NOTE: Links are listed in alphabetical order by name of the group, not city or specific location. For best results, look through the entire list, especially as group names often include abbreviations or other methods obscuring their placement.
4 Boroughs FetLife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: People who live in or primarily play in Queens, Brooklyn, The Bronx, as well as Staten Island.
AB/DLs of WNY, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-05
For AB/DLs that live in Western New York including Buffalo, Rochester, Niagara Falls, Batavia, Jamestown, Lockport, Canandaigua, Tonawanda, Geneva.
Albany-Capital Region Age Play Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Munch group for those in and around New York’s Capital Region who are interested in age play.
Albany Kitchen Sink, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-30
Welcoming resource for topical discussions on anything related to BDSM, leather, and kink.
Albany Ny Capital Region Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Trying to get kinksters like ourselves to join us from the Albany Ny Capital Region. We are going to get together and have munch’s etc…Please if you want to be social join in and feel free to start a discussion.
Albany Power eXchange (APeX), verified 2015-Mar-20
Friends of Albany Power Exchange on Fetlife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Albany Power eXchange, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Not for profit BDSM social, educational, and support group. Offers a friendly environment where people can meet to learn more about the BDSM and D/s lifestyles.
Albany Regional Masters and slaves (ARM-s), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
This is a group for those in real-time Master-Mistress/slave or Owner/property lifestyles in and around upstate New York near Albany.
Albany Schenectady Saratoga Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Created so FetLife members from the Capital Region can meet others in the Capital Region of NY. Albany, Schenectady, Rensselaer, Saratoga, Schoharie, Columbia, Greene, Berkshire, Glens Falls and its surroundings
Albany Whip Practice, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-21
Discuss the pleasures of throwing single tailed whips.
Alphabet Soup NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC’s monthly sex-positive gathering for the entire community! Uniting the LGBTPQ, FABGLITTER, and other sex-positive communities, Alphabet Soup serves up solidarity! Queer or straight, trans or cisgendered, kinky or vanilla, poly or mono, or anything in between… come be among friends!
Asian Women in the Tri-state Area – , New York , New Jersey, Connecticut, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dedicated to Asian women living in the Tri-State area. About having fun and enjoying good times with beautiful Asian women.
Available Lesbian Subs, Slaves, Sluts in the Northeast, U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For available lesbian subs, slaves and sluts and their dominant friends, supporters, and admirers in the northeastern states.
“The AVANT~GARDE Loft” BDSM/Fetish play party NYC, FetLife, verified 2013-May-08
Events are safe for all guests, we are non-pretentious, there is no pressure to play, you may just observe if you like. Our event is open to anyone, male, female, Dom, sub, hetero, gay, bi, CD/TV/TS) whomever is interested in the D/s, B&D, S&M dynamics of play.
Barter Long Island, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinky folks to barter skills, objects and stuff for other skills, items and stuff.
Bay Ridge, BK Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-21
For people in the area to connect further beyond the meet up, and a way to keep track up upcoming events.
BBW NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Purpose: to promote size acceptance amongst the kinky folk of the, NYC Area. there will be a monthly munch and other social activities. Group is open to anyone and everyone, but focus is on the lovely BBW’s, and the men and women who adore them.
BDSM Buffalo NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A community of many types of people, with many kinks and fetishes. Not everyone here will think what you think, believe what you believe or see what you see. Tolerance, understanding, politeness and respect in your communications goes a long way to making this a pleasant place to be.
BDSM New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For anyone in and around the New York area, who enjoys the pleasures of BDSM. What ever your fetish might be here is the place to share with people in your area.
Bi The Way, We’re In North Jersey, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To cater to the desire to meet, and come together with both bisexual males and females in North Jersey and NYC. It is a place to discuss our common interests. This group will give us a place to plan, organize, schedule and advertise events that are open and welcoming to the bi men as well as women of the New York/New Jersey area.
Binghamton Area Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A NEL(North East Littles) group. For all ageplay-minded Bigs and Littles within the Binghamton region. Will be planning possible munches, get-togethers, meet-ups and other activities within the BAL region.
Binghamton M/M Hook-ups, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-16
For gay/bi/whatever males looking to hook-up for sex with other males in the area without spending forever getting to know each other.
Binghamton Society Of Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Devoted to any kinkster/fetishist living in the Binghamton or Southern Tier NY Area. A place to discover new ideas for yourself, your partner, or to better ideas you already have with others who have good advice to offer.
