NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement. Signing up for update emails (via ChangeDetection.com link at bottom of each page) and/or reviewing the list regularly is recommended.
#1 California Literary Artists: Authors, Bloggers, Journalists, Poets, Wordsmiths, Wrimos, Writers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For kinky CA writers of both vanilla and the erotic gather to support each other in achieving their writing goal/s.
12 Step Kink+ Oakland Meeting, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
12 Step Meeting group in Oakland. Welcoming of kink+ folk. AA, NA, ACA, etc. Open to all manner of 12 Step folk who have a desire to be in recovery, have a resentment and a pot of coffee.
15 Association, The, verified 2013-May-28
Social, sexual fraternity for gay men over 21, into S/M; oldest continuous gay male S/M club in the western US. Active in the community with charitable fund raising and educational events
18-25 California youngins, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For the young to chat amongst ourselves and get together.
209 Kinksters (California), FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
For any local kinksters in the area. Modesto, Turlock, Riverbank, Oakdale, Salida, Ripon, Escalon, Ceres and others.
35 and under in NorCal (and some Bay Area), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
NorCal’ers will have a place to congregate, and meet people close to us! Feel free to post any sort of discussion topics you like, even if it’s not kink related. Classifieds are welcomed, and encouraged.
408/669 Area Code, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For kinksters who live in or spend significant amounts of time in the 408 area code (including the new 669 “overlay”). Cities include San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding townships.
5th Wednesday Social and Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
5th Wednesday Social, Yahoo, verified 2013-Oct-17
Buena Park. Open to anyone who has been to the 5th Wednesday Social and Munch or anyone that wants to go.
805 kink & friendships!, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-26
Just a cool place to talk and hang out!
94th Aerosquadron San Diego – BDSM Social & Raffle!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
One of San Diego’s oldest running “Meet and Greet” Socials. Pan-sexual group, all yearning to find others in a safe, sane and consensual forum.
AB/DL’s In/near CA Sacramento., FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those of us who live in Sacramento and love DIAPERS or acting like ADULT BABIES.
Academy For Sissies, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Community outreach for sissies. Safe, accepting, loving, supportive, and fun environment to express and explore your inner sissy gurl. Based in Downtown LA
The Accolade, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-05
Mod Note: Previously a locality-based group (Silicon Valley FemDom/masculine sub Munch); unsure if it still is. For Dominant Ladies, “FemDoms,” Dommes, Mistresses and the worthy Knights who answer the call to serve those Ladies. The “energy” here is Feminine Dominant / masculine submissive.
Adam and Eve of Citrus Heights, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
To keep our fans and our customers in the loop about everything as well as let you all talk with each other.
“*Adoring subs and Female Dominants in S.F. Bay Area, CA”, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Virtual meeting ground in SF Bay Area for Dominant Females & subs of all genders. Occasional munches, gatherings, and meet ‘n greets at existing local events are coordinated. Social group as well as a place for classifieds.
Adult Community Camping Club ~ Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Outdoor enthusiastic members of the Leather/Kink/BDSM/Fetish communities along with our brothers and sisters from the Bears, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Gay Rodeo and a many more
African American San Diego Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Foor African American kinksters who live in the Southern CA and San Diego area. Endeavoring to bring together those in the Black Community that are also in the BDSM Lifestyle. To meet and greet, network, educate and possibly enjoy play amongst the POC.
AgePlay Adventures at the Citadel!!!, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Recurring age play event held at the Citadel, a BDSM club and education center located in San Francisco.
Alameda County Leather Corps (ACLC), verified 2013-Oct-17
Alameda County Leather Corps, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Tax-exempt 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Primarily composed of residents of San Francisco’s East Bay. Purpose: To promote educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, Levi’s, uniforms, and latex.
Alameda Island Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-16
Casual gathering of BDSM and kink friendly people chatting, relaxing, and having fun. Perfect place to begin breaking-out into the public scene and ask questions in a safe and reasonably sane, certainly perverted environment.
All Bay Area. 420 patient’s group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For bay area CA patients to discuss all things medical marijuana.
Alameda Island Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Casual gathering of BDSM and kink friendly people chatting, relaxing, and having fun. Find out about our upcoming events, ask questions, connect with other munchers and share information pertinent to the munch.
ALOG, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Alternative Lifestyle Outreach Group. Bakersfield. Holds local coffees to educate people about BDSM, what safe sane consensual means, and internet meeting safety.
Anaheim Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Anaheim Locals, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For promotion of any BDSM related activities such as Munches, Socials, Dungeon Sponsored play parties, Discussion Groups regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Anaheim Watersports Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Watersports group for our part of the sunshine state.
Antelope Valley, CA Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-06
Mainly for those who live in the Antelope Valley area such as Acton, Palmdale, Lancaster, Rosamond, and Mojave.
Apple Valley Ca Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
So people can meet that live in this town.
Arcata Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For A/all Arcata residents, and friends, to discuss, share, and otherwise talk about T/their kinks. To meet other Arcatians, and possibly start O/our own Munch.
Arcata kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Ppl from arcata and surrounding areas can talk about anything they want have fun and post info and get togethers enjoy yourself and meet other ppl from in and around the town.
Asylum Nights – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Avatar Club, verified 2013-May-28
Los Angeles. Founded in 1983. Providing leadership in education, health and safety by facilitating strategic collaborations and developing outreach programs to allow individuals to explore alternative expressions of sexuality in a safe environment.
Axis of Sadistic Intent, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Based in but not limited to Sacramento. Come and discuss all of those wonderful and twisted sadistic ideas you may have. New ideas on toys, equipment, and furniture are always welcome. Not restricted to Tops or bottoms, nor male or female.
BA (Bay Area) BDSM Matching, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28, SPAM
“BACK” Bay Area Chromatic Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For folks of color residing in the Bay Area who want space to plan munches, events, play parties, and conventions, hold discussions, place personals and classifieds, and create a support network.
Back To Nature Parties, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Back To Nature Parties, Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
Very special group of people who get together monthly in Northern CA during the warm months of the year for outdoor play parties held on rural acreage approximately 75 miles northeast of Sacramento in the foothills of the Sierra-Nevada mountains.
Baker Beach, SF CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For kinky people who enjoy nude sunbathing at San Francisco’s Baker Beach.
Bakersfield BDSM Armory, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For local members of the Bakersfield, Fresno, and Visalia munch groups, and it is preferred that you be a known active member or have an active member vouch for you. Local shooting events for local kinksters. Come one come all, and have a blast while you flex your right to bear arms.
Bakersfield BDSM Munch group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Pansexual group, open to anyone local to Bakersfield or surrounding areas. Hosts monthly munches and other activities during the month.
Bakersfield Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Bakersfield Brats, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those who are looking to be around other littles, for those who need to let their little side out every once awhile is welcomed. To socialize and get to know one another within the safety of online and eventually offline as we all start to get comfortable with one another.
Bakersfield CA spanking group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For people who live in Bakersfield into giving or receiving real spankings and possibly meeting in real life. Also to talk about the many aspects of spanking or other spanking related issues.
Bakersfield pegging, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For people into or interested in pegging in the bakersfield or supporting area everyone is welcome.
Bakersfield Polyamory Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Dedicated to poly-amorous relationships and those participating in them. Respectful to all views. Supports both kinky and non-kinky relationships and will encourage you and offer advice in the hopes that your poly family grows.
BARE (Bay Area Rigger’s Exchange), FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Seeks to connect the Bay Area and its depth of rope experience, with the incredible pulse that is happening in Europe and Japan around Shibari. Dream up future classes, find practice partners, and share resources, information and inspiration. Goal: To connect the rope community.
The Bare Necessities (Sacramento), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Created to fill what we feel is a basic need in the community. To spread the hippy love of being nude in a warm fuzzy accepting environment to help promote and improve people’s sense of self worth, mental well being, tolerance levels, and overall attitude through loving all parts of themselves.
Bash~N~Dash, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Hillcrest. Ongoing weekly morning coffee tradition for over 10 years. Wonderfully delightful group of kinksters coming from all walks of life. Very casual and open location. Great place to simply relax among kinky friends whether it be your first time out or have been playing forever!
Bastille Dungeon in Longbeach, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
CLOSED Spring 2012 – Fire, may not reopen
Bay Area Ageplay (Age Play) Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those into ageplay. Chat about local on-goings and meet your fellow local ageplayers.
Bay Area Ageplay and Other Related Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Dedicated to all of us in the san francisco bay area who are looking for that one(or more)person(s) who completes their puzzle. if you are into ageplay or any of its tangents and live in the bay area, please post your personal ads here.
Bay Area Adult Role Play, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28, SPAM
Bay Area Bi-sexuals, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For Bay Area Bi-sexual people to meet, discuss topics, and enjoy the company of like-minded people. All are welcome to join.
Bay Area Breast Play Party, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who wish to attend Breast Play Parties in the East Bay Area of San Francisco (Vallejo for right now).
Bay Area Business Referrals, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Where anyone in the greater San Francisco Bay Area who owns a small vanilla or kinky business can post about what services or products they offer. Whether it is a brick and morter, online, or vendor/craft show only business.
Bay Area California BDSM Monogamous AND Kinky!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Kinky people looking for a monogamous relationship.
Bay Area Crossdressers and Admirers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For crossdressers and their admirers of the SF bay area to gather, meet, discuss, and share their experiences.
Bay Area Diaper Enthusiasts (BRiDgE), verified 2013-May-28
Serves the adult babies, diaper lovers, infantilists, etc., of the San Fransisco Bay Area, as well as those traveling to the area. It’s goal is to promote the local community by distributing information on meetings and providing a forum for discussion.
Bay Area Foodies, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For SF and Bay Area Kinksters of all persuasions who love all things food – from a lovingly prepared pot of soup to restaurants where the meal is an orgasmic journey.
Bay Area Furries, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Kinky furries in the bay area. Just a group to stay as connected and make links locally. Restricted to: People that identify as furry or are involved in the fandom by proxy, near the bay area.
Bay area gang bang, FetLife, verified 2014-May-16
Dedicated to the people that enjoy the kinkier side of the lifestyle.
Bay Area Gangbangs and Orgy, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Raw and animalistic – return to your roots with the taste of absolute flesh. REAL TIME players in the lifestyle that also incorporates D/s into the world of vanilla lifestyle parties.
bay area kinky creatives, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For every creative people to join and share their arts, their passion toward arts and if there is big enough we shall head to cafe to have an art hang out together. no rules but creatives, artists, writers, photographers, as soon as you make things from nothing.
Bay Area Kinky Queers of Color, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Safe space for kinky queer people of color to chat, organize meetups, and make new connections with one another.
Bay Area Party/Event Organizers & Hosts, FetLife, verified 2014-May-14
Where Organizers & Hosts/Co-Hosts can talk about: Parties/events, venues, banned people, issues/problems, dates/time, all related issues about parties/events
Bay Area Petplay, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
A place to connect with others in the Bay Area that are into petplay. kittens, puppies, ponies, bunnies, birdies and pets of all kinds (and their owners).
Bay Area Poly Circular Type Relating (ie triangular, quadratic, etc) This group is not for straight men, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those who are interested or prefer to relate where the people they love can be in relationship with one another (whether you currently have a “line” or “v type” relationship, or are single now or not.
Bay Area Queer TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For 18-35 kinky queers in the Bay Area (San Francisco, Oakland, Marin, etc.) Post events, network with others, meet up for a munch, do a skill share!
Bay Area Rope Rendezvous (BARR) Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
San Jose. For all levels of rope enthusiasts and the wonderful people who like to be tied up by them.
Bay Area Sacred Kink (BASK), FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Community for Kinky Bay Area Sacred-Erotic Explorers. Classes – Workshops – Events – Conversation
Bay Area Super Heroes (B.A.S.H.), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For San Francisco bay area and near region superheroes and heroines as well as super-villains and villainesses. For discussing anything related to heroes and villainy in the bay area.
Bay Area Taboo, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Where you should feel free to discuss, without negative response, your kinkiest, strangest most bizarre fantasies and desires.
BBW & BHM_n_Los Angeles surrounding area, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For all BBW’s and BHM and those who know how to appreciate them. Whether you are Domme, Dom, sub, etc
BBW and their admirers BDSM Munch & Social of Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Supportive atmosphere, social fun, and a few laughs for women of any sizes, identity, and the folks that desire them. To give our beautiful women in the kink community a place to mix, find out about size positive events, and gather with the only focal point on generously proportioned women.
bbw california, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Californian kink group for all larger size ladies and their admirers.
BDSM Bikers So Ca, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For motorcyclist to talk about motorcycles and related things.
BDSM Content Exchange in California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For models and producers, Photographers and lifestylers who want to produce their own websites and movies.
BDSM Domain So Cal Alt, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28, SPAM
BDSM Events & Information for Southern California, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
Announcement list designed to publicize SM, B/D, D/s, and leather events in the Greater Southern California Area. Participation by list members in posting events, workshops, support groups, etc, is welcome and encouraged.
BDSM Formal Dining, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone that enjoys High Protocol service on Dining and Serving at Meals and Parties. Or for those who enjoy good food and socializing with close friends in Kink during meals. Los Angeles based.
BDSM in Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Open group for those in the Sacramento area who enjoy the BDSM lifestyle and meeting and sharing thoughts with others.
BDSM_SFbay, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For SF Bay Area kinksters.
BDSM SOCal, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
A Group Of People In the lifestyle, trying to find others they can Experience this great lifestyle with.
BDSM West, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Individuals that share a common interest in the lifestyle. Come here to share information in a friendly, non-judgemental fashion.
Beach Cities Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Pansexual gathering for those interested in BDSM, Leather, D/s, and M/s. Meets monthly. 21+ event
The Bear Cave, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Fresno. For people who love to go to my events to stay informed and connected to the Cave.
Bears LA, verified 2013-May-28
Bears LA, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
501(c)3 public charity. Sponsor and organize a variety of social events, Mr. SoCal Bear & Mr LA Leather Bear. All-inclusive group supporting camaraderie, fun & friendship while giving to charitable causes and encouraging community service.
Bear’s Lair, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
There will be a event notice posted next so you all can let us know if you plan to attend
Beat and Greet San Diego, verified 2013-Sep-29
Social impact play event is for friendly people who would like to learn more about flogging, paddling and other forms of impact play. Demonstrating techniques on eager volunteers and curing the curiosities of those who have questions. Nothing too wild, just pleasantly kinky enough to bring a smile that lasts a while!
Bent: SFC, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Play party designed by and for kinky youth (18,19,20’s, & 30’s); a vibrant and vivacious youth event without a drunken brothel vibe. Held exclusively at the SF Citadel at least every quarter.
Berkeley Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For perverts, the kinky, and the “alternatively sexually” (18 years or older, please) to meet others of similar (or dissimilar) interests over some food and drink.
Beverly Hills Kinky Folks, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all the Kinky Folks in Beverly Hills. Would like to start meeting all of you and setting up some local events and parties
BHM’s and BHM admirers in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Big Handsome Men and thier admirers in Southern CA to gather
Bi Poly Men, All women, and All other genders who are not straight men, SF Bay area 4 dating and/or Friendship in Real life, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
A Group With A Love Positive Environment.
A Big Little Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
San Diego. Focuses on education and support for those who participate in consensual adult roleplay and relationships. Pansexual group; welcomes all dynamics and sexual orientations. For Daddies, Mommies, Caregivers, Pet Owners, Littles, Middles, ABDLs, and Pets, All other categories that focus on Age Play and Pet Play.
The Big Pink House, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
We’ve got a dungeon in the basement that we use to host social gatherings, play parties, and workshops!
Bisexual Masters Mistress and subs slaves Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Dominants Masters and Mistresses and slave owners and collared subs and slaves. Open discussion and personal ads and advertising of Los Angeles and Nearby Events. Discuss bisexual and pansexual relationships. Bisexual Female Male Transsexuals Intersexuals and everyone else are all welcome.
Bishop and Mammoth BDSM Friends, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Will be organizing munches, kinky crafting bees, coffee klatches, and eventually we will have a full-functioning dungeon for light play parties.
Black Doms 4 white female subs in Cali, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Where Blk Dominant men who are attracted to Non Black women in CA can meet,discuss, and share their passion and love for our chosen Lifestyle. Goal: To logistically schedule munches/outings/ meetings with each other!
Black Masters, Mistresses, Dom’s and Domme of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Open to all for the purpose of networking educating and building the Black BDSM community
Bondage-a-Go-Go, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
We Drink, Smoke and Fuck. Comes together weekly to dance the night away and interact with other Freaks. We are Fetishists – into Corsets, Tattoos, Bondage. Horror (in all forms), Body Modifications, Betty Page, Fashion and Art.
Bordello of Decadence, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Rosemead. For Friends and Fans to be to be kept up on our events and parties.
Bound Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
A day of workshops and demos covering as many aspects as possible of rope restraint.
Bootblack Workshop – Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Santa Fe Springs. Once a month gathering for the “sole” purpose of working on our craft. Purpose: to gather together to learn from each other, help each other, and to grow as bootblacks.
Boys and mommy’s looking for each other in NorCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For boys and mommy’s looking for each other and located in the Northern CA area
Breastfeeding, adult nursing, lactation, California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anyone interested in breastfeeding, ANR, ABF, lactation….in CA.
Burbank Pasadena Kinky Meetup, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Meetup Group for Burbank Pasadena CA. Meet and eat discussions in restaurants and other places. Social networking group.
Butte County BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Kinky inhabitants of Butte County and its neighbors are free to come here to discuss all things BSDM. Hope to have meets in the near future. (Biggs, Chico, Gridley, Oroville, and Paradise).
Butte/Glenn/Tehama BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who live in Butte, Glenn or Tehama county, and for those who visit the area regularly.
Buy, Sell, Trade Humboldt, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For anyone looking to buy, sell, or trade with people in the Humboldt County area. Post things you are selling and things you are looking for.
CA BBW Foot Fetish Group & Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For BBW’s (size 14+) and Foot Fetishist who love them, and residing in CA
CA- Greater Bay Area – Looking for Kinkster-friendly Roommates aka DIY “Happy Leather Household”, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
for the Greater Bay Area
CA Model exchange, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
If you are a model in CA or in need of an alternative model in CA here is your meetup place. Post if you are a model, and what makes you unique with photos, and let the photographers find you.
Cal State Universities / Cal Poly, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Talk / post about anything from school related to meeting up, to online cam. No restrictions.
Calabasas Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those in Calabasas who are looking to make friends, seek advice, become a slave, or anything else that is on your mind.
California ABF, ANR, Lactation and Hucow Singles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who are seeking lactation, ANR, ABF, hucow partners in CA.
California Boots & Breeches Corps, verified 2013-Sep-29
California Boots & Breeches Corps, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Uniform club of men with mutual interest and respect for Boots and Breeches as worn by police motor officers. Sponsors club and public events throughout the year in the greater LA, SF, and PS areas, including Roll Call, the Folsom Street Fair’s uniform party.
*California Breeding*, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For breeders and those who desire to be bred in CA ONLY please! Personal Ads Encouraged!
California Burningman-y, Pirate-y, Rave-y, Goth-y, Mystic-y, Geek-y, Gypsy, BSDM-y Perverts, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Please feel free to list any opportunities in CA or the SW USA: Faires, Parties, Raves, Art Shows, Festivals, Cons, Etc. Also as a place to create unique events with other like-minded souls.
California Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For REAL classified ads for those seeking any kind of BDSM relationship in CA.
California Cougars, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Older Women of all race and sizes, And the Cubs Who Desire them.
California Cuckold Connection, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For California cuckolds to meet women, cuckolds, and bulls that are like minded and local.
California daddy’s and princess’s, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Daddy’s looking for there princess
California Deaf -HOH – Kinksters and Those Who Support Them, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
So Threshold can assist the local deaf HOH community with finding a home in our kinky community, locate events, find help with organizations who provide help with funding for hearing aids etc
California Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Feel free to share all your events.
