Aug 192015

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Long Island Leather and Roses events
The Metro Underground, DC to Philadephia corridor

All of the Above Munch CNJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
We are looking at the idea of starting a new munch/discussion group in the Central New Jersey area. We would like it to be all inclusive regarding gender, fetish, power exchange desire or position, age, race or size.

Asian Women in the Tri-state Area – , New York , New Jersey, Connecticut, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Dedicated to Asian women living in the Tri-State area. About having fun and enjoying good times with beautiful Asian women.

Atlantic City Casino Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
An ongoing informal social club for casino kinksters. Just a group of like minded people to hang out with when not at the tables.

Atlantic City D/s, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24, inactive since 2009
This group website and member list is still active, but will only be used for special notices.

Available Lesbian Subs, Slaves, Sluts in the Northeast, U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For available lesbian subs, slaves and sluts and their dominant friends, supporters, and admirers in the northeastern states.

Barter for Kinksters – New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For kinksters in New Jersey to barter skills, objects and stuff for other skills, items and “stuff”. In this time of social and financial tough times – this group gives us the latitude to exchange skills.

BBW Orgy NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Come on in and meet others into bbws and orgies. If you throw parties that are bbw friendly let us know.

BDSM in Central/South Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A group centered around the culture of BDSM in the Central and Southern portions of New Jersey. It is where people can discuss various aspects of thier desired lifestyle and potentialy interact and meet others in the area with compatible desires.

Bergen County (and surrounding areas) Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For everyone who lives in, or around, Bergen County. A way for people in the same general area to meet and greet and get to better know and feel one with their community.

Bergen County NJ Doms/Dommes seeking subs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A group dedicated to bringing together submissives with Dominants in the Bergen County NJ area.

Bi The Way, We’re In North Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
To cater to the desire to meet, and come together with both bisexual males and females in North Jersey and NYC. It is a place to discuss our common interests. This group will give us a place to plan, organize, schedule and advertise events that are open and welcoming to the bi men as well as women of the New York/New Jersey area.

Black BEAT NY/NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Affiliate of the Black BEAT, Inc. organization. Real time group with quarterly munches and group events in the NY/NJ area. An inclusive group, not exclusive, those of all ethnicities are welcome and encouraged to participate.

BlackBEAT Philly Metro Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Official BlackBEAT munch group located in the SEPA/Southern NJ area. Monthly munches in Philadelphia. Multi-cultural group, open to anyone interested in M/s, D/s or BDSM.

Black Phoenix, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Black Phoenix, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
25,000 square foot play space featuring 45 play stations, 4 onsite vendors, a changing room, enclosed smoking room, very large social lounge, fully stocked concession stand, and three after care areas. Comfortable seating is provided throughout the space. There will be play parties, demo’s, gatherings, and more.

Black Women / White Men NY,NJ & CT, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For Black Women and White men to meet chat and possibly help/discuss issues that are within our community in the tri-state NY,NJ & CT. Doesn’t matter if you are Dom,Domme or Sub.

Brimstone, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
BDSM/fetish community event held annually in Asbury Park.

Brimstone Connections, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
To make connections with fellow kinksters.

Burlington & Camden County Party Extravaganza, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Serving greater S.Jersey area. Parties held in Camden County. Having fun and meeting new people. Members only.

C2C The Coast 2 Coast Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
To promote community and education while sharing an unsurpassed level of awesomeness. Hosted by The House of Awesome in conjunction with Asylum 13. DE-MD-NJ-NY-PA

Capitol City Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Lifestyle Munch Group meeting in and around the Trenton area. Members get e-mail of dates and times, as well as location of munch.

Central New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
people interested in meeting, im personally from the central new jersey area. If anyone is interested im meeting me or anyone else who joins the group simply sen them a message.

Central New Jersey footlovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Would like to hookupp Single Females who would like single men to worship their lovely feet and shoes in any fashion she chooses and would enjoy and need guys at their feet to wash and lick they clean and her shoes and to trample on their mens body freely.

Central New Jersey Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A group for people from central NJ to meet up, discuss stuff, and have fun!

Central New Jersey Kinky/Poly Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those who are interested in both lifestyles — poly and kinky. For information exchange, support and sharing of lifestyle(s) information.

Central NJ Foodies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Do you like fine food? I’m not neccessarily talking about fine restaurants. An amazing pizza/sub/hot dog shop will do. Great sushi, amazing Indian, kick ass Thai; they’re all wonderful. Let’s discuss food. Hopefully this will be a catalyst for food-based meetups.

Central NJ Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Particularly for kinksters in and around Central NJ. Home for the Daylight Munch Bunch, a free-form munch that meets at various places.

Central NJ Rope Share, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Goal: To give people a place and time to share knowledge about, and play with, rope. People can learn, teach, ask questions, and find someone to tie up (or, someone to tie them).