Binghamton Transexuals, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
Mostly a dating / hook-up group for Transexuals and any who are looking for them in Binghamton.
Black BEAT NY/NJ, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Affiliate of the Black BEAT, Inc. organization. Real time group with quarterly munches and group events in the NY/NJ area. An inclusive group, not exclusive, those of all ethnicities are welcome and encouraged to participate.
Black Women / White Men NY,NJ & CT, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For Black Women and White men to meet chat and possibly help/discuss issues that are within our community in the tri-state NY,NJ & CT. Doesn’t matter if you are Dom, Domme or Sub.
Book Club in Long Island, NY, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-03
An IRL book club; read a book then meet to chat about it over good food.
Bound, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Inactive. Queer and trans play party.
Brooklyn Cuckold, Cucquean, and Hotwife Play, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
For those involved in relationships which include the open play with others and the exploration of the arousal, humiliation, and power of such play.
Brooklyn Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Catchall list for Kinksters of all stripes and desires in or interested in Brooklyn. From Coney Island to Green Point, from Sunset Park to Canarsie and everywhere in between feel free to join up and post as you see fit.
Brooklyn Leather, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Adult only list designed for the Leather, or alternative lifestyle community that exists in Brooklyn. Originally comprised of a small number of like minded adults meeting weekly to discuss thoughts, ideas, ask and answer questions, discuss needs and give support to each other.
Brooklyn Leather Folk, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Forum for interested parties to meet and discuss items of interest to members of the Leather Community, and to provide a platform which can be used to set up socials and parties.
Brooklyn Talking, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-08
For kinky friends to chat and compare notes.
Brooklyn Wrestling / Grappling, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-08
Wrestling, grappling, struggle play. For events, gatherings, meet-ups specifically in Brooklyn or other boroughs.
Buffalo AB/DLs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers living in Buffalo and nearby suburbs.
Buffalo Area Jackers & Jillers, reviewed 2015-Apr-15
For those who have busy lives but still want to take few minutes to meet someone, maybe a complete stranger for a quick hand job or finger fuck, etc. maybe in a car, behind a garage, in a park, in a back room, hall, or even in the middle of the street if that’s what you want.
Buffalo Bondage Club, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those seriously interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Post topics, questions or a seeking a Dominant/submissive ad.
Buffalo City Oddballs, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-05
For those who work hours other than the 9-5 norm and looking for events on the weekends, weekday afternoons, and possibly later in the night during the week.
Buffalo Kink Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Privately run, members only organization. Dedicated to openness, tolerance, safety & education. Doesn’t discriminate by gender, sexual orientation, relationship, lifestyle choice, race or creed. Goal: Foster an environment where anyone can safely learn, practice or discuss BDSM and related kink
Buffalo LINKS (Like Minded Individuals Networking for Knowledge and Support), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Pansexual group interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Purpose: To provide a place for people interested in the “real life” lifestyle, regardless of experience, to learn & discuss issues pertaining to BDSM. We don’t discriminate, regardless of sexual orientation or kink.
Buffalo Rope Society, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-21
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Buffalo TNG (The Next Generation, ages 18-35), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Buffalo TNG (The Next Generation, ages 18-35), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinksters 18-35 and their partners, open to those in Buffalo and surrounding areas. Serves as a friendly, casual group to provide support and information to the younger generation of kinksters
C2C The Coast 2 Coast Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To promote community and education while sharing an unsurpassed level of awesomeness. Hosted by The House of Awesome in conjunction with Asylum 13. DE-MD-NJ-NY-PA
Capital District Polyamory, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For polyamorous people in the Capital District to network, to share stories, ask questions, give answers, offer support, and to relate.
Capital District TLG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The Lost Generation. Where people 30-50 can get to know each other and not feel like they are surrounded by youngsters, or being the youngest one at the munch. Includes Albany, Schenectady, Troy, Saratoga Springs, & Hudson.
Capital Region Women’s Circle, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
Informal all-female BDSM community in Upstate NY. Aim: To provide connection between like-minded women who love women for support, friendship, discussion and private play parties.
Central New York Switch and Bitch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Do you identify as switchy? Do you live in central New York? Do you want a friendly group to embrace your complex nature? Join us! Once we get enough people we’ll start planning get togethers!
