NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement. Signing up for update emails (via ChangeDetection.com link at bottom of each page) and/or reviewing the list regularly is recommended.
417Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Leaderless group of like minded individuals who come together from time to time to share interest and passion for kink related activities. Whether your interest is rope, High Protocol, caning, flogging, or service, you’ll want to attend meetings, parties, or lurk around on message boards.
ADULT_SEMO_group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
We have welcomed many, no matter what your kink. We have a number of parties each year as well as at least two pool parties with food and dungeon open all weekend. Getting involved in having education and SIGs as well as getting involved in charities.
Alternative Hedonistic Source, verified 2015-Mar-30
AHS Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Educational and social resource for those interested in BDSM and Fetish activities and lifestyles. Offers educational discussions, demonstrations and presentations exploring topics of interest
Arkansas Oklahoma Missouri Poly Group, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Brings together both people that are living the polyamorous lifestyle and those that are interested in it.
Bad Boys of Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Bad Boys of Saint Louis, Yahoo, INACTIVE, verified 2015-Mar-30
Announcements for BDSM, bondage, and kink-related events for men in the St. Louis community, includes a monthly Bondage Night at a local bar and a monthly Men Only Open Play Party in a local dungeon space.
B.E.A.T.S – Bondage Education And Training of Springfield, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Springfield area rope bondage event (Springfield, Nixa, ozark, Branson, Rogersville, Republic, Willard, Fairgrove).
BlackBEAT St. Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Independent, social organization founded by African American members of the D/s, BDSM and Leather community nationwide. Strives to cultivate safe, sane, consenting adults (21+) with alternative lifestyle and sexuality interests via culture, education, development, support, and event planning.
Blue Springs and kinky area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For the Blue Springs and surrounding to meet local kinksters. Looking into setting up an area for meet and greet socials for all to connect.
Bowling and Billiards – St Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Going bowling or shooting some pool, and want others to join you? Post it here!
Camdenton Missouri Lifestylers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
People who wish to help make it a nice BDSM mecca for all those who follow the life style to enjoy.
Cape Girardeau BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Real-time social and educational group. Hub for information regarding our monthly Munches and SIGs. All consenting adults, regardless of gender, orientation, dynamic, or experience level, are welcome here.
Censored in St. Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
A place to post topics for discussion that are likely to, or have been, “ferme” or deleted in any other St. Louis Group, with little or no discussion.
Central Darkside, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people who live in or travel to OK, TX, AR, KS, NM & MO. Serves as a meeting place for those who wish learn from the experienced, find someone special, share your tales, or announce local happenings pertaining to fetishes, power-exchange and all affiliated groups, activities and munches.
CEPE – Columbia Erotic Power Exchange, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Founded in 1996. Among longest-lived and most inclusive bdsm/fetish groups in the Midwest. Provides a social, supportive and educational forum for its members for the safe, sane and consensual exploration of the practices and variations in alternative lifestyles in a safe and socially fun atmosphere.
Christian BDSMers in Springfield, MO, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For those who are religious but still engage in kink.
CLASP Circle, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
Consensual Love and Sex Positivity. Discussion group for individuals passionate or curious about sex and everything to do with it. A forum for sex positive discussion.
ClubFEM (Females Enslaving Males): St Louis, verified 2015-Mar-30
ClubFEM – St Louis Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female dominant/male submissive relationships. Dommes are in charge of the activities at all times. Restricted to: Dominant Females and submissive men ONLY
Columbia Missouri BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
BDSM scene in Columbia Missouri has changed significantly.
Columbia Missouri TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For kinksters 18-40. Will be holding monthly munches and hopfully demos, events, and workshops
Consent Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
KC’s friendliest, most fun-loving group of kinksters. Dedicated to bringing kinky fun back to the local lifestyle community. For open-minded discussion by adults, for adults. To educate those interested in the safe practice of the BDSM Lifestyle. Here to learn from each other.
Deviant Gamers of The Ozarks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For gamers of any type, console, pc, tabletop, card, and board, etc.
The Dominant Dialog comes to FetLife, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Metro St. Louis. Monthly discussion group. No group affiliation and group affiliation is not a requirement to attend and participate.
Dominant Women of Kansas City (DWKC), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Women’s only group for support, friendship, education and discussions.
