learn. Carts and a 4-wheeled buggy will be available to play with and whatever tack anyone may need is also available.

Swingset Takes Desire! 2020
November 7 – 14, 2020
Desire Resort – Riviera Maya in Cancún, Mexico
Web Site:   https://swingsetdesire.com/
Tagged:   Swingers, BDSM
Resort Takeover: Every room at the resort is booked by our group. We host workshops on non-monogamy, anal play, flogging, and more. We are the first group to erect a full BDSM Dungeon for a night in the disco, complete with St Andrews Crosses, flogging benches, and a suspension station, along with workshops to unleash your inner dom or sub. Every year sees play parties, gang bangs, and orgies both hosted and pop-up, themed costume nights, live podcast recordings, karaoke, wine socials, cocktails, prizes and giveaways, foam parties, and just relaxing by the pool, beach, or in the hot tub.
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Beyond The Love
VII
November 13 – 15, 2020
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.beyondthelove.org/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/BeyondTheLovePolyamory/
Tagged:   Polyamory
Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people, and fun!

Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair
CCFF is in Myrtle Beach again for 2019
November 14 – 17, 2019
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/5th-annual-coastal-carolina-fetish-fair-tickets-61002623489
Tickets:   5thCCFF
Contact:   CKeithmy@yahoo.com
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
The Vendor Fair will include corsets, whips, low-temp candles, violet wands, kilts, canes, knives, paddles, and of course, more. Dungeon/Play Space available on Friday and Saturday night for all paid attendees.
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Diabolique Ball 23
Fetish Asylum
November 30, 2019
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   http://www.diaboliquephilly.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/DiaboliqueBall/
Tagged:   Fetish
The Diabolique Ball was created in 1997 by Kali Morgan of PASSIONAL (and now also Sexploratorium www.passionaltoys.com) along with Psydde Delicious of Delicious Corsets now found within Delicious Boutique along with a team of dedicated friends. Diabolique Ball 23: Fetish Asylum opens at 8PM on Saturday November 30 at The Painted Bride Art Center where creative and kinky spirits will converge for an unorthodox session of erotic overload.

Spanksgiving
Owned & Presented by STL3, inc.
November 22 – 24, 2019
St. Louis, Missouri
Web Site:   http://spanksgiving.com/
Tickets:   http://spanksgiving.events/register/
Schedule:   http://spanksgiving.events/schedule/
Tickets are still available.
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Brimstone 666
6th Brimstone
November 28 – December 1, 2019
Piscataway, New Jersey
Web Site:   http://brimstone6.com/
Tagged:   BDSM, Pony, Pup, AgePlay
Hotel Takeover. Multi-faceted event that sells out at 600 attendees. More than twenty NY/NJ groups provide volunteers and support for this event.
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Taboo Toronto
The Everything To Do With Sex Show
November 29 – December 1, 2019
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.tabooshow.com/Toronto
Tagged:   Sex
The Everything To Do With Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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December

6th Annual ~Let’s Celebrate the Holidays~ Picnic
TOG Community Picnic
December 7, 2019
Lake Worth, Florida
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/834966
Contact:   http://twitter.com/florida_dom
Tagged:   BDSM
This is a VANILLA event. The South Florida The Old Generation group has already rented the pavilion and will make requests of local organizations, events, dungeons, munches, etc to help sponsor the picnic so this can be a FREE day for all the attendees. There will be hot dogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers, chicken, pulled pork, salads and more. There will be games and contests and fun for all. About 600 attendees expected.

Foundations in Mastery
When only excellence will do.
December 4 – 6, 2020
Middletown, New York
Web Site:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/39-foundations-in-mastery
Info:   asst2msgross@bdsmclasses.com
Tagged:   BDSM
This three-day seminar is a call to excellence for Tops, Dominants, and Masters.

NationalSexEd Conference
December 8 – 11, 2020
Atlantic City, New Jersey
Web Site:   http://sexedconference.com/
Contact:   https://sexedconference.com/contact/
Tagged:   Sex, Education
USA’s largest sexuality education conference.
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Cirque De Boudoir – Carnavalesque New Year’s Eve 2020
The largest KINK/FETISH NYE event in Montreal!
December 31, 2019
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/115767
Tickets:   https://www.cirquedeboudoir.com/en/
Tagged:   Fetish
Performances by Audrey Ivory, Mimi Cherry, Natasha Nebula, HOLY SCAR & more. Plus: CDB Gogo Dancers, Visuals & countdown by Bunnyguts.
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End of Year Masquerade Ball
December 28, 2019
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/817756
Contact:   https://www.the-crucible.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Masquerade Costumes, Fetish Attire and Masks Encouraged. Hosted by Sinfully Naughty Playductions.
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Network for a New Culture – New Year’s Celebration
December 28 2019 – January 2, 2020
Abrams Creek Center, Mount Storm, West Virginia
Web Site:   https://cfnc.us/newyear/
Contact:   info@cfnc.us
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Lightly-programmed, co-created Community Reunion, with an awesome Year’s Eve celebration, daily ZEGG Forums. An alcohol and drug free event. Mailing List
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January

Mid Atlantic Leather – Click for more info
Did somebody drop a ring?
January 17 – 19, 2020
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   http://www.leatherweekend.com/
Contact:   http://www.leatherweekend.com/contact-us/
Schedule:   https://my.yapp.us/centaurmc
Tagged:   Leather

AnonM/s Con
Back to the Basics
January 24 – 26, 2020
Providence, Rhode Island
Web Site:   https://www.anonm-s.com
Tickets:   https://www.anonm-s.com/anonm-s-con-2020
Info:   anonms.inc@gmail.com
Schedule:   https://www.anonm-s.com/event-schedule
Tagged:   Leather
AnonM/s con will be an educational event that has a focus in Power Exchange Dynamics and leather history. This event will be helpful to those who are new or interested in an M/s or D/s dynamic as well as those looking to grow in their already existing one! AnonM/s is an educational company founded by the Black Sheep Leather Family.
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Mud Girl!!!
Come get dirty
January 25, 2020
Palm Beach, Florida
Web Site:   https://www.mudgirlrun.us/copie-de-tampa-bay
Contact:   https://www.mudgirlrun.us/faq
Tagged:   Fetish
MudGirl is a 3 mile foot race, including 17+ obstacles to overcome. Whether alone or with a team, this challenging course is committed to test cohesion, endurance and the good spirit of each participant. Very Messy! Expect mud, but no swimming required. FemmeDommeCollective is running at a group, their time slot is 10:30.
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Snowbound 2020
January 24 – 26, 2020
Fairfield, Ohio
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/snowbound-2020-tickets-74745514847
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/snowbound-2020-tickets-74745514847
Info:   Snowbound.Cincinnati@gmail.com
Tagged:   Rope
A three day rope event sponsored by PEER Group of Cincinnati, Inc. The Snowbound Attendees Group on Fetlife has up to date info.
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Taboo Montréal
Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction
January 24 – 26, 2020
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   http://tabooshow.com/Montreal
Tagged:   Sex
Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction de Montréal provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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February

New England Kinky Vending Event
Presented by NEVU – New England Vendors United
February 1, 2020
Warwick, Rhode Island
Web Site:   http://ne-vu.org/
Contact:   newenglandvendorsunited@gmail.com
Tagged:   Vendors
Save the date. A number of vendors have already signed on to this event. Click here for Vendor ApplicationClick here for Volunteer Application.
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PALS Fetish Fest
January 31 – February 1, 2020
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site:   http://pals-fl.com/
Contact:   http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged:   BDSM
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a weekend of presenters and vendors, with a Saturday night party at a hotel.
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Winter Wickedness
Save the date for something great!
January 31 – February 2, 2020
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site:   http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/WICKED/home.html
Tagged:   BDSM,Rope
Hotel Takeover,one day of classes, two nights of play in 10,000 square ft of play spaces, dedicated rope space, warm and wet room, more.

Poly Living 2020
15th year
February 7 – 9, 2020
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Web Site:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/conferences/polyliving/philadelphia/
Tickets:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/product/2020-poly-living-conference-weekend-registration/
Contact:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/aboutus/contactus/
Tagged:   Polyamory
Early Registration ends December 15. Keynote – Workshops – Community – Connections. Loving More’s Poly Living Conferences are focused on polyamory and open relationships; a place to learn skills, explore, and connect with polyamorous open minded singles, couples, triads & networks.

The Woodshed’s Anniversary Party
February 8, 2020
Orlando, Florida
Web Site:   http://thewoodshedorlando.com
Info:   contact@thewoodshedorlando.com
Huge crowd, special effects and presentations.
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Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Luxury Hotel Takeover
February 14 – 17, 2020
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site:   https://darkodyssey.com/
Info:   info@darkodyssey.com
Tagged:   Hedonism, AgePlay, BDSM, Pony, Pup
A vacation weekend where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. Performances, BDSM education, spirituality, more. Price changes and discount deals are announced on thier Twitter.
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Network for a New Culture Winter Poly Wonderland
February 14 – 17, 2020
Abrams Creek Center, Mount Storm, West Virginia
Web Site:   https://cfnc.us/winterpoly/
Tickets:   info@cfnc.us
Contact:   https://cfnc.us/winterpoly/
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Network for a New Culture explores building intimate sustainable community through practices of curiosity, transparency, self-exploration, and self-responsibility.
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North American Bear Weekend
Angels & Demons
February 13 – 16, 2020
Lexington, Kentucky
Web Site:   http://nabweekend.com/
Tagged:   Leather, Bears
9th Annual Mr. NAB Contest, Pool parties, dance parties, Bearded Beauties show, Comedy Show.

SizeCon
February 15 – 16, 2020
Piscataway, New Jersey
Web Site:   https://www.sizecon.com/
Tickets:   https://www.sizecon.com/tickets
Tagged:   Fetish
SizeCon is an event for anyone who yearns to explore their size fascination with other like minds. At our convention, you can expect a welcoming environment to talk about your interests, a variety of interactive panels and activities, and artists from across the size spectrum in our Artists’ Alley. Come join size enthusiasts from around the world in the fourth edition of this one-of-a-kind kinky event!
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Mr Florida Rubber
February 21 – 23, 2020
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site:   http://mrfloridarubber.com/
Contact:   http://mrfloridarubber.com/contact/
Tagged:   Rubber, Leather
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Nightshade Halifax – The Rubber Ball
6th Annual
February 22, 2020
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Web Site:   http://www.nightshadehalifax.com/events.html
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/NightshadeHalifax
Tagged:   Fetish
Fetish, kink, gothic & BDSM. Flyer
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Snowbound Leather Weekend
XIII
February 21 – 23, 2020
Provincetown, Rhode Island
Web Site:   https://www.matesleatherweekend.com/snowbound/
Info:   info@matesleatherweekend.com
Tagged:   Leather
Get Outta The Cold And Into The HEAT! Sponsored by CLAW, The Watership Inn, The Atlantic House, Bayside Betsy’s, The Crown and Anchor, Gifford House Inn and produced by Mates Leather Weekend and Full Kit Gear.

TRC 5th Annual Fetish Ball
Arabian Nights
February 22, 2020
Birmingham, Alabama
Web Site:   http://theredchair.org/
Info:   trcleadership@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Bring out your best leather, vinyl, latex, corsets, boots, neck ties, collars and leashes. Or, just wear something sexy.
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Nuit des Cordes
7th
February 29 – March 1, 2020
Montréal, Québec, Canada
Web Site:   http://www.lanuitdescordes.com/
Tagged:   Rope
At Espace des Arts, 9 Ste-Catherine E. Entrée gratuite pour le public, frais de participation pour les artistes/Free for the public, admission fee for the artists. La Nuit des Cordes, c’est plus de 100 artistes, durant 7 heures, qui présentent une dizaine de performances en simultané. Nuit des Cordes is more than 100 artists, for 7 hours, presenting a dozen performances simultaneously. Presenter Schedule is here
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March

Annual AHS Iniquity Ball and IX 5-year Anniversary Bash
March 7, 2020
Kansas City, Missouri
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/759487
Tagged:   Fetish
Save the date

Kinky Karnival
A Vortex event
March 7, 2020
Des Moines, Iowa
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/757650
Tickets:   https://vortexparties.com/vortex-des-moines/purchase-des-moines-admission/
Tagged:   BDSM
Exploration at demo booths, carnival photo booth, prizes, play party. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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Texas Latex Party
TLP28
March 5 – 8, 2020
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   http://texaslatexparty.com/
Tagged:   Fetish, Latex
A celebration of Friends in Fetish. Dress Code event: Latex, leather, corsets.
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Vancoufur
Neon City
March 5 – 8, 2020
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.vancoufur.org/
Tickets:   https://www.vancoufur.org/registration
Contact:   https://www.vancoufur.org/about/contact-us
Tagged:   Furry, Fetish, Pup
1000+ attendees expected.
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Wild Wild West Con
Steampunk: Magic & Mystery!
March 5 – 8, 2020
Tucson, Arizona
Web Site:   https://www.wildwestcon.com/
Tagged:   Fetish
This event takes place within Old Tucson, the famous movie studio and amusement park built in 1939 and featured in over 300 movies and TV shows. For this weekend only, Old Tucson is transformed into America’s only Western-style Steampunk Theme Park!
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Bacchanalia
March 16 – 17, 2019
Round Rock, Texas
Web Site:   https://ravishatx.com/event/bacchanalia/
Tagged:   Fetish, Sex
Repast of traditional Roman faire will be provided, as will beverage and entertainment. Heated bath will also be available and we encourage you to indulge in the coarsest of excess throughout the evening.