Central NJ Submissive Support, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Central NJ Submissive Support, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Where submissives and slaves can go for support, advice, or just to be themselves. We meet on the fourth Sunday of the month, for coffee and bagels/donuts and discussion. Quarterly, we have seminars or workshops geared toward the submissive or slave.

Connecticut and East Coast D/s or BDSM, Which is Better?, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Group for people on the east coast of the United States in the Tri-State area so to say, to exchange ideas, munch dates, and possibly meet for coffee or whatever may arise. Connecticut/ New York/ Mass/New Jersey. Keep it simple and straight about exchanging ideas, and chatting as well as possiblly meeting others.

The Crawlspace, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Closed, per Apr13 email.

Cuddles, Hugs & Kisses NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those who love to be cuddled, hugged and kissed. There is an art to all forms of touch. Body sensation can be expressed in many ways. Hopefully some of us closet cuddle freaks will come out of the closet and join this group. Lets get some real hugs back into our lives.

The cumberland COunty NJ Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
for those who Live in the Cumberland County NJ area to keep you up to date on what we will be doing also a place where you wonderful people can reach out and introduce yourself communicate and just have a good time

Delaware Valley Spanks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Delaware Valley Spanks, Yahoo, INACTIVE, verified 2015-Mar-24
For people who live in or visit the Delaware Valley area (SEPA, SJersey, DE, N MD). Goal: To create a non-threatening and supportive environment for like-minded spanking enthusiasts who are truly interested in all aspects of adult spanking.

Domina Society of Northern New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A Chapter of The Domina Society Internatinal. For like minded Women and men to communicate with one another, learn and grow in the lifestyle. We will gather for socials, munches, demos, parties, educational discussion meets as well as vanilla neutral gatherings.

The Dominant Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A lifestyle inclusive groups that welcome all genders, all sexual orientations and any relationship status. It is open to all Dominants, Masters, Daddies, Tops, Dommes, Mistresses, etc. The group is based in Central NJ, close to New Brunswick. Meets on a monthly basis

Dominants Seeking Service-Oriented Slaves NY NJ CT, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For submissive service-oriented slaves who seek women and vise-versa for the NY and surrounding areas.

DomSubFriends, verified 2015-Mar-24
DomSubFriends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
DomSubFriends, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
We are a Friendly NYC BDSM Society with weekly educational demos, presentations, workshops, munches, and terrific parties. We’ve been around since Nov 5th, 1999. We’re open to everyone regardless of age, kink desire, age, color, gender, kink and sexual orientation.

East Coast Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Created to give cuckolds and Hotwives a broader range, with specific areas of interest, for better connection and communication. AL-AR-CT-DC-DE-FL-GA-IL-IN-KY-LA-LAB-MA-MD-ME-MI-MS-NB-NC-NFLD-NH-NJ-NS-NY-OH-ONT-PA-PR-QB-RI-SC-TN-VA-VT-WV

East Coast Primal Den, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-13
Get to know others that share the same interest. Come, talk and ask questions. For all who identify as a Primal and live in CT-DE-FL-GA-MA-MD-ME-NC-NH-NJ-NY-RI-SC-TN-VA.

East Coast Unemployed Networking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For people on the East Coast to network for jobs and support one another. NY,NJ,DE,PA,MD,VA to start with. Anyone hear of anything good? Anyone need something?

Easton Munch/Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For kinksters in Easton, Pa-Phillipsburg, NJ area to come together once a month to greet, meet, and eat – in person.

Edison New Jersey Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-08
Meet, chat, share and trade information about local events.

Enemas in New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all of us NJ enema lovers who would actually like to meet and exchange information in our Garden State.

E.R.O.S. of Salem County New Jersey, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
To provide a common ground for all kinksters, of all ages from all walks of life etc to come together and converse. All about fun, health, safety, consent and Sharing knowledge.

“FetCycle”–Jersey & Philadelphia, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Where you can post items you have that you no longer need and are willing to give away for free. Or perhaps you need something and want to know if anyone might have one to give.

Fetlife Southern New Jersey/Philadelphia Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Realtime social networking group for the Southern New Jersey/Phildelphia area.

The Floating World, verified 2015-Mar-24
The Floating World, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
3 full days of classes, workshops, panel discussions, marketplace. Playspace opens to full capacity, including special events hosted by our diverse participating groups. Assembles several of the finest organizations in alt-sex realm, encourages all comers to build bridges, create friendships and share knowledge

Friends of HellfireNJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
NOT an official site for HellfireNJ, a dungeon in the Trenton, NJ area. It IS a place for people to meet and greet and to discuss plans.

The Fringe & Kink Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For everyone in the NJ/NYC Metro area who wants to get together. We’re not really a society, and most of us can’t stand the name. Also, we hate drama. We munch, bowl, partake in mac-n-cheese nomming and do other things.