Elite Gangbang and Orgy Squad of Kansas City, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-11
All women welcome, and a group of 25-45 year old white, black, and all ethnicities.
Etch-a-sketch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
For people that care to meet for drinks and unique places downtown once an month.
The Facility, St. Louis, Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Open and legal education, support and play space for people who share an interest in BDSM, Ms, Ds, or fetish choices in the Greater St. Louis area. Provides a forum for conversation and social interaction along with munches, play parties and educational events. Active, real time group.
Fall=Farmington Area Leather Legions, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Open to all
Farmington Fetish and Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For lifestyle and like-minded individuals, where you won’t be judged, you will be accepted, and can express yourself openly.
Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG), verified 2015-Mar-30
Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Dedicated to providing an open, friendly, safe, and educational atmosphere all under one roof. All FLOG asks in return is that you come with a willingness to learn as well as educate, and to come with an open mind to diversity and an open heart to acceptance.
FLOG Lunch Munch (St. Louis), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
FLOG Lunch Munch (St. Louis), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Casual. Day after FLOG each month. All attendees welcome (D-types, s-types, and everything in between). Talk about your play scenes, receive and/or offer support to those experiencing ‘Drop’, ask questions about what you experienced the night before, share stories and enjoy friendship.
Fort Kickass STL, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
Private play party in the St. Louis area.
Gateway Femdom, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
A group of female dominants (and switches) and those subs who serve us. To exchange/discuss/debate ideas, ask questions, seek/offer advice, and have a little fun with like minded people.
Gateway Submissive Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Submissive/slave women, men, and switches here to exchange/discuss/debate ideas, ask questions, seek/offer advice, and have a little fun with like minded people.
Gateway Switches and Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Sponsored by The Clan of the Barbarian. Switches and kinksters still exploring both dominant and submissive roles, here to exchange/discuss/debate ideas, ask questions, seek/offer advice, and have a little fun with like minded people.
GBKC- Gang Bang Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-May-01
A group of guys and gals who have been in the lifestyle and party planning for many years. A more private intimate discrete group.
Generation Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Saint Louis. Mission: To provide an opportunity for the internet generation of kinksters to get out of their bedrooms, off the computers and into the real world community in a safe and educated way.
GroupDate SGF – Springfield, Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Group Interaction for kink friendly Locals looking to date and socialize in order to get some facetime with others. Promote Events for Newbies to meet those in the local scene in a SAFE and public environment.
Heartland Crossing, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Heartland Crossing, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
For crossdressers, transvestites, sissies, genderplayers, transpersons, and their admirers and/or lovers; or those who are respectfully curious about the same. CO-IA-IL-IN-KS-MI-MN-MO-MT-ND-NE-NM-OH-OK-SD-TX-WI-WY.
Hitchin’ Bitches Midwest, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For female identified rope riggers/rope tops/dominants in KS-MO-NE. Meets to learn, share, and experience rope first hand based upon the Peer to Peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts.
Hitchin’ Bitches Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For female identified rope riggers/rope tops/dominants. Organized to meet to learn, share, and experience rope first-hand based upon Peer-to-Peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts.
Jeff city D/s play group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For those that are into or interested in D/s play in the Jefferson city area.
Jefferson County munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-08
For those in and around Jefferson County. Here to bring friends together and make new ones. Welcomes everyone.
Joplin Non-Vanilla Fetlife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Monthly munch and party. Mainly for AR-KS-MO-OK With any Kind of Kink.
The Kansas City Ageplay Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
Open to Ageplayers, Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Bigs, Littles, Middles, and anyone interested in same regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, or lack thereof.
Kansas City Boys of Leather, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kansas City Boys of Leather, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Purpose: To gather in brotherhood and boyhood, supporting our members and the Kansas City community through Honor, Service, Respect, and Integrity.
Kansas City Cunnilinguists, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-07
For those who enjoy giving or receiving cunnilingus, for discussion, looking for partners, sharing fantasies and potential event planning.
Kansas City Fetich Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For EVERYONE of all fetishes to come from Kansas city and the places around it.
Kansas City Massage Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Jun-08
Exchange experiences and skills, organize events, workshops, and to educate those in the KC area about massage, bodywork, and energy exchange.