Chastity New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those in chastity and the keyholders in power
Clinton/Franklin County ABDL & Ageplay, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
ABDL/ageplay group for local “littles” and “Bigs” or anyone interested in learning more about it to meet and socialize.
ClubFEM NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: Restricted to Female Dominants and male submissives/slaves
CNY Lifestylers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
CNY Lifestylers, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Designed for people who are serious about BDSM and the Safe, Sane, Consensual D/s Lifestyle. Group is located in Syracuse, and will serve lifestyle people in surrounding areas – Rochester, Utica and Rome.
CNY Submissives, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
Centers around the day to day lives of submissives, bottoms, slaves, servants, switches, etc. to talk and work our way through our journeys.
Collars & Chocolate, Romantic D/s in N.Y.C, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: Single Dominant Women and submissive men in or near New York City who are desirous of a loving D/s relationship
The Community, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Your source to your scenes! The PREMIER in Alt-Life entertainment! Sponsored by:NYC Fetish Tribe, NYCLF, fiXe Magazine. TC is led by legendary producers, promoters, and performers in the NYC area. Together they bring the best events and media services to you
Connecticut and East Coast D/s or BDSM, Which is Better?, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people on the US east coast/Tri-State area so to say, to exchange ideas, munch dates, and possibly meet for coffee or whatever may arise. Connecticut/ New York/ Mass/New Jersey. Keep it simple and straight about exchanging ideas, and chatting as well as possibly meeting others.
Conversio Virium, verified 2015-Mar-20
Conversio Virium, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Columbia University’s Student BDSM Discussion Organization. Membership is open only to Columbia students, faculty and staff; its meetings are open to anyone interested. Dedicated to discussion, education & peer support concerning BDSM issues.
Corning Area Kink Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Corning Area Kink Group, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Fetish Group for the Southern Tier of NY/Northern Tier of PA. Holds Munches to build community and later on perhaps have more activities.
Couples Night Club, verified 2015-Mar-20
Couples and singles parties in Long Island.
Cross Dresssers and Sissys in New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group of crossdressers and and sissys in the New York area to talk and meet and do outings
CT BBW’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For BBW’s and their admirers living in CT, and NY-MA-RI.
CT BDSM Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Central place where Connecticut peeps (and surrounding border states) can connect and discuss the latest topics, ask questions, help with their knowledge and insight, or just get to know one another.
Cuckhold and BULLS play parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-01
Cuckhold and BULLS play parties in NYC.
Cum One Cum All, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Like minded people, to meet and socialize with others that share similar ideas.
DDeviousDelights (NY), verified 2015-Mar-20
Inclusive of all people that have a true interest in exploring their sexuality as well as their kink. hosts regular parties where we offer a no-pressure, laid back environment for people to explore their fantasies.
Dipstock: A YABDL Exposition, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
Sister event to the Camp Abdulia events. Near Albany. 4-night party featuring diapers, games, swimming, music, and bonding with friends.
Domina Society of New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Part of the Domina Society International. We are a new organization that fosters Dom/Domme and sub relationships, while understanding and supporting women and men with various interest roles and orientations.
Dominant and submissive in New York Tristate Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Looking to form a group in the NY Tristate area of like minded dominant and submissive female and males.
The Dominant Network, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-30
Mission: Fostering a supportive network for Masters, Doms/Dommes and all other forms of D/types. For communication, education, and establishing relationships among other Dominant individuals, all while supporting the community and it’s previously established larger groups.
Dominants Seeking Service-Oriented Slaves NY NJ CT, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For submissive service-oriented slaves who seek women and vise-versa for NY and surrounding areas.
DomSubFriends NYC, verified 2015-Mar-20
DomSubFriends NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
DomSubFriends NYC, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Friendly BDSM Society with weekly educational demos, presentations, workshops, munches, and terrific parties. Open to everyone regardless of age, kink desire, age, color, gender, kink and sexual orientation. Dedicated to creating a positive kindred spirit environment.
DSDNYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Inactive. NYC. Gets together to eat food and discuss sex. About Deconstructing Sexual Dynamics, about Discussing Sexual Diversity.
DungeonX, Facebook, reviewed 2015-Jul-17
DungeonX, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-17
NYC. Weekly play party (and dance party) for the fetish community. Everyone welcome! Gorgeous young gogo dancers (some sub, some dom) available for sessions, a St. Andrew’s cross, a nice dance floor, smoke and lights, a killer DJ, and only a $5 cover.