From The Top, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For Masters/Mistresses, Dominants and Tops. Open to all regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation. Monthly meetings in DE-NJ-PA area for discussing issues of importance to the top side of power exchange relationships.

G-Rope of NJ, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Gay Men’s Rope bondage group. A munch, a peer-share learning space, a chance for men over 18 to meet, mingle, talk, have a nosh, practice, and learn rope in a social, sociable safe space. Open to all men, regardless of skill level, to learn and practice and have a little kinky fun.

Garden State Sadists and masochists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all Sadists and masochists residing in New Jersey mainly. Overflow from NY and Pa allowed. Feel free to post a personal and lets have some good discussions. The more extreme the better.

The Gate (Your Gateway to BDSM), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
The Gate Munch/News, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Advertises, Promotes, and Educate People of Events. Chapters: Phila, Central Ma. Providing members and other community very relaxed, public and safe place for meeting others with an interest. Welcomes anyone, from novice to experienced. CT-DE-FL-GA-MA-MD-ME-NC-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-SC-VA-VT.

Gunnison Beach Club: a collection of nudists, naturists, and free spirits, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A famous nudist beach in New Jersey. As a spin off the group is dedicated to discussing all things pertanant to its members.

Haus of Bubble Tea, FetLife, added 2013-May-18
Purposes: To unite people under the love of kink and bubble tea; To inform the members about up coming bubble tea outings.

Hellfire, verified 2015-Mar-24
Hellfire, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Lifestyle B.D.S.M. and Fetish Dungeon located in Central New Jersey providing a play space for those in the New York, New Jersey and Philadelphia area. We host Dungeon Play Parties every Saturday night for those who are into the scene to have a place to mingle, socialize and play.

Hitchin’ Bitches South Eastern Pennsylvania, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For female rope riggers/rope tops/dominants in SEPA-NJ-DE-NY. Meet to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the Peer to Peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts. Women do the tying, the teaching, the demoing and the topping.

Hoboken Kink, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
For those who are just outside of NYC.

Hudson County Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
For kinksters in Hudson County and nearby areas.

TheInnerLimits NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Lcated in Somerset County.

Jersey Amazons, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Women’s Leather group based in the Central Jersey Shore/Asbury Park area. Education and service-oriented group run by women with all levels of experience in the Leather, Kink and Fetish communities.

Jersey City Zeppelin Hall Munch Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
Occurs monthly. All-inclusive group for all ages and interests.

The Jersey Devil, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
You have to love Him and all he does; you have to love the NJ Pine Barrens and all they have to offer.

Jersey girls and their toys, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Chat about sex toys! Dildos, vibrators, handcuffs, floggers, lubes, etc.

Jersey Kinksters, Its ok, We hate you too. :), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For NJ residents who are tired of hearing from all the surrounding states how bad NJ is, how much they hate people from NJ, etc. So now we have our own little group to bitch about the others. lol

Jersey Rope Experiment, verified 2015-Mar-24
Jersey Rope Experiment, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Skill share intended to bring people with a common interest in rope bondage together to share and learn together. Topics are not decided upon beforehand, and what is shared is determined at the meeting by those who attend.

Jersey Whores, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Available new jersey sluts and whores. Restricted to: submissive women and slaves.

K. A. T. – Kinksters Adventuring Together, FetLife, verified 2015-Jul-06
For members of the Adult Alternative Lifestyle interested in getting together for outdoor adventures, canoeing, hiking, camping, picnics/bbqs, skiing, horseback riding. DE-MD-S.NJ

KFE – Knot 4 Every 1, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24 (See also Knot for Everyone)

Kinky Birders of the Northeastern U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Birders (and those interested in learning) in Northeastern U.S. of all skill levels and areas of interest welcome.

Kinky bookworm, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A (mostly) local group of like-minded kinksters who meet twice a month, bringing together book lovers who also happen to be in the lifestyle in a friendly, welcoming environment to discuss books.

Kinky Camping in the Northeastern U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Folks and camping events in Northeastern US

Kinky EMT’s in NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Based on the EMS family for anyone who lives here in New Jersey. Anyone can join up in the group but if your an EMT your more inclined speak up and say hi. So for all you kinky EMT’s here in NJ speak up, make friends, host or even go to parties here in NJ.

KinkyJews NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Restricted to: Jewish Kinksters in the New Jersey Area (and those who love them). Brings together thousands of Jewish kinksters from across the USA and around the world in a safe and supportive environment where we can embrace our unique forms of sexual self expression.

KinkyJews Philadelphia, verified 2015-Mar-24
KinkyJews Philadelphia, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Safe, supportive environment where we can embrace our many forms of religious practice and sensual expression. Eastern PA, northern DE, and greater Philadelphia areas (incl NJ)

Kinky Speed Dating – NYC & NJ, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-14
Held monthly, alternating by gender/identity.