Kansas City! Personals!, FetLife, verified 2015-May-01
Looking for a partner in crime, a random tip dipping? Here’s the place to find it!
Kansas City Submissives and Slaves, see KC Sass (submissives and slaves)
Kansas/Missouri Paddlers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-17
For Spanking Paddle enthusiasts (makers, users, and recipients).
KCFG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Overland Park lunch munch. Laid back group of kinksters who want to have a good time, share positive information and meet new and interesting people. Our adult (ages 18 and up) group is pansexual, welcomes those who are Dominant, submissive, poly, straight, bi, gay, trans, AB, kinky, etc.
KC Sass (submissives and slaves), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kansas City Submissives and Slaves, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Local group for submissives and slaves (and switches so long as they focus on the group’s focus of the sub side here) to talk, ask questions, voice concerns, learn and socialize together.
KC Spanks Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pansexual club dedicated to adults living in or near the Kansas City area, who are interested in all aspects of spanking. Tops, bottoms, switches or just the curious are all welcome.
KC Kinky Trading Post, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Advertise, sell, trade, barter or buy fetish gear to or from local kinksters.
Kinbaku_KCMO, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Where people in Kansas City, MO and surrounding areas can discuss issues about rope and rope art in its various forms, a resource guide where you can share information about rope art in its various forms.
Kinksters in Sedalia, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-06
For kinksters in Sedalia.
Kinksters in the Burg, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-06
For kinky people of Warrensburg.
Kinky Concert Calendar/Meetup – Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Specifically for people to find other people who enjoy live music of sorts no matters how horrible YOU may thing it is. Why not find other kinksters who enjoy music to meet up with as well?
Kinky Couples South of St. Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-30
Couples in the St. Louis Metro and beyond who want to have some kinky fun with other like-minded couples!
The Kinky Health and Fitness Spa of Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For KC’s kinky people to share successes, give/receive support, find workout buddies and be held accountable to reach their health, fitness and kinkable goals.
Kinky in Saint Charles, MO, see Saint Charles Munch
Kinky in Springfield MO, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For those who like to play “outside the norm” in springfield
Kinky in St. Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Moderated Discussion Group. Allows members to interact on-line and discuss relevant topics of interest as well as to notify the local community about local Lifestyle related activities.
Kinky Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Centralized point for kinksters in the Kansas City metro and surrounding areas. Information about events hosted by the various kink groups in Kansas City as well as nearby groups in Kansas, Missouri and other parts of the Midwest.
Kinky Kansasy City Singles (KKCS), FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-26
For kinky singles, by kinky singles.
Kinky Parents in KC and surrounding area, FetLife, verified 2015-Jun-08
For kinky people who happen to be parents or just love children (and not in that sicko way). Networking, socializing, advice, funny stories, and maybe family friendly gatherings.
K.U.F.F. Kinky Under Forty Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Saint Louis. Providing a safe and fun environment including play parties and other events for the 18 – 40ish crowd.
Leather and Silk of Joplin/Neosho, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
For those who are interested in real time BD/SM practice, to meet sincere like-minded individuals. Online support group for the real life Leather and Silk based in the Joplin/Neosho area.
Lees Summit Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For BDSM lovers around the area.
Lots of Tots, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kansas City. Established by Age Players for Age Players and their Mommies/Daddies. Centered around group activities that promote the goals of the group as whole, include but are not limited to munches, playtime, educational opportunities and potentially public outings.
MAsT (Masters And slaves Together): Saint Louis, verified 2015-Mar-30
MAsT Arch City, verified 2015-Mar-30
MAsT Arch City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. Fo like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and to gain and/or share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.
MAsT: Arnold, verified 2015-Mar-30
= INACTIVE = Chapter that covers Jefferson County and beyond. We support all power exchange relationships.
MAsT: Cape Girardeau, verified 2015-Mar-30
MAsT: Cape Girardeau, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Education, support and resource group for individuals in, or have an interest in, power and authority exchange relationships
MAsT: Kansas City, verified 2015-Mar-30
MAsT: Kansas City, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationships. Persons of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome.
MAsT: Springfield MO, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Education, support and resource group for individuals in, or have an interest in, power and authority exchange relationships. For anyone whether part of a couple, a poly household, or single. Pansexual group; all orientations and genders warmly welcomed and encouraged to come.