Dutchess and Lower Hudson Valley Personals, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Personals for those in the lower Hudson Valley, including Dutchess, Putnam, Orange, Westchester, Rockland, and Ulster Counties. For those that are not way upstate, not in central NY, and not in NYC.
East Coast Cuckold and Hotwife, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Created to give cuckolds and Hotwives a broader range, with specific areas of interest, for better connection and communication. AL-AR-CT-DC-DE-FL-GA-IL-IN-KY-LA-LAB-MA-MD-ME-MI-MS-NB-NC-NFLD-NH-NJ-NS-NY-OH-ONT-PA-PR-QB-RI-SC-TN-VA-VT-WV
East Coast/New England (USA) Domestic Discipline, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For anyone practicing/interested in Domestic Discipline on the east coast of the US.
East Coast Primal Den, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-13
Get to know others that share the same interest. Come, talk and ask questions. For all who identify as a Primal and live in CT-DE-FL-GA-MA-MD-ME-NC-NH-NJ-NY-RI-SC-TN-VA.
East Coast Unemployed Networking, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people on the East Coast to network for jobs and support one another. NY,NJ,DE,PA,MD,VA to start with. Anyone hear of anything good? Anyone need something?
East Enders and Friends (Eastern Suffolk County, LI, NY), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Our focus is the North and South Forks, as well as Manorville and Riverhead. We’re natives, we’re locals, we’re transplants. We’re here year round, through heat waves, hurricanes and blizzards. Our Friends are from Central Suffolk; Bay Shore, Coram and everywhere in between. Bring a positive attitude and open mind to the group.
Eat Your Fellow Kinksters’ Sushi (Albany), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-22
For friends interested in planning monthly sushi shenanigans.
Elmira Enthusiastic Kinksters! (EEK!), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Elmira Enthusiastic Kinksters! (EEK!), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Serving the Southern Tier NY and Northern Tier PA. A place to meet new folks in a safe environment. Munches and play parties.
Elmira littles and daddies/mommies/caregivers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-05
For littles of any age as well as their caregiver whether it be a mommy or daddy.
erin houdini’s Rope Things, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For erin’s rope workshops.
The Eulenspiegel Society, verified 2015-Mar-20
The Eulenspiegel Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Not-for-profit organization which promotes sexual liberation for all adults. Especially for people who enjoy consensual SM. Oldest and largest BDSM education and support organization in the U.S.
Excelsior MC, verified 2015-Mar-20
Established in fraternal union as a not-for-profit social organization dedicated to excellence in all of our activities, be they for enjoyment or charity. Objective: Plan and execute events for membership, for other organizations of a similar nature, and for the community.
Feel Me Breathe, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Feel Me Breathe, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Feel Me Breathe, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Feel Me Breathe Community — Our Family Group, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Feel Me Breathe Dungeon Monitor Corp, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Permanent physical space in Hudson Valley area. Supports all lifestyles. Party space (play and otherwise), workshop location, community center, art gallery, etc. A place to Love, Learn, and Play. Where all alternative lifestyles welcomed and embraced in a safe, nurturing environment.
Fem Dom Book Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Refer your tri-state area friends and anyone else who is interested in looking at the early classics of BDSM through FemDom eyes. Not a place for non-literary FemDom discussions. Restricted to: Dominant women and switches
Femdom/malesub NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Femdom/malesub kinksters of the New York metropolitan region. Please keep the content of postings focused on the Femdom/malesub dynamic.
Fetish Island, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group for Long Islanders by Long Islanders, whether its Spanking in Stony Brook, Bondage in Babylon or Role Playing in Ridge, whatever your fetish, we want Fetish Island to be a place where Long Islanders can come together, meet, discuss and exchange ideas and share their opinions & experiences in a safe, friendly environment
Fetish Zone, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
BDSM Play Parties Brought to you by Bob H and Sub Giggles HOT PEOPLE, HOT SCENES, HOT TIME!!!! The purpose of this group is to provide details of Fetish Zone’s upcoming parties and connect with other people who are going.
FetNights NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A place for New Yorkers to advertise/annouce your group events. No personal ads please.