California FemDom, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Please post events, personals, etc.
California foot fetish, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For men who love female feet in CA area and for females who love 2 get there feet licked, sniffed, sucked, fucked and loved
California Furries, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Furries and fur friendly people; talk about events, conventions, and general wackiness.
California gangbang/group sex lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For women and men that live in CA into gang bangs and group sex.
California Glory Holes, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
List addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them.
California Gold Country TNG, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-26
For locals in the Sierra Nevada Mountains & Foothills to meet other people in the community who share in the fetish lifestyle.
California Golden Shower Network, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Golden Shower givers and takers.
California Goreans, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For offline Gorean events and gatherings. Welcomes all Goreans and those who identify as Gorean-friendly.
California Gun Owners, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all us folk in California who love or own guns. Discussions about the different laws, restrictions, history and or stories of being a resident of the State of CA and owning firearms.
California Hookups, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Are you looking to find someone local? Please include location, age, purpose in your title posting.
California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For everyone in California (or lovers of California) who would like to reach out and meet others in your area.
California Kinky Campers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Kinky people in or visiting CA who enjoy both BDSM and the great outdoors; to help organize camping, hiking and backpacking trips with other kinksters.
California Kinky Rentals, Roommates, & Real Estate: Los Angeles, San Diego, San Jose, San Francisco, Fresno, Sacramento, Long Beach, Oakland & the rest of California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post here if you’re looking for California kink-minded rentals roommates or real estate in Los Angeles, San Diego, San Jose, San Francisco, Fresno, Sacramento, Long Beach, Oakland & the rest of the State.
California Lesbians, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To talk, listen, and get to know one another; a safe haven to talk about books, movies, kids, life, you name it.
California Monogamous Singles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people in Southern CA who are single and looking for monogamous, loving relationships.
California Nigger Slave and Master Network, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For nigger slaves, niggers who want to be slaves, and white Masters.
California Nudists, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those kinksters that also enjoy nudism openly either at home or freely out in the open; to discuss and make friends with other CA nudists and share with each other.
California Pagans, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Feel free to start any sort of convo as long as you keep it connected to paganism.
California pegging, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For women in CA who enjoy pegging men and for men in CA that love women to peg them.
California Politics, Activism, Philanthropy, and Thinking Globally Acting Locally, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Kink-related political and activism discussions inspired this group, and are preferred.
California Ponygirl, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Women at the ranch in fetish equestrian costume harness. Pictures and movie photo magazine themes. Personals and advertisements welcome.
California Raftgasm-Whitewatersports!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Southern California Paddlers. For those of us that are ready to wield an entirely different kind of paddle: Top/bottom/ambidextrous, the River doesn’t judge.
California Short Film Collaboration, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anybody in CA area intrested in creating, acting, or promoting short films. All welcome: producers, directors, actors/actresses, engineers, etc.
California Squirters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Meet fellow Californian squirters, share stories, make a gushing connection, or anything else related related to squirting.
California Studio for Photographers, Models,and Artist, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Monthly photo shoot munch party. Free and open to all in the fetish community.
California Subs & Sluts for Masters with BBC, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For the California area. Restricted to: Sub women
California TG and friends, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Tgirls are HOT and we love being who we are from the inside out. Friends and Admirers — pls. enjoy and have fun meeting lovely ladies here in our area.
California Threesomes, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Any posting on this list will need to include basic info.
California Zentai, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people who like to wear, play and exhibit zentai, to discuss zentai adventures, where to purchase zentai, where to exhibit zentai, or to discuss where to meet to mutually enjoy zentai.
Callifornia cum dump, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
For all of you who love cum in California.
Cameron Park Munch/Kinky Mountain Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Kinky people getting together to share stories, laughs, and network about kinky events as well as vanilla interests that happen east of the Sacramento area.
Camp Spanky, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Multi-fetish group that sponsors various activities during the year. Main event is an annual campout. Events held in Southern California.
Capitol Pony, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For human ponies, and those that love them, in the Sacramento Area. Aim: To find ponies and handlers in the Sacramento Area in order to form a group and eventually plan meets, events, and demonstrations.
Casa de Chaos FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
San Jose. Hosts PROvert’s Brunch Munch
CatalystCon – Sparking Communication in sexuality, activism and acceptance, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. About reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk and treat sexuality.
CDs TGirls and Shemales in Long Beach CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
To meet femdoms masters slaves and to just talk about anything there into.
Center for Positive Sexuality, verified 2013-May-28
Center for Positive Sexuality, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Providing comprehensive, sex-positive education for all, regardless of gender or orientation, through presentations, consultations, and other materials to broaden and enrich your sex life. Located in Los Angeles; virtual Center in SecondLife as well as other online interactions.
Central California ABF & ANR Breastfeeding and Lactation, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those interested in an ABF or ANR relationship or those seeking lactation support in the Central Valley area.
Central California Classified, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For personal ads targeted for people located in Central CA area. Ads can be for someone looking for anything from a one-time play partner to a poly relationship or an LTR.
Central California Diaper lovers and babies, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people who live in the central valley to find eachother, meet and exchange ideas.
Central California Expos, Fairs, Festivals, and Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anything that seems like it would be fun to attend with some of our kinky friends! Anyone can post an event coming up and we can discuss carpools etc.
Central California Fem Domme Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Creating a venue for continued learning, encouragement and fun stress relief without discrimination of age, color, disability or sexual orientation.
Central California Littles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For “littles” and those who are in relationships with them or seek relationships or friendship with them, from Fresno to Bakersfield.
Central California Sub Space, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Safe place for Submissives (female or male) to talk with other submissives and feel safe.
Central Coast California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those located or visiting. Trying to find, meet, chat, and organize others with FetLife styled Kink. Santa Barbara, Goleta, Ventura, Oxnard, Buellton, Solvang, Santa Ynez, Los Olivos, Los Alamos, Santa Maria, San Luis Obispo, Pismo Beach, Nipomo
Central Coast Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-08
For San Luis Obispo/Central Coast poly folk to talk about poly-related issues and meet lifestyle friendly people. Anyone who is polyamorous (multiple relationships, open relationships – adhering to ethical non-monogamy) is welcome.
Central Valley Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Modesto. Social discussion group, to meet other area kinksters in a relaxed and positive environment.
Cerritos Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Warm welcoming fun loving group who gets together monthly.
Chastity San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-21
For those in the SF Bay Area interested in chastity, orgasm control, tease and denial and similar things. Hosts monthly chastity social.
Chatsworth, CA…anything going on?, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
If you live in Chatsworth and are kinky
Chico Area Kink Experience, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically focused on social networking, and building community, munches, and play parties in the Chico / Oroville / Redding area.
Chico Area Littles, Chico, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For Bigs / littles / ADLs and age players.
Chico BBW Lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For all of us in the Chico area that love big girls……(and guys)
Chico Hellfire Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Fierce individuals who can still respect one another and are ready and willing to play here in Chico.
Chico TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Geared towards helping and encouraging those 18-35 with social issues that can be present in this lifestyle. Here to discuss, learn, and observe. To play safely and smart, and hopefully get together to meet people our own age who’re of like minds. Marysville/Yuba City to Redding area.
The Citadel, see SF Citadel
Citadel Resurrection, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For the resurrection build for the new Citadel
Citadel Singles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Meeting place for those sharing the San Francisco Citadel and singleness in their lives, to meet and chat. Open to anyone self-identifying at any particular point in time as single, by any definition that pleases.
Claremont College Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For any and all students of the 7-College consortium to network and to talk about kink, BDSM, and life here in southern CA. (Claremont McKenna, Claremont Graduate University, Harvey Mudd, Keck Graduate University, Pitzer, Pomona, and Scripps.)
Clovis, California Fetlifers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all of us who live in or frequent this area to chat.
Club Elysium – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Club Hurt, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Clubb_Sinn Swing Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Fresno. Monthly swingers parties. Specialize in Gang Bangs, Cuckhold, Hubby’s that like to watch /Voyeurs, Bi Parties and Costume parties.
Club X, verified 2013-Sep-29
Club X San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
San Diego’s largest pansexual leather/BDSM/kink/fetish group. Goal: Education with secondary goals of activism and social activities. Holds monthly meetings, regular social gatherings, special events, play parties, fundraisers, special interest group meetings, and our monthly Board meetings.
Coachella Valley & Inland Empire Area Lifestyle Friendly Employment (employers/employees), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
List your City in the Coachella Valley & Inland Empire area (Coachella, Indio, Palm Springs, DHS, Riverside, etc) and the position (Employer-seeking employee or Employee-seeking employment. Then create the actual post indicating the employment position available or desired.
Coffee and Conversations (A women’s discussion group), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Meets monthly. San Jose-Santa Cruz. Goals: Offer a comfortable and safe setting for women to meet; Offer support to one another in a group experience relating to women lives.
Concord Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For those who attend or who would like to attend the Walnut Creek Munch. Meets once a month.
Concord Munch Subbie Girls Night Out, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
A Girl (female) Bottom (submissive) Night Out, using the Concord Munch as our spring board. Our hope is that newbie’s to seasoned veterans in the lifestyle will come together to have fun and share, learn, bond and become friends, in a group we can reach out to and depend on.
Concord playmates, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Men and women who like to play safely and have fun
Crow Academy, The/Master Arcane’s Domain, verified 2013-May-28
A living example of a school of the BDSM Arts where ancient traditions and techniques within the BDSM Universe dating back hundreds or even thousands of years are resurrected and utilized right along side the best of contemporary techniques.
Curves Ahead Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
I’m going to take a concatenation of terrible circumstances and turn it into a bar story chock full of moral ambiguity and maligned chuckles.
CVR….Central Valley Rope, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Friendly bunch of rope lovers living in central CA. Peer based group to share our passion for rope! Monthly ‘Open Rope’ sessions are used to share ideas, tips, knowledge, practice time and have fun in a casual atmosphere. Also brings presenters in to host rope workshops regularly.
Daddy/Lil Girl _805, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-31
Haven and safe place for D/LG relationships to come and discuss, chat and meet.
Dark Odyssey: SF Happy Hour, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For the BDSM, Poly and Spirituality communities. Dark Odyssey, whose east coast events bring together sex positive people from all over the US and overseas to play, explore and learn together, is bringing some DO style fun to the bay area. We welcome everyone
Dating Shemales in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For dating and sex dates in the LA Southern Ca
Davis Availables, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For people in the Davis area looking for new partners, and are not cheating by doing so. Includes singles and people in poly or open relationships.
DDlg in NorCal / SF Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For DDlg, Daddy Doms and little girls / babygirls in Northern CA.
Dee’s Meander (easy walking group for kinksters), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
San Jose. Gentle evening walk intended for any and all fitness levels. Age 18 and older.
Delightful Events in Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those wishing to share delicious food and drinks. Focus on food and libations, conversation and connections.
Desert Dungeon, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28, CLOSED
DESIRE Leather Women Unleashed, verified 2013-Sep-29
DESIRE Leather Women Unleashed, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Palm Springs. Educational weekend committed to providing outstanding learning opportunities and experiences for all — from novices to advanced players. Excellent education and empowering opportunities. Provides the opportunity to make new friends and become part of a growing community of kinky women.
The Destination, verified 2014-May-11
The Destination, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Premier play space in Sacramento area. Community active group that believes in education, historic values and current events around the BDSM / leather lifestyle. Welcomes new comers to the scene as well as those that have been around a while.
Deviant Gamers of the West Coast, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Are you a console player, computer, or just a typical player player? And do you live on the West Coast? Want to discuss or find local kinky friends to play video games or tabletop games with? Will be hosting Gamer Munches in Washington State when gaining enough membership to fill some seats.
The Devils Mask Society, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Small group of people in LA that have been working on the study of Japanese Shibari\Kinbaku for fun. We work from the translation of Japanese material of the subjects and try our best to learn what we can.
Diamond Valley people, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Southwest Riverside County kinksters, here is a place to gather. Menifee, Sun City, Temecula, Hemet, Romoland, Winchester, Perris, Lake Elsinore and anybody else.
Diapered in California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone who likes to just relax in a comfy squishy diaper. Age playing welcome, Adult Babies welcome, Mommies and Daddies welcome, and especially Diaper Lovers
Diapers & Beer: A SoCal AB Meet-Up Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Adult Babies, Toddlers and Littles, Mommies, Daddies and Care Givers looking to connect in real time with others who share in the lifestyle. Focused on Non-Sexual, Age Appropriate play and activities with the intent of bringing folks together for safe, non-judgmental fun.
Domina and Dom Society of Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Female and Male led organization that fosters Dom/Domme and sub relationships, while understanding and supporting women and men with various interest and orientations.
Domina and Dom Society of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Female and Male led organization that fosters Dom/Domme and sub relationships, while understanding and supporting women and men with various interest and orientations.
The Dominance Factor, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Dominant Discussion Group in SF, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Held in person at the SF Citadel. A support and mentoring group for peer to peer interactions between Dominants.
Domme Scout Troop 96, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
We take our kink seriously…but we don’t take ourselves too seriously. At our Monthly meetings (in the LA area) we create a safe space where Scouts can look like a fool, ask any questions and find power from learning and exploring together as a troop
The “Don’t Like to Go to Events in L.A. Alone” Group, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Los Angeles based group for those who don’t like to go to local events alone, and are looking for a safe, causal, fun way to meet others to “buddy up” with and attend events together.
Downey Kinksters, Chico, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For anyone who lives in Downey and surrounding cities to post for Munches, Play Parties, and adds to just meet and have coffee! Anyone is welcome! Men and women and those in between!
D/s in the middle on 3rd Sunday of the Month 5pm-7pm hosted by smOdyssey, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Sunnyvale. For all community members with an interest in power exchange, 19+. Mission: To offer an open topic moderated discussion forum and allow people to explore issues relating to D/s relationships.
Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/Fairfield Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28, NO LONGER BEING HELD
Dungeon Servitus, verified 2013-Oct-07
Dungeon Servitus (San Diego, CA), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
San Diego’s Premier Femme Domme Boutique Dungeon Since 2004. Specializing in impact, medical and edge play. Private: Intimate: Exclusive.
Dungeon V, verified 2013-Sep-29
Dungeon V San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
2400 square foot dungeon and studio available for individual rental for private events or sessions and for photography. Hosts monthly play parties
Dungeon West, verified 2013-May-28
Dungeon West, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Dungeon West, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Los Angeles. Private BDSM studio, perfect for personal or professional rentals, photo shoots, filming, overnight stay and plays and parties.
DVC kinky people, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people that are either actively going to or are alumnus of Diablo Valley College in Pleasant Hill or their partners, mates, slaves, masters, doms or whatever else
DZirous Events on the Gold Coast, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For Ventura & Santa Barbara Counties to have access to future Social Events, Classes, Demos. Goal: To bring together the excited passion of the new generations with the knowledge and wisdom of those who have learned by fire in an environment that they can equally learn from and enjoy!
East Bay Kinky Sensualists, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For Kinky Sensualists who live in the East Bay Area of San Francisco.
East Bay Little Munchkins!, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
for all the little girls and boys in the East Bay and surrounding areas (and the mommys, daddys and bigs that love us)!
East Bay rope/suspension exchange., FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-08
For local riggers and rope bottoms interested in meet-ups geared towards knowledge/skill exchange, group practice, photo shoots, and inspiration.
East County Eat, Greet, And Beat, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For residents of East County to meet other kinksters in East County, grab a bite to eat, make new friends, or make new play partners!
.East County Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Focuses on socials, activities, and events taking place in east SD county. Announcements, including: personals, professional (non sexual) services offered, barter suggestions/requests, roommate situations offered or needed, carpools to events beyond east county, news events, etc.
Eastern Sierra Kink Hub, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-06
Open to people in the Eastern Sierras.
Eastside Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
18+ pansexual gathering committed to providing a (currently revolving) location for kinksters to gather and meet one another in a casual setting. Serving Los Feliz-Silverlake-Echo Park-Glendale-Burbank-Eagle Rock-DTLA-K-Town & Hollywood areas of Los Angeles.
Edges: the place to play in the South Bay, FetLife, verified 2013-Aug-30
No longer open.
EscoHoes, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
FetLife users from or livin in northcounty, escondido
Eureka Munch, verified 2013-Sep-29
Kink in Humboldt County California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Eureka Munch, Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
Talk about BDSM in general, to let you know about specific events in Humboldt and to help people passing through or moving here find us.
Events in Central California, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Strictly for events in Central California. Fresno, Bakersfield, Visalia, Hanford, etc.
The Exiles, verified 2013-May-28
The Exiles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
San Francisco. Educational group for women and those who identify as other than male who have a positive personal interest in BDSM between women. Safe place to meet, explore and share information about safety, play techniques, resources, and connect with the leather community locally and nationally.
Eye Candy Hollywood, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28, DEFUNCT
F2F High Protocol, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Open to all Female Dominants and those that identify as Female, and to the boys that love to serve them!! Parties are members only and everyone must apply to attend. This is a DFnm party (Dressed Females nude males).
Fabulous 40’s and Beyond Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Primary focus: For like minded people in this age group to gather and discuss issues specific to them.
Face Fucking and Deep Throat Lovers of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For like minded individuals to come together and share.
Factor IX, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Sacramento. From those that brought you the Asylum. Located inside the newly updated BARFLY, features our brand NEW sound system! Themed nights (such as fetish parties), drink specials, plenty of free parking
Fantasy Makers Academy, verified 2013-Sep-29
Fantasy Makers Academy, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Offers a diverse variety of classes on safety and technique to enhance your personal bdsm play. Instructors from a variety of backgrounds: All classes held at the Fantasy Makers Playhouse in East San Francisco Bay Area.
Fantasy Makers and Friends, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
A kinky sorority who turned a private home in the El Cerrito Hills into our very own playhouse. We’ve been having fun here since 1990.
Fem 2 Fem, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Goal: To provide an environment in which women feel safe to explore the world of Female Dominance. Roundtable discussions and demo’s as well as our basic skill intensive courses and our targeted skills classes. All events will be taking place at Sanctuary LAX
Femdom-LiPs, see “*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs
FemDoms First Friday, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Primarily designed for Female Dominants, Switches, and submissives that wish to meet, play and serve them in real time. Orange County.
The Feminine Denominator – Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For female (or identifying as/living life as female) submissives, bottoms, babygirls, pets, slaves, and switches (wearing their bottom hats) in the Sacramento area. Goal: To come together to learn from and with each other and to grow as people and kinksters.
Fete-a-Fet, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Social group for friends who come together in real life; experienced Dominants and s-types in NorCal Area who enjoy each other’s company, fetishes, as well as outings to enjoy the many delicious tastes, fine pours, wonderful music, and visual pleasures that the area has to offer
FetishMenSanDiego, verified 2013-Sep-29
FetishMenSanDiego, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Non-commercial, new-style affinity-group with no dues, by-laws, elections or obligations. Organizing and promoting an ongoing series of events that bring us together as brothers in the San Diego gay fetishmen community.
Fetlife Party Animals Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For kinky ravers, club goers, and party animals. Post Bay Area parties and events HERE !
FetNights Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Southern California to advertise/announce group events, or hook up with other Kinksters
Fet Women of the OC, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
All Fetishes welcome, all women welcome.
Fitness and Nutrition S.F., East Bay, North Bay, South Bay, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Fitness AND Nutrition Enthusiasts and those interested in fitness and nutrition living in the bay area.
Folsom Fringe Weekend, verified 2013-Oct-27
FolsomFringe Weekend… smOdyssey, Inc. signature event, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Held every year on the same weekend as the world-famous Folsom Street Fair. Wonderful complement to other Folsom Street Fair activities for leather folks of all persuasions.
Folsom Lake College Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Join if you’re a Kinky College student or a Friend of one!! We’re very friendly and open and welcome everyone!