Master Chiefs Parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
KC. For gangbangs, meet and greets, bi parties, Sunday Fundays, Get Your Freak On Fridays, etc.
Midwest BDSM’ers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For all those local to the Great Lakes region seeking to connect with fellow kinksters and like minded individuals. All are welcome to join and participate regardless of orientation,fetish preference or gender identity.
Midwest Gang Bang Parties, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For kinky folks interested in attending Gang Bangs in the Midwest. If you are planning a Gang Bang in IL-IN-MI-WI-IA-MO-MN, please post it hear.
MidWest Pony Herd, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For Ponies, Handlers, Grooms, Owners and anyone interested in the pony play life. You can live any where but this group is to bring together the Equines of the MidWest. AR-IA-IL-KS-MO-NE-OK.
Midwestern Kinky Classifieds, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Wwelcome to all post and come and make friends from the Midwestern and who know what you might get into. Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, North Dakota, Ohio, South Dakota, and Wisconsin
Mineral Area Kink and Fetish of Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Meet new people, make friends, and maybe have some naughty fun 🙂 For kinksters in and around Farmington, Desloge, Ironton, Irondale, Potosi, Belgrade, Caledonia, Park Hills, Saint Louis, Desoto, Festus, Arnold, Cape Girardeau, Pilot Knob, and alot more!
Missouri & Kansas Daddy’s and Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For Daddy’s, Mommy’s, Littles, Baby girls, Baby Boys. Talk chat, meet and greet.. maybe putting togther a group for munches and outings.
Missouri and Illinois Poly, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Home for all those in MO-IL curious or involved in the Poly lifestyle. Post your experiences, questions, thoughts anything!
Missouri BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Encourages discussion, announcements of get togethers in which every member of this group would be welcome (if this does not fit the group DO NOT mention or post it), and the sharing of information.
Missouri Daddy’s and little girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
To connect and interact Daddy Dominants and little girls who live in, or visit Missouri. Mommy’s and little boys welcome also.
Missouri Diaper Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For local missouri people…but we are liberal with that rule. Restricted to: Anyone into Diapers or Age Play
Missouri Dominants Forum (group), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Sponsored by Clan of the Barbarians. Group of Dominant Men here to exchange/discuss/debate ideas, ask questions, seek/offer advice, and have a little fun with like minded people.
Missouri Erotic Photography, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For photographers, models and enthusiast to meet and discuss anything relevant to erotic photography.
Missouri/Illinois Foot Fetish, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-26
Connects foot fetishists in IL/MO, generally centered near STL, but involving all major cities of both states.
Missouri Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Encourages discussion, announcements of get togethers in which every member of this group would be welcome (if this does not fit the group DO NOT mention or post it), and the sharing of information.
Missouri Women who like strapon play with Men, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For women who enjoy strapon play with men and the men, crossdressers, and transgender who enjoy strapon play.
Mistresses seeking toilet slaves in Missouri, Kansas, Colorado, Iowa, Nebraska, Illinois and Minnesota, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
For mistresses into toilet slavery in the Midwest region.
Mo-Kan Invasives, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Dedicated to learning and practicing safe techniques for needles, branding, cautery, sharps, and other forms of skin-invasive play. Provides resources, education, learning opportunities, and open discussion for those who wish to explore invasive techniques.
Mountain Home Arkansas kink, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-18
MHAK. To bring together consenting adults that practice alternative lifestyle and sexual expression as members of the BDSM &Kink community. Individually or as a group we will not discriminate based on age, sexual preference, gender, race, religion or any other diversity. AR-MO
My Master in Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For those in the lifestyle here in MISSOURI. Not just St Louis or Kansas City. But all the little towns and villages all over our state. Mainly for Masters and Mistresses, Dom/Dommes Subs/slaves To meet, To find each other and to discuss those topics important to us
Northlanders, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-28
Keeping this side of the river active! Get to know like-minded kinksters closer to home.
Pain Sluts United! the Masochists Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Join us in discussing various aspects of pain vs. pleasure, and other topics of interest to Masochists.
Pandora’s Rose, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pandora’s Rose, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pandora’s Rose, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pandora’s Rose, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Columbia. Dedicated to the education, development and growth of the BDSM lifestyle.