Fingerlakes Kink Community, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Intentionally accepting & open community to create an opportunity for kinksters in the Ithaca area with a munch & other social outlets in order to get to know each other. Envisions a friendly gathering of like minded individuals, mutual respect, enjoyment of each others company.
Fisting & Stretching Fans of New York, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Mar-30
For other like minded people in NY area interested in Experimenting and Exploring this fetish
Foot Fetish Western New York, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
For root Fetishist who live in WNY; Ticklers & Females Welcome.
Freyja Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Mission: To support BDSM community of the Buffalo-WNY area through outreach, example, and education. To create a community where those new to the lifestyle along with those who are experienced are welcome, where no one need fear abusive behavior, and to promote mutual respect and tolerance.
Friends, Fun and Food Western NY? Dinner Parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-21
Rochester area. Dedicated to Master/slaves and Dom/subs who wish to hold or would be interested in attending a dinner party held every few months.
Friends of Albany Power Exchange on Fetlife, see Albany Power eXchange (APeX)
Friends of Albany TNG, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Intended for people over age of 18 yet under age of 35 (and their partners regardless of age, in some circumstances), to socialize, learn, and explore the world of kink together.
Friends of La Domaine Esemar, see La Domaine Esemar
The Fringe & Kink Society, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For everyone in the NJ/NYC Metro area who wants to get together. Munch, bowl, partake in mac-n-cheese nomming and do other things.
Garden State Sadists and masochists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all Sadists and masochists residing in New Jersey mainly. Overflow from NY and Pa allowed. Feel free to post a personal and lets have some good discussions. The more extreme the better.
The Gate (Your Gateway to BDSM), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The Gate Munch/News, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Advertises, Promotes, and Educate People of Events. Chapters: Phila, Central Ma. Providing members and other community very relaxed, public and safe place for meeting others with an interest. Welcomes anyone, from novice to experienced. CT-DE-FL-GA-MA-MD-ME-NC-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-SC-VA-VT.
Gay Long Island, NY Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
i for one am horny for some LOCAL Nassau/Suffolk Bondage, Flogging, CBT, Electro, Fucking, and whatever-you’re-into PLAY. This is a group for us.
Glens Falls BDSM Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Monthly BDSM club starting in the Glens Falls Area. Restricted to: submissive female and female slaves
Grapple Den NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A neutral meeting ground for fun-seeking grapplers, wrestlers, and wrestling fans of all shapes and sizes. Our parties are open to men and women of 18 years and older, and of any experience level.
Great Lakes Anime Conventions, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Primarily here for those who attend Anime Conventions in the Great Lakes region/East North Central region. However, the group is not limited to just Anime conventions, even though this is the primary focus. Any convention that would relate to anime/manga, gaming, comics, sci-fi, renaissance, etc. can and will be labeled and discussed here.
Greater New York State Polyamory Community, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: Polyamory individuals residing in New York Upstate or with ties to NY poly folks. Hopefully be a portal for people looking for resources and actual real life meetings/group activities within the polyamorous community that is located in New York State.
Greater NYC Steampunk & Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To discuss events, parties at events, how one’s Steampunk and Kink interact with one another, and anything else about Steampunk that a bunch of Kinky folk in and around NYC might want to talk about.
Hamptons, NY (US) BDSM and Alt. Lifestyle, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those who live or holiday in the “Hamptons”- i.e. Southampton, Easthampton, Westhampton, Montauk, Hampton Bays, Quogue, Water Mill, Bridgehampton, Sagaponack, Sag Harbor, Wainscott, Amagansett, and even Shelter Island, etc.. Chat, connect, open discussion.
Harlem Black Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-01
For kinky people of color who want to meet other kinky people of color.
Health and Kink in Buffalo, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Kink-friendly people that can work out together, share recipes, do healthy activities, and motivate each other to get healthier together!
Hello Brooklyn, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
18+ gathering committed to providing a monthly location for POC (People of Color) kinksters to meet in a safe and inviting environment.
HilltopClubhouseCNY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
HilltopClubhouseCNY, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Local real time group in Syracuse. Anyone who lives within reasonable driving distance of Syracuse is welcome to join the Yahoo Group, and attend munches. New members must attend munches in order to become vetted and invited to attend parties.
Hitchin’ Bitches South Eastern Pennsylvania, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For female rope riggers/rope tops/dominants in SEPA-NJ-DE-NY. Meet to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the Peer to Peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts. Women do the tying, the teaching, the demoing and the topping.