Desert Kinkfest
7th annual
March 14 – 22, 2020
Quartzsite, Arizona
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/870461
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/4412280 Friends_of_Larry
Tagged:   Camping
Dry camping, private Dungeon, RV campers, vagabonders rendezvous. Classes, demonstrations, parties, more.

Freyja’s Fling
Save the date 2020
March 13 – 15, 2020
Edmonton, Canada
Web Site:   https://freyjasfling.myfreesites.net/
Tagged:   BDSM
Did you miss the first year? Presenters, vendors, entertainment, play parties. LQBTQIA+ friendly (zero tolerance policy for harassment),

South Plains Leatherfest
We will not forget
March 12 – 15, 2020
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.southplainsleatherfest.com/
Tickets:   https://southplainsleatherfest.regfox.com/south-plains-leatherfest-ims-weekend-2020
Tagged:   Leather
International Master/slave Contest. 8000 sq. feet of play space will feature separate pansexual, women-only, and men-only space. For Kinksters For TNG.
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Taboo Red Deer
The Naughty But Nice Sex Show
March 13 – 15, 2020
Red Deer, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.tabooshow.com/Red-Deer
Tagged:   Sex
The Taboo Naughty but Nice Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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Bizarre Bazaar
@Arizona Power Exchange
March 28, 2020
Phoenix, Arizona
Web Site:   http://kinkkarnival.com/
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
The Bizarre Bazaar is an amazing collection of Vendors, edge demonstrations and performances, and fun!

KiSS Equinox Ball
Gothic Dream Gala: Taste Kink, Find Your Flavour! ”
March 29, 2019
St. Paul, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://www.kinquesocialsociety.com/
Info:   Kinquesocialsociety@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Presented by Kinque Social Society. Fetlife Get Tix

Polytopia
4th Annual
March 29 – 31, 2019
Portland, Oregon
Web Site:   https://www.sexpositiveworld.com/polytopia
Info:   gabriella@sexpositiveworld.org
Tagged:   Polyamory
Polyamory and open relationship symposium and celebration. The 2018 event sold out with a capacity of 150. Sponsored by The Portland Oregon Chapter of Sex Positive World. From the 2019 blurb: This three day weekend exploration of polyamory includes an opening night gala, workshops, panel discussions, a poly house party and a guided poly massage-a-trois. Come learn, play, and explore your edges. Learn from our experienced and inspiring presenters sharing knowledge, tips, and wisdom while we celebrate a passion for loving more. Bring your friends and extended poly family, meet new friends and lovers, find your people!
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April

Exxxotica Expo Denver
Everyone Does It! (2019 dates promised for Denver)
April 6 – 8, 2018
Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   https://exxxoticaexpo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/CelebrateSexyDenver/
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
The EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest event in the USA dedicated to love and sex and features non-stop entertainment, hundreds of adult stars and hours of educational seminars.

Oklahoma Leatherfest
4th year
April 3 – 5, 2020
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Web Site:   http://www.oklahomaleatherfest.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/oklahoma-leatherfest-2020-registration-58689887032
Contact:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/oklahoma-leatherfest-2020-registration-58689887032
Tagged:   Leather, AgePlay, Pup
24 hour Play Space. Demos, classes, cigar social, Puppy Space, Littles Space. Home of the Heartland Person of Leather Contest.
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Rubbout
Rubout 28: Illuminate
April 5 – 7, 2019
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   https://rubbout.com/
Contact:   https://rubbout.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   Fetish
RUBBOUT hosts events for men who love men in rubber and fetish gear. It is the longest consecutively-running men’s fetish event in North America!

Smokeout
April 4 – 8, 2019
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://www.lasvegassmokeout.com/
Tagged:   Leather, Bears
SMOKEOUT® is a fun-filled uncomplicated weekend in Las Vegas for cigar and pipe studs, leatherman, bikers, bears and friends, from all over the world.

Southwest Love Fest: A Conference on Ethical Non-Monogamy
3rd year
April 2 – 5, 2020
Tucson, Arizona
Web Site:   https://www.swlovefest.com/
Info:   SouthWestLoveFest@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory
An open space to find community and learn from the diverse relationship experiences of others. Speakers and workshops with a progarm expanded from 2018’s, which can be seen here.. This event is expected to take over it’s host hotel.
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Calgary Kinky Flea Market
April 13, 2019
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://ca.groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/albertasocietyforkink/info
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/762971
Tagged:   Vendor Faire, Fetish, BDSM
Presented by Alberta Society For Kink. Contact Dennis at masdenask@gmail.com, Sharon s.mclaren@outlook.com, call 403 398 9968. Forest Heights Community Centre, 4909 Forego Avenue SE, Calgary.

IMsL-BB
Leather Contests
April 11 – 15, 2019
San Jose, California
Web Site:   https://imslbb.org/
Contact:   https://imslbb.org/new-page-1/
Tagged:   Leather
The IMsL/IMsBB weekend produced by the 501c(3) IMsL Foundation. Twitter

KinkFest
PLA
April 10 – 12, 2020
Portland, Oregon
Web Site:   http://www.kinkfest.org/
Contact:   http://www.kinkfest.org/contact.php?section=Contact%20Us
Tagged:   BDSM
Dungeon offering 36,000 square feet of play space. Kinkfest Art Gallery, Presenters, Workshops, Community meeting space. Registration will open in September.
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Poly Big Fun
Polyamory!
April 12 – 14, 2019
Austin, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.polybigfun.org/
Tagged:   Polyamory, Camping
Bastrop Barracks at Bastrop State Park was the location for Poly Big Fun. The conference is virtual in 2019 as it was in 2018. Dates are approximate.

Spring Iniquity
XXVIII
April 12 – 14, 2019
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   https://nlahouston.wixsite.com/springiniquity
Contact:   https://www.nlahoustontx.org/contact
Tagged:   Leather
NLA Houston Presents

Spring Pandemonium
CANCELED
April 12 – 14, 2019
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Web Site:   http://nmleatherleague.com
Contact:   http://nmleatherleague.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather
2019 Canceled for lack of suitable venue.

Kinky Karnival
A Vortex event
April 18, 2020
Omaha, Nebraska
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/757650
Tickets:   https://vortexparties.com/vortex-omaha/purchase-omaha-admission/
Tagged:   BDSM
Exploration at demo booths, carnival photo booth, prizes, play party. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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Solo Polyamory Conference 2020
4th Year
April 18 – 19, 2020
Manhattan, New York, NY
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/SoPoCo.int/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/solo-polyamory-unconference-2020-tickets-79927885457
Tagged:   Polyamory
Expect more than 100 in attendance. Mailing List
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Lewbari Weekend at BSPC
It DOES NOT have to be hard to learn to tie!
April 24 – 26, 2020
Bellingham, Washington
Web Site:   https://www.thelewbaristore.com/Lewbari-Weekend-at-BSCP-in-Bellingham-WA-LWws.htm
Tickets:   https://www.thelewbaristore.com/Lewbari-Weekend-at-BSCP-in-Bellingham-WA-LWws.htm
Tagged:   Rope
A LewBari Weekend is a two-day instructional hands-on event that takes participants from beginning rope bondage through intensive floor work and on to basic suspension. The Bellingham Sex Positive Center is an adult community center providing education, outreach & social opportunities.
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RelateCon
4th Year
April 24 – 26, 2020
Boise, Idaho
Web Site:   https://www.relatecon.org/
Tickets:   https://www.tickettailor.com/events/relatecon/288657#
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/Relatecon/
Schedule:   https://www.relatecon.org/blank-1
Tagged:   Polyamory
RelateCon provides a unique and supportive gathering place for polyamorous people to connect as a community through educational workshops, social spaces, and opportunities for networking. The core value of this conference is to empower healthy relationships across a myriad of configurations.
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Rocky Mountain Poly Living
7th year
April 24 – 26, 2020
Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/conferences/polyliving/rmpl-denver/
Contact:   LovingMore@LoveMore.com
Tagged:   Polyamory
Loving More’s Poly Living Conferences are focused on polyamory and open relationships; a place to learn skills, explore, and connect with polyamorous open minded singles, couples, triads & networks.

Rubber Ball USA
Erotic Ball
April 27, 2019
St. Paul, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://www.rubberballusa.com/
Tagged:   Fetish, Pony, Pup
Rubber Ball USA is an unrepentant annual celebration of fetish culture featuring internationally-renowned performers, models, and fashion designers. Debauchery meets elegance as we fill the Historic Concord Exchange with the most provocative fetish and kink entertainment. Dungeon is VIP access only.

May

Biggest Little Fur Con
April 30 – May 3, 2020
Reno, Nevada
Web Site:   https://www.goblfc.org/
Tickets:   https://reg.goblfc.org/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/BiggestLittleFC
Tagged:   Furry
Musical-themed furry convention. A Musical Tail was the 2018 theme. Hotel booking is separate from registration.

Bondage Expo Dallas
B.E.D. – Rope for everyone
April 30 – May 3, 2020
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.bondageexpodallas.com/
Contact:   http://www.bondageexpodallas.com/bed-info/contact-bondage-expo-dallas/
Tagged:   Rope
Tickets scheduled to go on sale October 2019.
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Colorado Leather Fest
6th Year
May 1 – 3, 2020
Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   http://www.coloradoleatherfest.com/
Tickets:   http://www.coloradoleatherfest.com/registration/
Schedule:   http://www.coloradoleatherfest.com/schedule/
Tagged:   Leather
Classes, entertainment, Community Leather Dinner. Contests: Colorado Master and slave, Colorado Bootblack, Ms Leather Colorado, Mr Leather Colorado, Miss Leather Colorado, Colorado Mr Rubber.
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DomCon Los Angeles
Pro and Lifestyle BDSM/Fetish
May 6 – 11, 2020
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://www.domconla.com
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/395002
Tagged:   Fetish
Mistress Cyan presents The World’s Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention
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Northwest Leather Celebration
April 30 – May 3, 2020
Sacramento, California
Web Site:   https://www.northwestleathercelebration.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/Northwest-Leather-Celebration-927856220587199/
Tagged:   Leather
Northwest Master slave, Northwest Bootblack, and Northwest Person of Leather contests, 50 workshops, Vending, Silent Auction,
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Servant’s Retreat 1
SR1
February 7 – 9, 2020
Seattle, Washington
Web Site:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/37-servant-s-retreat-2
Tickets:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/registration
Schedule:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/sr1
Tagged:   BDSM
SR 1 is an action and results oriented weekend for those who serve.
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Lone Star Spanking Party
Southern Belles and Gents
May 16 – 20, 2019
Houston,Texas
Web Site:   http://lonestarspankingparty.com/
Tagged:   Spanking
5th Annual LSSP

Through the Looking Glass
You Matter
May 18, 2019
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/740899
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish, Pony
Donations only. At The Source, Jaki Griot speaking on Perverts of Color; International Bear 2018 speaking on revisionist history and how to fix it; Mauro: Confessions of an AIDS lawyer; Russel on hooks, hooking, and suspension. Both theory and hands on; Elaina de la Mer speaking on humiliation; Alibi and Single tail. Two dungeons. Pet parade.