PEP St. Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
PEP (People Exchanging Power), Saint Louis, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Educationally based group. Restarting in St. Louis after a several year hiatus. Meeting monthly on a variety of topics to offer education in our local community, a variety of topics, demonstrations and hands on events.
PINK *Pretty In Kindness*, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Goal: Empower individuals to experience life changing growth through kindness, through community service, fundraising and empowering social events.
Pinky and The Brain “Hypnosis World Domination One Mind at a Time”, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kansas City area group for the practice of hypnosis. Bringing hypnotists or would-be hypnotists and subjects together.
Poplar Bluff Lifestylers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pansexual group that is looking to grow and expand.
Poplar Bluff Lifestylers, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30, SPAM
Portia’s Red Bottom Parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
To share good spanking fun with good spanko people in a relaxed house party setting. A private party group for those interested in consensual adult spanking (not a sex party).
Potential “encounters” near Kansas City, Missouri!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Directed towards those who are in or around KCMO area and are open to the possibility of meeting someone for mutual fetish play.
P.U.P STL (Pick Up Play), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-09
To encourage thinking outside of the box play as well as non-committal play fun.
QCSCBDSM Queen city social club Springfield,MO., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
QCSCBDSM Queen city social club Springfield,MO., Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Attempting to locate a venue for a play space in or near Springfield Mo.
QPEX (Quincy Power Exchange), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Home for Kinksters in MO-IL-IA Since 2011; educational and support group for those who are in or curious about the BDSM lifestyle.
Queen City T.N.G., FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Springfield. Ages 19-35.
Rolla Lifestyle Learning Facility, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Dedicated to teaching the many different aspects of kink in an open minded setting.
Rolla Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Open BDSM/kink group. Provides a safe environment for people to meet, learn, and experience the world of BDSM and beyond. Meets for a munch and for a play party.
Rope Bite Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Pansexual social event centered around rope-based bondage, open to anyone over age 18. Dedicated to promoting interest in and sharing knowledge about all aspects of rope bondage.
Rope School Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Independently organized educational group dedicated to the art and practice of rope bondage. Monthly Workshops. Topics vary every month, with regular Introduction to Rope Bondage sessions interspersed.
Rope Social Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Open-access, unstructured, peer-share environment for those interested in or curious about rope bondage to share, practice, teach, and learn.
Rope Study Group of KC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people that are into rope, top or bottom, new or experienced.
Saint Charles Munch, reviewed 2015-Aug-23
Kinky in Saint Charles, MO, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-23
Casual social gathering, held monthly at a local tavern/restaurant. Popular get-together, attended by 100+ people. Unique opportunity for newcomers to meet and make new friends, enjoy conversation, learn about the local BDSM lifestyle community in a safe, public, no-pressure atmosphere.
For additional Saint Louis links, see St. Louis
Saint Louis Artists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For all forms of artists (musicians, dancers, photographers, painters, MUA, models, writers, etc) and those who appreciate art in the Saint Louis (and surrounding) area to discuss that which we love, ART.
Saint Louis Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Open to everyone from The Greater Saint Louis area.
Saint Louis Kinky Book Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people who love to read and live in and around the Saint Louis area.
Saint Louis Leather and Lace, see STL3
SEMO Masters & slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For all those involved or interested in this BDSM lifestyle, of particular interest to those living in SE.MO-S.IL to find others that are lifestyle friendly. Encourages you to join regardless of race, religion, or sexual preference.
Sex Positive St. Louis (SEX+STL), verified 2015-Mar-30
Community resource, safe environment for sexuality questions or concerns, no matter your gender, race, age or orientation. Hosts a program of events and nurtures a culture that accommodates sex positive communities in the St. Louis region.
Shameless Grounds, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Shameless Grounds, Facebook, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Shameless Grounds, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Shameless Grounds, Twitter, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
STL. Provides diverse populations access to non-judgmental, sex-positive, radically-inclusive gathering place. Food drink, warm friendly atmosphere, expansive lending library w/wide variety of media related to human sexuality, classes, workshops, social gatherings, entertainment, and education.
Shibari Association of Springfield missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Home grown group dedicated to improving the rope community in the area. Share tips and tricks for tying great rope.
