NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement.
★ Edmonton Munches and Events
A.A.A.R. Alberta And Area References, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A Listing of Area Dominants and Tops (and subs?); To provide Positive feedback for people looking to play.
AB Swingers Lounge, reviewed 2015-Aug-26
Alberta’s only dedicated online swingers community. Holds regular lifestyle meet & greets across Alberta.
ABC – Alberta Bibliophile Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-14
For book loving kinksters to get together and discuss their favorite books (kinky or non-kinky).
ABDls Edmonton and Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
To help the ABDLs in edmonton talk to each other and meet each other
Age Play Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people in calgary to talk and share things they love! If your a “Mommy” “Daddy” or someone looking for them this is for you!
Alberta BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Impartial forum for discussing events in our communities. Open to all.
Alberta BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Promoting and sharing of activities, events, and happenings in and around Alberta.
Alberta cuckolding, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For all those in Alberta who wish to discuss cuckolding, find cuckolds or the women that love them and wish to meet them
Alberta Fetish Models, Performers and Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For models, stage performers or burlesque dancers to share opportunities, news, ideas and to post events. Promoters and photographers welcome!
Alberta F/m, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Formerly ClubFEM Alberta
Alberta Fetish Weekend, Fetlife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Annual Kinky Adult Campout that takes place on the Heritage Day long weekend. Designed to bring people within our community closer together. BDSM Community Activities, Outdoor Dungeon, Scavenger Hunts, Games and Fun for everyone, Potluck Evening, D/s Auction.
Alberta Furries, verified 2015-Apr-02
Community forum.
Alberta Gang Bang Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Albertans couples, single females and select males who have experienced the heady excitement of gang bang sex play and are interested in either attending as a single male, couple or single female.
Alberta Kink Social Society (AKSS), Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Gathering place for a diverse group of people with interests in Kink.
Alberta Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For Ageplayers, Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Littles, Mommies, Daddies, and Friends. Host munches and events in Edmonton; Runs annual ABDL and ageplay camping retreat.
Alberta Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Are you looking to meet up with others elsewhere in Alberta for a simple coffee, for supper and a good talk, for particular play experiences or for a relationship within the realm of bdsm/kink/alternative lifestyles?
Alberta Photography, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Provincial wide based group that allows photographers and models to network.
Alberta Pup/animal Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For Pups, pup curious, animal role players and trainers/masters thereof.
Alberta Rope Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Come learn, discuss your favorite ties, favorite vendors, offer tips and tricks, ask questions, and network with others who share a passion for rope.
Alberta Ropegasm, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
Rope conference offering classes at the beginner, intermediate, and advanced levels.
Alberta Sluts and Whores, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those who are attractted to and who consider themsleves sluts and whore
Alberta Society for Kink, see A.S.K. Alberta Society for Kink
Alberta Vampires Anonymous, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those who enjoy watching, partaking,or are just curious in vampire activity.
ANR/ABF in Calgary, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
ANR – a relationship that consists of nursing, whether dry or wet. ABF – adult breast feeding.
A.S.K. Alberta Society for Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
ASK (Alberta Society for Kink), Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
BD/SM group that brings fetish people together for activities and social events.
A.W.A.R.E. Edmonton, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-20
A Welcoming Association for Responsible Education Exists to empower, inform and support newcomers to the Edmonton BDSM lifestyle and community.
BBW Calgary!, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-21
Place to talk to local Calgary girls and the guys (and girls) who love us.
Bi Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For anyone thats bi… and like bi people.
Bisex Alberta, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Purpose: To let bisexuals and those who are supportive to have a place to talk, to post their questions, comments and opinions here.
Bondage Calgary, verified 2015-Apr-02
Articles, calendar, links, and extensive glossary of BDSM terms.
Brooks Alberta Area Kinksters (BAAK), FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Let’s get to know each other…have a munch or two.
B.U.D. = Bodies Under Domination, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Local Red Deer Group, for people with alternative lifestyles and is all-inclusive. Main focus: To host, 1) a monthly mid-week munch, 2) a Dungeon space
Burning Man – Alberta, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
For Albertans to connect and plan Burning Man related activities/events/whatever!