June

Desire Leather Women Unleashed
May 31 – June 3, 2019
Palm Springs, California
Web Site:   http://desireleatherwomen.org/
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping, Leather
Your kinky family reunion in the desert. Women’s only BDSM weekend. Fetlife Event Page

Dipchella 2.0 – at the Rockies
Let’s go “camping”
May 30 – June 03, 2019
Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/714045
Tagged:   AgePlay, Camping
Vetted outdoor event for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Littles and Bigs.

HEaRT of Texas 2019 Conference
Join us for the first annual Hypnotic, Erotic, and Recreational Trance Conference
May 31 – June 2, 2019
Austin, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.hearthypno.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/180218
Tagged:   Fetish, Hypnosis
A hypnosis conference with a uniquely Austin flair. Presenters include Lee Allure, Najalaise, Senor Jaime, Master Shack, LuckyAlbatross, Wiseguy.

Boundless
4-day intimate kink retreat at a secluded resort near San Francisco
June 5 – 8, 2020
Mendocino, California
Web Site:   http://www.boundlessevents.org
Info:   registration@boundlessevents.org
Tagged:   Camping
Friday noon to Monday morning, all inclusive, fully catered event. There is group lodging, RV, and tent camping under the trees, great food, real showers and bathrooms, classes/workshops, a large relaxing hot tub, a refreshing shaded swimming pool, plus hiking around the beautiful grounds. And unlike an event in a big city, we have this secluded resort all to ourselves.
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Butchmanns On The Road – Oregon
All Male Butchmanns Experience
June 7 – 9, 2019
Oregon City, Oregon
Web Site:   http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/all-male-butchmanns-experience-tickets-49348269001
Info:   info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. At Lookout Lodge and Tripod Ranch.

Camp NCN Orgyfest 2019
June 6 – 9, 2019
Black River Falls, Wisconsin
Web Site:   http://www.Campncn.com
Tagged:   Camping, Swinger
They want to beat 270 couples and get the Guiness Book World Record.

Exxxotica Expo Portland
Everyone Does It!
June 7 – 9, 2019
Portland, Oregon
Web Site:   https://exxxoticaexpo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/CelebrateSexyPD
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
The EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest event in the USA dedicated to love and sex and features non-stop entertainment, hundreds of adult stars and hours of educational seminars.

Oblivium
A Burning Man Regional Event
June 6 – 10, 2019
Depew, Oklahoma
Web Site:   https://oblivium.org/
Tagged:   Rope, Camping
Yes there is rope and kink at this event! 2019 dates are TBA.

CMN BDSM Group Freedom Camping
First Annual
June 13 – 16, 2019
Freedom Valley Campground, Cushing, Wisconsin
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/734284
Tagged:   Camping
21+, tents and RVs, clothing optional, alcohol optional (drink responsibly), play space available, games and nightly campfire circles. See Freedom Vally Campground Wisconsin for information on the site.

Colorado Kinky Camping
June 11 – 15, 2020
Near Lakewood, Colorado
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/807898
Contact:   COKinkyCamping@yahoo.com
Tagged:   Camping, Pony
First of the season. Get you tents, bows and arrows, floggers, rope, pony carts or whatever does it for you and drive up to the mountains for play, classes, and comeraderie. Web site kinkycamping.com is out of date. About 60 miles from Denver or Colorado Springs
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LEASH Weekend 2020
June 12 – 14, 2020
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   http://leashweekend.com/
Info:   admin@LEASHweekend.com
Tagged:   BDSM
Parties Friday and Saturday night. Classes all day Saturday, novice to advanced levels.
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Leatherwoods Spring Fling
Camping with kinky and not – so – kinky friends
June 14 – 16, 2019
Salem, Oregon
Web Site:   https://www.leatherwoods.org/springfling.html
Contact:   http://www.leatherwoods.org/contactus.html
Tagged:   Camping
Three days of kinky play in a wooded canyon with a small creek and a pavillion with running water. Yes, there WILL be a hot shower! There will be no presenter track, if you wish to present something, do it. There will be a white board to place a notice on. No vendor list, If you have something to sell, set it up by your tent.
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CampFur 2019
It’s Back!
June 20 – 24, 2019
Hope, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   http://campfur.ca/
Contact:   info@campfur.ca
Tagged:   Camping, Furry
Registration begins January 2019. See also Fetlife Event post Rough camping, Furries in the woods and wilds.

Leatherwoods Intensive Workshop Weekend
IWW
June 21 – 23, 2019
Salem, Oregon
Web Site:   http://www.leatherwoods.org/intensive.html
Contact:   http://www.leatherwoods.org/contactus.html
Tagged:   Camping
Edge Play instruction and practice.
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Texas All State Spanking Party
TASSP
June 20 – 23, 2019
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://texasallstatespankingparty.com/
Info:   tassparty@gmail.com
Tagged:   Spanking

9th Annual Kinky Camping
Freaks in the Forest
June 29 – July 6, 2019
La Grande, Oregon
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/746873
Tagged:   Camping
Dry camping in the forest near La Grande, as a group. No fee. See the Event page for contact information. Attendance must be planned well in advance.

Beguiled Conference
Hypnosis in the Midwest
June 28 – 30, 2019
Schaumburg, Illinois
Web Site:   http://beguiledcon.org
Contact:   https://beguiledcon.my-free.website/contact
Tagged:   Fetish, Hypnosis
Ticket options, donations, presenters, volunteers: Beguiled on TicketLeap

Black River Rumble
At Camp NCN – Sexual Freedom Campground
June 26 – 30, 2019
Black River Falls, Wisconsin
Web Site:   http://www.blackriverrumble.com/rumble.html
Tagged:   Camping
For Motocycle Enthusiasts 21+, Poker Run, based at NCN. http://campncn.com/. Featuring International Pole Dancing Champion Joanie. If offended by nudity or open sex, do not attend this event.

Colorado Poly Weekend
Fifth Year
June 25 – 29, 2020
Steamboat Springs, Colorado
Web Site:   https://www.coloradopolyweekend.org/
Tickets:   https://www.coloradopolyweekend.org/request-to-register
Contact:   https://www.coloradopolyweekend.org/contact-us
Tagged:   Polyamory
An annual long weekend retreat for polyamorous people and people in poly-relationships to hang out together in a poly-normative, accepting environment. Held at a Lodge the weekend includes gourmet dining, outdoor activities, adult board games, and discussion group meetings.

KOS’s 2020 Swinger’s Summer Camp (Guadalupe River Trip)
Ready To Get Wet With The KOS
June 26 – 28, 2020
New Braunfels, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.kreweofswingtown.com/river.html
Contact:   http://www.kreweofswingtown.com/contactus.html
Tagged:   Swing, Camping
Krewe of Swingtown – Swinger’s Summer Camp – with their annual Guadalupe River trip. Tent camping, options for dry RV sites, electric/water hook up RV sites, and cabins. At least 500 expected attend. Limited access for single men.
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July

Bondage Ball
16th Anniversary
July 3, 2019
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://www.bondageball.com/
Contact:   http://www.bondageball.com/novid,php?mod=contact
Tagged:   Fetish
Always held on July 3, eve of Independence Day.

Desert Bound 2020
July 2 – 5, 2020
Phoenix, Arizona
Web Site:   https://www.desert-bound.com/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/6499860
Tagged:   Rope
Hotel takeover. Featured presenters are Barkas and Addie, LOOM and Olivia Lyon, Mynx. Presenter and Vendor applications are available now via buttons on the front page of the web site. Brought to you by Jacob Dynomite, Miss Doctor, Red’s Dragon, and Samir.
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Carnal Carnival
Kinky Vendors and Afterparty
July 13, 2019
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://threshold.org/events/carnal-carnival/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/12505/group_posts/12802970
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
This is one of three annual Threshold fundraisers.

Howl Camp-Out
July 11 – 14, 2019
Portland, Oregon
Web Site:   http://pdxbadgirls.net/howl/
Tagged:   Camping
Back to Basics: A Kinky Women’s Campout presented by Bad Girls

Kansas City Queer Weekend
July 12 – 14, 2019
Kansas City, Missouri
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/kansas-city-queer-weekend-tickets-62410224662
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/queerbartakeoverkc
Tagged:   Fetish
By Queer Bar Takeover KC

Rocky Mountain Family Camp Out
17th Year
July 9 – 13, 2020
Aspen, Colorado
Web Site:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/conferences/rocky-mountain-campout/
Contact:   robyn@lovemore.com
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Hiking, playing, and just hanging out with other polyamouous families from the Rocky Mountain Region. Registration due to be online March 2020

Servant’s Retreat
SR1
July 12 – 14, 2019
Tempe, Arizona
Web Site:   https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/sr1
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/749020
Tagged:   BDSM
This is the longest standing weekend event for submissives, bottoms, slaves and servants only continuously taught by the same instructor in the USA.

ShowMe Leather
5th Annual Show Me Leather Weekend
July 12 – 14, 2019
Kansas City, Missouri
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/5th-annual-show-me-leather-weekend-tickets-59577321372
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/ShowMeLeatherContest/photos/rpp.1983578538570595/2139416836320097/?type=3&theater
Tagged:   Leather
Master/slave; Ms Leather; Person of Leather, Leather Boy; Power Exchange, Puppy & Trainer Competition. Web site may not be running (http://showmeleather.org/). Fetlife Event page

Minnesota PolyCon
3rd year
July 18, 2020
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://www.mnpolycon.org/
Info:   mnpolycon@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory
This one-day event will likely include workshops and presentations on sex positivity & consent, anatomy of arousal, solo poly, polyamory & mental health, poly & parenting, poly & religion, deconstructing jealousy, being out & poly, and fundamentals of good communication for your polycule. See their Meetup group for more information.
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Oklahoma City Kink Weekend
July 18 – 21, 2019
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Web Site:   http://www.okckinkweekend.com/
Info:   alsainder@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Route 66 pup and Route 66 Bootblack in addition to the Mr. Route 66 Leather Competition. Suite of classes (electroplay, flogging, needles, Pup 101, Bootblacking, much more).

SwingStock
30th Year: Viva Las Vegas!
July 17 – 21, 2019
Sandstone, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://swingstock.net/reservation-3/
Tagged:   Camping
At Two Creeks Cothing Optional Campground, four days of camping with like-minded adults. “Come Experience Freedom” with 300 party lovers 90 minutes North of Minneapolis.

Bay Of Pigs
July 27, 2019
San Francisco, California
Web Site:   https://www.folsomstreetevents.org/bay-of-pigs/
Bay of Pigs™ is the official Saturday night dance event of Up Your Alley®

GWNN Bash
Bash XXVI – Pushing The Envelope
July 26 – 28, 2019
Round Rock,Texas
Web Site:   http://www.gwnnbash.com/about-gwnn/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/gwnnaustin
Tagged:   BDSM
Presenters for 3 days of classes from novice to ninja levels including Consent Academy seminars. Two Parties, Lovely Hotel. Bootblacks all weekend. Keynote Brunch with Ms. Rhonda and Tomo.

PolyDallas Millennium
5th Annual Symposium
July 24 – 26, 2020
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://www.polydallasmillennium.com/
Info:   polydallasmillennium@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory
Did not happen in 2019 – return planned in 2020. PolyDallas Millennium is a sex-positive sexual health symposium that is a platform for marginalized and oppressed groups. We provide education on ethical non-monogamous relationships in an oppressive and stigmatizing society. Educators, activists, and community leaders that are representative of the attendees engage the audience in shared language and experiences.

Thunder in the Mountains
The one and only Thunder
July 23 – 26, 2020
Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   http://www.thunderinthemountains.com/
Contact:   http://www.thunderinthemountains.com/contacts.html
Tagged:   BDSM, Pony, Pup
Huge play space, puppy mosh pit, and pony track/dedicated pony play space. Host hotel will sell out.
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Up Your Alley
July 28, 2019
San Francisco, California
Web Site:   https://www.folsomstreetevents.org/up-your-alley/
At Dore Alley

Vancouver Fetish Weekend 2020
8 Events – 1000+ In Attendance
July 23 – 27, 2020
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   http://www.vancouverfetishweekend.com/
Info:   isaacterpstra@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Cocktail parties, fetish and bondage balls, a cruise, and on Monday a decompression Beach Trip.
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August

The Gathering
August 4 – 11, 2019
Woodinville, Washington
Web Site:   http://www.thegatheringnw.org/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/TheGatheringNW/
Tagged:   Camping
A week of camping, workshops, vendors, dungeon time, and entertainment. Web site shows an error message – try the Facebook page if your browser will not let you access the web site.