Singles Night Out- STL, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Events for single people in the metro area. Munches, movies, dinners, plays, etc.
SLUM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Announcement and discussion group for the Saint Louis Unclassified Munch, held monthly.
S.M.A.C.K, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-04
Springfield Missouri Area Consensual Kinksters. Private club/group having private play parties.
SMs Reflections, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Springfield MASTERS AND slaves. Largest, Most knowledgable group in Springfield. Presenters in almost any topic imaginable that do demos. Parties, dinners.
SmsSpringfieldMo, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For kinky people to share ideas, hold discussions, or even plan get togethers. A wonderful way to meet others in the BD&SM lifestyle. All are welcome. Panasexual — meaning we welcome all.
S.O.C.K. (Socially Open Community of Kinksters), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kansas City. All about fun and friends, learning and growing and bringing the community together regardless of who you are, not to take anything away from the groups that are in the community now it serves only as a open group that has no boundaries.
Soco Munch Saint Louis, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Great group of “like-minded” people (fetishists, kinksters, lifestylers, etc.). Each month, we get together at a local and popular “vanilla” establishment to have a bite to eat, enjoy some adult beverages all the while mixing/mingling with old/new friends.
South West Missouri BDSM Forum, see SWBDSMofMO
South West Missouri BDSM Meeting Hall, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For People In South West Missouri to Meet Like Minded Individuals.
Southwest Missouri Hangout and Fun, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30, SPAM
Springfield BDSM – Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For Lifestylers and Kinksters in Springfield, Missouri. We encourage discussion, announcements of get togethers in which every member of this group would be welcome (if this does not fit the group DO NOT mention or post it), and the sharing of information.
Springfield Masters and Slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Discussion group about the everyday experiences in a Master/ slave relationship.
Springfield, Mo Female Supremacy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Dedicated to the Mistress’s and those that serve them. For anyone who believe that females are the dominant gender. If you are looking for a submissive, slave or friend. If you are looking for a Mistress, or friend.
Springfield Party Girls’ Association, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For the party girls of Springfield, and we know who we are!
St. Joe BDSM Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Will meet once a month to discuss various aspects of BDSM. Geared to couples and select singles who wish to broaden their BDSM knowledge. Invite only.
St. Louis area newbies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Provides new-to-the-lifestyle submissives with helpful advice and educational information regarding the BDSM lifestyle as it pertains to the St. Louis region. Restricted to submissives, slaves, switches who identify primarily as submissives and those too new to know what they are.
St Louis area Whip enthusiasts “The WhipNic”., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
All welcome to come out and attend. Whip picnics will be in a public place with UM’s in attendance so appropriate dress and behavior will be expected. May also be attended by non lifestylers
St. Louis BDSM – Missouri, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
A different kind of open-minded pansexual group, in conjunction with DaDungeon. DaDungeon has events, lectures, presentations, seminars, workshops, and social get togethers.
St. Louis Belly Dance, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For everyone in the St. Louis Area who loves doing it or just watching it. Post information about classes or new videos you found helpful!
St. Louis D/s Dating, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people to meet one another in St. Louis and surrounding.
St. Louis FemDom /submissive, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Open and hospitable to all F/s applicable area residents, regardless of affiliations with other groups, people or communities. FemDoms and submissives who want to serve them can discuss topics, post ads and give and receive support and advice in a respectful and convivial atmosphere.
St Louis Fetish – Leather, Latex, PVC and Rubber, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-15
For those who appreciate leather, latex, PVC and rubber.
St. Louis Kinky Over 40, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For kinksters in the St. Louis area that are over the chronological age of 40 or have similar life experiences necessary to socialize and discuss issues of interest of a mature audience in an informal manner. No set meetings, munches, membership dues, by-laws, etc.
St. Louis, MO Shibari/Japanese Rope Bondage Lovers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Anyone that shares a passion with Shibari/Kinbaku/Japanese Rope Bondage that resides in and around the St. Louis area.
St. Louis Movie and Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Monthly event where those who enjoy movies and the company of like-minded individuals can get together in a more vanilla environment.
St Louis Pony Herd, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
Open to anyone interested in pony play, training of, grooming of, and the handling of ponies. Goal: To make this group a resource for everything related to pony play in St Louis and surrounding area.