Calgarian Wiccans/Pagans, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Interested in Wiccan/Paganism get togethers.
Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those living or interested in the goings-on in and about the city of Calgary
Calgary ABDL Meet Up, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Group is being phased out, replaced by Alberta Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Calgary Area Trader, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Advertise to Buy, Trade, Give away or sell anything, not simply lifestyle related.
Calgary Boot Fetish Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people interested in the service of boot/ shoe/ foot worship. Also for people interested in the service of foot massage, pedicures, and the fetish of trampling. Open to people that enjoy receiving this service and to people that would love to perform this service.
Calgary bottoms up, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Private play group for sane adults; for the serious player to scene in a group setting, as well as allow newcomers to the lifestyle to see and experience BDSM in all its forms.
Calgary Community Resources, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-07
Goal: Build a diverse network of community supports that provide access to medical and mental health resources from agencies and professionals who encourage and fostering a service environment free from labels, barriers, judgments, or stigmatization.
Calgary Dominant Support Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Intended to let anyone who plays a dominant role in a relationship-whether dominant, sadist, top, owner, master/mistress, daddy/mommy or any other d-type variation – find like minds for communication, idea-sharing, support, mentorship, friendship and hopefully fun as well.
Calgary Dungeon Monitors, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For volunteering community members, willing to provide time and energy to foster a safe and fun experience at play parties.
Calgary Femdom Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02, INACTIVE
Calgary Geeks and Nerds, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Whether it be comics, manga, animated movies, anime, trading card games, table top games, Dungeons and Dragons, cosplay…you name it and we will discuss it…as long as its nerdy or geeky
Calgary GLBT, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For GLBT in Calgary to share, grow and learn.
Calgary houses with a white picket fence and a dungeon in the basement, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-24
Inspired by 1950’s lifestyle but with modern Sensibility.
Calgary Kinky Kennel Club, verified 2015-Apr-02
Calgary Kinky Kennel Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Based in Calgary, but aimed for all of Alberta. We organize some events, gatherings and munches for those into and interesting in Puppy Play!
Calgary Legacy House, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Mission: To share information, interesting articles, educational discussions, event reminders.
Calgary Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For littles to meet other littles for friendship. Hold a monthly get together where we color and do other fun stuff.
Calgary Massage, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Respectful questions and comments are welcome. Conduct yourself with honour and enjoy yourself. I will be posting articles I come across, and ones I write, I’ll also post here first whenever I get the guts to put on a massage workshop.
Calgary Masters and slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For Masters and slaves or those wishing to learn about Master/slave relationship and dynamics
Calgary Munches, events and gatherings, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Providing information on Munches, Events and other activities within Calgary regional community.
Calgary Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Post about what or who you are looking for!
Calgary Rope Lovers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
For people who enjoy rope bondage. Share knowledge, demonstrate and practice.
Calgary Service Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Collection of people looking to use the skills they have, to trade for the skills of others. Not to be used in the trade of sexual favors, or for any illegal purposes
Calgary Shit List, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Purpose: To “Shed Light” on Dangerous Players. Keep in mind our game can be uber aggressive and ultra violent So generous latitude will be maintained.
Calgary Social Club, Fetlife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
For Calgary individuals to discuss, meet people and attend “Vanilla” events and activities, anything from Paintball, to the theater, to festivals going on around the city.
Calgary Stitch n Bitch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-30
For all you kinky fibre whores 🙂 Lets get together and share our knowledge!
Calgary Submissive Support Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Intended to let anyone who plays a submissive role in a relationship, whether as slave, submissive, bottom, masochist, switch, pet, babygirl/boy or any other s-type, find like minds for communication, idea-sharing, support, mentorship, friendship and hopefully some fun as well.
Calgary Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For People who share a fondness of kink/fetishes while swinging. Announcements about parties/events. Swingers seeking swingers.
Calgary Switches, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-09
For male and female switches to come kick back and relax and talk to like minded people.
Calgary TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Calgary TNG, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
The Next Generation – Kinksters in Calgary aged 18-30 inclusive.