Folsom Street Fair newbies!, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Advice and tips for newbies going to Folsom Street Fair
For The Love Of Daddy – So. CA Daddies / Littles, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Network and connect with other Daddies and littles of any persuasion/gender in the Southern California area.
FreeKink Santa Barbara, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Where members that live in Santa Barbara/Goleta/Carpinteria can share unwanted items with fellow kinksters.
Fremont/East Bay Trinity Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Open forum munch held monthly in Fremont. Everyone welcome to attend, from novice to the highly experienced. Come, join us, and meet other like minded people right here in the east bay.
Fresno & Surrounding Area Bi Couples, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Bi couples looking for M or F playmates in Fresno or the central valley
Fresno Bi-Friendly, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For and ABOUT Bisexual, Pansexual (and friendly) people in the Fresno, Kings and Tulare County areas.
Fresno CA Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Fresno CA Polyamory, Yahoo, verified 2013-Oct-07
For polyamorous and polycurious in our area. Discuss ethics, ask questions, swap stories of triumph or failure, seek council, and find camaraderie with those of like mind. Not a dating, swingers or hookups group.
Fresno, California Fetlifers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all of us who live in or frequent this area to chat.
Fresno Dominant Discusion Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
To create a space where we as Dominants can speak freely without our sub/slaves near by. Where we can learn from each other what works and what doesn’t and how we can be better caretakers of the subs in our charge.
Fresno Dom/subs currently seeking, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Hub for Those seeking a Dominant or submissive in the Fresno or Clovis area. (all experience levels welcome)
Fresno Fetish Photography, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Dedicated to taking amazing photos of people involved in fetish. To educate and to show off the beauty of this lifestyle.
Fresno kink meet, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For the kinksters out there looking to meet for a casual encounter but are too shy.
Fresno Newbies and Novices, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Purpose: Educating people who are new to the lifestyle in the Fresno area. Open to all ages and genders. Don’t have to be NEW or a NOVICE to join! Host of weekly get together: “What The Fuck Wednesday” or WTFW.
Fresno – Over 30, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Fresno Poly and Kinky, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
People in the Fresno and surrounding areas, who are looking for meeting and talking with others in the area. If you want to make new friends, find old friends, find people to play with or starting or adding to your dynamic. Join in here!
Fresno Puma’s, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For those of us in our 3o’s that can’t get enough of younger playmates and those younger playmates that can’t get enough of us.
Fresno Sexually Kinky, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Restricted to: Sexually kinky people or those of us who like sex with our kink!
Fresno- Submissive Safe Space, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Dedicated to fostering supportive communication and relationships among fellow submissive/bottom/slaves in Fresno CA and surrounding areas (Modesto to Bakersfield). Safe place for submissives of any type to ask questions, seek and offer advice, discuss ideas, and just plain have fun.
Fresno Swingers, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For those in the lifestyle to connect with others.
Fresno Therians/Furries/Pets and the people who <3 Us!, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Chat, vent, and ask questions! If your well established in your identity, or if your new to the concept(s) you are Welcome here
Fresno TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Majority of us are in our 20s to early 30s. At this time, we are not a “play” group. Focuses on the lifestyle and how it affects us in our age group.
Fresno Under 25, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
People in or around Fresno who are 18 to 25 (bit older is fine if you look and act and feel 25 or under and are comfortable being in under 21 clubs or restuarants. Male or Female is ok
Fresno Visalia Bakersfield Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For people seeking others in the Fresno Visalia Tulare Bakersfield and surrounding areas. Open to anyone to join no matter where you live or what you are seeking.
Friends in Vallejo, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For people in vallejo and surrounding areas like Benicia, American Canyon, and even Napa, to get to know each other and maybe hang out in a group. Maybe start a book club or a game night.
Full moon SF beach meetup, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Beach meetup, fetish, on full moon nights in the SF area.
Fullertonians, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
A place to meet others in the Fullerton area.
The Gauntlet ,Santa fe Springs, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
The Gauntlet ,Santa fe Springs, Yahoo, verified 2013-Oct-27
New space, covering and supporting the following the Long beach, Lakewood, downey, norwalk, Cypress, and surrounding areas.
Gay San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
San Diego area guys into BDSM kink of any kind: CBT, Bondage of all kinds, Ass play, flogging, leather, outdoors sex, team sex, porn, contest sex, edging, cum control, electric, military, pow, rubber, what have I forgotten? Restricted to: Male only
Gay Watersports in California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Where like minded gay men can meet to exchange information and experience about watersports with an emphasis on sharing locations, times and places where piss parties take place in CA.
Genesis TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Serving LA, Hollywood, Glendale, Burbank, Pasadena, Culver City, W. Hollywood, N. Hollywood & Valley areas. For younger participants (18-38) of the Lifestyle. Pansexual social, education group. All experience levels, sexual orientations and interests welcome.
Girls Night Out!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Female-rich, high-energy play party where women could truly let their hair down and be their primal selves. formal or casual, prim or pig, leather or fetish, butch or femme, gay, bi, or straight, just pure, raw female energy.
Girls of Leather (Inland Empire), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-03
Education, Charity, Service. Creating a safe space for girls in our leather community to find allies and peers. For all self Identified girls and women of all orientations within the kink/fetish/leather communities of the Inland Empire.
Glendale/Burbank/Pasadena Locals, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For all those living in or near the viSINity of Glendale, Burbank, Pasadena, etc.
Glendale, Ca Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Average, ordinary, everyday people who are not afraid to express the fetish sides of their private lives with other like-minded individuals.
Godless Perverts, verified 2013-Dec-07
San Francisco. Monthly. Evening of conversation and socializing. All orientations, genders, and kinks (or lack thereof) are welcome.
Good Vibes in the Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Open to everyone regardless of gender. cis-gender and trans-gender alike. All functions will be open to people regardless of how you identify. We would like to host a variety of functions, from vanilla family oriented to RACK scenes and demos.
The Greater Los Angeles & Southern California Fetish Photographers and Models Exchange, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post casting calls for models or photographers, as well as education forms, practice shoots, and related events in Greater LA area. Primary emphasis: To interact with others within driving distance of each other, and to contribute to joint ventures such as teaching classes and practice shoots.
Grizzly’s “Not Necessarily Single” events, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Variety of social opportunities intended for anyone of any relationship status in the various local sex positive communities. (That means, yes, you ARE indeed welcome, regardless of manner of self-identification.)
GROK: Glendora Regional Order of Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
Welcomes all kinksters interested in creating kinky connections in the Glendora area. Intent: To encourage friendships and new connections by hosting regular munches or other activities.
The Group in Fresno, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Committee led organization. Holds educational and social events every month. Pride ourselves in our friendliness. Over 400 card carrying members. Special events, field trips, classes, workshops, demos and social events.
Hanford Area Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
All about having fun. Get together with other kinksters for munches and other activities such as movies or a night out on the town at a club.
Hanford Kinksters Unite, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For all the kinksters in Hanford or the Kings County and Fresno area that like to chat and get to know those that are around you.
Harbin & Lake County, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For those who work, live and/or play in Lake County.
The Hard Edge, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
San Diego. Weekend event for advanced players of all orientations. Workshops presented will be on subjects that are not SM 101 topics. Opportunity for those that want to explore the edge of play and beyond. Features nationally known presenters and assistants from all over the US.
Heavy Hitters Society, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Monthly get togethers in CA’s Central Valley where you can practice your flogging, whipping, paddling, caning, and all manners of impact play, no matter your experience level. One on one training! New techniques! Try new toys! Awesome presenters! Discussions, resources, and information.
HellfireFetishClub, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Chico. BDsM fetish group, welcomes ALL types and prides itself on reliability, safety, fun, and passion. Prides itself on safety first, teamwork, fun, and honesty. No one is excluded
Hellfire Riders Chico – CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Focus: To gather kinky motorcycle enthusiasts for events and monthly rides throughout the year. Dedicated to combining the passion for all things kinky with the unyielding love of motorcycles and taking it to the open road!
Hemet Area Munch a.k.a. HAM, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Reaching the southern Inland Empire communities. Gather together monthly in the Hemet area to socialize and enjoy each others company.
Heresy, verified 2013-Oct-17
█ H E R E S Y █ Bakersfield’s Fetish • Dark Alternative Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Bakersfield’s most unique night club event, where the children of the Underworld, Social Misfits and Fetish Enthusiasts meet once a month to celebrate the darker and more sensual side of life.
High Desert, CA Geeks Unite!, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Computers, Comics, Anime, if it’s Geeky or Nerdy and you are into it this is the place for you.
High Desert Domination Circle, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
Southern CA. A Circle of friends who have a shared interest in protocol and learning more about the B&D lifestyle, through discussion and experience in a warm, inclusive and fun atmosphere. We are a friendly group and want everyone to feel at home and welcome.
High Desert Hangout, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For “local” kinksters to get together at a monthly munch, play party, or other group sponsored events in a safe and comfortable atmosphere. No matter what your experience level is, all are welcome!
High Desert/Inland Empire ~ Bigs & littles R Us, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Fun and safe place that we can get to know locals (Adelanto, Apple Valley, Barstow, Hesperia, Phelan, Pinon Hills, Victorville, Wrightwood and the Inland Empire. For Daddys, Mommys, Uncles, Aunties, Handlers, littles, middles, brats, babygirls, babyboys & Age players.
High Desert Paleo, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-14
Kinksters interested in the paleo diet, paleo lifestyle, CrossFit, functional training, strength & conditioning, etc. that reside in Apple Valley, Victorville, Hesperia, Oak Hills, Lucerne Valley, Adelanto, Phelan, Wrightwood, Barstow, High Desert.
High Desert Single Swingers, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
Single’s parties in the High Desert. For the Single Men and Women that like to get together for consenting adult fun! We hold weekly Gang Bang Parties for singles in the High Desert and Inland Empire areas.
★ Hitchin’ Bitches: Southern California Division ☆, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-07
For female rope riggers/rope tops/dominants in Southern CA (Los Angeles, San Diego and Orange County). Meets once a month to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the Peer to Peer and unconference learning and sharing concepts.
Hollywood California Locals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Forum of local events, and as a chance for us locals to get to know our fellow kinky neighbors.
Hollywood Singles Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-16
For single people in the Los Angeles area who are serious about meeting people in real time and not just on the computer. Hosts monthly munch, monthly Play Party, to chat it up, laugh and enjoy some good food and have some fun.
Hollywood Spanking Munch and Party Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For people living in the Hollywood, Burbank and Glendale area. We have a Monthly Play Party & a Monthly Munch. Monthly Play Party & a Monthly Munch. Open communication, participation & fun is highly encouraged.
Hookups close to San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Want to meet someone within a 2 hour drive of San Francisco? Try it here. Anything from one time to permanent – just be honest and forthright in your description. Long term to short term, poly or monogamous. Just describe your interest.
Hot Southern Nights, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For information and comments about a series of play parties in the South Bay area
House of Kane (Members Only), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Private D/s Social Club located is Canoga Park. Sexy singles and kinky couples who are at least 18 years of age are welcome to join. Exclusively for D/s minded people who understand and accept that they are the main attraction at social events, and that understanding is reflected in their attitude, appearance, and attire
The House of Spank-O’s. Socal connection, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
The House of Spank-O’s. Socal connection, Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
For spanking lovers of all kinds to keep in touch with southern CA spank-O’s and keep the members informed of when we will meet for munches and parties.
Human Fox Hunt – Northern California, verified 2013-Sep-29
Human Fox Hunt – Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
An unforgettable experience that combines animal roleplay, chase and capture scenarios, play parties, and high-fetish for a weekend of fun, frolic and fantasy. ALL animal role players are welcomed: puppies, ponies, foxes, furries, shinies, and mythical beasts!
Humboldt CA Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post your inquiries for people in Humboldt County
Humboldt Furries, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For furries, people who love furries, and people who are curious about furries in Humboldt County
Humboldt Queer BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Purpose: to help create a Queer BDSM community, and sober Queer dungeon scene in Humboldt county, and is an adjunct to the Queer Munch. Also a support group, a way for us to see we are not alone in the challenges we face.
The Hump, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For thirty year olds to have the support they need to deal with this time in their lives. Will hold events such as formal dinners (not necessarily suit and tie) and get togethers, play parties, various outings.
HumSubs, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Sub support group and discussion group, for people identifying in a bottom role (sub/slave/pet/girl/boy/etc) who live in Humboldt County.
Hypnosis in LA, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-18
For the discussion of erotic hypnosis and its uses and dynamics.
Hypnosis in Orange County CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For hypnotists local to Orange County and the rest of Southern CA. Subjects and ’tists are welcome to join, arrange meet ups, etc.
I am into everything to do with Black and willing to prove it, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Back men who live in Southern CA and all of the woman who would like to chat with and or meet one
Independent Davis Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Friendly individuals sharing the common interest of kink.
Inland Empire BBC Bukakke partiess, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people living in the Inland Empire who want to meet up for a little fun.
Inland Empire BDSM, San Bernardino and Riverside Counties CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Meeting place for all involved in the BDSM Community to socialize, become friends, party and play.
Inland Empire California Steampunk, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Welcomes Steampunkers of all kinds, be you Furry, Future, Fetishist, Fashonista or just a Fan.
Inland Empire Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anyone in the Inland Empire can place their Personal Ads here (searching, seeking, looking for, etc) in the discussion area. All are welcome here. Regardless of your orientation or relationship status, and what your looking for
Inland Empire Rope Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
To offer a space for our members to come together and share ideas, and to learn from each other in a friendly, casual environment. Fosters positive and respectful growth. Provides a space for serious students of all genres of rope bondage
Inland Empire sisters in submission, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Support/social/luncheon group for women (gender identity, does not have to be cis-women) who identify as submissive/slaves to come and talk, get support, learn from others, and have fellowship. Caters to female slave/subs ONLY and their concerns in IE (San Bernardino, Riverside Counties).
Items for Sale in the Bay Area & Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Geographic specific place for people that want to sell or barter their items in the Bay Area and Northern CA. If you live out of the area but the person can still order the item from you, please advertise your item here.
IV munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For the people like me that live in Isla Vista or Goleta and would love to have an active role in the local kink community
Jewish Kinksters in Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Whether your gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian or transgendered… whether your male or female, domme or sub, when you meet the person of your dreams, surely the first thing your family will say is: “But are they Jewish?” Here at least we can say “Yes!”
Keep Pirate’s Cove Weird, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For everyone who loves Pirate’s Cove, a beautiful nude beach on California’s gorgeous Central Coast. We want to keep Pirate’s Cove naked, weird and fun!
KFC – Kinky Fresno Chicks, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Gathering spot for the chicks who go to Kinky Chicks.
KinkCares-Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For charitable organizations to announce their events, requests for donations, and calls for volunteers. Lifestyles and Community causes especially welcome.
Kink Day Outings – Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For those who wish to join myself and other kinksters in Los Angeles area for outings to different places such as the zoo, camping, hiking, theme parks, fairs, etc. Primarily for events that don’t necessarily revolve around BDSM activities.
Kink in Humboldt County California, see Eureka Munch
Kink In The 805, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For announcements of any event gathering within the 805 or any major event such as a conference anywhere on the West Coast is appropriate for this group. We want to see kinksters get connected to the community, and take advantage of all the resources we have available to us these day.
Kink Ink, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Sacramento-based group for writers of BDSM/fetish-themed stories and erotics.
Kinksters, Incaffeineated, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Sacramento. Casual group of kinky folks that meets monthly for libations and licentious conversation..
Kinksters of SoCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those in Southern CA to gather for discussions, networking, and promoting a productive, positive, and pleasurable experience on and off-line. Feel free to discuss and/or promote yourself, your events, your lifestyle, and anything else that you’d like to share with those in your local community.
Kinksters of the San Bernardino Mountains, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For any like minded individuals who live, work, and/or play up here in the S.B. Mountains from Crestline, Lake Arrowhead, Running Springs, Big Bear, and any communities in between.
Kinky at Cal (and Mills), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
A place to connect with other kinky members of the UC Berkeley and Mills campus communities
Kinky Cali Stoners, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Marijuana related topics. No personals.
Kinky Card Players of Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For individuals in the kink community who enjoy playing cards. Poker, Spades, you name it. We will be organizing game nights throughout Los Angeles. Fun, friendly game nights with an edge. All levels welcome. Spectators are also welcome to join us.
Kinky Connoisseurs of LA, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Foodies meet Kinksters! (Epipervians?) Every other month, we’ll meet for fine dining at one of the many wonderful restaurants in Los Angeles area. A chance to enjoy good food & wine with friends (old & new) and to share our interest in finer sensualities and appreciation on many levels.
Kinky Connoisseurs of Orange County, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Every other month, we’ll meet for fine dining at one of the many wonderful restaurants in Orange County area. A chance to enjoy good food & wine with friends (old & new) and to share our interest in finer sensualities and appreciation on many levels.
Kinky Connoisseurs of San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Whether you’re a connoisseur of gourmet food, fine wines, artisanal brews, or first-class cigars, this is a forum for delectable discourse on and about all of your favorite tasty topics.
Kinky Karaoke (San Francisco), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For those interested in meeting, singing, drinking, beating… Thls is a great city for karaoke, and what could make karaoke more fun than a hint of fetish, some light bondage perhaps, power struggles that ensue in forced acts of entertainment…
Kinky Karaoke – SoCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Karaoke meetups in Southern California: San Diego, Los Angeles, Orange County, and the Inland Empire. Whether you’re in Newport Beach, Riverside, Chula Vista, Van Nuys, or beyond, connect with other kinky karaoke stars for local get-togethers.
Kinky Professionals of Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Dedicated to providing a venue in which kinky individuals can advertise and promote their non-kinky business services. If you want to market your professional skills to the kink community in Los Angeles this is the place to do it.
Kinky Trojans (USC), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Kinksters from the University of Southern California, or friends and family of Trojan Kinksters. Whether you’re an alumni or a current student
Kinky Wine Soirees, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
KinkyZin Wine events…appeal to those who enjoy being served a lovely glass of vino with a side of kink…all with exotic elegance, stemware & leather! Fetish friendly events brought to your location. Discretion when needed, flamboyance when not. your perfect playground.
Kinky Women Who Like Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For women (cis, trans, genderqueer, etc all welcome). Goal: Create a supportive, friendly space where we can organize social activities & openly express views, questions, & opinions on sexuality, gender issues, etc. & how they relate to BDSM or “What It Is We Do”. Events held in LA area
KiSS Fresno (Kink in Sacred Sexuality), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Share the Spiritual Side of Leather and BDSM, spiritual experiences and questions that may arise as we travel our own spiritual journey. Not defined as a group with any single religious denomination, affiliation or endorsement. This is a spiritual kink group.
KiSS Sacramento (Kink in Sacred Sexuality), FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Dedicated to providing a pansexual, spiritually open environment where people can come together, both online and off, to intelligently discuss techniques, philosophies and personal thoughts on how to enrich our lives through the blending of Leather/BDSM/kink and spiritual practices.
Knot Interested, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
To bring the rope community of Sacramento together to learn from each other and provide resources for one another. Multiple events each month: basic rope bondage classes and workshops and get togethers for the more advanced members of the community
KUFF at UCSB, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
KUFF at UCSB, Google, verified 2013-May-28
Kink University Fetish Fellowship. For all kink minded folk of all experience levels. We discuss current issues in the kink community, talk and learn about safety, technique, experiences, hang out, and of course have fun!
LA Area Formal Dining, FetLife, INACTIVE
LA crossdressers who like women, and women who likes us, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Those of us who are trannies, who like to date women? Who likes genetic girls? And where do those genetic girls go who want to try meeting trannies, but assume that they aren’t welcome? Based in Los AngelesDomme/sub events.
L.A. Fetish Models, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For fetish models who live and work in L.A., or who travel to Los Angeles.
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), verified 2013-Dec-02
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-02
LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather), FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-02
Self-identified Leather girls. Membership is not limited by race, creed, orientation or gender; however, an identification of Leathergirl is essential.