Hudson Valley Brunch Not Munch Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Social club of kinksters who are opened minded towards varied gender expression, class circumstances and differing types of dining manners/social protocols.
Hudson Valley FemDomme/submissve male Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Female Dominant Women- submissive men may join. Looking for like minded local people. Rules: We will be looking to hold Tea events for women and eventually CFNM parties.
Hudson valley kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people in the area with simmilat interests to talk and discust things with
Hudson Valley Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Hudson Valley Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Bigs, littles, middles, adult babies and diaper lovers (ab/dl) of all sexualities, persuasions and gender identities (or lack thereof).
Hudson Valley LOL (Love of Leather), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Anyone age 21+ and interested in the BD/SM lifestyle is welcome. Public munches and private play parties on a regular basis. Main focus: Make friends and have fun!
Hudson Valley Love of Legs, Feet, and High Heels, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
MEN who are obsessed with women’s legs, feet or high heels and the WOMEN who love having their legs, feet or high heels worshiped.
Hudson valley Munches, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Find munches in the Hudson Valley.
Hudson Valley NY Ageplay (all-inclusive), verified 2015-Mar-20
Hudson Valley NY Ageplay (all-inclusive), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all kinds of ageplayers in Hudson Valley. Bigs and littles of all sexualities, persuasions and gender identities (or lack thereof). Come, discuss ageplay and all of its many facets. Plan munches and parties. Or introduce yourself and make new friends!
Hudson Valley Polyamory Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For polyamorous or poly-curious folks who live or work in Hudson Valley. Specific to people interested in the polyamorous lifestyle. Both kinky and strictly vanilla poly people are welcome.
Hudson Valley Ropeshop, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Peer to peer educational exchange of rope knowledge based on the un-conference format. Any skill level welcome.
Hudson Valley SIN Club, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
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Hudson Valley TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinksters ages 18-35 in the Hudson Valley to meet, hang out, and play with each other.
Hudson Valley TOG, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Ages 35+. Meet, greet, discuss, set up RACK events and scenes with the Other generation. Kingston-based munches.
Hudson Valley’s Wettest Squirting/Orgy Parties, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-08
For Fetishers who enjoy parties with squirting as a main emphasis. Welcomes Newbies. Open to all races, ages, shapes and sizes, hairy or shaved.
Hypnosis Albany, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Erotic hypnosis study group; not a hypnosis class in the traditional sense. A place to practice and experiment and chat and share ideas.
Hypnosis New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dedicated to fun exploration of Erotic Hynosis. Closely associated with the New England Hypnosis Group and work to build the hypnotic community within the kink world. Very newbie friendly and are happy to explain and demonstrate hypnotic techniques, and to teach subjects how to have the best trances.
I ate at George’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
started for all of those who, at one time or another, have had dinner at George’s place on long island. Since there are so many of us who dont always have a way to contact others from Georges, Im putting this out there for all of us to be able to stay in touch and get together in the future.
Iron Guard B.C., verified 2015-Mar-20
Not for profit fellowship of members, primarily leather/levi-oriented. Purpose: To develop character and leadership in the spirt of friendship, brotherhood & goodwill. For men over age 21, who live within 50 mile radius of NYC
Iron Bell Academy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Queens. Exclusive, newly established center of education and exploration focused on intimacy, sincerity, extravagance, and style. Mission-based organization of like-minded individuals who seek social and academic opportunity away from the crowds and excess of the mainstream fetish community.
Ithaca & Surrounding Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Created using Ithaca as a focal point for people in this area. Radius as a reference should extend no further than Syracuse, Binghamton, NY; Scranton, PA; and any small towns within.
Ithaca Kink Community, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-26
Resource for discussion and community building for the Ithaca area.
Just for Fun, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
We are group dedicated Just to having fun. No age limit, no political agenda, etc. We’re here just to have a good time with whatever we do.
Keeping it Shiny, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-04
NYC’s only total rubber party.
Kids Corner, Long Island NY, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Play parties once a month on LI. Restricted to: littles, middles, and their bigs who love them.
Kingston Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For fetish persons in Kingston and surrounding areas.
Kingston Ny Area Personal ads (Ulster County), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For Kingston/Ulster Co. personal ads. Post what you are looking for-Dom, Domme, Sub, Pet or whatever.