Women’s International Leather Legacy
9th year of WILL
August 2 – 4, 2019
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://internationalleatherlegacy.com/
Tagged:   Leather
Women’s Leather History conference. Weekend package includes Friday night cookout, Sunday brunch and keynote, Women’s Leather History Panel, WILL title contest, and all activities throughout the weekend. Judy Tallwing-McCarthy; Sarah Humble will interview Janet Ryan; Briar, ICBB 2015; Mama Gail, WILL 2018.

Butchmanns On The Road – Oregon
All Women Butchmanns Experience
August 9 – 11, 2019
Oregon City, Oregon
Web Site:   http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/all-female-butchmanns-experience-tickets-49346279049
Contact:   info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. At Lookout Lodge and Tripod Ranch.

D.a.m. Ranch Camp
That one time at Camp
August 8 – 11, 2019
East of Porterville, California
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/749248
Info:   AudioDiva@DamRanchCA.com
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping
Camp must be paid for in advance. $50 per person, to paypal.me/TGIFBall and specify CAMP. Attendance is limited to 60 people. Web site, http://damranchca.com/camp.php. is out of date. Update info for 2019.

Defcon has been CANCELLED
AGAIN!!!
August 8 – 11, 2019
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://defcon.ws/
Contact:   https://www.defcon.org/
Defcon 1.0/Beijing China: May 31-June 2, 2019: Link.

EQUUS International Pony Play Event
Pony Contest
August 9 – 11, 2019
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://www.equusippe.com/
Contact:   http://www.equusippe.com/contact/
Tagged:   Pony
Tickets. This link also shows the schedule, and many details about the event.

KC Leather and Kink Campout
August 9 – 11, 2019
McLouth, Kansas
Web Site:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/kc-leather-and-kink-campout-tickets-43915158421
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/359649354680295/
Tagged:   Camping
KC Leather and Kink Campout at Camp Gaea in Elysium section. 2018 classes included An Educated Leathermens Perspective on REAL Puppy and Pony Play by Sir Ken Elder.

Boulder International Fringe Festival
12 day festival of the arts
August 14 – 25, 2019
Boulder, Colorado
Web Site:   http://www.boulderfringe.com/
Contact:   http://www.boulderfringe.com/contact-us
Tagged:   Fringe Festival

EXILE 7 – A Fetish Ball
Resurrecting
August 17, 2019
Exdo Event Center, Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   http://lokusdorproductions.com
Contact:   info@lokusdorproductions.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Voodoo Leatherworks / Marquis Lifestyle Center / Lokusdor Productions. Dress code: As bar-legal naughty as you wanna be! Lokusdor Productions is a Colorado Non-Profit Charitable Organization with 501(c)(3) status. In the past five years, Lokusdor Productions has donated over $60,000 to local and national charitable organizations.

Loving More Oregon Retreat
August 14 – 17, 2020
Vernonia, Oregon
Web Site:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/conferences/polyamory-retreat/
Tickets:   https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/conferences/polyamory-retreat/registration-pricing/
Tagged:   Polyamory, Camping
After a four-year hiatus, the Loving More summer retreat is back. The site is about 30 miles north of Portland in view of Mount St. Helens. The agenda is determined by the attendees, in unconference style.

NAPTC – North American Pony Trainer Contest
Pony Title contest at Sanctuary-LAX
August 14 – 15, 2020
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://www.northamericanponytrainercontest.com/
Contact:   http://www.northamericanponytrainercontest.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather, Pony
The winner(s) of this contest will go forth to share their knowledge and love of pony play through teaching and mentoring those within the leather, kink and fetish communities. Judges for 2020: Ms Liza and her slave, Jody – Rebecca Wilcox – Mistress Cyan – Trixie LaFontaine

Ritual Revolution
Alberta’s newest spiritual event
August 14 – 16, 2020
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/834846
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/10455862
Tagged:   Fetish, Camping
Hook suspensions, energy pulls, cleansing ceremonies and more. Tickets will go on sale starting November 1st, 2019. Accomodations available are mostly tent or RV camping. There are a limited number of indoor accommodations available that will be available for an extra cost.
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Ritual Revolution
NEW
August 14 – 16, 2020
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/834846
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/RitualRevolution
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish
Ritual Revolution will feature rituals such as hook suspension, energy pulls, cleansing ceremonies and more. Our focus will be on how what we do to the body can help open up the mind and spirit. We welcome all experience levels, from those new and curious, to those who have flown a time or two.
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Burning Man
August 25 – September 2, 2019
Black Rock City, Nevada
Web Site:   https://burningman.org/
Contact:   https://burningman.org/network/get-involved/connect-with-burners/
Tagged:   Burning Man, Pony, Camping
A city in the desert. A culture of possibility. A network of dreamers and doers.

LeatherWoods
18th year, Camping
August 22 – 25, 2019
Salem, Oregon
Web Site:   http://www.leatherwoods.org/Leatherwoods.htm
Contact:   http://www.leatherwoods.org/contactus.html
Tagged:   Camping
Leatherwoods is a membership-only BDSM campout which is open to all sexual persuasions, at a kink-friendly campground with opportunities for some delightful outdoor scenes. A clean and sober event.
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Rocky Mountain Rebellion
Rebelling Against Stigma
August 23 – 25, 2019
Salt Lake City, Utah
Web Site:   http://www.rmrebellion.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/RockyMtnRebellion/
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish, BDSM
The Rebellion is a three day conference focused around Leather, Fetish, BDSM and Power Exchange Relationships. Home of the Rocky Mountain Puppy Trainer and Rocky Mountain Person of Leather contests.

TGIF 21st Annual Ball – WILD WEST
Social, education, vendors, music, dancing & more
August 23 – 25, 2019
Fesno, California
Web Site:   https://www.tgifresno.com/about-us
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/6391
Tagged:   BDSM
Social, education, vendors, music, dancing & more. Fetlife Event

Village of PolyParadise
August 31 – September 7, 2020
Burning Man, Nevada
Web Site:   http://www.polyparadise.com/
Tagged:   Camping, Polyamory
Poly Paradise has been running at Burning Man for two decades. This is a large theme camp cluster, typically 200 x 500 feet, with 250 to 300 campers, about a third of them new each year. Workshops and events include Heart of Now, Poly High Tea (now with Poly High Juice Box), the famous Human Carcass Wash, the Hiney Hygiene Station, Mind Melt, Revolutionary Honesty, and a poly mixer.

Labor Day Weekend

International Leather Sir/boy and International Community Bootblack
August 29 – September 1, 2019
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   http://ilsb-icbb.com/the-weekend.html
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/ILSbICBB
Tagged:   Leather
Includes the Pantheon of Leather Awards.

Shadow Lane Spanking Party
Party 39
August 29 – September 1, 2019
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   https://shadowlanestore.com/products/shadow-lanes-suite-surrender-party-ticket
Info:   eve@shadowlane.com
Tagged:   Spanking
Bad Boys Suite, Spanking Court, and the main Shadow Lane spanking suite.

September

BaDomme Rouge Celebrates their 9th Anniversary
The Submissive Olympics!
September 7 – 8, 2019
Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/752323
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/BaDomme_Rouge
Tagged:   Camping
Tit tug of war, Ball tug of war, Humbler races, Obstacle Race w Peg Bench, Deep throating, Subbie-go-round beatings (Last person standing wins). Medals will be awarded.

Oklahoma Ropestock
First Annual
September 6 – 8, 2019
Route 66 Biker Rally Campgrounds, Depew, Oklahoma
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/762339
Info:   ravenclawrope@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping, Rope
Kinbaku Okc & Raven Claw Rope are proud to announce the first ever Oklahoma Ropestock. This will be a 3 day outdoor bondage event, with classes, performances and lots of open rope time. Clothing optional, body positive, sex positive and of course kinky friendly.

Rebooted Revamped
A weekend of education, community, and play.
September 11 – 13, 2020
Tucson, Arizona
Web Site:   http://rebootedrevamped.org/
Tickets:   https://rebootedrevamped2020.eventbrite.com/
Tagged:   Leather, BDSM, Rope, Polyamory, Pony
A dynamic, volunteer driven, inclusive event committed to creating consent culture. Education and empowerment of our diverse communities will be provided by cultivating a social environment with workshops and play space. Wide variety of education including Bootblacking; Pony Play; Rope; Relatsionships / Polyamory, and mild to wild SM. Volunteer @ this link.
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Rope in the Rockies 2019
2nd year
September 6 – 8, 2019
Studio Friction, Denver, Colorado
Web Site:   https://www.ropeintherockies.com/
Info:   info@ropeintherockies.com
Tagged:   Rope
A smaller, retreat – style conference focused not only on education but also on truly connecting with other rope bondage enthusiasts. In 2018: -EM-, Drusilla, Mynx, Chloe, and multiple local presenters. For 2019: RiggerOdys and AngelKnightxxx, others. Three days of education and three nights of play parties plus performances.

The Calling
September 13 – 15, 2019
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   http://edgeliving.net/the-calling/
Info:   edgeliving.thecalling@gmail.com
Tagged:   BDSM
A weekend created for those on the ‘bottom’ side of authority-based relationships, hosted by Master Jim, slave marsha and Sir Cougar, the owners of South Plains Leatherfest and the International Master/slave Contest. Have you been called to serve?

West Coast Jungle Gym
WCJG – an Age Play Conference
September 17 – 20, 2020
San Diego, California
Web Site:   https://thewestcoastjunglegym.com/
Tickets:   https://www.facebook.com/The-West-Coast-Jungle-Gym-An-Age-Play-Conference-765901076920350
Info:   wcjgproducer@gmail.com
Tagged:   AgePlay, Pup
North America Lil’s Contest, Rave Diaper Party, Pool Party Social, Old Fashioned BBQ, Movie In/ Footie PJ Party, Dark Age Play Dungeon, Spirit Days, Arts n Crafts, Story Time, Puppy Park, Nursery, Classes, Vendors. Saturday night: DiaperPalooza is the WCJG’s Dance Party & Diaper Meet Up for Diaper Lovers, Pups & Critters who like to get down and boogie. Includes the 2nd Annual Little Scouts Jamboree (Fetlife link)
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SEEK Retreat 2019
SEEK: Superpowers!
September 19 – 22, 2019
North of Minneapolis, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://seekmn.org/
Contact:   https://seekmn.org/contact-us/
Tagged:   Camping, BDSM
Support * Enrichment * Empowerment * Knowledge. Sponsored by Leather Journey. Cabin camping. Presenters, classes and group activities.

The Ledge Weekend Intensive
Hardy Haberman / River Dark & domenique
September 21 – 22, 2019
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/795332
Tickets:   bentparty@gmail.com
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/MissAndie
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather
The Ledge presents it’s first Weekend Intensive. Six classes including: When It’s Not Just Fun & Games: Playing on the Dark Side – Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them – Strangulation & Asphyxiation: A Study in Breath Control – Putting the Sex Back in SM – Interrogation and Abduction. Dungeon party Saturday night and a wrap up session Sunday afternoon.
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Beyond Vanilla
Texas’ premier lifestyle kink event
September 27 – 28, 2019
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   https://beyondvanilla.org/
Contact:   https://beyondvanilla.org/contact/
Tagged:   BDSM, Leather, Fetish, Pup
Presented by NLA – Dallas. South Central Puppy and Handler Contest.