LA/OC Trans, Butches, and Bois, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Where SoCal Boi’s, Butches, and Transfolks can meet and talk and hook up.
LA Poly, FetLife, verified 204-Mar-26
For openmimeded polyamorists in Los Angeles, Orange County, San Bernadino County, San Diego County, Riverside County, Ventura County in Southern CA. Singles, couples, and multiples of all genders and preferences welcome.
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), verified 2013-May-28
LA Pony & Critter Club (LAPCC), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Mission: to promote and maintain pony and critter play in Los Angeles that is recognized positively within pony play, critter play and BDSM communities worldwide. Goal: To provide a safe environment for pony and critter play enthusiasts to meet and play in Los Angeles and to have fun.
LA-RAWW, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Radical and Wicked Women (RAWW, formally LA-RAWW), verified 2013-Sep-29
Radical and Wicked Women. Southern California-based. Goal: To foster a welcoming organization that provides a safe, discreet and supportive environment for women to explore and share interest in kink, bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadomasochism and leather or any combination.
LA Rope Dojo/span>, verified 2015-Mar-04
Mission: To educate western audiences about the history, practice, and art of Japanese rope bondage.
LA Rope Group, verified 2013-Sep-29
LA Rope Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pansexual meeting of people who play with rope bondage. Join us to make friends, share knowledge, learn from others, and practice bondage in a safe and welcoming environment.
LA Social, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
A place for everyone to gather and see old friends, make new ones and just get out and enjoy!!!! It’s also a safe place for people to meet others in the community!
Ladies In Charge of Kink (LICK), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Femme Domme group based in Orange County. Any and all females including Cis, Transgendered, Lesbian, etc. welcome whether Domme or sub, top or bottom. Males are submissive or bottoms only. No male Dom’s please. Restricted to: Open to all women, submissive men or switch men in sub mode only.
Ladies of Orange County (L.O.C.), FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
For private home gatherings for Ladies and our submissive male husbands/mates.
LADs – Los Angeles Dommes and subs, verified 2013-May-28
LADs – Los Angeles Dommes and subs, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
LADs (Los Angeles Dommes & subs), Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28
Safe and open place for adult lifestyle (real life) Female Dominants and the submissives (male and female) who adore them to meet, network and plan
Ladies in Power over subs, see “*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs
Lair De Sade, verified 2013-Oct-07
Lair de Sade, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
The “Lair DeSade”, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
North Hollywood. Private membership organization established for the pleasure and recreation of Erotic Power Exchange enthusiasts and D/s lifestylers. Providing a safe outlet for freedom of association/expression is our first priority.
Lake Forest Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Local south Orange County group. Goal: Meeting new people and providing a warm, friendly and inviting atmosphere for people in the kinkster community.
Leather Alliance, verified 2013-May-28
Leather Alliance, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Committed to creating a welcome and supportive environment for members of the SF Bay Area leather, fetish, kink and motorcycling communities. We seek to facilitate community members in safely learning, growing, connecting, honoring and enjoying each other.
Leather In Common, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Sacramento based, women-only, membership-based collaborative dedicated to supporting cissexual and transgendered women in the BDSM lifestyle, as we connect and commune through both kinky and vanilla related activities.
Leather Shabbat, Yahoo, verified 2013-May-28, INACTIVE
A group of kinky Jews in and around San Francisco who periodically gather together to celebrate the Sabbath with blessings and a communal meal.
The Leather Spirit, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
No longer meeting
The Leather Spirit-Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Social and educational group for Bay Area leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality. Questions or comments about The Leather Spirit-Bay Area and/or the integration of radical spirituality and radical sexuality are welcomed.
Leathermen’s Discussion Groupsee , San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group
Legion of Sin MC, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
Kinky collection of motorcycle enthusiasts from the San Francisco Bay Area looking to ride & socialize. We welcome all kinksters regardless of age, sex, orientation, race, status, or level of kinkiness. The only requirement is that you are kinky and ride.
LGBPQ California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Pansexuals, Queers and Asexuals, and our Heterosexual friends, family, supporters, and admirers, to come together and form a community in CA, to provide support, to organize the community to action in the furtherance of civil rights for the BDSM and-or LGBPQ community.
LICK, see Ladies In Charge of Kink (LICK)
LifeIcing, verified 2013-May-28
Started as a place for sensually adventurous LIfestyle couples and sexy singles to meet others with similar interests. Our vision of The Lifestyle is entirely about sensual freedom and respect for individual play preferences. Events are no pressure or obligation and always held at a neutral location.
Lifestyle FrienDs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Lifestyle FrienDs, Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
Real-time group of like-minded individuals, 18+, living in and around Antelope Valley (Acton, Palmdale, Lancaster, Rosamond, and Mojave). Meet on a regular basis, for socializing, sharing information and having fun with others interested in and living the D/s lifestyle. Novice to experienced, all aspects of the lifestyle.
“*LiP/s*” Munch & Events Only Group – Ladies in Power over subs, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-17
Femdom-LiPs, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-17
Ladies in Power over subs. San Francisco, Bay Area, Northern California based group of Female Dominants and subs of all genders who adore Dominant Women.
The littles in Fresno, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For little’s, mommies and daddies, and their admirers. No personal ads please. A non-threatening, non-sexual, safe place for little’s to help to get to know others in their area and also set up play dates, munches and events as well.
LittleSpace Sacramento, verified 2014-May-11
LittleSpace Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Facilitating playdates, parties, and discussions for littles & Bigs, Daddies & babygirls, and AB/DLs in our area. For anyone interested in ageplay or non-ageplay D/g-type relationships.
LLW: Leather Levi Weekend, verified 2013-Sep-29
LLW: Leather Levi Weekend, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Annual four-day queer Twisted Summer Camp, plus associated events in the city. Objective/purpose: To actively promote and encourage the education, training, socialization and integration of members and newcomers to the leather, S&M, kink and fetish communities.
Locked: SFC, FetLife, verified 2013-May-28
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Lompoc Social, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-06
For people from the Lompoc Valley, Santa Ynez Valley, Santa Maria Valley, and surrounding areas in northern Santa Barbara Co., including Buellton, Los Olivos, Los Alamos, Orcutt, Santa Maria, Santa Ynez, Guadalupe, Vandenberg Village, Ballard, Garey, Sisquoc, Casmalia, Solvang.
Long Beach Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For the Weekly Munch held in Long Beach
Long Beach Weekly Munch Updates and Postings, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-23
For the Weekly Munch held in Long Beach
The Looking Glass, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Located in the East Bay part of the San Francisco Bay Area, an elegant, private play space for those that seek to explore their kinky sides in a safe and beautiful environment. Committed to serving the BDSM community by hosting monthly play parties and workshops in the space.
Los Angeles & SoCal Artists, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For SoCal based artist of all types who are also kinksters to share and exchange ideas, theory, promote interesting work and just find like minded generative artists to connect with.
Los Angeles AB, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Southern California’s ABDLs – Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers.
Los Angeles – Always open, Always kinky, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For those either in the Los Angeles area or those that enjoy the Los Angeles way of life. Be open, be honest, and unlike many of the tits, be real. Local group about LA lifestyles and yes, some postings for local area gatherings as well.
Los Angeles, Anonymous Outdoor Sex, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
1) You’vve always loved the idea of having sex outdoors; 2) You’ve often fantasized about that attractive stranger you pass and say to yourself, “how awesome would it be if we just looked at each other and understood each other’s thoughts, and just jumped into the bushes and had Wild Monkey Sex!”
Los Angeles BDSM Intellectuals, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Exciting new group for impassioned individuals in the BDSM community that thrive on intellectually stimulating conversation that is BDSM driven and thought provoking, not ego masquerading as intellect. A safe haven for analytical thinkers to exchange ideas on BDSM from an analytical perspective.
Los Angeles Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Los Angeles Boys of Leather, verified 2013-Jun-02, INACTIVE?
Exists as a forum through which self-identified leatherboys may educate and learn, (about the brotherhood of boys and the leather community at large), provide fellowship and encouragement, socialize, have fun, and support each other and their community.
Los Angeles Brothers in Dominance, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Los Angeles Brothers in Dominance, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-02
Male-oriented discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Male Doms in the greater Los Angeles area. Monthly meeting wherein Male Doms can discuss any range of topics. The topics should be, but are not limited to, Lifestyle related issues.
Los Angeles brothers in submission, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Male-oriented discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to male submissive/slaves in the greater LA area.
Los Angeles Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Where people living in and around Los Angeles can post and answer classified adds. It can be to meet people, sell legal goods, post parties and gatherings and much more.
Los Angeles Deaf/HoH Kink Community, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For kinksters, fetishists and leather-people who are also D/deaf, hard-of-hearing, interpreters and signers (of any level) that want to get out and meet others, attend educational classes, meeting & events in the local LA Community.
Los Angeles Dog Slave Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Masters Dominants and persons who enjoy being a dog slave human pet. Collar and leash BDSM fetish costumes. Open to straight gay bisexual pansexual men women couples groups. All postings and personals and advertisements welcome.
Los Angeles Educational Events., FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Please share all your Academy’s, Universities, Insights.
Los Angeles f slave/subs ISO Doms, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For Los Angeles (Can be SoCal) submissives and slave looking for a local dominant for Real Life only play, a Long Term Relationship or a mentor/teacher etc.
Los Angeles Female Dominants LA_FeDs, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Female-oriented discussion/support group. Caters to the issues of concern and interest to Female Dominants in the greater LA area. Female switches can attend while in Dominant Mode. Monthly meeting. Topics should be, but are not limited to, Lifestyle related issues.
Los Angeles Fetish Fight Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For those of you who have realized how sexy fighting can be. Boxing, kickboxing, muay thai, wrestling, MMA, martial arts. Goal: To establish an event where it is possible to act out fight scenes
Los Angeles girls of Leather, see LAgoL (Los Angeles girls of Leather)
The LosAngeles GrUE, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
GrayDancer’s Ropetastic UnConference Extravaganza in Los Angeles
Los Angeles, I’m Yours, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Social group primarily dedicated to kinksters who reside within the confines of Los Angeles County.
Los Angeles Leather Coalition (LALC), verified 2013-Jun-02
Non-profit 501(c)4 organization which facilitates communications and mutual understanding among different segments of the leather-affiliated community, as well as promotes unity through cooperative endeavors that offer entertainment, education, social interaction, and community service.
Los Angeles littles, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For little’s and their mommies & daddies who are looking to connect and hopefully set play dates in the local LA Area.
Los Angeles M4M Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For guys looking to meet other guys for fun, brotherhood and friendship in and around LA. For hot XXX fun or just regular activities, explore M4M fetishes, setup parties and gatherings, seek info and more. All guys – str8, bi, gay, trans, curious, unsure, confused or just plain horny are welcome.
Los Angeles meet and greet, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Where L.A. locals can fraternise and plan local get togethers and parties.
Los Angeles Models and Photographers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
To give the models and Photographer of Los angeles a way to keep in touch , cast, and network.
Los Angeles Parties, Munches & Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Where people can post local events in the LA Area.
Los Angeles Rope & Riggers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
LA rope Enthusiast!
Los Angeles Sensual Leather Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Serene Sin events: Sensual (vanilla friendly) and Leather (community interest) events and education in the Southern CA area. Dance – Theatre – Mixer – Spa Days – Tea Salons – Private Dungeon Parties & Tours – Workshops – Networking and what’s missing? Oh yeah more sex!
Los Angeles sisters in service, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Los Angeles sisters in service, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-02
Female oriented support/social/luncheon group catering to slave/subs and their concerns in the greater Los Angeles area.
Los Angeles Spankos, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For Spanking purists in Los Angeles, who want to meet up for munches etc.
Los Angeles subs and Switches (LA-sas), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Female/male discussion/support group catering to issues of concern and interest to female and male submissive/switches in greater Los Angeles area.
Los Angeles Women Who Like to Facesit, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For women in the Los Angeles area who are seeking submissive men to use for facesitting – or other pleasures.
Luscious at SF Citadel, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
A celebration of curves. Inclusive BDSM party where we welcome people of all shapes and sizes, genders and orientations.
M3 – “Magic Mountain Munch”, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-17
Open public munch for Santa Clarita Valley and the surrounding areas.
Mahogany Munch – Oakland, Ca., FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Monthly munch group with focus on kinky People of color (Everyone that is not white), and the people that love them. Pansexual, open to everyone.
Male Chastity Support Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For male chastity slaves that need keyholders, and have questions and/or want to share experiences of being in Chastity. Will MEET twice a month at Sanctuary LAX
Marin County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Restricted to: Marin County folks (Novato, San Rafael, San Anselmo, Sausalito, Mill Valley, Belvedere-Tiburon, West Marin), and those who live, work, or visit there or nearby.
Marin And Sonoma Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For kinksters in Marin and Sonoma Counties, in the North San Francisco Bay Area.
Massage and Energywork Exchange Bay Area (Minus St8 Men), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
People interested in actually being friends and sharing an interest in giving and receiving massage. SF Bay Area. Queer or queer friendly.
MAsT: Alameda, verified 2013-Oct-17
MAsT: Alameda, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
MAsT: Alameda, Yahoo, verified 2013-Oct-17
Real time discussion and support group for queer folks striving to live a Master/slave lifestyle. Serves the East Bay of the San Francisco Bay Area.
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): Fresno, verified 2013-Jun-02, INACTIVE
MAsT: Fresno MDHL-fs, verified 2014-Mar-28
MAsT: Fresno MDHL-fs, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Support, education and discussion group for those interested in or as already active participants of the MDHL-fs (Male Dominant Heterosexual Leather female submissive) dynamic. Resource for those interested in the Master/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange dynamic.
MAsT: Greater Los Angeles, verified 2013-Jun-02
MAsT – GLA (Greater Los Angeles), FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
An education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. As a pansexual chapter we welcome all genders and orientations to our discussions.
MAsT: GSFBA (Greater San Francisco Bay Area, Calif, verified 2013-Jun-02
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
MAsT-Huntington Beach, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave-Dominant/submissive Lifestyle. Opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge.
MAsT Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. Provides opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge.
MAsT- Livermore Valley, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationship. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation welcome.
MAsT: North Hollywood, verified 2013-Jun-02
MAsT: North Hollywood, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationship. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
MAsT: Orange County, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
NO LONGER MEETING? Safe place for all people, experienced or new, to come together to explore, share, and learn about Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationships. All orientations, genders, and identifications welcome.
MAsT: Sacramento, verified 2014-May-11
MAsT: Sacramento, verified 2014-May-11
MAsT: Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Education, support, and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, or other authority exchange lifestyles. Persons of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome. Monthly discussion group.
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): San Diego, verified 2013-Jun-02, INACTIVE?
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For everyone — no matter what your gender identity, preferred play activity, role, or stage of personal growth. We work together to unite, recover, and transform. We intend to have fun doing it.
MAsT: San Francisco, verified 2013-Jun-02
Support group for those interested in the Master/slave relationship. It serves mostly the gay and lesbian community, but members of all orientations are welcome.
MAsT San Francisco, see San Francisco Open MAsT Meeting
MAsT Santa Clara County, verified 2013-Jun-02
MAsT Santa Clara County, verified 2013-Jun-02
MAsT Santa Clara County, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For anyone interested in Master/slave dynamics, MAsT International members, and those specifically interested in our local MAsT activities. NOT restricted to only those *in* an M/s relationship; open to anyone interested in this type of life & those who have questions.
MAsT: Santa Rosa
MAsT: Santa Rosa, verified 2013-Jun-02
MAsT: Santa Rosa, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Exists as an education, support and resource group for individuals, of any gender or sexual orientation, involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.
Master/slave Retreat, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For folks who have attended the Master/slave Retreat in Northern CA and for those who are interested in attending the Master/slave Retreat next year.
Masturbation Parties – Vallejo, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Where people who love to masturbate can get together. Organizing your own party? Feel free to post information about your parties. Masturbation-related discussion, pics and videos are also welcome.
Miss Cassie’s Rope Classes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Casual with lots of hands-on tying and minimal lectures for rope bondage lovers and fetishists.
Mission Control SF, verified 2013-Jun-02
Mission Control SF, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Located in the heart of San Francisco, is the city’s socially conscious, artsy, intelligent, open-minded, open-hearted and sex-positive community. Hosts a variety of underground events, parties and workshops in support of the creative and sexual evolution. Member supported and volunteer run organization.
Mission Viejo Kink Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For all the kinky people in Mission viejo and all areas around it.
Modesto lifestylers hangout, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Trying to bring together those of us in the Lifestyle who are in Modesto and the surrounding areas.
The Modesto Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Very social group and a great place to learn about kink and connect with like minded members of the community.
Modesto Munch Ladies’ Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-31
Subgroup (made up of not only subs) of the Modesto Munch group.
Modesto Munches, Events and Socials, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Non affiliated bulletin board to post your local Modesto area event. All events welcome from Sacramento to Fresno.
Modesto Munchies, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Updates about scheduling will be posted here.
Monday Munch Madness, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Gathers monthly in greater Inland Empire to socialize and enjoy each others company. Also plans other activities as time permits
Monterey Bay Ageplay, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-14
All ages group for people interested in Ageplay in the Monterey Bay Area. Welcomes ageplayers of all kinds, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or whether or not they’re a sexual ageplayer.
Monterey Bay CA Area Master/slave D/s, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people in the Monterey CA to seek out Masters Doms slaves subs and just fun kinky fetish playmates.
Monterey Bay Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Group distinctions: Inclusiveness and shared ownership by all. No one person or people are appointed leaders. Find events near you here or create your own event and advertise it. Monterey Bay Peninsula Pacific Grove PG Carmel Seaside Salinas Watsonville Gilroy Capitola Santa Cruz
Monterey Bay Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-14
Local Monterey Bay and Santa Cruz munch group. In existence for many years. Offers classes, workshops, discussion groups, movie nights, etc. Majority of members are Mature, Responsible folks who exhibit good manners, common sense, have a strong grip on reality, and respectful of others.
Monterey Peninsula TNG, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-14
Ages 18-39. Not just a munch, but also discussion forum for the area youth to set up social events and assist each other
Ms San Francisco Leather, verified 2013-Oct-07
Ms San Francisco Leather, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Mission: To create and maintain an annual contest/event that celebrates our diverse and dynamic Greater San Francisco Bay Area leather/kink/fetish community, and raises money to support the work of relatively small non-profit organizations. Exemplifies honor, service and community commitment.
Munch California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Devoted to all the munches of any area.
MY (Marysville; Yuba city) munch, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
MY (Marysville-Yuba city) munch, Yahoo, verified 2014-May-11
For local Marysville, Yuba City area people who want to get together for munchs and get to know people in the area.
Naked Girls Reading, verified 2013-Oct-07
Naked Girls Reading – San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
An international phenomena founded and proliferated by the Burlesque Superstar, Michelle L’Amour (Chicago).
Naked Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Kinky people who like to hang out naked in the Santa Cruz area.
Napa County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For kinksters in Napa County. Hopefully, this will be a step towards building some community among the kinksters in the Napa Valley.
Napa County Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-06
For kinksters in and around Napa County, including, American Canyon, Calistoga, Napa, Saint Helena, Yountville, and throughout the North Bay, including Fairfield, Sonoma, Vacaville and Vallejo
N. California Rideshare, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
we thought this might work well in the Kink/BDSM community.
NCBDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Not group or venue specific. Find out what is going on all across northern CA and beyond. National events, regional events.
N.C. San Diego Bareback Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Forum and meeting place for bareback sex aficionados in San Diego, with an emphasis on North County. To be a non-judgmental place to discuss and explore our passion, as well as facilitate meeting up with other like-minded people.
N.E.S., FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For people who consider themselves to be nerdy, eccentric and/or sexy, or all of the above. A social group as well as a play group.
Nevada County Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Creating a safe haven in our area for those of us with non-mainstream interests.
