NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement. Signing up for update emails (via ChangeDetection.com link at bottom of each page) and/or reviewing the list regularly is recommended.
New Mexico FetLifers Community Calendar
Active New Mexicans that want to meet and play!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Please use this to meet other locals, advertise parties where you want to generate interest, but most of all share our experiences with other locals so we don’t feel so alone.
Albuquerque Ass to mouth, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For women who are into getting their ass holes eaten out and men looking to lick women’s ass holes. Also cock to ass to mouth!
Albuquerque Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Looking to create a space where it is easier for the kinksters in Abq to find play partners
Albuquerque Fetish Photographer, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Albuquerque fetish photographer looking for mainly female (and occasionally male) models for various projects that I am working on. TFP/TFCD and paid shoots. Model release used for all shoots.
Albuquerque Formal dining, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
An organizational hot-spot to help us formulate our vision of how this event will manifest. It is also a means to communicate that vision to those in the community who wish to participate so that everyone will be on the same page.
Albuquerque Formal Service, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Intended as a private group for those who will be volunteering to help a Formal dinner become a success.
Albuquerque Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A group of Albuquerque kinksters that gather and hang out at munches and F/friends homes, possibly play parties in the future!
Albuquerque Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Post for hook ups.
Albuquerque Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For those in Albuquerque who identify as polyamorous, as well as for those who are curious or supportive of the community. We would like to meet at least on a monthly basis for social events and discussions, including potlucks, movie nights, talks on topics relating to polyamory, and other things suggested by members.
The Albuquerque Sanctuary for Human Animal Role Play (ASHAR), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Lke-minded individuals dedicated to exploring opportunities for pony, puppy, kitten, bunny, therian, otherkin (animal transformations) and all other critter role-play in Albuquerque and the surrounding areas.
Arizona Spankos! (AZS), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
An Exclusive, Members Only, Spanking & DD ONLY Community. (Non-BDSM) Feel free to post any DD or Spanking related topic, ask any question, meet like minded spanking enthusiasts. MEMBERS may promote their Non-BDSM spanking party, event, business or gathering. Members here are from or visit the Southwest USA. (AZ, CA, CO, NV, NM, TX and Utah)
BDSMTheJourney (Eastern New Mexico), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For local Eastern New Mexico area events. And always a place for all BDSM lifestylers, anywhere in the country or the world, to come and share thoughts, feelings, protocol and rituals. Ask questions, give advice, teach and learn to live the lifestyle. Articles, lessons, on-line journals, links and polls. Everything about the lifestyle is welcome.
BDSM The Journey (Southern New Mexico), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A forum for local to the Southern New Mexico area events. And always a place for all BDSM lifestylers, anywhere in the counrty or the world, to come and share thoughts, feelings, protocol and rituals. Ask questions, give advice, teach and learn to live the lifestyle. Articles, lessons, on-line journals, links and polls.
Behind the 8 ball (Albuquerque area Kinksters Billiards Club), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Albuquerque area kinksters who like to hang out, shoot pool (Usually 8 ball and/or 9 ball), and just have fun.
Borderland Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Comprehensive list of groups, social and educational events, and kink resources, area vendors, in and around EL Paso and Las Cruces and surrounding area.
Borderland kinksters TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For kinksters and fetish lovers 18-35 to connect and learn together in the borderland area. In El Paso , Las Cruces, Alamogordo , Juarez and the spaces in between.
Cannon/Clovis/Portales Metroplex!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For us people in the middle of nowhere!
Central Darkside, verified 2015-Mar-19
Discussion list for people who live in or travel to Oklahoma, Texas, Arkansas, Kansas, New Mexico and Missouri. This list serves as a meeting place for those who wish learn from the experienced, find someone special, share your tales, or announce local happenings pertaining to fetishes, power-exchange and all affiliated groups, activities and munches. A neutral list that everyone from all clubs & proclivities can enjoy.
ClubFEM – Albuquerque, New Mexico, verified 2015-Mar-19
ClubFEM – Albuquerque, New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
a role-specific social organization dedicated to promoting and celebrating sincere Female Dominant/male submissive relationships.
Daddies, Mommies and littles of NM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Where littles can meet other littles and “Parental units” can meet other “Parental units” in the local and state-wide communities.
Flying Star Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For kinky people, of any genre, that enjoy hanging out either by themselves or with a group at any of the Flying Star Cafes around the Albuquerque area.