Knot for Everyone, verified 2015-Mar-24
KFE – Knot 4 Every 1, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Serving Central NJ, KFE provides a friendly, safe environment focusing on education, support, and fun social activities for the sexual minority community (BDSM, fetishes, roleplay, CD/TV, bi, het or gay). Founded November 1997.

Le Bukkake Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
Events dedicated to sexy and attractive couples and singles on who enjoy this niche fetish. NNJ-NYC.

Lehigh Valley PA AB/DL Center, FetLife, edited 2013-Aug-03
For kinksters around the Lehigh Valley of Pennsylvania (and NJ), including Allentown, Bethlehem, Easton, Phillipsburg.

Lehigh Valley Youngsters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For the younger and newer members of the community. To discuss things the younger generation needs to worry about, to support involvement and education in kink and to organize meets and hang outs where we can get together with those of similar mindsets and comfort levels. Eastern PA/NJ.

Lesbian Sex Mafia, verified 2015-Mar-24
A support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community.

LGBPQ New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Pansexuals, and Queers (and Asexuals), and our Heterosexual friends, family, supporters, and admirers, to come together and form a community, to provide support and perhaps to organize the community to action in the furtherance of civil rights for the BDSM and-or LGBPQ community.

Looking for lifestylers in MD, DE, PA, NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A place to become friends on a local level. It dosen’t matter what your kink is or what your title is… Come on in and make some new friends.

MAsT Central New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those interested in MAsT: Central New Jersey, a MAsT (Masters And slaves Together) Chapter in New Jersey that is open to all sexual orientations.

MAsT: Cherry Hill, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Avenue for people involved in or interested in power exchange relationships to meet together, learn together and support each other.

MAsT: Edgewater Park, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
MAsT: Edgewater Park, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Our pansexual group is open to ALL ORIENTATIONS (including switches) for those of legal age who are interested in, or engage in the M/s or D/s lifestyle. In the second half of our meeting, we break into Master/slave circles.

MAsT: Jersey City Gay Men, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Restricted to: Gay/Bi M/men involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle and serves any/all M/men located in Jersey city and the rest of New Jersey.

MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): Philadelphia, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
An announcement only list for those interested in obtaining information regarding meetings for MAsT: Philadelphia, a pansexual MAsT (Masters And slaves Together) Chapter.

MAX Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A long running munch group that is morphing into a discussion and demo group. Our meetings are alternately held at a restaurant and private home. The meetings at the restaurant are strictly social and open to anyone. The meetings in the private home are for discussions and demos

Mercer County, NJ Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those of us that live in Mercer County New Jersey. It might say trenton on our profiles but we live in Mercer county and surrounding towns.

Mid-atlantic oil wrestling fans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Fans of sensual and silly oil wrestling can talk about it here without criticism or hassle. Network with other baby oil wrestlers here and check for posted parties. NOTICE: This group is both swinger friendly and bi-male friendly.

“Minds in the Gutter”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A group of adult kinksters meeting on the second Sunday of every month, at noon, to bowl at the Bradley Beach Bowl and Recreation Center. A fun alternative to the restaurant munch. Whether you have never picked up a bowling ball before or you’re a high-level bowler… everyone is welcome!!

Morris County NJ, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For those in, and near Morris County.

M/s Munch (Central NJ), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
M/s Munch of NJ, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Community inclusive munch group that meets once a month, at a private home. Very welcoming, informal setting where we eat too much food, hang out with some old friends, potentially make some new, and have a lot of laughs.

Munch on the Jersey Shore, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
No longer meeting?

NDD/s: Northern Delaware D/s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Northern Delaware Ds, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Active munch group for like minded adults to meet and discuss the lifestyle in Wilmington and surrounding metro areas (PA & NJ) in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. Monthly Munch.

New England/NY/NJ Male Pantyhose Lovers & Wearers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Pantyhose fetish group for men who love and wear pantyhose in the Northeast, specifically New England-NY-NJ.

New Jersey Area Lil Ones and Those Who Love Them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For littles and their admirers of any type or gender in New Jersey and the surrounding areas. As long as you you spend time in NJ or the surrounding areas part of the year you are welcome. Dominants (big or little), Daddys/Mommys, brothers/sisters, babygirls/babyboys and little girls/little boys are all welcome.

New Jersey Area Tickling, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
the place for people from new jersey and nearby to come chat about anything tickling and meet nearby like minded people. Come and introduce yourself and tell us about your tickle fetish! Foot fetishes approved too!

New Jersey bbw, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For men that enjoy and want to meet bbw’s and the bbw’s that like to get together and party

New Jersey BDSM!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Looking for others in the Garden State into all aspects of BDSM?? Then hopefully this is the place!

New Jersey BDSM Youth, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24, inactive since 2009

New Jersey Craft Beer – Microbreweries, Brewpubs, Tastings, Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Do you like beer? Do you like local craft beer? Do you like trying craft beers from around the Garden State, along with your kinky friends? Then join us each month…

New Jersey Crossdressers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Where CD/TV/TS and their admirers can find other local people with similar interests.