The NEW Pasadena Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-17
All inclusive, pansexual BDSM group. Welcomes all in the lifestyle or curious about the lifestyle to join us for a monthly social gathering. Meet and socialize in a neutral and very safe and supportive setting. Join the laughter and the freedom to express yourself and grow
NNV/NCA-TOG (Northern Nevada & Northern California-The Older Generation), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Purpose: to create an environment in which we can meet, socialize, play, share knowledge and experience, and continue with our lifelong learning. Dedicated to having fun, always. Designed for people age 40 and older. Time in the lifestyle is unimportant as newcomers and the seasoned are respected equally.
NorCA BBW’s, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-30
For all those who admirer BBW and SSBBW’s along with those who are of size, also BHM (Big Handsome Men). Network, socialize and connect with those in Northern CA interested in connecting with like minded folks to create a sense of community
NORCAL Bisexual Swingers Association, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Committed to NSA fun for members of the bisexual community in Northern CA. Do not discriminate based on size, gender, marital status (your karma is your own), sexual preference or gender identity. CrossDressers, TV and TS folks are welcome and encouraged.
Nor Cal Casual Encounters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who are not having their needs met or looking to explore more about their sexual desires within Northern CA. Those looking for occasional or one-time-only hookups should join.
NorCal CBT Fun, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For those who enjoy giving or receiving cbt, and those who are interested in the topic. Share your thoughts, ideas and techniques with each other and have fun.
NorCal Gamers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To discuss our games of choice (video games, board games, paintball, card games, RP games – D&D or Vampire, LARP, SCA, etc) and possibly create groups of kinksters from the area to get together and have Munch/gaming sessions with.
NorCal Rope Bombing, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
Goals: Be a good resource for info on guerrilla rope in general; Specifically address concerns of operating in our region; be a organizational tool for local rope enthusiasts to meet, plan rope adventures together, and share their photos and stories of working with rope in the wild.
NorCal Sex Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Made for horny people in Northern CA area to post sex wanted ads and to meet others to play with.
Norcal Sissy Maids, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
Primary function: To start a network of owned sissy maids (CD or TV) and their Mistress’ and unowned sissy “girls” who want to serve on regular basis at tea parties, house parties and possibly find permanent arrangements through the network.
North Bay BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-02
For people living in the Northern San Francisco Bay Area (Marin, Sonoma, and Napa counties–and those who love us) to network and to talk about whatever…
North Bay Classifieds – Northern CA., FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For posting classified ads in Marin, Sonoma, Napa, Solano and Lake Counties. Post ads for personals, roommates, for sale items (like kinky toys and play equipment), etc.
North Bay Rope Bite, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
For those who LOVE rope, LIKE rope, or are CURIOUS about rope. If you tie, want to learn to tie and rig, enjoy being tied up, or have some other rope based enjoyment
North Bay Women in BDSM weeknight Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Women’s discussion group in the Northbay.
North County San Diego Encinitas Oceanside Carlsbad Vista San Marcos Escondido Rancho Bernardo Rancho Penasquitos Fallbrook Poway Sabre Springs Carmel Mountain Temecula Bonsall Solana Beach, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Bulletin Board for those in the BDSM LifeStyle living in the North San Diego areas. Posted events for North County will appear here regularly. Join as a Friend and be able to interact with other like minded individuals.
North San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
We would love to get to know you! Was “TemeculaHemetEscondidoSanMarcosPerrisOceansideVista (THE SM POV)
Northern ca polyamorous, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For like minded kinksters who enjoy the lifestyle or maybe somewhat curious about it.
Northern CA/SF Bay area Car Pools #carpool #rideshare, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Post your ride requests, offers, road trip, and carpool organization threads here.
Northern Ca. Sissies who crave ownership by Doms, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Sissies who crave to be accepted as submissives or slaves by strict Dominant Males.
Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all Fetlife members from Northern California of all kink and fetish backgrounds and curiousities to congregate and socialize
Northern California & Bay Area Fat Pig Market, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Where the fattest, nastiest, most masochistic pigs in the Northern CA Bay Area, and men who love to own, use and abuse them, can come to meet, hang out and hook up
Northern California BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To list or calendar any events that might interest anyone in the BDSM community wishing for the company of like minds; anywhere north of the Los Angeles area and going up to the Oregon border.
Northern California Classifieds (within 2 hours of SF only), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For classifieds. Please don’t post general events announcements here.
Northern California Contact, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Kinksters in Northern California can keep in Contact with each other.
Northern California Domina/Bull/sissycuck Network, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Restricted to: Dominant Women, cuckolds, sissies, crossdressers, Service Tops, Bulls
Northern California Fisting, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone in Northern CA that love to fist or be fisted.
Northern California Gay & Trans Friendly Gangbangs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone who wants to partake or run a gay or trans-friendly gang bang events in Northern CA.
Northern California Kinky Market & How To, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For area Kinksters to offer up for sale, trade, or free, those special items that the perverts, submissives, Dom(Mes), and others who exist between labels might like to offer. Restricted to: Selling, trade, or buying kinky, fetish or sex toy items and creating personal Dens of Perversion!
Northern California Rubber/Latex Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For “rubberists” — people who adore rubber/latex fetishwear. Discuss your preferences, announce your rubber-related events, share links to special sales on latex fetishwear and offer latex fetishwear care tips to others.
Northern California Singles Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people in northern CA (Sacramento and up) to find each other, or just chat about the single life.
Northern California Snow Sports, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people living in Northern CA and Reno area (Lake Tahoe, Truckee, Reno, Sacremento, San Francisco and every where in between) who enjoy skiing and snowboarding. Post rides, find friends to ride with and maybe play with! Every level of rider from beginners to advanced!
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, Facebook, verified 2013-Sep-29
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Northern California Trans Partners and Family Support Group, Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically centered around the physical support group at the DeFrank LGBT Center in San Jose. Anyone with a trans spouse, partner (kinky OR vanilla), family member, etc who needs a safe community is welcome to join, regardless of geography.
Northern California transgender dating group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To place ads to date other people we are not a discussion group
Northern Nevada and Northern California LTRs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those individuals who are seeking a loving long-term relationship and live in either northern NV or northern CA or travel to the area with real frequency.
Northern Nevada/California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
All welcome here, From just slightly kinky to the folks deeply involved in just about all aspects of the lifestyle. Do not restrict by age or affiliation. To get together and talk, arrange events, and trade ideas.
Northern Nevada Free Lifestyles, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-02
Members only, non-profit, pansexual, adult (aged 18 and over) ONLY, group open to the Northern Nevada and surrounding cities meeting for monthly munches and other events
Northwest Leather Celebration, verified 2013-Oct-07
Northwest Leather Celebration (produced by smOdyssey, Inc.), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
NWLC Attendees, Yahoo, verified 2013-Oct-07
Silicon Valley. Home of annual NW regional Master/slave contest. Relaxing socials, enlightening educational seminars with a focus on building healthy bdsm relationships and communities, an indoor vendor fair and much more! Gathering Place for all the Leather Tribes!
Nox (Gothic Wet Munch), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Mountain View. We want to open our arms and our home to our fellow wicked, black-clad residents and have Nox become a wet munch gathering for not only our gothic regulars but our BDSM locals as well.
Nude hiking southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Safe places to hike nude in southern California.
OC Gun Play, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Kinky gun owners in, or near, Orange County
OC Kinbaku and Shibari, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-07
For those who love the japanese rope bondage in all it’s naughty glory. Looking for events, knowledge, riggers, bottoms and all things associated? Be it the harnesses, or just the restraints, or just plain love the feeling of ropes around us and ours.
Oc Personal Ads, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically for any ads wanting to sell stuff wanting, to get together for a dinner/group/party anything really.
OC Submissive Journey, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Huntington Beach. Pansexual group for submissives, slaves and bottoms in and around Orange County. Comfortable place to share and learn from each other. Monthly meetings where we explore our thoughts and feelings as we journey through the peaks and valleys.
OCKW– OC Kinky Women Who Like Women – Bi/Bi-curious/H-flexible (OC), FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
Based in North Orange County. For people who identify as women, and also identify as bisexual, heteroflexible, homoflexible, bi-curious, pansexual, queer, bi-friendly lesbians & straight women are also welcome. For single women or women in relationships and women in power exchange relationships.
OPEN SF, verified 2013-Sep-29
OPEN SF, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Open Poly or Ethically Non-Monogamous San Francisco Conference. Workshops! Speakers! Parties! Dating! Seminars! Socializing! Meet ‘n Greet
n Munch ‘n Hug! Vendors!
Orange Coast Leather Assembly, verified 2013-Sep-29
Orange Coast Leather Assembly, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Education and outreach organization for the Leather, S/M and Fetish community. Open to adults 18 years of age and older, all genders and sexual orientations, from absolute novice to skilled experts, who socialize and learn from each other.
Orange County BBWs, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Place that all you beautiful BBW’s and men & women that love them.
The Orange County California Kinky klub, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those of you who are not only looking for some chat time but for those looking for a actual group to join up with or maybe you’re looking for a party.
Orange County Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Men and Women in Orange County. Whether it’s NSA, FWB, Ongoing, Relationship or More.
Orange County Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anyone looking to explore their sexual nature, learn or share experience, or just meet up for some fun.
Orange County Models and Producers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For networking between and among producers and models in Orange County.
Orange County Munch, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
For folks of likeminded interest in BDSM to meet & get to know one another in Orange County
Orange County NextGen, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pansexual TNG group in Southern CA. To bring together the seasoned, experienced crowd with the younger, experimental crowd to create an opportunity to learn and grow. Main goal: To educate the inexperienced “newbies”, offering as many opportunities as we can
Orange County non-BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For kinksters in and around Orange County to discuss kinks, fetishes and lifestyles outside the realm of bondage/domination and sadomasochism.
Orange County Pagans, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-25
Safe space for kinksters of alternative beliefs in and around Orange County (Anaheim, Santa Ana, Orange, Irvine, Huntington Beach, Garden Grove, Fullerton, Costa Mesa, Laguna Hills, Aliso Viejo, Mission Viejo, Rancho Santa Margarita, and San Clemente).
Orange County Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Orange County Social, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
Ror like-minded people to gather, see old friends and make new ones. Vanilla venue where people come together to socialize, exchange ideas and have a nice meal.
Orange County Spankos, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Orange County locals who want to make friends with other OC locals who enjoy the pleasures of receiving and/or giving spankings.
Orange County Unemployed Networking Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Feel free to advertise for help wanted or will work for a life of slavery! Even trading goods for work might help. Any tips for surviving unemployment in CA is welcome as well.
Overcoming Health Issues in the D/s dynamic (meet up group), FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For anyone in the BDSM lifestyle that has to deal with health or physical issues. Goal: To grow in a BDSM relationship and or community while dealing with any sort of debilitating issues. We will be walking about tools to use to enhance the dynamic of a relationship on the good and bad days!
Pacific Coast Power Exchange Contest, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pacific Coast Power Exchange Contest, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
CA (both Northern and Southern)-NV-OR-WA. Feeder contest to the International Power Exchange Contest at Beyond Leather in Florida. Open to anyone with a power dynamic relationship; includes couples, triads, and families who have a power dynamic.
Pacific NorthWest BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For all kinksters in the Pacific Northwest to post their local events, discuss local issues, and generally just hang out
Pacific Northwest Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For everyone in the Pacific Northwest (or lovers of The Pacific Northwest) who would like to reach out and meet other kinksters in our area.
PacificNorthWest Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For personal ads targeted to PNW region of US (N. CA-ID-OR-WA). For individuals looking for anything from a one-time play (or demo) partner to a full-time life mate.
Pacific Northwest Sex Club Review Board, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
BC-N CA-ID-MT-OR-WA. Discuss, opinions, reviews of places where open sexuality is practiced and people’s kinks are encouraged and respected. Adult Theaters, Bath Houses, Dungeons, Events, Fetish Night Clubs/Fetnights, Glory Holes/Porn Store Booths, House/Hotel Parties, Sex Clubs/Swinger’s Bars
Paddlers of South California (PSC), See PSC (Paddlers of South California)
Palm Springs and Desert Valley Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Get to know your fellow local fetlife’rs, a place to introduce yourself or to find out about the next munch or the occasional Private Party.
Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert, verified 2013-Jun-03
Pansexual organization of like-minded individuals pursuing an interest in the Leather/SM/Fetish lifestyle, with an interest in fundraising for the local community.
Palo Alto / Sunnyvale Munch, verified 2013-Jun-03
Wednesday evenings. Sunnyvale.
Pantyhose and Hot Fashion play / Bay Area CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For those who share a fetish for Pantyhose ,creative sexual fashion and the fantasies we feel when dressed in them.
ParadiseSoCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Completely kick-ass women only party held monthly in one of the largest and most beautiful dungeons in the greater Los Angeles area.
Party Time Gloryhole, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For people who visit the adult book store Party Time in San Jose
Pasadena Daytime Players, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For those that play during the daytime in the Pasadena area.
Pasadena Munch Bunch, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
All are welcome here to talk about our lifestyle, to meet others in the lifestyle and to play if they are so inclined.
Pasadena Roses & Thorns Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
BDSM Munch group for the Pasadena area. All inclusive BDSM group. Invite all in the lifestyle or curious about the lifestyle to join us for a munch – get to know your fellow kinksters – join the laughter and the freedom to express yourself and grow.
Paso Robles Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Mar-11
Including, not limited to: Arroyo Grande, Atascadero, Avila Beach, Bradley, Cambria, Cayucos, Creston, Grover Beach, Lompoc, Los Osos, Morro Bay, Nipomo, Oceano, Paso Robles, Pismo Beach, San Luis Obispo, San Miguel, San Simeon, Santa Barbara, Santa Margarita, Santa Maria, Shandon, Templeton.
Pieces of Pleasure, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Promotes learning as an experience that should be free for all. We invite all types of people both new and old to the scene. Everyone has something to share, and all knowledge is worth having.
Pirates in California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pirates of all genders; wenches of all genders
The Place Next Door, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
PNW Crossdresser Gang Bang Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Arrange parties, swap stories, and meet others for sexy hook-ups. Seattle, Portland, Northern CA and more, let’s meet up and get banging!
PNW Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-18
Live in or visit Pacific Northwest (ID-OR-WA-BC-N. CA)? Interested in erotic hypnosis, NLP, mind control, conditioning, trance, or related subjects?
Poly in LA, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For Los Angeles based poly couple/men/women to introduce themselves and plan group meetups, social events and support groups in the L.A. area
Poly Ventura County, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-31
Meeting place for Poly people to meet. Chat. Discuss. And be themselves. Newbies welcome.
Positively Kinky in the Bay Area, CA – (HSV/Herpes Support), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For hsv positive people living in the San Francisco Bay Area looking for play partners, connections, and support. Also welcomes those who are hsv- and here to support, ask questions, and/or who are open to playing with us in a safe kinky positive way.
Power Exchange, verified 2013-Jun-03
Power Exchange Pansexual playspace home of the SEX SQUAD, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Pansexual playspace in Las Vegas and back in San Francisco!
The Practical Female Dominant, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Discussion forum for “The Practical Female Dominant” classes, held in Santa Rosa. Classes are ongoing and interactive allowing women to socialize, network and support each other while learning techniques and about the underlying psychology of kink.
PSC: Paddlers of Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
PSC: Paddlers of Southern California, Google, verified 2013-Sep-29
Active social group; monthly munch. Discussion social open to adults interested in the D/s, S&M, and BD lifestyle. All types of BDSM discussions are welcomed but no playing is allowed at this event.
Puppy Play in Orange County and LA, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Forum for us so maybe we can start a munch for us in the area. Riverside/Ventura/San Diego critters are also more than welcome to attend.
Pure Pleasure Shop, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pure Pleasure Shop, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Santa Cruz. Mission: To provide a comfortable place to shop for sex toys, as well as access resources to enhance sexual pleasure and wellbeing. Offers many classes and events on a large range of subjects.
P.S. San Diego, FetLife, verified 2014-May-16
San Diego’s newest and largest dungeon, with over 4,800 sqft to shop, mingle, and play
Queer San Francisco and Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For the dykes, fags, trannies, butches, femmes, FtMs, MtFs, bi-dykes, bois, grrrls, tranny-fags, genderqueers etc. of San Francisco and the surrounding Bay Area.
Radical and Wicked Women (RAWW), *see LA-RAWW*
Red Dragons BDSM Bikers Riding Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
National motorcycle riding club for Leather, BDSM, M/s and Kink community based out of Southern CA. Purpose: to bring together people to enjoy freedom of motorcycle riding, develop friendships and support community through service, charitable fundraising events, parties, classes & volunteerism.
Redding CA Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically focused on social networking, and building community, munches, and play parties in the Chico / Oroville / Redding area.
Renegades, verified 2013-Oct-07
The Renegades, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
San Jose. Gar bar, welcoming of kinksters of all sexualities. Where kinksters come together to socialize, relax with a beverage or a cigar and get into a little trouble by getting tied to a bar stool, flogging a friend or learning a new skill.
River City Slosh, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Take off of the Sacramento Slosh. Celebrating just being the Kinksters we are and weren’t really able to come downtown or mid-town to have a title bit of fun, drinking and chatting up a storm about nothing!
Riverside ca couples and subs looking for longterm realionship with couples in our area, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
A place to talk meet friends and help each other learn and all of us to grow
ROMP San Diego, verified 2013-Oct-07
ROMP San Diego, Facebook, verified 2013-Oct-07
ROMP San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Full weekend of motorcylces and hot leather action in the woods of Eastern San Diego County.
Rope and Coffee, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Sacramento. Casual event dedicated to the art of rope bondage! We offer books and seasoned rope tops so that you can learn how to do that pretty rope work
Rope Bite East Bay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Monthly rope skillshare and practice session in the East Bay area of the San Francisco region. Meet in the central East Bay (Oakland/Berkeley)
Rope Bite in the O.C. (Orange County CA), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
CommUNITY for the rope bondage community. Accepting of all gender and sexual identifications.
Rope Bite Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Pansexual social event centered around rope-based bondage, open to anyone over age 18, open minded and looking to learn about all aspects of Rope Art in a non threatening environment with like minded people and great food.
Rope Bite Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
To help all people interested in rope bondage and worldwide connect with others. Open to all forms of rope bondage, we consider all equal in rope.
Rope Bite San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Monthly. Pansexual social event centered around rope-based bondage, open to anyone over age 18.
R.O.P.E.S. (Rope Oriented Play Empire Social), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Redlands. Social event geared towards Hands on practice and socialization. Share things you’ve learned, listen in on others and what they’ve learned, use the space and practice things you’ve learned, are learning or just don’t have the opportunity elsewhere to practice.
Roseville Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For those of us living in the northern part of the Sacramento Metropolitan area. Citrus Heights, Roseville, Rocklin, etc. Feel free to post tasteful personal ads, or invitations to local gatherings.
Rubber Doll Lovers in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Men or women who enjoy the transformation and freedom of their alter ego.
Sac Cinephiles, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For Sacramento-area movie-lovers. Everything from silent films to IMAX, indie films to summer blockbusters. Action, comedy, drama, horror, animation. If you love any sort of movies, this group is for you! Plan on organizing both outings to the theater, as well as home events.
Sacramento Area Advice Line, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-03
To ask questions, get information and to obtain advice from others in the community.
Sacramento Area Animal Menagerie (SAAM), FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Goal: To foster a local animal play community for networking, support, events, discussion, education, and demystifying and destigmatizing what we do as human animal players. All creatures & handlers are welcome to join, from the kitties and the puppies to the dragons and the amalgamations
Sacramento Area BBW and their enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
We are BBW and PROUD to be! we know that people of all shapes and sizes love us because of the BBW title we embrace.
Sacramento Area BBWs and Admirers, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Social group for BBW’s and their admirers.
Sacramento Area BDSM non Gateway Folks, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For those of us who have no desire to become members of the current local club as it currently operates.