Calgary underground projects, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Dedicated to the underground scene from photo shoots to the hard-core BDSM play. For the scene music, the dark, the macabre. Events, photo shoots, workshops, bar nights, and club special events – you know it and you name it this will be the place to network.
Calgary Urban Explorers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Adventurous camera-toting kinksters dedicated to getting dirty in search of everything dark, abandoned, and dilapidated.
Calgary: Wild Rose Power EXchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Goal: To provide our a space for a full BDSM Power Exchange dynamic, along with continuous community support, education and the practice of BDSM, with the opportunities of like-minded individuals to socialise, explore and learn in a respectful and dignified environment.
Calgary’s Dark Side, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
To unite Calgary rubberists, although you need not be a rubberist to join.
Campaign for Consent YYC, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
Dedicated to the promotion of enthusiastic consent in public and private play spaces, to discuss consent and support consent choices at events.
Cookies Kinky Creations, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02, SPAM
Cross Dressers of Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Feel free to post links and any other information you think would help other sexy “girls” out there!
Daddy/babygirls in Alberta, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Restricted to: Littles and Daddies/Mommies, etc in Alberta, attached or unattached, and those who are interested in learning about/from them.
C.U.N.TS, Fetlife, verified 2017-Mar-25
Collective of Unabashed Northern TroublemakerS. For female-identifying leather people or people who are curious about leather, in Calgary, Alberta and surrounding areas. We want to learn, grow, and share our knowledge and skills.
Deja Vu Social Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Purpose: To create events, organize get togethers where we will have an opportunity to get to know each other, to make new friends and revisit with friends that we have not seen in quite some time.
Dominants in Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
An educational group for Dominants to discuss questions they have.
Dressed (Calgary), FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For crossdressers, transvestites, transsexuals, pantybois and everything in between as well as admirers in or around Calgary
Edmonton Age Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Restricted to: Age Players and those you are interested in Age play.
Edmonton and area- buy, sell, trade, barter, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people in the Edmonton area looking to sell, buy, trade, barter, etc. their personal items or services. Please note this does not extend to play situations whatsoever. Items can be kink or vanilla related.
Edmonton B.U.M….bottoms unite monthly, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-09
For bottom minded folk to come together and talk about different topics, to learn from others and to help others learn.
Edmonton Daddy/babygirls, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those in Edmonton, and area in a BIG/little dynamic; for littles, mommies, everybody, as long as you are in Edmonton and area, and you just want to connect with like minded people.
Edmonton Events, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For any and all events occuring in and around Edmonton or hosted by those from the edmonton community.
Edmonton Gang Bangs, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people to get together with other like minded individuals who are interested in Gang Bangs.
Edmonton Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For kinksters that reside in or around Edmonton
Edmonton Kittens, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-21
Where felines of all types, handlers, owners and admirers can come together and discuss a variety of things.
Edmonton Leather Crafts, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Come talk about your latest projects, ask question, seek advice. Anything about leather is welcome.
Edmonton milfs, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-23
Some of Edmonton’s hot and horny milfs.
Edmonton Movie Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
If you love movies, like movies, or even just tolerate movies. Kinky, horror, sexy, action, anime, all and every type of movies.
Edmonton O Society, verified 2015-Apr-02
Edmonton O Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Adult pansexual BDSM group which provides social and educational opportunities for its members at munches, workshops and special events. Meet in a safe, casual, non-judgmental setting to share one another’s company and to discuss and learn together about this form of sexual expression.
Edmonton personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Open personal ad forum for people looking for partners in the edmonton and area. Open to all persons of kink and any age
Edmonton Play and Scene discussion Board, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A place to come and air your thoughts on the Edmonton Scene.
Edmonton – Players in Gear, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A new generation of leather in Edmonton. Will be organizing various different events in Edmonton throughout the year. Have great respect for the ideals of Leather, Leather Space and protocol.
Edmonton Pony and Pet Play dates, Fetlife, verified 2015-May-03
Events of the Edmonton area Pony and Pet play days and related activities, such as gear building, munches, and gatherings. Open to all Alberta Area pets, the play dates are held in Edmonton.