KiSS Equinox Ball
Erotic Ball, Fetish Presentations
September 27, 2019
St. Paul, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://www.kinquesocialsociety.com/
Info:   Kinquesocialsociety@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Presented by Kinque Social Society. Fetlife

Walk of No Shame SLC
Presented by Slutwalk SLC
September 28, 2019
Salt Lake City, Utah
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/1091639091040308/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/TheMenagerie
Tagged:   Pride
Starting at noon, we will be walking from Washington Square to the steps of the Utah State Capitol building (approximately 1 mile). Bring your signs, your chants, your friends and be a part of the fight against Rape Culture, Sexual Harassment, and Sexual Assault. There will be speakers and educators at both the starting point and end point. This event is Free to the public, and all ages (although sensitive topics may be presented by our speakers).
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Wasteland Weekend
10th year. The world’s largest post-apocalyptic festival
September 25 – 29, 2019
Edwards, California
Web Site:   http://www.wastelandweekend.com/
Tagged:   Fetish, Camping
Music, dancing, car show, costuming. Video: There’s a Party At The End Of The World

Twisted Windows
Incomparable evening of performance & play
September 27, 2019
San Francisco, California
Web Site:   http://www.twistedwindows.com/
Tagged:   Rope, Performance
Kick off your Folsom weekend. Last year’s featured performers included Saki Kamijoo (one of Japan’s most renowned performance riggers) & Hibiki, Ryder Burton (Reno), Nil (Denver), Zoe Spiro, Mlle Kate (Montréal), Endza Adair (Seattle), Linworth (Ohio), Zahava Griss & ZigZag (Seattle), Soms_Iets & Meymoon (DC/Baltimore), Sadira, Evie Vane, Myles High, and many more, all produced & hosted by Stefanos & Shay! Tickets Available as of June 11
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Magnitude
The official Saturday Night Dance Party of Folsom Street Fair
September 29, 2018
San Francisco, California
Web Site:   https://www.folsomstreetevents.org/magnitude/
Contact:   https://fortmason.org/event/magnitude/
Tagged:   Fetish
2019 date TBA

Folsom Street Fair
Worlds Largest Leather Event, Sunday
September 29, 2019
San Fransisco, California
Web Site:   https://www.folsomstreetevents.org/folsom-street-fair/
Tagged:   Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Parade, Pony
250,000 fetish enthusiasts spread out over 13 city blocks. Keep an eye on the Calendar

After Folsom Fuck Fest
September 29, 2019
San Fransisco, California
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/283816
Tagged:   Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Parade, Pony
6:00 PM – 4:00 AM at Power Exchange. We know that a lot of you will be coming to Folsom, but… How many of you came to cum?. $10 Discount if you mention you saw this party on FetLife!

October

Bloodline Leather Intensive
It’s all about the Leather!!
October 4 – 6, 2019
Witchita, Kansas
Web Site:   https://leatherintensive.com/
Info:   Maulderaun@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Fourth year.Last year’s Keynote Master Brett. Presenters were Master Malik with Slave Cathy, Stronghandsmo and author Jenna Jacob. Vendors included RedMarketLeather, TheKinkShop, Loving Leather KC, Jenna Jacobs books. On Facebook

Leather Fiesta
2019 Dates not yet announced
October, 2018
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Web Site:   http://nmleatherleague.com/leather-fiesta-2018/
Contact:   http://nmleatherleague.com/
Tagged:   Leather
Corazon Leather Contest

The Hunt
Hot Women, Hot Showers, HOT SCENES
October 4 – 6, 2019
Austin, Texas
Web Site:   http://boundbydesire.org/the-hunt/
Info:   austinboundbydesire@gmail.com
Tagged:   Camping
Camping event for women 21 years of age and older, regardless of sexual orientation, who have a positive interest in SM with other women. On Saturday morning, willing bottoms “hide” in the campground only to be “hunted” by Tops. When a bottom is “found” by a Top (or two), then negotiations begin!

Blackout
Blackout 24
October 10 – 13, 2019
Glendale, California
Web Site:   https://blackout.onyxmen.com/
Contact:   http://www.onyxmen.com/contact/
Tagged:   Leather
Men of Onyx present their 24th Anniversary celebration.

Dommetrips Diversion
A fetish vacation by the water
October 12 – 19, 2019
Cozumel, Mexico
Web Site:   http://dommetrips.com/
Takeover – indoor and outdoor dungeons. Fetlife Event page

GLUE
Gear, Leather, Uniform, Etc.
October 11 – 13, 2019
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   http://glueweekend.com/
Contact:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/glue-weekend-2018-tickets-3529164827
Tagged:   Leather
Houston Misfits present the Mr. Third Coast contests at GLUE Weekend

Wicked in the West
WCPE
October 11 – 14, 2019
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   http://wickedinthewest.ca/
Info:   wcpowerexchange@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Western Canada Power Exchange and Western Canada Bootblack contests for the region including British Columbia, Alberta, Manitoba, Saskatchewan. Tickets scheduled to go on sale in May.

Calgary Kinky Flea Market
October 19, 2019
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://ca.groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/albertasocietyforkink/info
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/826712
Tagged:   Vendor Faire, Fetish, BDSM
Presented by Alberta Society For Kink. Contact Dennis at masdenask@gmail.com, Sharon s.mclaren@outlook.com, call 403 398 9968. Forest Heights Community Centre, 4909 Forego Avenue SE, Calgary.

Liquid Red Las Vegas Thunderdome Nightmare Ball
Post-Apocalypse
October 19, 2018
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://liquidredlv.com/
Info:   liquidredlv@gmail.com
Tagged:   Fetish
Post-apocalyptic attire suggested but not required. LGBTQ+ friendly/ pansexual event. 21+. Tickets

Fetish and Fantasy Halloween Ball
October 26, 2019
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://www.halloweenball.com/
Possibly the wildest adult Halloween party in the USA.

Fetish Halloween Ball
at The Imperial
October 26, 2019
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   http://sincityfetishnight.com/
Contact:   http://sincityfetishnight.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   Fetish
Get advance access to tickets when they go on sale … Sign up for the Sin Newsletter via the web site. Dress To Kill / Dress To Die For / Fetish Dress Code Enforced / No Cheesy Non-Kinky Non-Fetish Halloween Costumes. Haunted Forest decor installation. Costume contest – $1000 in prizes. Vendors on site. Fetish and Burlesque stage shows.
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Ms Sacramento Leather Contest 2019
October 26, 2019
Sacramento, California
Web Site:   https://www.mssacramentoleather.com/
Contact:   https://www.mssacramentoleather.com/contactus
Tagged:   Leather
Ms Sacramento Leather provides representation, outreach, service and education to the Sacramento Valley Area leather, fetish, and kink communities.
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Palm Springs Leather Pride
Turning up the Heat
October 24 – 27, 2019
Palm Springs, California
Web Site:   https://www.palmspringsleatherpride.org/
Tickets:   https://www.tickettailor.com/events/palmspringsleatherpride
Tagged:   Leather
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ROPECRAFT Austin 2020
Kinky Bondage Conference
October 23 – 25, 2019
Austin, Texas
Web Site:   https://www.ropecraft.net/austin-schedule-overview/
Tickets:   http://ropecraftaustin.eventbee.com/
Contact:   https://www.ropecraft.net/contact/
Schedule:   https://my.yapp.us/ROPECRAFT
Tagged:   Rope
24-hour practice space. Facilitated self – organizing peer education. 2 days of classes. 3 nights of parties. Hotel takeover. ROPECRAFT is a bondage conference that is “Knot-for everyone.” Top, bottom, and switch education with Western, kinbaku, & other styles in a sex-positive inclusive & consent-focused space!
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November

Taboo Calgary
The Naughty But Nice Sex Show
November 1 – 3, 2019
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   http://tabooshow.com/Calgary
Tagged:   Sex
The Taboo Naughty but Nice Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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TRF BC
November 2 – 3, 2019
North of Houston, Texas
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/groups/188233/group_posts/14512542
Tagged:   Camping
Dates, for reference.
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US Election 2020
Because this is ridiculous
November 3, 2020
USA
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/525575
Tagged:   Election
Get out and make your fetish / LGBTQ vote count.
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Leather Reign 13
Advanced BDSM Education
November 8 – 10, 2019
Seattle, Washington
Web Site:   http://leatherreign.org/
Tickets:   https://www.cognitoforms.com/ELE2/LeatherReign2019
Info:   Registration@leatherreign.org
Tagged:   BDSM
Keynote Speaker: Mufasa Ali. Endnote Speaker: slavegirl j. Leather Reign is an environment where participants can discover their power to intentionally and intimately connect with primal sexuality, power exchange relationships, and each other.
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NARIX Autumn 2019
November 7 – 10, 2019
IX, Kansas City, Missouri
Web Site:   http://NARIX.NET
Info:   narixhost@gmail.com
Tagged:   Rope
North American Rope Innovation Exchange. Peer organized classes, discussions, open tying space during the day, and play parties at night. Mission statement: NARIX strives to create inclusive rope communities that promote education, innovation and equity across North America.
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Naughty Beach
Parties, Entertainment, Playspace
November 6 – 16, 2019
Mexico
Web Site:   https://www.naughty-events.com/naughty-beach-1/
Tagged:   Hedonism
Clothinig optional beach, playrooms, entertainment, bonfires, and more, at a quieter pace in Mexico. Produced by the people who bring us Naughty in N’awlins.

Ritual Steel – San Diego
November 8 – 9, 2019
San Diego, California
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/groups/179725
Tickets:   http://bit.ly/RitualSteelSD2019
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish
Ritual Steel is a transformative ritual piercing event intended to provide a unique personal and educational experience that can result in a coming-of-age transformation, catharsis, and/or emotional growth. Friday evening we will be doing a presentation on the history of hook rituals, followed by a meet and greet. Saturday afternoon we will facilitate a hook pull, and in the evening we will facilitate flesh hook suspensions.
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Indigeo Victoria MINI-CON 2019
Back by popular demand! Indigeo’s Mini-Conception / Con
November 9, 2019
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/728217
Contact:   http://indigeovictoria.com/
Tagged:   BDSM
One day of classes followed by a huge Dungeon Party. Note: Conception 3 day Kink Conference will return November 13-15th. 2020! Watch for news on the event’s Fetlife group, Indigeo’s Conception Kink Conference & Parties.
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Leather Reign 14
Advanced BDSM Education
November 13 – 15, 2020
Seattle, Washington
Web Site:   http://leatherreign.org/
Info:   Registration@leatherreign.org
Tagged:   BDSM
Keynote: BlueFrost. Endnote: Jack Thompson (IML 41). Leather Reign is an environment where participants can discover their power to intentionally and intimately connect with primal sexuality, power exchange relationships, and each other.
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Taboo Edmonton
The Naughty But Nice Sex Show
November 15 – 17, 2019
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   http://tabooshow.com/Edmonton
Tagged:   Sex
The Taboo Naughty but Nice Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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Master/slave Weekend
at IX
November 23 – 24, 2019
Kansas City, Missouri
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/797937
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/floggings4her
Tagged:   Leather
MAsT: Kansas City will host two days of workshops, presentations, and fun focused on power-exchange relationships, and the Master/slave Lifestyle. Featured Presenters will be Master Malik and slave cathy. Cigar Social Saturday evening.

Dark Odyssey Surrender
Kink, Sex and Spirit
November 29 – December 1, 2019
San Francisco, California
Web Site:   https://darkodyssey.com/
Info:   info@darkodyssey.com
Tagged:   Hedonism
Price changes and discount deals are announced on thier Twitter.
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December

MSDB Bizarre Bazaar
20th year
December 07, 2019
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/761706
Tagged:   Vendor Faire
Presented by Minnesota Stocks Debentures and Bonds. Locacted at Geek Partnership Society, 1121 Jackson Street NE. Get floggers, dildos, whips, canes, rods, gags, blindfolds, rubber toys, steel toys, jewelry, clothes, books, kilts and more!

Rocky Mountain Women of Drummer Regional Gathering
December 6 – 8, 2019
Salt Lake City, Utah
Web Site:   http://www.womenofdrummer.com/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/women-of-drummer-rocky-mountain-regional-gathering-tickets-76767271977
Contact:   http://www.womenofdrummer.com/contact.html
Tagged:   Leather
The Women of Drummer Rocky Mt. Region Gathering in Salt Lake City is a Friday thru Sunday event that includes (1) Friday 9:00PM meet and greet bar night at The Sun Trapp at 102 S 600 W, Salt Lake City, (2) Saturday 12:00-4:00PM Lunch and Roundtable discussion at The Clubhouse and (3) Saturday night-doors open at 8:00PM for a womens’ play party at The Clubhouse with exclusive access for Women of Drummer attendees. (4) and close out the weekend with a farewell brunch Sunday at 11:00 AM at the Piper Down Old World Pub at 1492 State St., Salt Lake City.
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January

Westcoast Bound 2020
10th Anniversary
January 10 – 12, 2020
Vancouver, British Columbia
Web Site:   http://www.westcoastbound.ca/
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/westcoast-bound-2020-tickets-60960571711
Tagged:   Rope, Fetish
Tier 1 tickets have already sold out. Join Mollena, Master Rook and slave rook, Najalaise, BossBoar, Q Wilson, Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti, Katherine and Ray, Trailmastr, Marceline_vq, Goddess Indigo and others. Presented by MVK. The location is in Coquitlam, one block away from Lougheed skytrain station.
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xBiz
Trade Show
January 13 – 17, 2020
Los Angeles, California
Web Site:   http://www.xbizshow.com/
Tagged:   Trade Show
The biggest industrywide event of the year, uniting webmasters, content producers, cam networks and studios, virtual reality players, models/performers and solution providers, for boundless business opportunities in the world capital of the adult industry.