Sacramento Area Dirty,Nerdy,and CURVY!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-03
Friendly place hang your whip, garter, leash, or hat… Whatever makes you happy. BBW/BHM friendly. Dirty, nerdy and curvy individuals. Accepts everyone as they are without judgement.
the (Sacramento area) little fetness group, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-25
Sacramento people (some of them identify as littles) to do group exercise-type activities on a semi-regular basis.
Sacramento Kinky Geeks, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Like tabletop gaming, science, science fiction, writing, fandom, fantasy, history, Renaissance or Pirate Faires, SCA, RPGs (role-playing games, not rocket-propelled grenades!), fandom, comics, card games – or almost anything else that falls under geekery, or a playful, yet deviant, intellect
Sacramento Area Parenting Off the Beaten Track, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Specifically for parents who are looking to balance their everyday lives that include their children with the kink community, in a non-kink environment.
Sacramento Area Peer Rope, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-15
For rope lovers in the Sacramento and surrounding areas. Purpose: Learning, sharing knowledge, and becoming better at Rope Bondage.
Sacramento Area Poly People, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
To help and socialize with the ever growing polyamorus community. Not a personals group. Here to help those who need it, and find others to hang out with. Sacramento, Woodland, Davis, Stockton, Vacaville, Fairfield, Roseville, Elk Grove, etc.
Sacramento Area Professionals, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Informational hub, referral network, and support system for kink friendly business members of Sacramento area whose services and products (can) serve or benefit the greater fetish community. Members can network, share resources, ask questions, get advice, commune, organize and grow.
Sacramento Area – Sunday Afternoon Hangout, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
INACTIVE? Elk Grove.
Sacramento BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For all those interested in BDSM in the Sacramento area, discuss local issues and meet local people.
Sacramento Bisexual personals, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For bisexual males and females in Sacramento looking for others to have fun and good conversations, serious about meeting people.
Sacramento Cuckolds, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For those in the Sacramento area who enjoy or are interested in the cuckolding lifestyle. Whether you are a couple or a single, looking for others who enjoy cucking, feel free to join and meet others with similar interests. Ads are encouraged. Purpose: To meet others and have fun.
Sacramento Dominant Women, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For female tops, dominants, mistresses, switches (you get the idea) and those who adore them.
Sacramento Kennel, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For enthusiasts and novices alike in the field of “puppy play” who live in the Greater Sacramento Area.
Sacramento Kink Klassifieds, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
If you want to: Sell Something, Buy Something, Trade something, Rent a room/apartment, Find a room/apartment, Find a lover/friend/play partner/stare off contest buddy or… anything else classified-y I might have forgotten.
Sacramento Kinky Artists, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For kinky artists of all kinds. (Visual, Literary, Musical, Bondage, Erotic, etc.) Provides a place to connect so that people can work together to make art. You may also share your work here for constructive critiques.
Sacramento Kinky Camping, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
People getting together to enjoy kinky camping.
Sacramento Kinky Geeks, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For the geeks of the Sacramento area. Whether your interests are comics, gaming, anime, or obscure 70’s cartoons, theres a place for you here. To plan events and talk about all the geeky interests we have.
Sacramento LeatherDykes, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Restricted to women who love women and live as or would like to learn how to live as leatherdykes.
Sacramento Male Subs for Dominant Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For submissive males in the Sacramento area and the Dominant women who like them.
Sacramento Mixer, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Seeks to create an inclusive and friendly environment for the Sactown folks who are looking to make connections. Whether you identify as single, monogamous or non-monogamous, whether you are looking for a play partner or a life partner.
Sacramento Open Relationship/Polyamory Symposium Forum, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For those in consensual, multi-partner relationships (or for those who are curious about the concept) to discuss relationship issues of all stripes, meet others of like mind, and to announce and promote events related to the topic matter.
Sacramento panty boys, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For all men and boys that like to wear panties
Sacramento Singles, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
A good way to come into the scene single is to meet people, and socialize. Here is a way for us to organize, band together, and cause troubles Whether your open, poly, dating, or single – you’re welcome here.
The Sacramento Slosh, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
A sacramento monthly munch, with an optional drink or five
Sacramento Snugglerz!, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
A way for us to organize, band together, and cause troubles Whether your open, poly, dating, or single – you’re welcome here.
Sacramento Spankers, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For spankers and spankees in the greater Sacramento area. Intent: To promote local munches and possibly spanking parties. Emphasizes the pure spanko approach rather than the other BDSM aspects of FetLife.
Sacramento Stone Soup Brigade, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Interact, plan, and check in for details about Stone Soup events for Sacramento.
Sacramento Swingers, Cuckolds & Play Partners, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For those who enjoy or are interested in swinging, cuckolding, and finding play partners. Recommended that you either are partnered, or you’re looking for people who are partnered.
Sacramento TNG, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Restricted to: Sacramento area TNG (18-35) and people who are willing to ask and answer TNG related topics. Geared towards helping and encouraging those that fall within that age bracket with the social issues that can be present in this lifestyle.
Sacramento to San Fran Pups to Ponies and Handlers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For Animal Role-play people in the San Fran and Sacramento surrounding areas to gather and unite, including people who associate them themselves as being a handler. A place to have discussions and plan get togethers to enjoy our blissful wild sides!
Sacramento Valley LeatherCorps, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
A non-profit group of queer (GLBT) men and women dedicated to Educating people on Leather, BDSM, and Safer Sex Since 1997! Queer (GLBT) men and women dedicated to the accurate portrayal of the Leather & BDSM communities.
Safeword, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
All inclusive, kink oriented 12 step support group/meeting held at The San Francisco Citadel,
SAN Bootblacks, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
San Diego. For educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be need.
San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
All about San Diego! Promotions of San Diego kink-related websites, organizations, events, etcetera are welcome!
San Diego Barter, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Tto trade items or services, arrange carpools, etc. Just please keep it to bartering only. Absolutely NO solicitation or sex for money. Keep it legal, keep it respectful, keep it fun and positive.
San Diego BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
Started to allow the exchange of personals and personal thoughs, questions, and event announcemtns by people in or interested in the BDSM lifestyle in San Diego
San Diego Black’s Beach Lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people to meet one another and arrange outings to Black’s Beach (individually or groups). Perhaps arrange other nudist / kink events away from the beach too.
San Diego Bukkake bi guys, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
All bi guys and girls in the San Diego area who like and/or interested in bukkakes and cum fetishes are welcome.
San Diego, California DIAPERS ABDL. Diaper Lover Adult Baby, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
ABDL’s in The Best city on earth, San Diego
San Diego Classifieds and Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Are you seeking out that perfect little pain slut? The Dom that makes you fall to your knees? or simply a new flogger or apartment? This would be the place to post
San Diego Cosplay, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For anyone into cosplay, dress up, uniforms, costumes, role play and anything related. Chat, share costuming tips, sell/buy/trade/commission stuff, pimp your event/party), link your profile pics (dressed up of course!)
San Diego Dualities, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Isn’t just for switches, it’s also open to our supporters and those that are curious about switching or involving themselves with people that switch.
San Diego FemDom, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For the FemDom’s (and submissives and slaves who enjoy the energy of a room full of FemDoms, or the individual company of a FemDom) of San Diego County.
San Diego FetFoodies, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Primary purpose: To explore what San Diego county has to offer in terms of dining and learn a little about the history of this amazing city through food. I see yummy food, a few cooking classes, and lots of laughs for this group.
San Diego Fetish Social Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For all into BDSM Dom/Subs Latex Leather Rubber Cyber Industrial-Goth-Dark-Fetish attire encouraged
San Diego Hikers/Walkers, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
Meet here for some regular outdoor fun and enjoying nature. Whether you want to get/stay in shape or just want to try some more active socializing with your kinky friends
San Diego Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-18
For those that are into Hypnosis or would like to know more. Share ideas, methods, experiences, while meeting others in the San Diego area.
San Diego Kinkster Walkers!!, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Meets weekly. Everyone and anyone welcome. All levels of walkers welcome, walk at your own pace! Mostly a beginners group and encourage you to come out and have a really great time!
San Diego Ladies Potluck Playlab, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Monthly. Must currently identify as female to participate. A subject or topic will be predetermined before the playlab, and all ladies will bring what they have that is associated with the topic to share.
San Diego Leather/BDSM Riders, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Leather/BDSM/Kink/Fetish men and women who like to ride. Not a formal club, just a great way for riders to have some organized fun!
San Diego League of Gentlemen, verified 2013-Jun-03
Brotherhood of men working together to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves & others. Will provide its members and guests with social, recreational & educational activities encouraging personal growth in all individuals with whom we may come in contact. Events encompass a wide variety of styles and pleasures.
San Diego Leather/BDSM Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Feel free to start a discussion, announce or cross post an event, ask a question, share your wisdom, share your journey, whine, be menopausal, join in collective PMS, connect, bond, chat, experience, lurk, offer ideas, provide feedback, feel safe, and just exalt in being a kinky woman.
San Diego Leathermen’s Events, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
Private list for Southern-California-based gay leather men. The ONLY information going out to the list will be news about upcoming events and other leathermen’s information that the list moderators consider to be valuable.
San Diego Leather Realm Volunteer Forum, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
One of America’s largest outdoor venues for Leather/BDSM education and information! For Leather Realm Volunteers and anyone interested in what Leather Realm is, and how to help make it happen! Held each year in San Diego, during San Diego Pride Weekend.
San Diego LifeStyle BD-Ds-SM Social, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03, INACTIVE
Remains a SoCal legacy in the kinky communities and one that attracts old guard and newbie alike.
San Diego North BD-SM Munch Social, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-03
A great event for BD-SM LifeStylers and their peers to socialize regularly in a warm and welcoming atmosphere.
San Diego Northeast County: Poway, RB,ScrippsRanch,Miramar,RanchoPena, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those that live further away from the 5 freeway and closer to the 15 freeway in Northeast San Diego. Regular monthly social.
San Diego Personals and Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-31
Place to post wanted ads for the San Diego area. Buying, selling, seeking
San Diego Petting Zoo, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For all you San Diegan Puppies, Ponies, Kitties and (insert other animals here) as well as the people who love them
San Diego Poly, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Hosts monthly discussion groups and socials, check our discussion forum for details. Our local collaborative offers resources to all poly communities, including the poly-curious and poly-friendly. All are welcome!
San Diego Random Chat, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
For San Diego locals to chat about random things. Maybe we can explore mutual interests and make some new local friends.
San Diego Rope Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Committed to safety, safety education, a focused, intellectual approach to Kinbaku. Dedicated to fostering positive, respectful growth in our members, and consistently providing a practice space for serious students and beginners alike.
San Diego Sissy, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Support group for Sissies and the people that love them.
San Diego TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-03
Mission: To create a safer, consent driven kink environment specifically for young adults where they will feel welcome, respected & accepted.
San Fernando Valley Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Wonderful opportunity to get together with like-minded people (aka ‘pervs’) in a comfortable and relaxed setting. Great place to catch up with old friends, and/or meet lots of new people. Monthly.
San Fernando Valley Munch/Threshold Munch, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
An ‘announcement only’ invitation list for those wishing to join The San Fernando Valley Munch/Threshold Munch.
San Francisco, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For open-ended discussion of all things related to kink, fetish, and sex-positive culture in the San Francisco Bay Area.
San Francisco area Fet Nights(and days) – Announce/RSVP, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Group to announce/discuss events, parties, classes etc in the San Francisco Bay area.
San Francisco Bay Area Cougars and ones who love them, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For older women who like to be with younger men or women for whatever reason as well as for those who love to be around older women.
San Francisco Bay Area Erotic Hypnosis, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-18
Bay Area’s preeminent hypnofetish organization. Meets monthly. Members also organize classes, events, and meetups at other times and locations. Members include many experienced and knowledgable hypnotists and subjects, some with formal credentials, decades of experience & strong connections
San Francisco Bay Area Kink Climbers, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-11
For area kinksters interested in rock climbing. Climbers of all experience levels are welcome, including those with no experience at all.
San Francisco Bay Area Kinky Fitness Cooking, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Let’s get together in and near The City and cook low-fat, healthy meals.
San Francisco/Bay Area Kinky Jews, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For Jews and their friends living in or visiting the SF Bay area.
San Francisco (Bay Area) Lactation and ANR/ABF, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who are seeking lactation, ANR, ABF partners in the San Francisco Bay Area
San Francisco Bay Area Movie-and-Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For anyone who likes the idea of seeing movies at cinemas in the Bay Area and then having munches right afterward.
San Francisco Bay Ballet and Dance BD/DS, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Onformal group to share experiences, romance, beauty and language of dance.
San Francisco Bay Classical and Opera Romantic Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Informal group to share experiences, romance, sound and stories of classical music and opera
San Francisco Bay Shibari, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Informal group to share experiences, methods, the science and art, psychology and philosophy of rope bondage
San Francisco D/s Discussion Group (SFDsDG), Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
Directed discussion–held in a spirit of fellowship and mutual respect, on matters pertaining to Mastery, slavery, Dominance and submission, with an emphasis on our M/s and D/s lives–among persons of a variety of backgrounds, views, sensibilities, and philosophies.
San Francisco financial slave sponsors for artists, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those in the SF area interested in being a financial slave sponsor to an artist or an artist looking for that.
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), verified 2013-Dec-13
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), Facebook, verified 2013-Dec-13
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-13
San Francisco girls of Leather (SF goL), FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-13
Self-identified Leathergirls. Membership is not limited by race, creed, orientation or gender. Mission: Provide camaraderie, and a safe space to any individual who identifies as a Leathergirl; provide community service within & outside of the Bay Area Leather Community at large.
San Francisco Kink Friendly Housing, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For people looking for kink friendly living situations, bondage warehouses, or even a slave commune.
San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group, verified 2013-Oct-27
San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Social and educational all-volunteer organization run by men of San Francisco leather & BDSM community, for the purpose of discussion, of welcoming newcomers, and of passing on the skills and traditions that others who came before shared with us.
San Francisco Littles Munch, see SF Littles Munch
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party Group, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
A San Francisco Bay Area Male Only Spanking Yahoo Group
San Francisco Open MAsT Meeting, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Open to those who are involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle
San Francisco Swingers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Everything to do with swinging in San Francisco. Questions about swinging, announcements about a party or event, looking to meet up with other swingers
San Francisco Whips Workshop Info, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
For announcements related to Grizzly’s Bullwhips by the Bay, a whip cracking workshop held in San Francisco.
San Jose Gangbang, FetLife, verified 2014-May-16
Specializes in regular gangbang, bukkake, sex & other kinky parties. Dedicated to Women who loved being pleased by Multiple Gentlemen in a Fun, Safe & Controlled Environment. Welcomes all ages, races, body types and sexually orientation.
Sanctuary Studios LAX, verified 2013-Sep-29
<<<Sanctuary Studios LAX>>>, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Formerly known as Passive Arts. 7,000+ square foot, fully equipped BDSM facility is the largest, and one of the most prestigious, multi-chambered dungeons in Southern CA. Events, classes & workshops, play parties and more for like-minded individuals who share an interest in the BDSM Lifestyle.
Sanguine Chapter- California Chapter, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Wolf Pack Based DS Environment with heavy SM interactions. Wolves and Beasts of Fur and Fang Feather and Claw.
Santa Barbara Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Primarily for people from the Santa Barbara, Carpinteria, and Goleta area, although we encourage anyone who may be interested in activities in our area to join.
Santa Clara County Leather Association, verified 2013-Oct-17
Santa Clara County Leather Association, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Pansexual, social and educational leather club. To nurture the club and to support community, we perform outreach to new leather folk and sponsor some fundraising events for charity. San Jose, Santa Clara, Campbell, Sunnyvale, Milpitas and surrounding townships.
Santa Cruz area Meat Market, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For the Santa Cruz, Monterey and South Bay area folks who are not able to regularly meet those fine folks north of Santa Clara. This forum is for posting your personal ad without getting the boot.
Santa Cruz–Kink on the Beach!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Dedicated to the community and welcoming kinksters into a safe, fun environment. Minimum: 2 events/month. Committed to community advocacy and the greater community.
Santa Cruz Poly Perves Pans ‘n’ Peeps, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Santa Cruz (California) area People who are Kinky and responsibly Poly. All sexual orientations are welcome, especially People who identify as pansexual, omnisexual, queer, GQ, and LGBTI. Feel free to talk about the intersection of Poly and Kink.
Santa Rosa, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For those in Santa Rosa, and the surrounding Sonoma county area.
Santa Rosa,ca 420, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
We live in or close to Santa Rosa, and we are 420 friendly or smokers.
Santa Rosa, California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Hopes of getting to know some people around here.
Santa rosa gangbangs/hookups, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Post your classified ads and meet other kinksters in the area.
S.C.A.T – Southern California Area Tickles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anyone in Southern CA Area into tickling and is up for possible meet and greets and maybe some play
SCLG, verified 2013-Sep-29
SCLG, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Southern California Leather Gathering. Annual outdoor picnic gathering open to ALL leather, bdsm, fetish, kink, motorcycle and bear individuals or groups of all genders and orientations. Relaxed atmosphere, have fun and raise awareness about size and diversity of leather/bdsm groups within S. CA
Screwup: BDSM for Trans Folks and Queers, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Ad-hoc group for trans folks, genderqueers, and gender-fluid people of all sorts as well as our friends. Oen to people of all genders who have a sincere interest in subjects pertaining to kink and BDSM.
SDDS – San Diego DS Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Designed to support those who have an interest in power exchange within a relationship context.
SD Dolly, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For Dollies and Dollers in or near San Diego. Weather as a fashion fetish or a means of objectification and dehumanization. We are joined by the Aesthetic. Professional (photographers, art directors, wardrobe, makeup, hair, costume, models and vendors) and Lifestyle are welcome.
SD Fet (San Diego fetishists and fetishes), FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
From the Dinner Party, Dance Party or Dungeon. We are effected by our senses. We feel different textures, see different images and we think different thoughts. Dark…
Seaside Swats, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
No longer being held, as of Dec 2012
The Serpentine Gallery, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
Designed to be a meeting place for Kinksters of all walks of life in AZ-CA-NV, to provide education on Lifestyle BDSM.
Servitus LA: Downtown LA, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Lifestyle and professional dungeon in Downtown LA and Sister Dungeon to Dungeon Servitus San Diego. Throws monthly events, from play parties to educational workshops.
Sex Addicts Anonymous, Chico, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Not affiliated in anyway to SAA, and actually encourage good old fashioned fucking, or new age fucking – either way.
SF & Oakland/Berkeley ONLY!, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Similar to Bay Area Kinky People except that everyone here lives close to each other. Like BART traveling distance.
SF and East Bay Queer/Kink/Leather Happy Hour, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Dedicated to bringing the queer kink and leather community together for a monthly social event to get to know each other, hang out together, meet new friends and or play partners, and just have a damn good time.
SF Bay Area BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all kinky party and event hosts to publicize their events so that they can be easily found by kinky people in the San Francisco Bay area and those visiting.
SF Bay Area Breast Play, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
People in the San Francisco area who are into any kind of breast play – breast & nipple torture, breast bondage, nipple stimulation, lactation and milking, all that stuff. This is a place for breast people to meet!
SF Bay Area Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For FetLifers to discuss, promote and share their love of burlesque performance in the San Francisco Bay Area!
SF Bay Area Casting Models, Actors & Performers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For models, actors and performers in the bay area. To be used by local photographers, videographers, directors, producers, etc for finding and hiring talent. Or for talent looking to promote themselves, or hire local photographers, videographers, etc.
SF Bay Area Femdom (lifestyle), FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For dominant women of the San Francisco Bay Area, and the submissives who wish to make their acquaintance.
SF Bay Area Fitness Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To talk about fitness, heaalth, athletics and local events.