Edmonton Primals, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-04
For those who identify as a Primal or have an interest in it.
Edmonton Rope Dojo, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
Students dedicated to both learning and sharing rope bondage. Purpose of group and classes: To help share skills and make all efforts to learn new skills. Come learn, discuss your favorite ties, favorite vendors, offer tips and tricks, ask questions, and network with others.
Edmonton (R)ubberists, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those who like to wear or engage in play with the wonderful world of rubber/latex.
Edmonton TMI – Top Minded Individuals, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-29
For Top minded folk (Doms & Domme, Tops, Masters & Mistresses) to come together and talk about different topics, to learn from others and to help others learn.
Edmonton Vendors, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
For anyone Selling products/services in the Edmonton area or looking for Products or services.
FapCon, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
FAP CON 2, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Calgary. Discussions, demos, skill building, vendors and dungeon time. LGBTQ-friendly weekend features two play parties and 24 classes on kink, fetish and sadistic topics including rope, boots and the fundamentals of BDSM taught by some of the most coveted presenters of North America.
Female weekend aka Camp for kinked women/girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
To get a weekend retreat for women going in the Edmonton area.
Fort McMurray BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Group of people interested in meeting with others in the BDSM lifestyle, open to all sexualities, ages (over 18), races and sizes. Not a swingers club.
Fort McMurray Kink, verified 2015-Apr-02
For anyone and everyone in the Fort McMurray Area who is interested in bdsm in any way.
The Garden, Fetish Event in Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A fetish pan-sexual club night held in Calgary on occasion. A great opportunity to dress up and wear that sexy outfit in ‘public’, with like-minded people, meet, practice skills, learn new ones, and re-visit old friends!
GLBT Alberta, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For gays, lesbians, bisexuals, trans, queer or questioning in the Alberta area to talk and meet one another.
GP and Area Fun Bunch Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Alternate group for the members of the Grande Prairie & Peace Country Community who are less conservative in their thinking than the others.
The House Of Clockwork Artisans, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A collection of models, photographers, artists and performers originating from Edmonton Alberta, out to change the way society views beauty.
K.i.C.K.S (Kinksters in Calgary Karaoke Scene), FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For all you kinky folk who love to get down and groove karaoke style.
Kinky Dog Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people in the Edmonton area who have dogs (of the canine variety) as pets and want to discuss with other kinksters the challenges and joys that go along with our four-legged companions.
Lethbridge, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For Kinky folks from Lethbridge and area.
Lethbridge Community Munch, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Welcome everyone from all walks of the lifestyle to join us for dinner, drinks and discussion.
Lupercalia, verified 2015-Apr-02
Lupercalia, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Annual weekend of fetish and fun with a taste of ancient Rome. Keynote speakers, interactive workshops, vendor marketplace, dinners, play parties, social events for adults interested in erotic BDSM and alternative lifestyles. Safe place to share information, practice and acquire skills.
Masters And slaves Together (MAST), verified 2015-Apr-02
MAsT Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Masters And slaves Together (MAST): Calgary, Google, verified 2015-Apr-02
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
Men in calgary who want to be stomped dominated and humiliated!, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Where men in calgary can hook up with women who want slaves , to dominate or generally use their feet to crush men under and cause pain and suffering!
Mentors Alberta, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Focus: To explore the mentoring methods and share both success stories and to deconstruct failures so that we can all learn from the experience.
NLA-Edmonton Fresh Leather, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02, DISBANDED
No Bullshit Calgarians, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those in the calgary area that are tired of the bull crap drama happing in the community to share there ideas, knowleage, information, and events.
North Alberta Peace Country Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For people in the Grande Prairie and Peace Region in Alberta and British Columbia to connect, share ideas, plan get togethers, etc.
Northern Alberta AB/DL, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For The AB/DL community of Northern Alberta can come and befriend Others! Also for any daddies, mommys, or you babys who need a parent
Northern Faction, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Calgary. Heterosexual Male Leather empowerment group, comments open to all. Advocates a return to a more militaristic interpretation of Leather.