New Jersey Cuckold, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
All inclusive group for people in the NJ Metropolitan area, including NY, CT & PA and anyone visiting or interested and have the common fetish of cuckolding of all types and from all sides of participation.

New Jersey Daddy Doms/Babygirls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Created to foster relationships between “Daddy Dominants” and “Babygirls” in New Jersey and surrounding areas. This is a place to discuss our mutual interests, thoughts and feelings

New Jersey: Daddy/little one, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
New Jersey group for little ones (not adult babies, although you are welcome here as well) or for Daddies with or seeking little ones.

New Jersey Electro-Play, FetLife, added 2013-May-18
For people in the NJ area to discuss Violet Wand/TENS/Etc. and share information

New Jersey FetLifers Who Live In Towns Not Listed, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A place where we can create a posting and state exactly where we hang our toys (if you wish to do so..), and hook up and shout out to others in our neighborhoods.

New Jersey Leather N Roses Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
We meet monthly in Bloomfield. Goal: To take the time to sit down and relax; yes relax with like-minded folks and have some good food, enjoy good company and even better conversations.

NJ Littles Munch, verified 2015-Mar-24
New Jersey Littles (NJL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Democratically-organized Munch and Social Group for all Adult Diaper Lovers (DLs) and Adult Age-Playing “Littles” (including Adult Babies, etc…, up to the “Age-Play age” of older teen) and Bigs (Attached or Unattached Mommies, Daddies, Bigs Looking For Littles) based in New Jersey.

New Jersey – New York – Connecticut Black BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
A MALE discussion group for gay and bi black and latin subs, doms, and switchs in the New Jersey, New York, Connecticut areas and their admirers. Through the group, we hope to provide a tool for helping you meet new people, learn more, stay informed about local events, and provide a welcoming environment where you can feel free to express yourself.

New Jersey/New York daddies and adult little girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Peek a boo, i see you! hehe

New Jersey Piss Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those in New Jersey who love being pissed on or pissing on someone.,drinking it, piss enemas, etc. If you’re into piss this is the group Doms, subs, Masters, slaves

New Jersey Second Saturday Club Events Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Hosting large off-premise dance parties since 2004. Events usually get between 150 – 200 people. Private party for swingers, fetish and alternate lifestyle people only. No outsiders allowed in, making this the safest venue in the area to meet other locals in person.

New Jersey Strap On Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-22
For women who love using their straps on women and men, and for the men who love to receive a good pegging.

New Jersey Strap-Ons Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all people hailing from NJ that love strap ons. Whether it is receiving one or wearing one, strap ons are fun and this is a group to meet other people who share common interests.

New Jersey TNG 18-35, verified 2015-Mar-24
New Jersey TNG 18-35, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Established to facilitate interaction between 18-35 year olds, who are interested in BDSM, through online discussions as well as real live events. A statewide organization, and works to connect, unify, and support its members in North Jersey, Central Jersey, and South Jersey.

New Jersey Trans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all Transgender people and those who admire them that reside in New Jersey and surrounding areas, friends of members are also encouraged to join.

New Jersey Voyeurs and Exhibitionists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For people to chat about when and where they like to watch or be watched in NJ.

New Jersey women who like bisexual men, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
For NJ-area women into, attracted to, would like to play with, have a relationship with, or just support bisexual men. Men who are bisexual, bicurious, hetroflexible, homoflexible, straight, or other who enjoy having sex with other men welcome.

New York & New Jersey Anal Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Ceated to bring together people in the New York and New Jersey area who are obsessed with ass. If you live in, work in, or travel to the area and love anal sex, ass-to-mouth, rimming, enemas, or miscellaneous anal shenanigans, this group is for you.

New York New Jersey New York! Everything BDSM!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Formed to serve as a network/discussion group for New York & New Jersey. If it’s about BDSM and If it’s going on in New York or in New Jersey, tell us about it

New York Panthers Leather Club, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Established in 1999. By and for men of color in the NY-NJ-CT area interested and involved in leather and leather-oriented fetish, BDSM, uniforms, and related activities.

NJ Alley Masters & The Lane Lappers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-11
Kinky folks coming together monthly for some bowling fun.

NJ Anal Slaves 4 Masters Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For New Jersey Anal subs/slaves looking for Anal Training to place their personal ads for the Masters/Doms and vice versa

NJ Femdom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For NJ Dominant Women and male subs. Restricted to: All women, femdom couples, and male subs. NO MALE DOMS!

NJ Foot Fetishists Unite, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Bringing together those who appreciates feet!! Men, Women, TG folks, Dom/mes, subs, slaves, switches, fetishists, admirers, etc

NJ footlovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For the foot admirers and those who like to have their feet admired.

Nj Gay subs for Dom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
where we can get to know one another and maybe find the Master/slave we are looking for.