SF Bay Area Gay and Bi Mens Dungeon Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Dedicated to getting gay and bi male dungeon and BDSM players together!
SF Bay Area Goreans, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Intent to meet in real time for activities, discussion group, munches, and getting to know other Goreans in a setting outside of the internet. If you are not in the Bay Area and do not mind traveling to the functions, you are more than welcome to join.
SF Bay Area Holistic Lifestyle While Kinky (Friendship and or Dating), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
To aggregate folks locally who practice, intend to or aspire to practice a holistic lifestyle. Purpose: To allow folks to make friends or date, in person, and therefore not be just another electronic community for cyber-friendships.
SF Bay Area Jobs/Resources, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
SF Bay Area specific place to post jobs available, kink or’nilla, or post if you are looking for work.
SF Bay Area Kink Friendly Hiking, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To connect those of us who love to get out into the wild open spaces or simply walk outdoors with like-minded kinky people.
SF bay area kinky buy/sell/trade/giveaway, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Make posts to buy, sell, trade or give away kink related items.
SF Bay Area Kinky People, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Kinky people of all sorts in the San Francisco Bay Area, as far south as Gilroy, north as Santa Rosa, and east as Livermore.
SF Bay Area Kinky Volunteers, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
There’s no restriction on what kind of Volunteer opportunity you’re looking for or posting about. Everything is welcome from the kinky “Hey, volunteer at this thing at the Citadel” to the vanilla “Help me clean up a beach tomorrow!”
SF Bay Area Lactation, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For people that have a serious interest in lactation.
SF Bay Area Masters and slaves, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Pansexual. Devoted to M/s people living in the greater San Francisco Bay Area
SF Bay Area Meat Market and Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For posting Personal Ads only.
SF Bay Area(ish) Medical Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those of us who enjoy our role as a doctor, nurse or patient, in Alameda, Contra Costa, Lake, Marin, Mendocino, Napa, San Mateo, San Francisco, Santa Clara, Solano and Sonoma counties.
SF Bay Area Mind Fuck, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Dedicated to the pursuit of perverse and erotic curiosities through intellectual approaches.
SF Bay Area Needle Sluts, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For play piercing enthusiasts living in or visiting the San Francisco Bay Area. For all discussions related to needle play: technique/safety, scene ideas, asking advice, humor, workshop/event announcements, even personals.
SF Bay Area Nerd Girls, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
GIRLS ONLY. For the nerd girls in the San Francisco Bay Area – including those that identify as female, such as MtF and TG.
SF Bay Area Pussy Lickers and girls who like to be ate out, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Any gender; if you love to worship, lick, suck, kiss and tease vulva; aka pussy; then you gotta come by and socialize in this group.
SF Bay Area Singles and Meet-Ups, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Are you looking for someone? Maybe for a one-time partner for an exciting bondage workshop, meeting for shopping / clubbing / a Giants’ game, a quick hook-up, an occasional NSA play partner, or something-or-other that might become regular or maybe-even-long-term?
SF Bay Area Tall People, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For tall Bay Area people and their admirers
SF Bay Area Watersports & Pee Play – San Francisco, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Watersports and bathroom games enthusiasts that encourage each other to explore our mutual fetishes. Meetups in public as well as play parties encouraged!
SF Bay Area Wrestling, Grappling, and Rough Play, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all people in the SF Bay Area who are practicing, interested in, or curious about all aspects of wrestling, jiu-jitsu, judo, etc. in their personal and especially kink lives.
SFBay Caning, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those loving the use of canes in play. A place to discuss matters, to find resources, to share construction techniques, and to connect with others of like mind. And a place to find others of like mind close enough to meet, in the greater San Francisco Bay Area.
sf bay gangbanggirls, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-26
For anyone who wants to partake or run gang bang events in the city of San Francisco
SF Citadel, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Activities and events related to the SF Citadel in San Francisco
SF Citadel at SF Pride, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To bring everyone together for the San Francisco Pride Parade and Celebration.
SF Citadel Cycling Team to Cure Diabetes, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Let’s honor the people in our community that diabetes has afflicted, and play full out to contribute towards an end to this disease.
SF Citadel Creative Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Includes ALL crafters of kinky persuasion.
SF Citadel Dungeon Monitors, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For the men and women who are the dungeon monitors at the SF Citadel; to discuss issues and processes, problems and solutions.
SF Citadel Flash, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To provide a forum for discussion of those events and a place for all to improve their individual photographic skills. Flash is the ONLY time Cameras are allowed at the Citadel during a play party.
SF Citadel Men, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For men who enjoy dungeon and BDSM play centered at the SF Citadel.
SF Citadel Mens Parties, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Now defunct. Group will be used to announce other men’s parties and events held at SF Citadel.
SF Citadel Presents TransMission!, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For discussion, planning, and eventually the promoting of TransMission, the Trans-centric play party
SF Citadel Presents: VIBE, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Celebration of the rich and vibrant diversity in our community. It is a celebration of music, a celebration of cultures, and a celebration of everything that moves us. THE event for kinky people of color, their friends, and those who love them.
SF Citadel Relocation Group: Volunteers and Talent, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For the sole purpose of organizing the upcoming move of the Citadel from it’s current location on Mission St. to our new venue
SF Citadel Swap It Out, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For anyone who gets excited about finding an awesome piece of clothing…especially when it’s at a thrift store or better yet, Swap It Out!
SF Citadel: Tryst, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Specialty party for those who consider themselves to be “on the market” for new dating partners.
SF Citadel Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For Women and those that identify 24/7 as women (IS and MtFs) that enjoy/attend/support the Citadel. Purpose: For all the women that attend (or are planning on attending) have a place to talk, about anything.
SFCP (San Francisco Corporal Punishment), FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those in the San Francisco Bay Area (and people who like to travel there!) who identify as “spankos” or who are otherwise involved with spanking and CP (corporal punishment).
SF East Bay Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Dedicated to forming a network of people in the scene from the San Fransisco East Bay. Anyone who identifies as living on the East Bay is more than welcome! (We’ll probably go ahead and take mercy on you Peninsula and South Bay folk, too…)
SF East Bay Tickle Bunch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
If you’re someone who’s interested in tickling and would like to meet other like-minded tickle fans, please feel free to join this group!
SF East Bay TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For young folks ages 18-40 to get to know other young people in the community. We will have munches and parties and other bonding activities.
SF Fetish Pre-BaGG Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Provides a way to get to know others in the BDSM/kink community without the pressure of a play environment or pounding music to talk over.
SF Kink Liberation Squad, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For SF Bay Area kinksters who want to think, talk and act upon emancipatory desires (liberation and justice) inside, outside and on the threshold of the dungeon. Our common ground is a shared commitment to anti-racism, anti-sexism, anti-heteronormativity, anti-classism, anti-imperialism, etc
SF Kinky Cocktail Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Monthly meeting in a bar, lounge or club in SF for kinky people who enjoy cocktails and meeting others. Emphasis: Meeting in more upscale locations.
SF Kinky Crafters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those that want to actually make stuff in the SF Bay area.
San Francisco Littles Munch, verified 2013-Jun-06
SF Littles Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
NOT a personals place. Restricted to: Littles, bigs, age play enthuseists in SF, the Bay Area…and beyond. We try to have something extra fun for people each month in addition to the coloring, crafts, and getting to make new friends.
SF North Bay Kinky Gamers, FetLife, verified 2013-Dec-30
Organizing and discussing games/events that will occur in the North Bay. Primarily tabletop and video gaming as well as live-action role playing. San Rafael, Novato, Petaluma, Santa Rosa, Napa, Vallejo, Fairfield, Vacaville.
SF Pervert Burrito Brigade, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Are you greedy for pleasure but want to fill empty stomachs in the city of San Francisco? A little cash goes a long way when it is spent on bean and cheese burritos. Get together with a group of pervs to roll them up and hand them out to people living on our city streets.
SF Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Not an “official” PE group.
SF TG women and friends, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Discuss TG friendly events, clubs, spaces, places in the San Francisco Bay area. Includes part time cross dressers and transvestites thru post op transexuals.
SFV Pervs, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-26
For kinksters and pervies who live in San Fernando Valley area of LA. Women, Men, couples, “other groups”, transgenders, crossdressers, and other notorious types of all shapes, sizes, races, and FL-allowed ages welcome.
Sherman Oaks Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
All genders, ages, and fetishes are welcome! One of the best attended and largest Munches in Los Angeles!
Shy in Berkeley, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Kinky but shy? Want ease your way into the scene? Have social anxiety but want to make some friends? In Berkeley? Then this may be group for you! Goal: To get shy folks talking and ease our way to less cozy events.
Simi Valley friends, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
To meet some others for maybe cocktails, dinner, evenings out for fun.
Group scheduled to close
Sissy Society Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Mistress or Masteres looking for Sissies and or sissies looking for Training.
Skiing and Snowboading in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For fun people who love to get out and ski or snowboard.
Skill trade for the Bay Area and Northern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
From computer repair, to gardening, to deck building, to massage, to piano lessons and beyond.
SLO County TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Not just about munches; discussion forum for area youth (ages of 18-39) to set up social events, learn and assist each other.
SLOLOCK, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-11
San Luis Obispo Loyal Order Of Community and Kink. Members only. Welcoming of all kink related friends and people as long as they abide by S.C.C. and R.A.C.K. Dedicated to educating and providing fun group activities.
Slutty Bitches of So. California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For slutty females to locate one another, so we can “join forces” and suck n fuck as much as we possibly can!
SM Flea Market – SF, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For Vendors, Prospective Vendors, Attendees, etc. of the SM Flea. 3 times a year the SM Flea happens
SM Odyssey, verified 2013-Sep-29
smOdyssey-A community of members, a member of the community, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
San Jose. Classes, workshops, social gatherings, discussion groups, on-line forums, community outreach events, many opportunities to share experience, enthusiasm & enjoyment with peers. Whether your first foray into sensation or role play or you are a highly-skilled veteran of the leather/BDSM scene.
smOdyssey TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
South Bay based pansexual group for people aged 19 – 35. Focus: promoting a safe space for sharing ideas and knowledge while fostering social contact, education, and community among kinky youth. Welcome newcomers and the not-so-new and aim to provide the “first step” into entering the kink community.
*SMACK* DINNERS – 1st and 3rd Tuesdays – Peter’s Cafe, #10 El Camino Real, Millbrae (Near SFO-SF Airport) 7-9pm, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
1st and 3rd Tuesdays – 7-9pm, Millbrae (Near SFO-SF Airport).
So CA Gay Dom/sub Men, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Restricted to: Gay Dominand and submissive Men
SoCal Angels Shooting Squad (SASS), FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-14
For women, genderqueer, and trans* gun enthusiasts. Range days, training opportunities, and social events. Efforts will be made to create SASS events throughout the SoCal region and to identify non-group educational opportunities.
SoCal ANR Lactation Lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
So people into ANR in southern CA can connect and possibly meet
SoCal BDSM Swingers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those in the BDSM Community that also swing.
So Cal Bi Bondage, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Restricted to: Bisexual M &F, Open minded hetrosexuals (who are ok around bi play), and gay Men and Lesbians
SoCal Chatroom, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For local SoCal lifestylers to get together and chat.
SO CAL Cock Worship/Blowjob fans, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Anyone in Southern CA who loves Cock and either giving or receiving Cock Worship or Blow Jobs.
So Cal Collars and Rings, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Where married couples involved in a power exchange dynamic relationship (M/s, D/s) with their spouse can meet, share, discuss, and bounce ideas with other couples who are dealing with issues and challenges of being married. Open to ALL married couples, not dependent on gender or sexual orientation.
SoCal Diaper Lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone in or visiting Southern CA area into diapers in some form or fashion, where people like us can meet, talk, and organize events.
SoCal Enema, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Share your ideas, desires, experiences and even arrange meet ups to hanve fun, explore and or educate.
SoCal FemDom, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those residing in the SoCal areas who are in the FemDom LifeStyle. Whether Y/you’re a Domme or -sub-, if you have a D/s relationship or are seeking a D/s for play or as a P/partner
So-Cal Furrys, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
If you live in southern California and are a furry
So Cal Furs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all those Bad Ass of baddington furries that live in Southern CA.
So Cal Golden shower piss lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all thoes in Southern CA or travel to there, who love golden showers and piss. weather ur a novice, curious or expert, man or women, receiver and or giver its a place for u to meet and disscuss share storie and pics
SoCal Goth, Industrial, Caberet and Burlesque, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Working with photographers, models, theatre groups and fellow film makers is so worthwhile.
SoCal Hiking, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
A place to meet other hiking enthusiasts, discuss hiking and to go hiking together.
SoCal Hypno Connections, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
Created to promote and develop Southern California Hypnosis and mental exploration communities. Meeting, event, or class listings.
SoCal interracial Daddies (& Mommies) and the ‘littles’ they love, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Focussing on age play dynamics. If you run events, know about events or are just looking for like minded people or to adopt or be adopted in SoCal this is the place for you.
SoCal Kinky Ravers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Keep in the loop with upcoming Events, and the ability to meet up with like minded folks.
SoCal – Kinky Roommates…, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those in the Southern California area that are looking for other kinky roommates.
So Cal Kinky Scooter/Motorcycle Riders, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all Kinky riders to connect. Any style of bike any size engine. Announce a group ride. Search for a group ride. Form groups to go ride. Share bike info and resources. Scooter and small displacement motorcycle riders
SoCal Leather Master/slave Contest, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For questions, Contestants and those who wish to support it.
SolCalMunch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
For those living in (or near) Cabazon, Banning, Cherry Valley, Palm Springs, Bermuda Dunes, Indian Wells, Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal, Desert Shores, Salton City, Borrego Springs, Westmoreland, Imperial, & El Centro.
SoCal O/p Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
For those living in or seeking to live in an O/p (Owner/property) style relationship.
SoCal Pegging Meetup Sex Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-07
Like minded kinksters who meet monthly for an evening of sodomy.
SoCalPEX (Southern California Power Exchange), FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Purpose: To support people of all genders and orientations interested in engaging in power exchange relationships by supplying them with tools and resources that will assist them in developing relationships which are healthy, functional, and real.
So Cal Shibari, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-04
Japanese Rope with Fun, Comaraderie, Learning. Peer rope group focusing on Shibari/Kinbaku influenced bondage. Social atmosphere for rope play and camaraderie, exciting classes, special events, and other general mischief that spells fun.
So Cal S&M Romance, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people in Southern CA, to talk and possibly meet each other. Just friends or romance, doesn’t matter.
SoCal Spankos, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all of the ladies and men of the southern CA area to meet each other and talk, as well as to plan out meets, play partys, etc.
SoCalSubFem Room from AOL, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Restricted to: Those who recall the heyday of the SoCalSubFem Room (and other AOL counterparts), and the people who just want to have fun!
So Cal Swingers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Made up of local Southern CA swingers to organize and get together for a fun romp around local area hotels. Advocates commonsense and safety when playing and potential members should be tested regularly.
So Cal Tea Party Club, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
If you live in Southern CA and would like to have a giant tea party, join here! Ranges from an adult like tea party, to ‘little girls’ laughing and giggling in Alice dresses. It’s just all about the tea!
SoCal Wicked Games, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For people who like to play card games and board games of vanilla and kinky topics. Primarily a forum board to keep people updated on the game nights/day taking place. Just events for people to feel welcome and meet new people without the pressure of a play party.
So. California BDSM Non-Pro Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Run by Non-Pro BDSM members For Non-Pro BDSM Dom, FemDom, Master, Mistress, sub, slave, or “unsure” of their role BDSM members of Fetlife.
SO. California Wyld Ryderz, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For motorcycle enthusiast of all genders and kink, who like to ride hard and play harder! Emphasis on fun rides, fun times and fun people!
Society of Janus, verified 2013-Sep-29
Society of Janus, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Nonprofit, volunteer run, San Francisco based education & support organization devoted to the art of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative power exchange. Organizes Educational programs on a variety of BDSM topics and issues and Social events providing opportunity for community interactions.
Sonoma County FetLife Members, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For residents of Sonoma County who are into all things fetishes, kinks, and BDSM. Safe place for newcomers and experts, kinky and vanilla alike to share their experiences and ask and answer questions. Posting events and munches in the area encouraged.
Sonoma County Youth Culture, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
No one over 39. Aimed at having an outlet for being social, when not in the mood for kink. Or just getting out of the house. We’re kinky. But this group is for bodily active vanilla events.
SOREMARC, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
SOREMARC, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Southern Oregon, Medford, Ashland Resource Center. Mission: To provide alternative lifestyle community of Southern OR-Northern CA a community play space and educational resource center. To provide Kinksters a space for special events, parties, and place to play in a safe, comfortable way.
South Bay and San Jose Kink!, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For those who live or play in the South Bay. Most importantly, this is a safe place for ANYone to gather, talk, and plan ways to make the kink people in our area get together, have fun, and become stronger.
South Bay (CA) BDSM/Poly Forum, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Where like-minded, BDSM kinksters who are also Poly can hang out and share or discuss mutual issues of relationships and its many variants, attitudes, biases for and against, experiences, viewpoints, tips, hints, kinks, shares, and the like.
South Bay Cigar and Boots Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Will allow the attendees of the monthly South Bay Cigar and Boots Social to discuss the event.
South Bay Girl Talk, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
South Bay Girl Talk, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
Social Networking group for those who reside anywhere in the San Francisco Bay Area. We meet for intimate discussion, in a private home in San Jose.
SouthBayMunch_Group, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
South Bay (Los Angeles) Munch, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
For friends in the South Bay area of Los Angeles County (and those who love us) to get together and enjoy friendship and to share their experience with each other. Monthly social.
South Bay Shoe Crawl, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Booze and Shoes…Need I say more?
South Bay TNG, verified 2013-Jun-06
South Bay TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Education and social group for young adults 18-35. Goal: to provide a comfortable, safe and non-threatening environment where one can meet others of like mind, increase their knowledge and skill levels, and explore the greater kink community.
South OC Kinksters are People Too, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
If you live in southern CA, specifically between LA & SD, come talk to us, and get to know your neighbors
South Orange County Rope Night, SOCRnight, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-07
Fun filled nights…friends, bondage, suspension, rigging, body harnesses, show off your flair for rope, share your knowledge, learn from others that have a passion for tying or being tied. Something for all to share in!
South West Dolly, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
For Dollies and Dolliers in AZ-CA-NM-NV-UT. Either as a fashion fetish or a means of objectification and dehumanization. Joined by the Aesthetic. Professional (photographers, art directors, wardrobe, makeup, hair, costume, models and vendors) and Lifestyle are welcome.
Southern CA Young AB/DL’s(18-35), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
AB/DL’s (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) living in the southern CA area (San Diego County, Riverside County, Orange County, or LA County).
Southern CA Singles Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Single’s Mixer that happens right before a monthly play party. Play party open to everyone: monogamous, poly, single, looking, all sexual orientations. Classy, dress to impress, and polite.
Southern Calif. Switch Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Intended as an idea exchange specifically for Switches, where everything pertaining to being a switch can be explored. Restricted to: Open to all who have an interest in switching. Limited to So. Cal. and those who frequently visit So. Cal.
Southern California Abdl’s, Daddies, Mommys, Etc., FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all those abdl’s, daddies, mommies, big bro’s, babysitters and more located in the southern California area looking to have a good time, chat, meet up, and most importantly have fun
Southern California BDSM Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post events happening in Southern California areas.
Southern California Bisexual Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-26
Networking and play group for bisexual women, couples, men, and transgenders in Southern CA. Focus: LA, the San Fernando, Santa Clarita, and Antelope Valleys, Long Beach, Orange/Riverside/San Bernadino/Imperial/Santa Barbara counties. ALL Sexual Flavours welcome.
Southern California Boxing, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To meet, connect, discuss and box with one another. Everything from: fantasy boxing, competitive boxing, one-sided beatdowns, or if you just have a boxing glove fetish, ALL aspects of boxing are welcomed here!