Further Confusion
Cyberpunk: Neo San Jose
January 16 – 20, 2020
San Jose, California
Web Site:   http://www.furtherconfusion.org/
Tickets:   https://furcon.regfox.com/fc2020
Contact:   https://twitter.com/furcon
Tagged:   Furry
21st year. So what’s a furry? In a general sense, the furry community is large and diverse group of people, brought together by a shared interest in anthropomorphic animals.

Southwest Leather Conference
~~ CANCELED ~~
January 16 – 19, 2020
Phoenix, Arizona
Web Site:   http://www.southwestleather.org/
Tagged:   Leather
~~ CANCELED ~~ Southwest Master/slave Contest, Southwest Bootblack contest. Dance of Souls.
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AVN Awards
At the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino
January 25, 2020
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   https://avn.com/awards
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/avn-awards-show-january-25-2020-tickets-60943087415
Tagged:   Trade Show
The AVN Awards show takes place during the annnual AVN Adult Entertainment Expo. Nearly 100 awards are given out in categories as diverse as Best Video, Best New Starlet, Most Outrageous Sex Scene and Best Group Sex Scene.

BeefDip 2020
Leather and Bear Week
January 26 – February 2, 2020
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Web Site:   http://www.beefdip.com
Contact:   https://www.beefdip.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   Leather
5 Dance parties at C.C.Slaughters, 6 Pool parties at the beautiful Mantamar Beach Club plus activities like ATV tours and Zip Line Tours and a Booze Cruise! “Bottoms Up” at The Top Almars newest skybar with a special performance, and a foam pool party.
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Creating Change
January 15 – 19, 2020
Dallas, Texas
Web Site:   https://www.creatingchange.org/
Tagged:   Academic, Activist, LGBTQ+
The 2019 program included 19 Day Long Institutes on Wednesday and Thursday, Advocacy Day/Queer Voices on the Hill on Thursday, 8 sessions by Task Force Presents, and over 300 workshop sessions and caucuses/networking sessions on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Program book downloadable from the web site. Produced by the National LGBTQ Task Force.

Freyja Project Winter Festival 2020
resenters, Classes, Workshops & Activities Discussion Groups, Two Play Parties, and more
January 24 – 26, 2020
Madison, Wisconsin
Web Site:   https://thefreyjaproject.org/page-18105
Tickets:   https://thefreyjaproject.org/event-3637090
Info:   freyjaprojectmadison@gmail.com
Tagged:   BDSM
7,000 sq.ft. dungeon and photo studio open 7 pm to 1 AM, with dedicated medical play space and low-stimulation room. Numerous presenters. Meal plan available.
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February

Dipchella in the Springs
Let’s go “camping”
January 30 – February 3, 2020
Palm Springs, California
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/804891
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/1536693
Tagged:   AgePlay, Camping
Vetted event for Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Age Players, Littles and Bigs.

Sin In The City
8: INFINITE SIN!
January 30 – February 2, 2020
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://www.sin-in-the-city.com/
Tickets:   http://www.sin-in-the-city.com/home-1/event-registration/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/SinInTheCityLV
Schedule:   https://my.yapp.us/SININTHECITY
Tagged:   BDSM
Host of the International Person of Leather Contest.
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Taboo Vancouver
The Naughty But Nice Sex Show
February 7 – 9, 2020
Vancouver, British Columbia
Web Site:   http://tabooshow.com/Vancouver
Tagged:   Sex
The Taboo Naughty but Nice Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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Let Us Entertain You (LUEY)
Houston’s LGBTQ+ Leather Party
February 14 – 17, 2019
Houston, Texas
Web Site:   https://www.lueyweekend.org/
Info:   hello@lueyweekend.org
Tagged:   Leather, LGBTQ+
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Lupercalia
2019 was canceled, 2020 planned?
February 15 – 17, 2019
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   http://lupercalia-edmonton.com/l
Info:   GoddessLupa@gmail.com
Tagged:   BDSM
Lupercalia is a 3 day alternative lifestyle/BDSM/Kink conference featuring workshops, discussions, play parties, special presentations and social opportunities for individuals, couples and groups wanting to learn and share with others who are active, curiously exploring or just interested in alternative relationships and various forms of consensual adult play. One of the longest running annual conferences of its types in Canada.
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Plunge!
A Week of Wet, Kinky, Fetish Fun
February 13 – 20, 2021
Amber Coast, Dominican Republic
Web Site:   https://plungefetish.com/
Tagged:   Resort
Resort Takeover.
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Random Acts of Kink Weekend
Calgary’s Newest Kink Conference
February 14 – 17, 2020
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site:   https://www.randomactsofkink.com/
Tickets:   https://www.randomactsofkink.com/tickets
Tagged:   BDSM, Fetish
The event will feature a Fetish Ball on the Friday night followed by a full slate of cool and exciting workshops Saturday and Sunday with some sexy hot play parties each night. Monday is the Family Day weekend in Alberta (also Random Acts of Kindness day) so we hope our guests will stay up with us Sunday night before heading home on the Monday. Random Acts of Kink weekend has a goal of demonstrating diversity and inclusiveness through our planning and presenter team. We will be focusing on inviting presenters of with a diverse background with a focus on POC, LGBTQIA+, sex workers, disabled kinksters and TNG/new presenters.
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Drummer North America
On Hiatus
February 22 – 25, 2018
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site:   http://drummerna.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/DNAcontests/posts/2085215575092765
Tagged:   Leather
Drummer, Drummerboy and Drummer Bootblack contests. Unlike contests restricted to only leather or rubber, or a specific power dynamic such as Master/slave and Sir/boy, DNA contest titles are open to a broader spectrum of fetish identities of gay men — from rubber, uniforms and leather, to sports kit, military and punk. DNA is as diverse as your DNA. DNA contests are open to all men in the fetish/kink communities, who are residents of Canada, United States and Mexico.
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Madison GRUE 2020
Unconference
February 22 – 24, 2020
Madison, Wisconsin
Web Site:   https://www.eventbee.com/v/madgrue#/tickets
Contact:   http://www.grue.space
Tagged:   Unconference
Where it all began, said the man in the kilt making pancakes on Sunday morning. Tickets available soon.

Taboo Regina
The Naughty But Nice Sex Show
February 21 – 23, 2020
Regina, Saskatchewan
Web Site:   https://www.tabooshow.com/Regina
Tagged:   Sex
The Taboo Naughty but Nice Sex Show provides an upscale adult playground dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things Taboo. Enjoy entertainment, provocative and educational seminars, unique shopping, fashion shows and LIVE demonstrations.
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Europe

March

Kinky Napoli
5th Year
14 Marzo, 2020
Napoli, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.lcroma.com/en/kinky-napoli-march-2020/
Tagged:   Leather
In partnership with DEPOT NAPOLI, the most famous cruising club n Naples, Leather Club Roma will organize KINKY NAPOLI, on Saturday 14 March 2020.

Leather and Fetish Pride Belgium
The Dark Ride of Your Life
4 – 9 March, 2020
Antwerp, Belgium
Web Site:   https://www.leatherpride.be/
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish, Rope
Darklands. Alphas vs Xtreme, Fusion, and Rage parties. Contest. Ten host hotels. The theme park once was the cultural highlight of Antwerp, but it has been abandoned for years. Now, an obscure and mysterious new owner transformed it into a place where boots shine, rubber is polished and the smell of leather fills the air. Are you ready for the dark ride of your life?

April

OpenCon València
Spring 2020 dates to be announced
Alboraig, València, Spain
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/poliamorvalencia/
Tagged:   Polyamory
Un esdeveniment per a compartir experiències sobre les relacions afectives ètiques no normatives: Poliamor, Anarquia Relacional, Xarxes Afectives, etc. Un cap de setmana de debats, tallers i activitats lúdiques que ens brindaran l’oportunitat de conèixer gent amb idees i actituds obertes entorn a les relacions afectives. Un espai on compartir experiències i inquietuds sobre models de vincles entre les persones, des d’una perspectiva feminista, solidària i basada en el respecte. El contingut de l’OpenCon el proporcionen les persones assistents, per la qual cosa cada convocatòria és una sorpresa i una experiència única.

Mister Rubber Italy 2019
#strongertogether weekend
6 – 7 Aprille, 2019
Rome, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.lcroma.com/en/mister-rubber-italy-2019/
Contact:   https://www.lcroma.com/en/contact-us/
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish

LIFESEXPERTS Conference in Porto
With Leah
April 6 – 8, 2019
Porto, Portugal
Web Site:   https://www.lifesexperts.com/events
Contact:   https://www.lifesexperts.com/contact-us
Tagged:   Polyamory
Saturday, 6th April: Transform Your Relationships Through Better Communication. Sunday, 7th April: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink & BDSM – The Community, The Events, The Greater Potential for Pleasure. Monday, 8th April: The Art of Consent: Safe and Pleasurable Sexual Exploration

BLF Easter in Berlin
Save the Date!
April 8 – 13, 2020
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://www.easterberlin.de/de/easter-berlin
Contact:   https://www.easterberlin.de/en/easter-berlin
Tagged:   Fetish, Rope
Various venues, Berlin, Germany

Fetish Evolution Weekend
19 – 22 April, 2019
Essen, Germany
Web Site:   http://fetishevolution.com/en/
Tagged:   Fetish

The Femdom Weekend London 2020
Putting the Femme back into Femdom
April 23 – 27, 2020
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://www.clubfemdom.co.uk/
Tagged:   Fetish
An Annual Celebration of the Dominant Feminine Form and those who delight in serving Her. The emphasis of the weekend is on style, Sisterhood and high protocol service.

May

BoundCon Europe
BoundCon XVII
22 – 24 May, 2020
Munich, Germany
Web Site:   http://www.boundcon.com/
Info:   info@boundcon.com
Tagged:   Fetish, Rope

Mister Leather Italia 2019
17 – 19 May, 2019
Padua, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.lcroma.com/it/mister-leather-italia-2019/
Tagged:   Leather
Organizzata da Leather Club Roma e Leather Friends Italia, l’elezione di Mister Leather Italia 2019 si svolgerà quest’anno a Padova con un ricco programma. Il concorso , come negli anni precedenti, designerà il rappresentante italiano della comunità leather, che potrà partecipare agli eventi e concorsi europei e internazionali (Mister Leather Europe, International Mister Leather, ecc)

June

International OpenCon Catalonia
8th Year
June 7 – 10, 2019
Galliners, Catalonia, Spain
Web Site:   https://opencon.cat/
Tagged:   Polyamory
IOCC is a weekend-long meeting in the Catalan countryside, open to anyone who knows that happy and honest relationships don’t have to be monogamous. It combines discussions, workshops and socialising to give you a chance to meet like-minded people, to build our community, and to celebrate its diversity. Fully booked, register for wait list.

Kleines Polytreffen, Summer
June 9 – 14, 2020
Rommerz bei Fulda, Germany
Web Site:   https://polyamory.de/polytreffen
Tagged:   Polyamory
Seit Frühjahr 2008 organisiert das Polyamore Netzwerk mindestens zweimal im Jahr (Frühjahr und Herbst) überregionale Treffen, auf denen sich polyamore Menschen zum Austausch, zur Vernetzung, zur Fortbildung und zur Organisation von Aktivitäten treffen. Die Teilnehmer_innenzahl eines solchen überregionalen “Großen Polytreffen”, das ein (verlängertes) Wochenende lang dauert, beträgt je nach Veranstaltungsformat zwischen 40 bis 150 Personen. Auf den großen Veranstaltungen wurden bis zu 70 Workshops, Gesprächsrunden und andere Events von den TeilnehmerInnen selbstorganisiert angeboten.