NJ Golden Shower Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Looking to bring together Dominant Ladies from NJ who love giving and sub guys from NJ who love receiving golden showers.

NJ Hair Fetish, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For Barbers, Barberettes, Hairstylists, Doms, Dominatix, Subs and Kinksters who love everything to do with hair: long, short, colored, baldness, cutting hair, pulling hair, forced or punishment haircuts.

NJ Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all “perverts” (we use that term affectionately!) in (and near) NJ.

NJ Kink Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For active members of the NJ Kink Munch.

NJ Littles Munch, see also New Jersey Littles (NJL)

NJ-NY-PA Masters & Slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For Master/Subs, Dom/Sub or beginners to set real meetings to fulfill their needs regarding: anal, spanking, bondage, medical exam, toys play, enemas, gang bang, threesome, suppositories, BDSM, age play, Master/Slave-Daddy/Daughter-Doctor/patient-rape roleplay, TS, TV or any other fetish or fantasy

NJ-NY-PA Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Tell what you are into and what yuo are looking for to get replies to match your desires and possibly make a new friend

NJ Personals & Classifieds for Kinky People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A kink friendly Classified and Personals group for those in the lifestyle in NJ and the tristate area (NY, NJ, PA).

Nj, Philadelphia CBT/Ballbusting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Open forum for both ladies and guys of the area to connect on the subject of CBT and Ballbusting. Other topics are allowed to include activities, munches, classes, etc

NJ Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Restricted to: Anyone with an interest in either BDSM or Swing and preferrably both

NJ — TOG !! (The Older Generation), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For people age 35 and older. Time in the lifestyle is unimportant. Experience is unimportant. Purpose: To create an environment in which we can meet, socialize, play, learn from each other and have some fun.

NJ Veg*n Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For NJ people who are kinky as well as being vegetarian, vegan, veg-curious or who just don’t like meat. To discuss vegetarianism/veganism, to exchange recipes & ideas, to review & discuss local veg*n restaurants.

NNJLL – (Northern-y New Jersey Little Leauge), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For fun, silliness, and comfort. This is our place to get to make friends, talk about our newest plushie, find events we want to attend, and discuss anything else that we want.

North East Littles (NEL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Serves social needs of the littles ageplay community in Northeast (CT-DE-MA-MD-ME-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-VT). Membership free, open to Adults over age 18 regardless of ethnicity, religion, sexual or gender orientation. For Littles By Littles.

North East Shooters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For kinky gun owners of New England and the rest of the North East to discuss all things that go bang

North Jersey Alternative…a Weekly Get-Together & Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Socialize, have cocktails, mingle, enjoy each other’s company, share stories about fetish or BDSM experiences, get or give advice and to let those who are curious about the lifestyle become more comfortable and informed as well as give the opportunity to meet others with similar interests.

North Jersey FemDoms, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
For Dominant Women & those who are submissive to Them.

NorthEast States or Montreal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Event postings as well as BDSM/fetish-related discussions of interest. English & French are welcome. QC-NorthEast.

Northeastern Pennsylvania Kinks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Mainly from NEPA, with bits of NY-NJ-SEPA thrown in. All welcome.

Northeastern submissive women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Dedicated to fostering supportive communication and relationships amongst submissive women in northeastern states. CT-DC-DE-MA-MD-ME-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-VT

Northeastern US Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For event listings for for Northeast Regional Events, not discussion topics, personal ads, etc.

Northern Delaware D/s, see NDD/s

Northern New Jersey Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Kinksters, Dom/mes, subs/slaves in the Essex County area of NJ

Northern New Jersey BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Dedicated to those who live the BDSM and fetish lifestyle in Northern New Jersey. The purpose is to hopefully organise a BDSM community in Northern New Jersey and eventually have get togethers for discussion and other events.

NW NJ Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
This group is associated to the monthly NW NJ Munch. We will be posting updates to current or future munches taking place in NorthWest New Jersey.

NYC and NJ Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
All African Americans will be given leader status and rights that enables. whites need to show respect to Doms.

nyc freaky meet up nyc, nj, li only, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
All areas filled with kinky, freaky, fun people who are looking to connect. This group is a place where everyone can meet. Feel free to post Events, Post Personal Ads, Post Exactly what you are looking for. Conversations are always welcomed

NYC Interracial Masters/Doms/Daddys – slaves/submissives/babygirls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
ONLY for heterosexual interracial male-led connections in NYC that exist between: Doms/Masters/Daddys AND Subs/Slaves/Babygirls. Welcomes others categories, such as kinksters, vanillas, etc. on a one to one basis. Includes: Bergen County NJ, Westchester County NY, Fairfield Co. CT, LI

NYC Kinky Campers & Outdoor Enthusiasts, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
For kinksters in the NYC metro area (incl LI, Jersey, upstate) who share the love of the outdoors. Will be planning fishing, camping, hiking, hunting (maybe), skiing/snowboarding, and anything else

The NYC Liquid Fetish Meet’n’Greet, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Dedicated to the organization of a munch-style meeting of New Yorkers with a fetish for urine play. All are welcome! Men, women, couples, singles, gay, straight, genderqueer, m2f, f2m.