ST Louis Sadists Discussion Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
A place that Sadists may relax and comment of wicked new ideas and old ideas that work extremely well.
St Louis TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For 18-35 year olds interested in BDSM from the St Louis and surrounding areas. Join us to chat about the lifestyle and being a younger member of the community.
St. Louis Wrestling, Submission, Fighting and MMA, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Bringing together those of us who enjoy wrestling, submission wrestling, erotic wrestling, boxing and the like.
The St. Louis Zoological Society, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
Welcomes all types of animals, pets, Owners, Primals, and those interested in learning more about the pet play lifestyle.
STL3, Inc., verified 2015-Mar-30
STL3, Inc., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Private social and educational group. Member based organization founded on the principle of a pansexual educational group. Functions with emphasis on continuing education in the form of social events open to members, as well as larger events open to anyone.
STL Daytime Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
For kinksters that are free during weekdays to play or munch.
STL Foodies, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
For anything and everything food related within St. Louis. Fun group of people who enjoy going to eat once a month. Great way to make new friends in a vanilla atmosphere.
StlLittles and Age Play, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
For those interested in or curious about ageplay and all its forms. For “parents”, “relatives”, caregivers, authority figures, and littles of all ages.
STL Nights Out (Kink and Vanilla), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Post about local bdsm and non bdsm related events in the Saint Louis Area, to give us ALL a chance to strengthen current friendships in this lifestyle and make new ones. Whether a house party or bbq, spanks giving or a club night, bdsm or not.
Studio Kinbaku, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Studio Kinbaku, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
St. Louis. Community space. Serves as a Nawa Dojo or Shibari Studio, workshop, play space, photography studio, practice space, art gallery, classroom, community center, and even dungeon.
submissives of the Ozarks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Support network. Share experiences, both good and bad, in order to educate and learn from one another without fear of retribution or repercussion. Place to vent, share ideas, and receive guidance. Avenue to empower and inform submissives to make effective consensual decisions. SW MO-NW AR
SWBDSMofMO, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
SWBDSMofMO, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-30
Springfield. Real Time Group. Have our own Free Standing Dungeon and have munches / parties when we choose. Open membership.
SW Missouri Bisexuals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people to find other like minded people no mater wether your bisexual or have questions and are curious. SE KS-NE OK-NW AR
SW Missouri seek and find (classifieds), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people to find other like minded people no mater your fetish or orientation. People from SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas are welcome to post.
SWMO Littles, Daddy Doms, and Mommy Dommes., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
To bring together all littles, babyboys, babygirls, Daddy Doms, Mommy Dommes, and anyone interested in this part of the lifestyle living within the SWMO/fourstate area.
SWMO Stitch & Bitch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
For kink-friendly peeps to talk about love for yarn, teach others about crafts, and to share current works in progress. Open to all, regardless of skill or gender identity.
SWMODs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Kink-friendly lifestyle group in the SW MO-NW AR. Diverse range of members with a wide variety of interests. Focus: Education and friendship with other like-minded people in the lifestyle.
The Thorn Bush, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Relaxed, friendly group of people in the Greater Kansas City area that meets weekly for discussion of various topics related to the BDSM lifestyle.
T.O.G.A., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
The Other Generation Association. Saint Louis. For 30+ kinky people that want to have fun.
TW TNG, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-24
Two Wolves The Next Generation. St. Louis area. Dedicated to teaching the newer and younger members of the local lifestyle community in a safe and sane play environment.
Western Kentucky, Southern Illinois, and Southeast Missouri Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Users in Paducah, Carbondale, Cape Girardeau, and all around Southern Illinois are encouraged to drop in and join in the discussions. Chatting, socializing, discussions and keeping everyone updated on upcoming events and munches.
WIITWD of the Ozarks region, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
For people who take leadership roles in the dark side communities to help communicate and share ideas and resources; to work together on common issues but remain separate for any adult-related activities as well as education and outreach aimed at specific communities. AR-KS-MO-OK
YESS Kansas City (TNG), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-30
Your Educational and Social Source. Catered to the younger crowd, the up and coming kinkster, ages 18-35 (and their partners).
Zeal of Springfield TNG: 18-35, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-21
For kinksters 18-35 and their partners.
Last updated: August 26, 2015 at 23:27 pm