Oral Sex Lovers in Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For Calgarians to talk about Oral sex and ask any question or give any techniques that may help us all enjoy life.
Paws Up Pack Edmonton (Pup-E), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Safe place for pups and handles and friends to gather, chat, ask questions, plan events and have other like minded individuals to build bonds and friendships.
Potluck Perversion, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-21
Event for rope lovers of yyc and area to their skills, share what they have learned, and not always exclusive to sharing rope skills but addition to. Held in private home.
Ravenous Fetish Community, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
= INACTIVE = Hopes to bring some satisfaction to the insatiable appetites of our kinkster members with a diverse amount of kink and fetish content.
The Raven Re-Treat, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Welcomes all people in the community & wish to include all groups without prejudice. Here to promote a welcoming, accepting, all kink friendly, comfortable and encouraging environment where everyone is able to explore their kinks in a safe, fun & natural outdoor environment.
Red Deer KC, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Open group for all from the Red Deer and surrounding area to post what they would like to post. Holds a monthly munch.
Slaves/Subs/Switches in Alberta, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For kajirae/kajirus/subs/slaves/switches in Alberta ONLY. Safe place to come talk, vent, get ideas, make arrangements to get together.
Southern Alberta Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (AB/DL), FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
A safe friendly place to meet and chat with people from southern Alberta who enjoy or are curious about the AB/Dl life style.
Southern Alberta Lifestylers, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Medicine Hat. If you are seeking to connect with local for anything from just sitting down for coffee to meeting your match, maybe all you want is an excuse to go out for supper once a month please give us a try.
Spank Alberta, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Event reminders. A cafe for spankos (straight, bi, gay, whatever) who live in and around Alberta, Canada. If you live in Montana, Idaho, or Saskatchewan, for example, feel free to set your sore butt down for a spell. Or give your arm a rest from that heavy paddle.
Spank my ass Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
For those people who are into anything to do with spanking.
Spanking in Edmonton, Yahoo, verified 2015-Apr-02
Where spanking enthusiasts in or near Edmonton can share their thoughts about spanking. Do you like to spank or be spanked? Share your thoughts, opinions, stories, pictures.
Steamworks Edmonton, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-20
For gay and bi men who like to go to streamworks bath house in downtown Edmonton.
Submissives in Calgary, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Restricted to: Submissives, bottoms, switches, masochists in Calgary and area. Chat about what being submissive means to you, experiences you’ve had, or any thoughts, feelings, views you have on submission, playing safe, and hard lessons you’ve learned about keeping yourself safe.
Submissives of All Kinds and Those Who Love Them In Alberta, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-27
For kajirae//Slaves/Subs/Switches and Those Who Love Them.
Unowned Slaves/Subs in Calgary, AB, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Created to help Slaves/Subs to be found easily by those who are out there in Calgary who are looking for unowned Slaves/Subs As well for the subs and slaves to find a place where events and such can be posted and is relaxed.
Wolfucking ~ Edmonton, Alberta, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-07
To help men and women who are into giving and receiving a primal yet tender kind of experience. For all dynamics, hetrosexual, homosexual everything in between orientation. Not a poly only group; welcomes monogamous couples or single people as well.
The Wylde Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
Not only hosts a weekly munch, but also encourages its members to create socials where we all have fun enjoying friendships new and old.
Young Edmonton Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-02
YEP. Safe place for kinksters 35 and under to come out and talk about all things BDSM as well as meet players who are of their own age. More experienced and aged Edmontonians are welcome to impart their wisdom and participate in discussions online.
The timing of your altcire here is almost, well, creepy. I Have a FetLife account, and have had it since round about the time it was developed. The site is amazing for those who are interested int he scene and kink, all around the world. I recently, like 2 weeks ago, created an Okcupid account, and there are definitely little hints that you can drop here and there to indicate your level and interest of kink (you can of course come right out and say it too though).When it comes to networking for events and such, and like-minded people, Fetlife I would highly recommend as well. As for Okcupid, I am hoping it may lead to some connections, will just have to wait and see