July

BLACK WEEKEND VIII in Berlin
July 7 – 9, 2019
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://male.space/project/black-weekend/
Tagged:   Leather
English: https://male.space/en/project/black-weekend/

Fetish Week
6 – 14 July, 2019
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   https://www.fetishweek.com/
Contact:   https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdpJO7hcImXhhJ62V-c8KunUFbmwdTr3ihxu0euNfWSCvJwHQ/viewform
Tagged:   Fetish
Leather, Gear, Pup, and more. Walk in London Pride. Sponsored by Recon.com. Click on Contact link to submit an Event – deadline is 28TH FEBRUARY 2019.

Summer Fetish Social in Brussels
Hosted by MSC Belgium
19 July, 2019
Brussels, Belgium
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/2481260081915227/
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish
Come and get together at La Reserve for the summer Fetish Social in Brussels!

Cardiff Leather Weekend
26 – 28 July, 2019
Cardiff, Wales
Web Site:   http://www.leathermencymru.com/calendar-of-events.html
Info:   leathermencymru@gmail.com
Tagged:   Leather
Over the weekend there will be a welcome event, City tour, Leather meal, Mr Leather Wales competition and a Leather Social. Some events have a charge for them.

Kamping – into the woods
July 25 – 28, 2019
West Midlands, England
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/701090
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/3310645
Tagged:   Camping
Registration Workshops and playtime on 30 acres of private woodlands and campground. Tenting, RVs, hot running water, mains sockets. About an hour south of Manchester.

August

Castlefest 2019
August 1 – 4, 2019
Kasteel Lisse, Netherlands
Web Site:   https://www.castlefest.nl/
Tagged:   Fetish, Camping
Waan je in een compleet andere wereld op Castlefest, het Fantasy festival van Nederland. Een feest voor jong en oud, waarbij je, zodra je de poorten doorgaat, een andere wereld instapt. Castlefest is een totaalbeleving met veel muziek, fantasy schrijvers, catering in stijl, middeleeuwse ambachten en een grote markt met alles waar de Fantasy-liefhebber naar op zoek is. Who from Fetlife is going?

Hamburg Leather Party
8 – 11 August, 2019
Hamburg, Germany
Web Site:   http://msc-hamburg.de/
Tagged:   Leather
The famous Hamburg Leather Party returns, celebrating its 46th anniversary in 2019. There’ll be a range of events across the weekend, inlcuding the election of Mr Leather Hamburg.

KinkFest 2019
6th year
August 10 – 11, 2019
Xtasia, West Bromwich, United Kingdom
Web Site:   https://kinkfest.org.uk
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/events/578406
Tagged:   BDSM
UK’s Biggest and Best Kinky Conference Returns for its Sixth Year!

Eurofurence
EF 25: Fractures in Time
August 14 – 18, 2019
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://www.eurofurence.org/EF25/
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/groups/76047
Tagged:   Furry
Euroference on Fetlife, reviewed 2019-Jun-30. Telegram SFW. Telegram NSFW

The Boat Party
26th Year
17 August, 2019
River Thames, London
Web Site:   http://the-firm.org/boat.htm
Tickets:   https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-boat-26-tickets-61983509345
Contact:   https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-boat-26-tickets-61983509345
Tagged:   Cruise, BDSM
We set sail at 9 pm from Millbank Pier (London, SW1P 4GT – opposite Millbank Tower), to the London Eye, St Pauls, Westminster, HMS Belfast & City Hall. Docking at 1am. Music by DJ Tina Storm. You can do SM with your lover while cruising right through the heart of one of the most beautiful capital cities in the world on a glorious summer night. Event does not include a buffet.

Finlandization 33
23 – 25 August, 2019
Helsinki, Finland
Web Site:   http://mscfin.fi/2019/05/03/finlandization-33/
Tagged:   Leather
A weekend of events organised by MSC Finland – Tom’s Club. Check with MSC Finland for full details. English site is http://www.mscfin.fi/en/

Dominatrix
25 August, 2018
Uitgeest (near Amsterdam), Netherlands
Web Site:   http://www.dominatrix.nl/
Tagged:   Fetish
National and international fetish models, designers, artists and a lot of movie and music industry VIP’s, give this event her international glam. But despite of all these big names, from all around the world, Dominatrix has been able to maintain the warm friendly atmosphere and Dominatrix is often described as a huge fetish family reunion!

September

OpenCon Madrid
5th Year
11 – 13 Septiembre, 2020
Madrid, Spain
Web Site:   https://openconmadrid.com/
Tagged:   Polyamory
An international event open to all those who want to discover that happy and sincere relations are not necessarily monogamous.This is a self-organized unconvention in the style of OpenCon Catalonia and the original OpenCon in the UK.The working language is Castilian. Capacity 70 people.

Folsom Europe
11 – 15 Sept, 2019
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   http://folsomeurope.info/
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish, Parade
Since its first year in 2004. Folsom Europe has become a world-famous fetish event with a huge street fair and lots of parties. This year, Europe’s largest gay fetish event will take place at various venues across Berlin. Tens of thousands of guys in leather & fetish gear will be walking the streets in the Berlin-Schöneberg district. Expect a long weekend of fun. freedom and sleaze in one of the world’s most vibrant capitals.

Klub Verboten
Starting our 2nd year
September 15, 2018
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://klubverboten.com/
Contact:   https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/klub-verboten-n-xii-2y-anniversary-tickets-48529939355
Tagged:   Fetish
Latex, Rubber, PVC, Leather, Metal, Nylon, Lace, Drag, Chains, Studs & Naked Skin. Fetlife

BoFeWo
Bondage Fetish World
27 – 29 Sept 2019
Hofheim, Germany
Web Site:   https://www.bofewo.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/bofewo/
Tagged:   Fetish, Vendors
Zum 5ten mal öffnet die BoFeWo ihre Tore. Über 100 Aussteller aus dem In- und Ausland sowie über 20 Performer sorgen für ein abwechlungsreiches Wochenende. Natürlich gibt es auch wieder die tollen Workshops.

Europerve
May 9, 2020
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Web Site:   http://www.europerve.org/
Info:   sales@demask.com
Meet and Greet in the Demask shop, center of Amsterdam Friday May 8 between 17:00 and 20:00. Dress Code: Rubber and Leather.

Kleines Polytreffen, Fall
September 23 – 27, 2020
Rommerz bei Fulda, Germany
Web Site:   https://polyamory.de/polytreffen
Tagged:   Polyamory
Seit Frühjahr 2008 organisiert das Polyamore Netzwerk mindestens zweimal im Jahr (Frühjahr und Herbst) überregionale Treffen, auf denen sich polyamore Menschen zum Austausch, zur Vernetzung, zur Fortbildung und zur Organisation von Aktivitäten treffen. Die Teilnehmer_innenzahl eines solchen überregionalen “Großen Polytreffen”, das ein (verlängertes) Wochenende lang dauert, beträgt je nach Veranstaltungsformat zwischen 40 bis 150 Personen. Auf den großen Veranstaltungen wurden bis zu 70 Workshops, Gesprächsrunden und andere Events von den TeilnehmerInnen selbstorganisiert angeboten.

Lisbon Meets Fetish 2019
LMF 19
26 – 29 Setembro, 2019
Lisboa, Portugal
Web Site:   https://gearclubportugal.wixsite.com/home/lisbon-meets-fetish-2019
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/events/710028529356757/
Tagged:   Fetish
Hosted by Gear Club Portugal

Puppy Weekend 2019
27 – 29 September, 2019
Vienna, Austria
Web Site:   https://www.lmc-vienna.com/festivals/puppy-weekend/
Tagged:   Pup
The Mr. Puppy Austria Contest happened during Wien in Schwarz | Vienna in Black 2018.

October

Fetish Film Festival
Film Festival, Dates Vary
Kiel, Germany
Web Site:   http://www.fetisch-film-festival.de

Prague Shibari Festival
October 4 – 6, 2019
Prague, Czech Republic
Web Site:   https://www.pragueshibari.com/
Tagged:   Rope
Three days of rope workshops and performances. Tickets for evening performances may still be available.

London Fetish Weekend
4 – 7 October, 2018
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://www.londonfetishweekend.com/events/
Tagged:   Fetish
Market, Ball, Formal Fetish Dinner, other events.

Manchester Leather Weekend 2018
5 – 8 October, 2018
Manchester, United Kingdom
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/MLWeekend/
Contact:   https://www.latenightcruisingnyc.com/gay-leather-parties-2018.html
Tagged:   Leather, Fetish
Multiple venues in and around the Manchester gay village.

Maspalomas Fetish Week
The only European gay fetish event by the beach!
4 – 13 October, 2019
Gran Canaria, Spain
Web Site:   http://www.maspalomasfetishweek.com/
Schedule:   https://www.facebook.com/pg/FetishWeek/events/?ref=page_internal
Tagged:   Fetish, Pup
Maspalomas Fetish Week is one of Europe’s biggest get-togethers for guys who think of leather, uniforms, rubber, sports clothes and other kinky stuff as an act of liberation rather than a costume. Puppy Pub Crawl Oct 7. Piss night Oct 4.
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Rubber Cult
6 October, 2018
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://www.rubbercult.com/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/RubberCult
Tagged:   Rubber
Rubber ONLY dress code event. Happens during London Fetish Weekend. Rubber cabaret and other entertainment.

Eccentric Fashion Weekend
54nd
9 – 13 Oktober, 2019
Zurich, Switzerland
Web Site:   http://www.eccentric-fashion.ch/
Tagged:   Fetish
Latex, Paint, Vynil, Leather, Plastic

Mister Leather Europe 2019
10 – 13 Oct, 2019
Rome, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.lcroma.com/it/roma-2019-mister-leather-europe-ecmc-agm-4/
Tagged:   Leather
Si svolgerà a Roma, dal 10 al 13 Ottobre 2019, il concorso di Mister Leather Europe e la ECMC AGM, la conferenza annuale di tutte le associazioni gay leather & fetish.

Polyday 2019
October 12, 2019
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://2019.polyday.org.uk/
Tickets:   http://2019.polyday.org.uk/tickets
Contact:   http://2019.polyday.org.uk/contact-us
Tagged:   Polyamory
Come and meet hundreds of people that identify as non-monogamous at the largest event in Europe on polyamory, Relationship Anarchy and other forms of non-monogamy. Discussions might be happening on the Poly London Meetup Group.
Follow:   Facebook Event   Facebook Page   Twitter  

The LBL Big Weekend Convention
October 16 – 18, 2020
Birmingham, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://littlebigland.co.uk
Tickets:   https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScAw78fYwoGzHai6Ts7o6kOhh0addaQnCVkJgGGcLnCNqUG5A/viewform
Info:   littlebigland00@gmail.com
Tagged:   AgePlay
The LBL web site may still have a misconfigured SSL certificate, but it is safe to use. See their Fetlife Group for information on the event if you are unable to reach the web site. Payment deadline is normally in late July but has been extended.
Follow:   Fetlife Event   Fetlife Page   Fetlife Group  

EURIX No XV / automn 2019
The European Rigger & Model Exchange
October 21 – 26, 2019
Holzmarkt 25, Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/615616678848402/
Info:   jana.felixruckert@gmx.de
Tagged:   Rope
Fetlife Event Page with a history of the event, long description, and more contact information.

HustlaBall Berlin Weekend
16th HustlaBall Berlin
18 – 22 October, 2018
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://www.hustlaball.de/
Tagged:   Fetish
HustlaBall will happen Friday 19th October at the Kitkat Club.

Prague Fetish Weekend
October 17 – 20, 2019
Prague, Czech Republic
Web Site:   http://fetishweekend.cz/
Vendors, Dresscode party

Fetish & BDSM Festival VIII – 2019
Hangar 43
25 – 26 October, 2019
Baasrode, Dendermonde, Belgium
Web Site:   https://www.fetishfestival.be/
Contact:   https://www.fetishfestival.be/contact.html
Tagged:   Fetish
And MGP party.
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La Nuit Dèmonia
SCARY PARTY II
27 Octobre, 2018
Paris, France
Web Site:   http://www.nuitdemonia.com/
Tagged:   Fetish
Dresscode latex, wetlook, vinyle et cuir. Une soirée de 1 500 personnes, où vous pourrez jouer en toute liberté, danser sur de la musique alternative, et profiter et profiter des animations et shows gratuits.