Ocean County, NJ Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Monthly gathering and social group for those involved in or curious about the BDSM lifestyle. Covers New Jersey shore towns in Ocean County and surrounding areas. Open to anyone who is interested in D/s, M/s, B&D and/or S&M. Meets monthly

Over 35 in New Jersey, and Loving It, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
In and around Clifton, Englewood, Denville, Fairfield, Mahwah, Montvale, Montville, Paramus, Parsippany, Passaic, Paterson, Ramsey, Ridgewood, Rockaway, Saddle River, Sussex, Wayne, Woodcliffe Lake… To chat or discuss possibilities for local gatherings.

PA, DE, NJ Area Kink Friendly Professional Services Directory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Simple place to list, find and review kink friendly services and professionals in the Philadelphia-NJ-DE tri state area. List services/professionals you have found or your own website and information if you are a kink friendly professional.

PA/NJ Zombie Apocalypse Readiness Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-07
Discuss zombie lore and survival tactics, zombie genre movies, tv, books, comics, etc., what-if scenarios, and argue the finer points of apocalypse survival plans, meet up for fun activities.

Philadelphia Switch Cooperative, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
All inclusive group for people that switch between a dominant or submissive role/s, fully or in any part, shape or form. Primary purpose: to create an supportive and active ADULT BDSM and Fetish social network and community in the greater Philadelphia area

Philadelphia Tri-State BDSM D/s Couples ( DE, NJ, SEPA), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Locating other couples in the Philly tri state area for friendship, just became easier.

Philly Black Subs N Doms, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Proud Affiliate Of The Black Beat Munch Group. To bring together people of color and their admirers from the Greater Philadelphia area (Southeastern PA-S. Jersey-DE) who are a part of the D/S (dominance/submission) community.

Philly Service Subs, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-17
For service-oriented subs in Philadelphia area to interact with those in need of their service. Doms and subs of all identities and relationship statuses welcome. For service-oriented relationship dynamics only. DE-PA-NJ

Philly/South Jersey/Delaware Personal Ads, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For people in the Delaware Vallley to post personal ads seeking others. Feel free to post a local munch, party, or personal ad. All kinks and all relations welcome.

Philadelphia Switch Cooperative, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
All inclusive group for people that switch between a dominant or submissive role/s(Dominant/Submissive), fully or in any part, shape or form. Purpose: To create a supportive and active adult BDSM and Fetish social network and community in the greater Philadelphia area DE-NJ-PA.

Phillipsburg Kinksters Meet N Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-30
Phillipsburg/Easton area group for kinksters of all paths; planning munches, play parties, and other events.

Philly TNG, verified 2015-Mar-10
Philly TNG (The Next Generation), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-17
Philly TNG (The Next Generation), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-17
For ages 18-35 in Philadelphia and surrounding, incl S. NJ-DE. Mission: To provide a safe and welcoming environment for the younger members of the community. Sponsors several social and educational events throughout the metro area.

Pike County NEPA and Friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those who reside in or regularly travel to cities and towns in Pike County. Bordering towns in other PA counties, NY, NJ are welcome.

Poly & kinky in philly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Focuses on gathering truly polyamorous singles, couples, triads, and pods in Philadelphia-NJ-DE-MD. Be you kinky, hedonistic, or fetishist YOU MUST BE POLY either practicing or just starting out. Community, events, education, and conversation

Private Catfights in the Northeast, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Arranges private catfights between women. Catfight challenge matches. Special challenges of hairpulling, wrestling only etc. Privacy a priority. Females from 19-50. Novices especially encouraged. Focus area is the northeast, DC-DE-MD-NY-NJ-PA.

Professional Development: NYC/Tri State, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Looking for classes? Teaching classes? Demo Bottoming in a class? Post about it here for the NYC and Tri State Areas!

Promethean Guard, verified 2015-Mar-24
Fraternal order of Gay men living the leather lifestyle in New Jersey.

Public, Car and Outdoor Sex in PA and NJ, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-01
Open for everybody who likes sex in outdoors and car sex or has to engage in outdoor or car sex out of necessity.

Puppy Play NY NJ CT PA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
same as above

Rope School, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
New, innovative approach to learning the art of Japanese rope bondage. Classes take place in our home and playroom in Jersey City.

RUKS (Rutgers University Kink Society), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
TNG group, seeking to build community for kinky and kink-curious students and alumni ages 35 and under. Meetings range from kink-related discussions to workshops and presentations on how to navigate and preform different kinks and parts of the kink scene.