Foot Fetish Albuquerque, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
To connect foot fetishist’s and worshipers in the Albuquerque area.
The Four Corners Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For our little scene in The Four Corners to grow (includes Farmington, Aztec, Bloomfield, Kirtland NM and Durango, Cortez, Bayfield CO and all of the other little towns in SE UT-NE AZ).
Heartland Crossing, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Heartland Crossing, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For crossdressers, transvestites, sissies, genderplayers, transpersons, and their admirers and/or lovers; or those who are respectfully curious about the same. CO-IA-IL-IN-KS-MI-MN-MO-MT-ND-NE-NM-OH-OK-SD-TX-WI-WY.
Kink Friendly Professionals of New Mexico and Surrounding Areas, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Created to provide a location where members in New Mexico and the surrounding regions can locate local, kink friendly professionals, services and venues.
Kinksters in Santa Fe NM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Play nice, be yourself, and let others be themselves. Respect.
Kinky Gamers of Las Cruces, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Mar-15
Any gaming interest is acceptable: tabletop, board games, card games, and video games are main focuses.
Kinky Pagans of New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
If you are kinky, Pagan (or wanting to learn about it) and live in New Mexico than this is the group for you. A meet ‘n’ greet/munch in the Albuquerque area will be organized once the group gets off and running!
Las Cruces______unlisted group.
LGBPQ New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Pansexuals, and Queers (and Asexuals), and our Heterosexual friends, family, supporters, and admirers, to come together and form a community, to provide support and perhaps to organize the community to action in the furtherance of civil rights for the BDSM and-or LGBPQ community.
“The Masquerade” Alamogordo New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Fetish wear and play party during and after every munch. Fully equipped dungeon and additional playrooms. Meets every month. RSVPs mandatory for attendance.
Mutha Forkin Fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For Fork related matters, fun, and, comments.
New Mexico Cross dressers and those who love them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For those who enjoy cross dressing and those who love them. If you are a cross dresser, Tv ,or Tg this is the group for you. If you enjoy playing with/and or dominating cross dressers ,Tv’s or Tg’s this is the group for you.
New Mexico Diaper Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
To hopefully bring together some of the most secluded fetishists. A place for ab/dl’s of the New Mexico area to chat and organize fun stuff to do together. Lets create a community that brings us close so we can build a safe foundation here.
New Mexico Fetish Photography, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Exists to provide a meeting ground for fetish models, and fetish photographers in the New Mexico area. Also for us to share and or show off our work, discuss new ideas
New Mexico FetLifers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A social networking group that supports and promotes the growth of the many kink organizations and activities across the Land of Enchantment. We organize monthly events that range from panel discussions to workshops, road trips to play parties.
New Mexico Glory Holes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Try to list addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them.
New Mexico Lactation and ANR, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For all women lactating, wishing to induce lactation and men/women in the New Mexico area who are looking to have an Adult Nursing Relationship.
New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
New Mexico Leather League (NMLL): Leather/Kink/Fetish and More, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-19
A service organization dedicated to providing a resource foundation for individuals and organizations within the leather/kink/fetish/bdsm community of New Mexico.
New Mexico Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
This group will be used for people to post their wants, needs, and desires to find a partner. Be it as a ltr, play partner, weekend swap, etc.
New Mexico Sadists and Masochists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For those who like to play hard and like to play rough. Post about favorite scenes you have done, or would like to do.
New Mexico Spankos, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
a fetish group for people who love all things spanking.
New Mexico Unemployed kinksters help line., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Out of work or not making enough to get by in New Mexico. Maybe someone can help by contacting you or vice versa. Feel free to advertise for help wanted or will work for a life of slavery ;}’ Restricted to: New Mexico Kinksters
NM-Fetlifers Bikers & Those who Love them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Those in New Mexico that like to ride motorcycles or trikes and love kink of one kind or another. This group is to building friendships (and maybe more) to get together and post ride dates and times.
NM Hiking Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Established as a social group for the enjoyment of lifestyle people who like to hike, or would like to hike. We will have all levels of hikes planned, from easy to intermediate. Emphasis: Lifestyle people who have desire and the time to hike, primarily on weekends but with some mid-week outings.
NM Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
We’re the Kinksters in south east New Mexico. Roswell, Artesia, Carlsbad and all the other tiny communities not represented.
NMLL, see New Mexico Leather League
NMLL Kinky Book Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
We will be reading, sharing and discussing kinky books… both fictional and instructional, etc.
