NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement. Signing up for update emails (via ChangeDetection.com link at bottom of each page) and/or reviewing the list regularly is recommended.
4 Corners – IASDMNNE, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Local alternative lifestyle/fetish group.
adult babys & diaper lovers in Iowa, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For Adult baby’s/Diaper Lovers bed-wetters day-wetters any one in diapers or love diapers in Iowa
Bound in Siouxland, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For kinksters interested in finding and creating a more cohesive community, on local, state and national levels through educational programs and by general exchange of information along w/ promoting ethical values & knowledge in local BDSM community. Online discussions, munches, demos, parties.
Cedar Valley Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Makes us feel welcomed, and encourages us to take chances and meet people without being forceful. Teaches new skills, and helps us to be safer! YOUR community and YOUR group.
Cedar Valley Kink High Protocol, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Focused on High Protocol Dinners and Events.
Central Iowa Bdsm Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Tell stories, places to go for toys in central iowa, munches and other stuff
Central Iowa Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For those interested in exhibitionism, voyeurism, and dogging in Iowa.
Central Iowa Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For polyamorous social events such as meet and greets as well as maybe camping, options for such things as a bar meets or having a group out for food. Goal: To have a civilized interaction with like minded Iowa Poly people.
Central Iowa Rope Bite, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
To gather and explore all things rope. Demos, practice, meeting fellow rope enthusiasts, etc. For rope Tops, bottoms, riggers, bunnies.
CIPEX, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
DADG Productions, verified 2015-Mar-28
Central Iowa Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Des Moines Area Discussion Group (DADG), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Goals: To promote ethical values and knowledge in the local BDSM community, through educational programs and by the general exchange of information; to provide a forum where people interested in BDSM may associate with one another and form friendships with BDSM as a common interest.
Coteau des Prairies deSades, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Coteau des Prairies deSades, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Kink aware individuals with a core focus on BDSM, but we are open to all forms of fetish, kink, and alternative lifestyles. Monthly munches. Eastern South Dakota, southeastern ND, western Mn, and the northern Iowa/Nebraska border.
CRE (Corridor Rope Enthusiasts), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Cedar Rapids / Iowa City / Waterloo aka the Corridor groups for anyone interested in rope. Meets to discus all things rope and practice ties
CROP, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
CROP, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Cedar Rapids Organization of Perverts. Open to adults with an interest in alternative sexual/sensual lifestyles. A social group meeting to share support, education, and ideas.
CUFFS, see ISU CUFFS
Discreet DSM Hookups, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
For people who are serious about hooking up in Des Moines.
DOA of SiouxLand (Deviants and Outcasts Association), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Sioux City. Goals: to educate and support others in our lifestyle and those thinking of entering it. Fun loving young bunch but we welcome all to join.
DSM Area Calendar, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Meeting place for those helping with the calendar creation in central Iowa. Share ideas, volunteer to help or model.
Fun in the QC- Ageplayers Playground, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For ageplayers of all types. Bigs, Littles, Mommies, Daddies, Adult babies, diaper lovers, all of the above. For local age players to discuss their desires in a non judgmental settings, share ideas, form friendships, plan fun outings and share event info
Fun in the QC – Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Goal: Provide a safe, fun space for poly people in and around the QCA to discuss, connect, and socialize.
Fun in the Quad Cities, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Hanging out and having fun with like minded people. Goal / Mission Statement: To Have Fun, be Safe, and encourage Personal Growth.
GLDs, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
= INACTIVE =
Grinnell SSC, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-14
Grinnell Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Welcomes current members and alum. Always looking for more resources and other events to attend.
Healthy in the Heartland, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For those trying to get healthy, whether you’re trying to quit smoking, eat healthy, lose weight, start working out.. whatever you’re working on, we’re here to help you with it!
Heartland Crossing, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Heartland Crossing, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For crossdressers, transvestites, sissies, genderplayers, transpersons, and their admirers and/or lovers; or those who are respectfully curious about the same. CO-IA-IL-IN-KS-MI-MN-MO-MT-ND-NE-NM-OH-OK-SD-TX-WI-WY.
Iowa AB/DL and little’s Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
were we can talk about and plan to set up Ab/dl munch.
Iowa BBWs and those who admire and love them, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
People who admire and love Big Beautiful WOMEN in Iowa. We here to make friends and have fun.
Iowa BDSM Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Dedicated to BDSM in Iowa. All Iowans (and heck, anyone within driving distance — we’re from the Iowa City area) are welcome.
Iowa Bigs and littles (IBL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For Bigs and littles in Iowa and surrounding areas to talk, form friendships, plan fun outings and share event info
Iowa city area members for group fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For couples or singles who are looking for others to join them or looking for others to join. Anyone in Iowa City area or SE IA.
Iowa Connections, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For Iowans and those in neighboring states, to find others in their area interested in a BDSM relationship.
Iowa Erotic Fighting, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
For like-minded kinksters in IA to get together and talk about erotic fighting and or set up a match.
Iowa Fetish Community as a Lifestyle (IAFCL), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Proudly sponsored and maintained as a place which reveals the secrets of the fetish lifestyle.
Iowa Hookup, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For anyone in Iowa that want to hook up for romantic, intimate, passionate or down right kinky and freaky fun!
Iowa Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For all of us corn fed sexual deviants wanting too mingle…mix and just hang out!
Iowa Knife play, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-08
For people in Iowa that like knife/ edge play or want to know more about it.
Iowa Kinky Swingers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
Open to everyone who Loves sex. Mature adults who get high on sex, and respect ourselves and those we play with.