Scranton- Wilkes Barre, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Here to faciliate communication between people in the local area and the outlying regions. PA-NY-NJ

Second Saturday Club, verified 2015-Mar-24
Off-Premise Lifestyle Parties for Consenting Adults. A monthly “Meet and Greet” party club catering to the “Alternate Lifestyle”, also known as “Swinging” or “Swapping”.

SJ/Philly Sexy Sirens Social Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-13
Do you live in the area and consider yourself to be kinky, attractive, fit, sexy and adventurous ?

Skyland Munch – Northern New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A social group for kinky people in the Northern New Jersey Skylands region, north of Route 80 and West of Route 287.

South Jersey Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
South Jersey Munch Group, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Holds monthly meetings in Mays Landing, NJ, about 45 mins from Philly. Meetings include a kinky craft to make and take, a demo, dinner and beverages, and lots of socialization.

South Jersey Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
South Jersey Power Exchange, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-24
Kinky folks of legal age who like to share Good Fellowship, Education & Good Times, in a safe place. We are open to all lifestyle orientations. Offers Educational Demo’s, Discussions.

South Jersey Restaurant, Bar & Wine Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For locals to post information and events on fine dinning, beer and wine in the local Philadelphia area. Dining, Beer and Wine ONLY Topics.

South Jersey SpankNSwitch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
For spankos who feel like they are switches.

South Jersey’s Ageplay Round-up, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
We welcome both Bigs and littles of both genders, single or attached, and of any bio-age over 18. However, we ask that any little one that identifies themselves as only an AB (adult baby) look elsewhere for a group.

Southern New Jersey Fem Dom Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Will serve as a support network and resource for South Jersey Female Dominants regardless of experience level, both Pro and Lifestyle, supporting ALL parts of Us as Women, particularly placing emphasis on balancing Our vanilla and Lifestyle/ Professional existence.

Squirters of Upstate NY and Tri State Area’s, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Mar-30
For woman, couples and men who appreciate a squirting and gushing woman, to discuss and meet like minded squirt worshippers

The Submissive S.C.E.N.E., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Delaware Valley: PA-NJ-DE. Real time group. Mission: Supporting, Communicating, Educating, Nurturing and Enriching our lives and service as submissives. Opportunity to come together to learn and share many aspects of our lives especially service oriented skills. Open to slaves, bottoms

SWAT New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Serving, Working, Achieving Together. Mission: Provide a Safe, Supporting, Nurturing gathering place for those who find highest fulfillment in service to community and/or other individuals. Topic driven discussions and use of workbooks and other study materials. Central NJ.

Threesome North Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For those who are new to experience enjoying being with 3 or 4!

TNG Tri-State, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
A group of individuals located in the tri-state area who are under 35. A sort of meet & greet getting to know are younger locales.

Toms River Munch, see Ocean County, NJ Munch

Tri State CFNM- New York-New Jersey-Connecticut, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-23
For Clothed Females who enjoy being in fun flirty atmosphere with Nude Males. Parties take place in Westchester & Rockland Counties.

Triad Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Monthly gathering and social group for those in Edison and the surrounding metro areas (NY-NJ-PA) in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. Open to anyone, male, female, Dom, sub, hetero, gay, bi, CD/TV/TS) who is interested in D/s, B&D or S&M.

Tri-State Diapers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For area diaper peeps-straight, bi, gay, queer, questioning, FtM, Mtf, Trans, sissy, etc. All welcome! A nice AB/DL, Bigs/littles inclusive group, maybe start to have some fun community events specifically focused around diapers in addition to age play. CT-NJ-NY

Tri-State Financial Domination, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For spoiled brats/princesses and their pay piggies. NJ-NY-PA

TriState Strap-On Divas, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For the New York, New Jersey, Connecticut area Dominas, Lifestyle or Professional. It’s an open group, to find a sub or Dom, in these areas. Regardless of your agenda, you’re more than welcome, to promote yourself here. Reviews are also welcome, plus Literotica.

Twisted Paradise, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
We hold monthly munches and play parties. We have 2 separate play areas located in a private home. Multiple play stations and a very wide selection of toys for your use. Munches are held in Woodbridge, and the parties are held in the Twisted Paradise Dungeon in Union Township.

Under 35 in New Jersey (NJ), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Where people between the ages of 18-35 can find and meet their New Jersey friends. Anyone and everyone is welcome.

Voyeur & Exhibitionist fetishists of New Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Share your fantasies & experiences with us here.

Wet and Messy fetish NJ/NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
For all those in the Tri-state area interested in WAM. This includes foodplay, mud, etc. Discussion, roleplay, meetups, whatever. Newbies and curious more than welcome!

“Whisper Girls of NY NJ Ct Pa, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-24
Started as a “Safe Haven” for Sexy Classy and Alluring TGirls Admirers Genetic Women and select Males to talk with one another about anything. Would like to get people together in person and go out to a club for monthly mixers or meet and greets

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