NM: TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A social and educational group for people aged from 18 to 36, who live in or frequent New Mexico, and are interested in, curious about, or already involved in Leather, fetish, and/or kinky relationships.
Nob Hill High School, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
The most popular “alternative” high school in Albuquerque and its metropolitan area welcomes you and hopes that our institution of alternative education will satisfy all of your educational, social and personal needs.
The Playroom BDSM Play Party, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
To post information regarding local BDSM events and parties in or near the El Paso and Las Cruces areas. To talk about and promote events or play parties that will take place at The Playroom. To promote education, communication, and create new and continued friendships in the local and surrounding areas.
Rio Grande Leather, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19 -GROUP INACTIVE-
Held in 2010; cancelled for 2011.
Rio Grande TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For kinksters and fetish enthusiasts aged 18-35 years and living in the Las Cruces, El Paso, and Ciudad Juarez tri-city area. We will be gearing up for some really great things in the next few months! Stay tuned for tons of demos, classes, coffees, parties and more!!!
RR, NM Local Fetlifers, verified 2015-Mar-19
A group dedicated to the local Kinksters and Fetlifers of Rio Rancho, New Mexico. Meet, greet, and get to know your neighbor.
Sandia Women’s Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A group of women who identify as (or who are curious about) kink, Leather, polyamory, spirituality, BDSM, etc. We meet once a month to have dinner, chat, build community and enjoy the company of like-minded women.
Sanguine Pack – Arizona/ New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Welcome all Wolves, Beasts of Fur and Fang, Feather and Claw (and anyone else that would like to find a place of acceptance, mentorship, friendship and family).
South West Dolly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For Dollies and Dolliers in AZ-CA-NM-NV-UT. Either as a fashion fetish or a means of objectification and dehumanization. Joined by the Aesthetic. Professional (photographers, art directors, wardrobe, makeup, hair, costume, models and vendors) and Lifestyle are welcome.
Southern New Mexico, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Specifically made to set up munches, meet and greets, and various functions in the Deming NM area. From Lordsburg, Silver City, Columbus, and Las Cruces, it’s only an hour or under to Deming NM.
Southern States Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For all types of cuckolds, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs, and any others. All orientations. Straight, Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender. And lifestyle choices. Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, switch. And all personalities. AL-AR-AZ-CA-FL-GA-KY-LA-MS-NC-NM-OK-PR-SC-TN-TX-VA
SouthWest Age Play League: Littles, Diapers and Dresses, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Encompasses any form of age and role play from infant to teenager, incl: Littles, Adult Babies, Diaper lovers, AB/DL, Sissy’s, Spanking, Crossdressing, Feminization, Bois, Gurls, Mommys, Daddys, Aunts, Uncles, Babysitters, Brothers, Sisters, Cheerleaders, Role Play, Gender Bending, etc AZ-CA-CO-KS-NM-NV-OK-TX-UT
Southwest Gay ABDLs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Gay, Queer, Bi Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers in Southwest (AZ-NM-NV-UT) Personals, group parties, and Q&A topics encouraged.
St. John’s College, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For kinksters who are students, alumni, faculty, administrators, staff and friends of St. John’s College, the “Great Books” liberal-arts college, with campuses in Santa Fe, New Mexico and Annapolis, Maryland.
SWOP-NM, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
Sex Workers Outreach Project chapter. For past and present sex workers and allies.
The Texoma Network, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
Goal: To provide a network of resources for anyone on or near the Texas-Oklahoma Border (AR-CO-KS-LA-NM-OK-TX). Will focus mainly on supplying information about groups and events; To coordinate efforts, to post and use ideas to their best, and to allow for freer feedback from the general public.
TFX (the female exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
A social group in Albuquerque that provides a safe space for those who identify as female (biological or not) and are part of the fetish, kink or leather community.
Top and Bottom (Colorado and New Mexico), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
An informational networking group for residents of lower Colorado and upper New Mexico, we have no close munches, clubs or meetings. A great way to meet each other and stay in touch! Open to all Coloradoans and New Mexicans interested in or involved with the BDSM lifestyle and those visiting our area.
Western States Veteran Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-19
For Vets, Disabled Vets and Active Duty men and women, that need help with various issues that concern us. Be it legal help due to BDSM concerns, job search help, website links and many items of interest. AZ-CA-CO-ID-MT-ND-NM-NV-OR-SD-UT-WA-WY