Southern California Cannabis Connoisseurs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
From the 310 to the 619, and everything in between, we be keeping it 420 friendly. Find your kinky buds up in here. Chat about your favorite strains, favorite positions, or favorite arguments for why we should legalize it.
Southern California CFNM, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
CFNM experiences, and creating new ones. LA, OC, IE and SD areas.
Southern California Crack Dealers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For whip enthusiasts, Novices or beginners who have never thrown a whip. A roaming gathering all about whips.
Southern California Cuckold Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Dedicated to creating a convenient place for Southern CA cuckolds and cuckoldresses to network and share information
Southern California Daddy’s for Tranny’s, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For TV’s/CD’s/TS to meet Daddys and Little special girls. For those wanting training or age play or whatever.
Southern California Dogging & Public Naked Fun, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For anyone interested in collecting and sharing info on public nudity, sex, and dogging.
Southern California Dollies, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Rubber, Rag, or Barbie, if you’re in SoCal and wish to be a dolly, or want to own a dolly
Southern California Dommes and subs, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For So Cal Dommes and subs
Southern California Events List, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Please feel free to share all your club events.
Southern California Face Sitting, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For men and women who enjoy face sitting and live in southern CA
Southern California Felines, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically for felines living in the lower half of California, be they furry, therian, or just like wearing ears and tails. Inclusive of all genders, orientations, races, religions, and lifestyle choices.
Southern California/Orange County Gangbang Group, FetLife, verified 2014-May-16
For adults over 18 years of age. Single Females and Single Males are invited.
Southern California Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For so cal residents to come and meet like minded kinksters for anything and everything taboo
Southern California Latex Lovers, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those who live, or plan to live, in S.CA, and have a serious fetish for latex and/or rubber. For finding and communicating with friends or play-partners.
Southern California Leather Woman, verified 2013-Jun-06
Southern California Leather Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For all women in S.CA who embrace the lifestyle and values of leather traditions to come together in community. Honors each woman’s journey to leather noting there are a wide range of paths to follow and respect is paramount to unifying this community.
Southern California/Orange County Gangbang Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For adults over 18 years of age. Single Females and Single Males are invited. Couples are always most welcome.
Southern California Pantyhose Encasement, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Helping people in Southern CA find like minded kinksters who are in to pantyhose, nylon, tights and other forms of encasement; and wish to discuss experiences and thoughts about it.
Southern California Personal ads, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people to place ther personal ad in the LA, Orange County, San Bernadino, Riverside and San Diego areas.
Southern California Photography Exchange, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Support group for both Photographers, Fetishist, as well as groups who would like professional photograph work for private shoots and or events.
Southern California Polyamory, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Specifically for those within about an hour of Newport Beach. However, open to anyone interested in polyamory, regardless of where you may live.
Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group, Meetup, verified 2013-Sep-29
Family friendly. Meet in east San Fernando Valley. Meet other supporters of multi-partner relationships and families. Talk about open relationships, polyfidelity, polyamory, honesty, respect and alternate forms of commitment.
Southern California Ravers, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-26
For ravers who reside in Southern California.
Southern California Sadists, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
To get together digitally or in person to share ideas and thoughts on the skills involved in being a Sadist.
Southern california singles, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Meet friends, lovers, loving-friends, and anything else you could desire by starting a discussion.
Southern California Social, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Cancelled for 2014
Southern California Spank Parties!, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Spankers/ees from Southern CA. Meet and greet at socials. Plan and have spanking parties. Discuss the pleasurable, and sexually exciting aspects of spankings
Southern California Tickling Personals, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people in Southern CA to meet other tickling freaks.
Southern California TNG, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For kinksters ages 18-39. Based in Redlands, aims to serve the greater Southern CA area to include San Bernadino, Riverside, LA, Orange and San Diego Counties.
Southern Californian Kinky Heathens and Pagans, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Dedicated to the support and empowerment of kinky followers and practitioner’s of alternative Faiths. Designed for the members to meet and network with the other members for spiritual growth and support.
Southern California’s Fetish Scene, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post your So Cal Fetish/BDSM events here!
Southern Cross, verified 2013-Jun-06
Southern Cross, verified 2013-Jun-06
Southern Cross, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Southern Cross, Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06
Nationally recognized. Provides public access munches and classes and kinky “Field Trips”, for both newbies and old-schoolers alike. Hosting charity events, public and private BDSM parties, offer scrumptious kinky catering, lead discussion & support groups, and assist in setting up private mentoring.
Southern Cross Subspace Discussion, verified 2013-Jun-06
Southern Cross Subspace Discussion, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Realtime discussion group for bottoms, subs, slaves, switches in bottom mode, & those who relate to this mindset. Share stories, ask for advice or suggestions, and hope to create a free, safe space for people to verbalize their joys, fears, concerns, and get to network. Find friends, mentors, & support.
Southern Cross TopSpace Discussion, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
BDSM discussion group for those new to the scene, very experienced, or somewhere in between. Socialize and discuss your current successes, challenges, and stories in a relaxed, non-judgmental, safe space. All genders/sexualities/races/abilities invited.
Southern Oregon Coastal Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2014-Apr-10
Resource for connecting with others in our lifestyle, posing questions for discussion, making event announcements, planning events, and discovering new friends. Southern coastline OR-N CA.
Southern States Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-03
For all types of cuckolds, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs, and any others. All orientations. Straight, Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender. And lifestyle choices. Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, switch. And all personalities. AL-AR-AZ-CA-FL-GA-KY-LA-MS-NC-NM-OK-PR-SC-TN-TX-VA
SouthWest Age Play League: Littles, Diapers and Dresses, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
Encompasses any form of age and role play from infant to teenager, incl: Littles, Adult Babies, Diaper lovers, AB/DL, Sissy’s, Spanking, Crossdressing, Feminization, Bois, Gurls, Mommys, Daddys, Aunts, Uncles, Babysitters, Brothers, Sisters, Cheerleaders, Role Play, Gender Bending, etc AZ-CA-CO-KS-NM-NV-OK-TX-UT
Southwest Modeling – AZ, CA, NV, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
Who should post here: Photographers in or going to be in these areas Models in or going to be in these areas. For Castings only.
Spirituality and BDSM in San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Aim: To provide awareness, share experiences and practical advice for those who use BDSM as part of their Spiritual development.
Sploshing Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Pies? Slime? Food mess? Angelino? Sound like you? Well me too, high five! Like getting messy? Want to find a local messy friend? Well…here y’are! Who’s out there?
Stampede (San Francisco Bay Area Animal Roleplay Society), verified 2013-Jun-06
Stampede, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
One of the nation’s largest organized ponyplay and human animal roleplay groups. Pansexual, open to all people 18 years of age or older. Hosts animal roleplay parties, organizes munches, demos and workshops. For upcoming Stampede events, ideas, suggestions, questions, comments, etc.
Stitch & Switch: East Bay Kinky Sewing, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
A project-focused meetup group for kinky sewers in the East Bay. Emphasis: Lingerie, undergarments, costume elements, and other sexy wearables. Support each other in learning and improving our sewing skills. Projects should be fabric-focused, incl pattern-making, design, fitting, techniques etc
Stockton Area D/s Meetup, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Planning nights out and vanilla get togethers for Stockton area, Lodi, Galt, Manteca, Lathrop, Tracy, Ripon, Linden & surrounding areas. Post when you want to go out to a movie, a meal, to the park or something fun and would like to invite others to tag along.
Stockton BDSM, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Local discussion group for people involved in alternative B/D, D/S, and S/M lifestyles. Monthly munch. Provides safe, nurturing environment for those beginning to explore BDSM and long time members of the community wanting to spend an evening socializing with people with common interests.
Stockton/Delta/Valley Women in BDSM weeknight Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Monthly women’s discussion group in the Stockton. Meetings are a potluck dinner and held in a private home.
Stockton Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Where people of Stockton and Manteca (basically the whole central valley) to come together and meet, talk, get together, or whatever.
Stonelake Funeral Association, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
We put the “Fun” back in funeral and do our best to remove the “Ass” from association. Collection of friends in CA that help to run a small kinky funeral home.
Strap on in So CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
People who love strap ons in So Cali
Strapon so cal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For the strap on lovers of southern California. Monthly Munch ideas. Strapon design. Personal favorites. Likes and dislikes.
Strong Sexy Women, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Women’s only space to organize our monthly munches, held in Burbank, plan parties and discus whatever.
Stunt Cocks & Cunts – SF Bay Area, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For willing thirds (fourths, fifths, sixths & up) to meet couples or singles wanting to arrange a group scene. Those who have successfully arranged such hot scenes can share tips and stories. Hot stunt cocks/cunts can review working with hot couples, and vice-versa.
SubSpace Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For kinsters in and around the Inland Empire.
Submissive Round Table – Inland Empire, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Goal: to be a safe place to learn and grow and within our group conscious we will share ideas & experience.
Suisun BDSM, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
For anyone that lives in the Suisun/Fairfield area of NorCal, although anyone interested in BDSM can join and take part in our group discussions, if you are interested in BDSM. Whether you just want to learn about the lifestyle, or you live it 24/7.
Survive:Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Dedicated to Survivalism in Northern CA. Plans include; Survival and Disaster Preparedness, Alternate community living, as well as all things to do with taming the wilds and unknowns in life.
SwitchSpace, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
On hiatus. Discussion group in the Bay Area to help individuals discuss the unique challenges that arise from the switch way of life.
T4Transitions, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Sacramento area. To laugh and share with others who are new to the scene or gather info and outlooks from folks who have been around for awhile. Open to all flavors and play levels. Focus: New life-styler’s issues, public and private.
Team Sex eXperiment, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Volunteer organization comprised of young kinksters that work as a group to bring Education, support, and resource to the LA BDSM community. To do this, we throw parties, organize classes, maintain a mentor organization for free and participate in fun experiments to learn more about ourselves.
Temecula Valley Wine Tasters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For those interested in organizing and/or attending wine tastings in Temecula valley. Open to postings of any local food, wine and chocolate events.
Think Kink: Santa Cruz Kinky Youth, verified 2013-Sep-29
Think Kink: Santa Cruz Kinky Youth, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For young kinksters (18-35) in Santa Cruz who are interested in alternative sexual lifestyles like S&M, BDSM, role play, and other less than conventional sexual practices. Exchange information and meet with like-minded individuals.
Threesomes In The Pacific North West, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-09
Anyone looking for or interested in threesomes in the pacific North West. AK-CA-OR-WA
Thousand Oaks, ca strapon lovers and surrounding areas, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Looking to make new friends who have the same fetish for strapon that we do.
Threshold, verified 2013-Jun-06
Threshold Club Discussions, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Threshold Club Events, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
BDSM/Leather Club in North Hollywood. Non-profit 501.c social organization concerned with exploring and enjoying the world of bondage, discipline, sado-masochism and related activities. Active in local community. Considered the first place for those who are interested in the BDSM lifestyle to explore.
Threshold Rope Workshop, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all who attend the rope workshops at Threshold to find monthly information on classes, events etc
Threshold’s CLUB FANTASY, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To keep our T-girl/Transvestite/Transsexual/Transgender community connected to each other and those who admire them. Reminders and updates for our Club Fantasy Nights held at Threshold. We also welcome any information for other T-girl events that are being held in the local Los Angeles area.
THRUST, FetLife, verified 2014-Jan-11
Industrial Fetish. Fetish Social Event. San Diego
Tickle Feet California Norcal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
For people who enjoy Tickling/Bondage/Foot Fetish in Northern California.
TNG Long Beach, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Support, education and social group for kinksters 18-35. Aim: To create a meeting space for younger kinksters to meet people of similar minds and facing similar challenges.
Tri-county Kinksters for fun, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Social networking group that is also lifestyle. We believe in making long time friendships and being able to openly discuss any topic even the taboo/fetish/fantasy ones. Mix and mingle with like minded people From Fresno, Visalia, Tulare, Bakersfield and the surrounding areas.
Triple S Group (Submissive Social Support), Yahoo, verified 2013-Jun-06, MEMBERS REMOVED
Tri-Valley and Beyond Kinky Brunch Bunch, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
For kinksters in the Tri-Valley area, including Livermore, Pleasanton, Dublin, San Ramon, Medesto, Stockton, Danville, Tracy, Oakland, and even San Francisco.
The Twisted Tiki Drunch, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Oakland. Monthly salon for the desperately hip, the haply disparate, the hopped up dispatched, the joiners, the stand alones, and anyone else who happens to enjoy a damn fine tiki drink.
UCSC Meetup, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Informal social group at the University of California, Santa Cruz campus for current students and recent alumni.
Under 35 SoCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all people under 35.
Uniform Club of Los Angeles or Uniforms in Southern California, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
All about the collecting, owning and Wearing of Uniforms as a fetish and as part of play in Southern CA
United Fetishists Long Beach (UFLB), verified 2013-Oct-27
United Fetishists Long Beach (UFLB), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Non-profit Membership organization. Purpose: Strengthen and unify the fetish communities of Long Beach and surrounding. Accomplishes mission through education, mentorship, social/service opportunities and fundraising events. Promotes the equal and fair treatment of all fetishists and non-fetishists.
The Vacaville Munch, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Great place to meet others in BDSM from the Vacaville, Fairfield, Dixon, Sacramento area and beyond.
Vallejo Munch Society – V.M.S., FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For those who live in the western solano county area who would like to stay close to home and meet with other like-minded lifestylers.
Valley Hobbies, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-28
For kinksters in Central Valley, Ca (Bakersfield, Fresno, Visalia, Tulare etc) area to come together to discuss and enjoy different hobbies. Ex: Leather Working, Wood Working, Stained Glass, Arduinos, Models, Under Water Basket Weaving, Clay, Glass Blowing, Baking/Decorating
Vanilla Events in Northern CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Fun vanilla happenings in Northern California!
Vanilla Interests for Kinky People-Fresno, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For us perverts to be able to do things in the vanilla world. From concerts, pub crawls, bowling, miniature golf, a dinner show…you want to find someone to share a fun evening with in the vanilla’s, this is the place to do it.
Vanilla Interests for Kinky People — Sacramento, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
To post your other interests. Concerts and sports, Second Saturdays and farmer’s markets, festivals and Harry Potter premieres, wine tasting tours and belly dancing classes. If you know of a vanilla event that sounds fun and you’d like your kinky friends to read about it too, post it here.
Ventura County BDSM & Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
Defunct? Private parties at my private Estate in Camarillo.
Ventura County Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those living in Ventura to connect with each other and the community. Camarillo, Carpinteria, Goleta, Moorpark, Oak View, Ojai, Oxnard, Point Mugu, Port Hueneme, Santa Barbara, Santa Paula, Simi Valley, Solvang, Somis, Summerland, Thousand Oaks, Ventura, Westlake Village.
Ventura MDHL-fs (Male-Dom-Het-Leather), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For anyone (top, bottom, Dominant, submissives, Master, slave, etc.) who identifies as being interested in (though not necessarily currently involved in) a Male Dominant/Female submissive power or authority exchange relationship.
Venus Night @ the Lair de Sade, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Promoting Fem Dom Night (aka Venus Night) at the Lair de Sade in North Hollywood
Venus’ Playground, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-27
Nonprofit organization which is a part of the Folsom Street Events group and dedicated to serving the women’s alternative lifestyle communities. Promotes diversity within the women’s community by highlighting entertainment, community service, and supporting vendors.
Victorville BiPan, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For bisexuals/pansexuals of all gender identities located in the Victorville/Hesperia/Apple Valley areas to connect/network with each other and participate in beneficial discussions.
Visalia Kink, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Group of wonderfully kinky people who get together so that we can talk of our lifestyle choices in the open with friendly people of like minds. It is good to be able to be yourself and have friends to talk to. We have monthly munches held in a local restaurant
Walnut Creek Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-17
For those who can’t make it out to Berkeley and are too busy to go to Concord
WAM / Gunge Fans of SoCal, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Southern CA fans of wet and messy play
Warehaus, MFG., FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Functions as a private event space that features dungeon capabilities as well as serving as a central community space for the area. NOT a public dungeon.
Wasteland Weekend Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Post-apocalyptic festival in the Southern CA desert. For people who have attended or will be attending.
WCPX, see West Coast Power Exchange
We Want Them Young (Long Beach, CA 18-25), FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Allow us to make friends, maybe find potential play partners or relationships that are around our age group if one isn’t into age play.
Wednesday Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For anyone who attends or is interested in the weekly Wednesday munch held in Sunnyvale.
West Coast Babby Mafia, FetLife, verified 2014-Mar-27
For fancy abdls who live in CA-OR-WA.
West Coast Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-09
For better connection and communication, includes all types of cuckolds, cuckqueans, Hotwives, Slutwives, Cuckoldresses, studs, & any others. For all orientations-Straight, Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender; lifestyle choices-Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, switch; all personalities. AK-AZ-CA-Guam-HI-ID-NV-OR-WA
West Coast Power Exchange (WCPX), verified 2013-Sep-29
WCPX, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
West Coast Power Exchange (WCPX), Yahoo, verified 2013-Sep-29
Real time group based in Ventura, Santa Barbara, Ojai, Moorpark, Thousand Oaks areas of Southern CA. Meet on a regular basis for socializing, discussions and demonstrations. Membership ranges from novice to experienced, and all aspects of the BDSM lifestyle are respected and welcomed.
The West Coast Social, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
On hiatus, until further notice
West CoCo Munch, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
Participants, friends, curious, and guests of the West CoCo (Contra Costa County) Munch. Also known as the “San Pablo Munch”, we’ve expanded our scope to cover all of West Contra Costa County including San Pablo, Richmond, El Cerrito, and the entire West Contra Costa region.
West Hills Gathering, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06, NO LONGER HELD
West LA / UCLA / Santa Monica / Westwood, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For people on the West side of Los Angeles
Western States Veteran Group, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-11
For Vets, Disabled Vets and Active Duty men and women, that need help with various issues that concern us. Be it legal help due to BDSM concerns, job search help, website links and many items of interest. AZ-CA-CO-ID-MT-ND-NM-NV-OR-SD-UT-WA-WY
White Moms for black Doms in North Hollywood, CA, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
For real time players and extremely action oriented kinksters in the San Fernando Valley.
Whittier Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2013-Oct-07
People of a like mind who live in and around Whittier
Wicked Games, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For all Kinky Gamers and the games we love. Board games, Card games, Video games, Role Playing games and anything in between.
Wild Women Walk…Run…Skip…Frolic…Play, FetLife, verified 2013-Sep-29
Leather women, kinky gals, bondage babes, and S/M sisters, for women-positive events such as hikes, group outings, and occasional indoor gatherings in the Santa Cruz area.
Wine and Kink, Inc., FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Gatherings are not only about wine but also good conversation and enjoying life.
The Wolves Den Bayarea Bi/Curious Men, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
To come and discuse whats on your mind, how you came out, if coming out is right for you, how your life has changed. All are welcome to come in support of your Bi/courious Male.
WorshipHer – Sacramento, Facebook, verified 2014-May-11
WorshipHer, FetLife, verified 2014-May-11
Created to celebrate female dominance. Pansexual discussion & activity group, which focuses primarily on the relationships and interests of female identified Dominants, Tops, Mistresses and Switches (in their top hats). Welcomes bottoms, subs, slaves and kinksters who adore Female control.
Yellow Hankies San Diego, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
Guys who are into watersports/piss play! We currently have local events
Young & Hot in Los Angeles, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For the youthful and gorgeous in LA to discuss, exchange ideas, and to meet and mingle! If you are located in Los Angeles and are between the ages of 18 to 35. And if you are and want to meet people that are attractive and within your age group.
Zenith SFBay – for Peak Experiences and People in BDSM, FetLife, verified 2013-Jun-06
For Kinky People OVER 35. Although this group will be focused primarily in the San Francisco Bay Area, I invite ANYONE who meets the basic criteria to join!