Leather Pride Amsterdam 2018
25 – 28 October, 2018
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Web Site:   http://www.leatherpride.nl/
Tagged:   Leather
The biggest leather party in The Netherlands. Thousands of leather and fetish fans descend on Amsterdam each year for this hugely popular festival. A long weekend of events both indoor and outdoor is planned – including the main party @ ‘Damage’

SexPo
25 – 27 October, 2019
London, United Kingdom
Web Site:   http://www.sexpo.co.uk/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/SexpoUK
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. Click here for social media info

November

Nice So Fetish #4
23 – 25 Novembre, 2019
Nice, France
Web Site:   http://www.evidence-fetiche.com/js_events/nice-so-fetiche-4/
Tickets:   http://www.evidence-fetiche.com/js_events/packages/
Schedule:   http://www.evidence-fetiche.com/js_events/program/
Tagged:   Leather
Organised by Evidence Fetiche, the Nice So Fetiche weekend returns for it’s fourth outing, including the election of Mr Leatherman Evidence. Contest

BoundOne
BoundCon meets Feringa Park
1 – 3 November, 2019
Munich, Germany
Web Site:   http://bound1.events/
Info:   info@boundcon.com
Tagged:   Fetish, Rope
The 4th Munich Bondage Weekend

Leather Friends Italia Meeting
LFI
1 – 3 November, 2019
Milan, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/events/234410213761717/
Tagged:   Leather
After the huge success of the previous edition, we are waiting for you in Milan again! LFI MEETING 2019 is already set! New dates: 1 to 3 November 2019.
Follow:   Facebook Page  

HunCon
BDSM Conference in Budapest
November 8 – 11, 2019
Budapest, Hungary
Web Site:   https://hunbdsm-con.eu/
Info:   info@hunbdsm-con.eu
Tagged:   BDSM
Fourth year. Fourteen presenters. Capacity 200 attendees.

Non-Monogamies and Contemporary Intimacies Conference
3rd NMCI
14 – 16 November 2019
Barcelona, Spain
Web Site:   https://nmciconference.wordpress.com/
Info:   nmciconference@gmail.com
Tagged:   Polyamory, LGBTQ
NMCI aims to continue to bring together academics, therapists/counsellors, artists, activists and other practitioners to address the conditions, experiences, challenges, and opportunities involved in interpersonal relationships that go beyond paradigms such as compulsory monogamy or compulsory (hetero-)sexuality. The transformations that are happening within the framework of our sex-affective relationships are crossed by an uncountable number of intersections that draw their meaning from their potentialities, but also the violence that operates in them and the subversive potential that they articulate.

Wasteland
Europe’s biggest fetish fantasy event
November 30 – December 1, 2019
Amsterdam / Zaandam, Netherlands
Web Site:   https://www.wasteland.nl
Tagged:   Fetish

December

BLACK WEEKEND XII in Berlin
6 – 8 December, 2019
Berlin, Germany
Web Site:   https://male.space/project/black-weekend/
Tagged:   Leather
English https://male.space/en/project/black-weekend/

Fetish Pride Italy 2019
6 – 8 December, 2019
Naples, Italy
Web Site:   https://www.lcroma.com/en/fetish-pride-italy-2019-7th-edition/
Tagged:   Leather
LC Roma’s annual Fetish Pride Italy, with plenty of parties, meals, sightseeing and more!

January

BDSM Winter Retreat
Unfortunately, the winter retreat 2019-2020 will not take place due to insufficient registrations.
December 28, 2019
Jagniatkow, Jelenia Gora, Poland
Web Site:   https://7sensesart.com/en/all-events/viewevent/92-winter-retreat-2019-2020-jagniatkow
Tagged:   Fetish, BDSM
An opportunity to explore the fusion of creativity, BDSM, and sex, in a minimally structured environment.

February

Rome BDSM Conference
International Presenters BDSM
Feb, 2020
Rome, Italy
Web Site:   http://romebdsmconference.com/
Info:   webmaster@romebdsmconference.alcova.biz
Tagged:   BDSM
2019 Canceled. 2020 planning begins Summer 2019.

Kleines Polytreffen, Winter
February 21 – 25, 2020
Rommerz bei Fulda, Germany
Web Site:   https://polyamory.de/polytreffen
Tagged:   Polyamory
Seit Frühjahr 2008 organisiert das Polyamore Netzwerk mindestens zweimal im Jahr (Frühjahr und Herbst) überregionale Treffen, auf denen sich polyamore Menschen zum Austausch, zur Vernetzung, zur Fortbildung und zur Organisation von Aktivitäten treffen. Die Teilnehmer_innenzahl eines solchen überregionalen “Großen Polytreffen”, das ein (verlängertes) Wochenende lang dauert, beträgt je nach Veranstaltungsformat zwischen 40 bis 150 Personen. Auf den großen Veranstaltungen wurden bis zu 70 Workshops, Gesprächsrunden und andere Events von den TeilnehmerInnen selbstorganisiert angeboten.

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Africa

December

SexPo
December 31, 2019
South Africa
Web Site:   http://sexpo.co.za/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/sexposafrica
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. 2019 dates TBA. Click here for writeup of a previous year

February

Kinky Camp
Welgegun Kampplek
February 7 – 9, 2020
Rawsonville, South Africa
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/771778
Tagged:   Camping
Clothing optional. Calling all camping enthusiasts to come and enjoy a weekend where we have the entire camping site to ourselves.

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Australia / New Zealand

March

Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras
41st Annual Parade
March 2, 2019
Darlinghurst, New South Wales
Web Site:   http://www.mardigras.org.au/
Contact:   https://www.facebook.com/gaymardigras/
Tagged:   Parade, LGBTQ+

May

Pet and Pony Play Weekend
4 – 6 May, 2018
Queensland, Australia
Web Site:   http://ozfetpets.com.au/
Tagged:   Pony, Pup
Ponygirl Shyanne and Mistress Silver Shadow present a weekend for Owners, Trainers, Handlers, Puppies, Ponygirls, Ponyboys and Strays. Workshops, Parties and More.

June

SexPo
June 12 – 14, 2020
Sydney, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.sexpo.com.au/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/sexpoaustralia
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. Planned events will be announced on this page, on Twitter, and on their mailing list

Dark Night Art Exhibition and Performance
BDSM & Erotica Art Exhibition
June 20 – 21, 2020
Hobart, Tasmania
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/771683
Tagged:   Rope
Save The Date. Outline: Saturday 4pm – Exhibition opening & Artists introduction; Saturday 6pm-9pm – Cocktails & Art; Sunday 2pm – Performance & Art.

August

SexPo
August 2 – 4, 2019
Brisbane, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.sexpo.com.au/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/sexpoaustralia
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. Planned events will be announced on this page, on Twitter, and on their mailing list

Perth’s Annual Ponyplay Event
Third Year
August 10, 2019
Private property, Mt. Helena, Western Australia
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/809555
Contact:   https://fetlife.com/users/1454969
Tagged:   Pony
Open to all levels of ponyplayers and their trainers, there’s something for every level of experience. There will also be a Best Presented Pony competition and a barbecue and bonfire to end the event.

KangaCon 2020
August 20 – 23, 2020
Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Web Site:   https://kangacon.com/
Tickets:   https://kangacon.com/registration-tickets/
Contact:   https://kangacon.com/contact-us/
Tagged:   AgePlay
Kangacon is a conference event for those that wish to come together with other Age Players regardless of gender, identity, race, age or ability. We aim to provide an all-inclusive, safe space for age players to express themselves learn, and share their ideas, thoughts and dreams while supporting each other through education, volunteering and respect.
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Miss Nude Australia
August 27 – 29, 2019
Adelaide, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.missnudeaustralia.com.au/
Info:   contact@crazyhorse.com.au
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Miss Nude Australia is the most recognised and prestigious competition of Showgirls in Australia with heats held in every state and finals being held for three nights in Adelaide at the Crazy Horse Revue. It’s main focus is the art of striptease. The winner and first runner-up from each state travel to Adelaide’s Crazy Horse Revue to participate in the world-class Miss Nude Australia competition. tel:08 8231 2064

September

SexPo
September 11 – 13, 2020
Perth, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.sexpo.com.au/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/sexpoaustralia
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. Planned events will be announced on this page, on Twitter, and on their mailing list

Oz KinkFest
Year 12
September 13 – 23, 2019
Melbourne, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.ozkinkfest.com/
Tagged:   BDSM, LGBTQ+
Australia’s Ultimate GLBTIQ and Alternative Lifestyle Festival features vendors, 2 day educational series, club nights, and fetish fun. Fetlife Event is for the Fetish Expo, Saturday 14 September 2019 12 noon – 7 pm, Collingwood Town Hall, 140 Hoddle Street, Abbotsford.
Follow:   Facebook Page   Facebook Group   Fetlife Event   Fetlife Group  

November

SexPo
November 8 – 10, 2019
Melbourne, Australia
Web Site:   https://www.sexpo.com.au/
Contact:   https://twitter.com/sexpoaustralia
Tagged:   Sex, Fetish
Vendors, entertainment, demonstrations, fetish playroom, more. Planned events will be announced on this page, on Twitter, and on their mailing list Sarah Jessie, Buck Angel, Johnny Sins, Joanna Angel, Jessica Drake. Magic Men!

Christchurch Fetish Ball
November 16, 2019
Christchurch, New Zealand
Web Site:   http://www.thefetishball.com/christchurch/
Contact:   http://www.thefetishball.com/christchurch/contact-us/
Tagged:   Fetish
This years Ball is our 20th Birthday so expect to be thrilled by the shows and astounded by costumes. Dress in either Fetishwear, a costume of your choice, or over the top dressed to the nines. This year we are encouraging a sense of High Society in our event. The venue will be fully decked out in style, and the acts will follow suit.
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February

Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras
February 17, 2019
Sydney, Australia
Web Site:   http://www.mardigras.org.au/
Tagged:   LGBTQ+
Fair Day 2019 is scheduled for Sunday 17 February, and the Parade and Party date is confirmed for Saturday 2 March..

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Multiple Locations

Various Dates

International Deaf Leather
25+ years
Varies, International
Web Site:   http://www.internationaldeafleather.org/
Tagged:   BDSM, Camping, Fetish, Leather, Polyamory, Pony, Pup, Rope, AgePlay
See the Events tab on their web site for a list of major Leather events that are Sign Language & Voice Interpreted.

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Resources

Alan’s List of Polyamory Events
International
Web Site:   http://polyevents.blogspot.com/
Tagged:   Polyamory

Facebook
Search for events on Facebook
International
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/search/groups/?q=polyamory
Tagged:   Polyamory
This searches for Groups that have “polyamory” in the description or name.

Fetlife
Search for events in Fetlife
International
Web Site:   https://fetlife.com/events/near_me_in_city
Tagged:   Polyamory
Also, use the general search by clicking here and then scrolling down to the Events section. The search results are in date order.

Hella Polyamorous
California
Web Site:   https://www.facebook.com/hellapolyam/
Tagged:   Polyamory
Announces events. Mostly San Francisco.

Meetup
Poly and Open Relationships event finder
International
Web Site:   https://www.meetup.com/topics/polyamory-and-open-relationships/
Tagged:   Polyamory
Also try https://www.meetup.com/topics/polyamory/

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Virtual

March

International Kinky Women’s Day
Celebrating the Women in Kink and the Kink in Women!
March 08, 2020
Webinars
Web Site:   https://live.internationalkinkywomensday.com/
Tagged:   BDSM, Education
8:00 AM ET Webinar: Domme Breakfast
9:30 AM ET Body, Heart & Mind —All About Care
11:00 AM ET Support & Encouragement of Women?
12:30 PM ET Sensation Play
2:00 PM ET A Guide To Pleasure, Including Working Through or With Shame
3:30 PM ET Non-Women Supporting & Promoting Women in Kink
5:00 PM ET Sluts, Trollops & Tramps: Women in Ethical Non-Monogamy

September

Bi Visibility Day
Rock out the Pink, Purple and Blue
September 23, 2019
Worldwide
Web Site:   http://www.bivisibilityday.com/
Contact:   http://twitter.com/bivisibilityday
Tagged:   LGBTQ+, Polyamory
International Celebrate Bisexuality Day, has been marked each year since 1999 to highlight biphobia and to help people find the bisexual community.


440+ events

While events listed on this page may be of interest to Leather, BDSM, Furry, Geeky, Kinky, Polyamory, Age Play, or other Alt communities, it is unlikely that all events will be of interest to everyone. Please take what is useful to you and ignore the rest.

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