Iowa Pet Play and Furry Fun, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Local(ish) group for people who enjoy pet/furry play, this is a group to discuss anything petplay/furry. anything from relationships and long term arrangements, to toys and accessories- from events to how being in iowa affects your play.
Iowa Submissive Forums, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Restricted to: Submissives of all types that live in or serve Dominants in Iowa. Continue the conversation, get support, build friendships and grow within ourselves and our community.
Iowa Swingers Social Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Post for dates, playmates, tell about yourself, and post discussions about swinging.
IPEX (Iowa Power Exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Goals: Creating communication and activity between all of Iowa’s Kink, Fetish, Leather, and altenative sex groups. Currently an online group only. If you are involved with any Iowa groups or groups near Iowa, please feel free to post upcoming events here.
ISU Cuffs, verified 2015-Mar-28
ISU Cuffs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Iowa State University Cuffs, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Educational group for people who want to learn more about alternative sexuality such as kink, fetish, BDSM, and other expressions of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative human sexuality. Open to all ISU students, faculty, staff, and their spouses or partners.
Kink on the River, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Annual event hosted by Bound in Siouxland, located in Sioux City.
Midwest BDSM’ers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For all those local to the Great Lakes region seeking to connect with fellow kinksters and like minded individuals. All are welcome to join and participate regardless of orientation,fetish preference or gender identity.
Midwest Gang Bang Parties, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For kinky folks interested in attending Gang Bangs in the Midwest. If you are planning a Gang Bang in IL-IN-MI-WI-IA-MO-MN, please post it hear.
MidWest Pony Herd, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For Ponies, Handlers, Grooms, Owners and anyone interested in the pony play life. You can live any where but this group is to bring together the Equines of the MidWest. AR-IA-IL-KS-MO-NE-OK.
Midwestern Kinky Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Welcome to all post and come and make friends from the Midwestern and who know what you might get into.
Minnesota/iowa Bondage, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For all midwest people looking 4 Masters /Mistresses and subs and slaves.
Mistresses seeking toilet slaves in Missouri, Kansas, Colorado, Iowa, Nebraska, Illinois and Minnesota, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
For mistresses into toilet slavery in the Midwest region.
Nebraska Iowa Playful Pups and Handlers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
NIPPAH. Requirements: Reside in IA or NE, be interested or involved in Pet play. Whether stray, collared, have a pup of your own, or just want to know more about Pup Play in general.
North Iowa BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For individuals that live in NE IA and the rest of the state..Mainly a discussion group, although I would like to organize some events for those in the area as well.as Including guest demonstrations and educational opportunities about the bdsm Lifestyle.
NW Iowa, SE South Dakota, NE Nebraska Kinksters United, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Not a swingers club! For any persons within traveling distance of Sioux City,Iowa of ANY sexual liking, whether it is of oreintation, gender,or whatever
Omaha Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Omaha Power Exchange / OPEX, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Dedicated to providing opportunities for likeminded folks to get together, socialize, discuss issues of power exchange, living in D/s and M/s relationships, and have a great time making friends. Variety of different educational and informative meetings, fun socials, and interesting events
QPEX (Quincy Power Exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
A home for Kinksters in the Tristate areas of MO-IL-IA Since 2011; educational and support group for those who are in or curious about the BDSM lifestyle.
Quad Cities Kinks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
People who live in the Quad Cities, (East Moline, Moline, Rock Island, Davenport, Bettendorf, and other out lying areas.)
Quad Cities One On One Meetings, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
For QC kinksters who prefer one on one meetings over group get togethers. Meet for coffee, a drink, dinner, a walk along the river…whatever you’re in the mood for.
Riverbound, verified 2015-Mar-28
Riverbound, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Pansexual BDSM group located in the Quad City area of IA-IL. (Davenport and Bettendorf in Iowa, and Rock Island and Moline in Illinois.) Open to any 21 years of age or over interested in BDSM and D/s including lifestylers, casual players, or simply those with interest.
Rope Bite Omaha, see Twisted Rigging: Rope Bite Omaha
SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28 = INACTIVE =
South Dakota based group created as a place for BDSM/Poly minded people living in the SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area to meet and get aquainted.
SEIPEX, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
South Eastern Iowa Power EXchange. On hiatus.
South Dakota Kinksters and its Neighbors ND, NE, MN, IA, WY, and MT, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
For people interested in BDSM lifestyles in and around South Dakota to find a playmate, share knowledge, and have fun.
submission slave MASTERS, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
= INACTIVE =
TriStateBDSM_lifestyle, see SD/MN/IA/NE 4 corners area-Friends in BDSM/Poly
Tri-state Lifestyles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
Adult lifestylers (swingers). Has monthly meet and greets and hotel takeover parties. Welcomes all sexual fetishes and all types of kink. IA-IL-WI
Twisted Rigging: Rope Bite Omaha, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Twisted Rigging: Rope Bite Omaha, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-28
Active, real-life group for riggers and rope bottoms in NE-IA area. Intent: To be a fun place to share information and learn from each other. A rope lab, a place to come with questions, troubleshooting, to share skills, and knowledge.
West Central Iowa networking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
To get to know each other and make connections,between the Omaha and Des Moines area.
Young and Kinky in Central Iowa, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-28
Restricted to: people between 18-30ish, slaves, submissives, Doms, Tops, Bottoms. To keep in touch, and a way to try and get some small or even some larger groups of people together to talk, discuss, and share experiences.
Last updated: August 19, 2015 at 1:58 am