Kink Classic – Rochester, NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Group of 35 year olds and over in the Rochester area interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Part of Rochester Kink Society.
Kinksters for a Kause-Long Island, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Kinksters who offer public service, support, and charitable assistance in and out of the BDSM scene.
Kinky and Kurious in Long Beach, Ny, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
An area to chat about the lifestyle with people that live in close proximity to Long Beach, Ny.
Kinky Birders of the Northeastern U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Birders (and those interested in learning) in Northeastern U.S. of all skill levels and areas of interest welcome.
Kinky Camping in the Northeastern U.S., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Folks and camping events in Northeastern US
Kinky Coaster Club NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: People who love to have a good time at Theme Parks, Carnivals and other such ride venues. Join us for Coaster discussions, updates, news and of course… COASTER RIDING EVENTS!
Kinky Co-Op, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A place to gather to work on projects and reach goals together.
Kinky Friends of Queens, New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A friendly place where kinky people from NYC’s greatest borough can be themselves.
KinkyJews NYC, verified 2015-Mar-20
KinkyJews NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Will focus on members and events in the New York area. Edgy, open-minded, and otherwise unconventional Jews (and those who love us!) are encouraged to expand their horizons with us as together we build a more vibrant, diverse and inclusive atmosphere for all.
Kinky NY Yankee Fans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinksters who are into baseball and like the NY Yankees!
Kinky Speed Dating – NYC & NJ, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-14
Held monthly, alternating by gender/identity.
Koz’s Kennel (Long Island Pets and Littles), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Manorville Long Island! A safe place for All Littles and Pets on LI and those curious about Pet play and age play. We’re hoping to start having meetings next month assuming we get enough to join! Koz’s Kennel is thankful to TNGLI (The New Generation Long Island) for helping us get started
Kulinary Kinksters NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Are you a kinky food professional? Are you a kinky foodie? And you a splosher? Do you just love food stuffs? Are you in NYC, or near NYC? Then this is a group for you! Discussions about food, places to eat, news about food, topics interesting to foodies in general. Have fun with it!
La Douleur et Le Plaisir, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-22
Buffalo/WNY based. Strives for elegance, education, decadent, imaginative experiences, and opportunity to engage in discussion, socialization, and progressive growth of community. Goal: Provide an elegant and enlightened space to explore sensuality and intellectual side of BDSM/Kink.
Labia Licking in New York City, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-14
For women who really enjoy a tongue between their thighs and the men or women who enjoy doing it.
Lactation and ANR in New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those who are seeking lactation, ANR, hucow partners in New York.
Le Bukkake Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-27
Events dedicated to sexy and attractive couples and singles on who enjoy this niche fetish. NNJ-NYC.
Le Cercle des Dommes, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Online discussion & announcement list. Real-time group for dominant women of all orientations in the NYC area.
Lesbian Sex Mafia, verified 2015-Mar-20
Lesbian Sex Mafia, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community.
Leto’s Lair, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-14
Place/event for everyone to express yourselves freely, openly and without judgment. NYC.
LI Dirty old men and the women who love them, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
Older men who appreciate younger women and hang out
LI MILFs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
All MILFs on Long Island and those who love MILFs.
LIFE (Long Island Fetish Events) in Nassau, Long Island NY, verified 2015-Mar-20
LIFE (Long Island Fetish Events) in Nassau, Long Island NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the curious to come with their questions, and for beginners and the more experienced to share their thoughts and insights. Most of all, it’s a place to chat with your old friends and to make some new ones…to relax and enjoy some good company.
LI/NYC Kinky Matchmaker, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-14
Looking for a partner, don’t have time to look; don’t know too many people in the scene; or maybe you’re brand new to the scene and not sure where to look? Here to do the legwork for you.
Long Island!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A BDSM discussion group for Long Islanders, ex-Long Islanders, or those with fetishes for awesome Long Island accents. Feel free to post announcements of events happening on L.I. or in the surrounding area.
long island and NYC parties, gatherings, events and playspaces, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A place to promote and discuss the various goings on around the island and NYC, reviews and commentary are welcome
Long Island and NYC Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
You can join this group even if you are not from L.I. or New York City but please make sure that you are clear about that fact when you post. Whether you are looking for friends, play partners or RT/LTR on LI or in NYC then this is the group for you.
Long Island CFNM, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For the clothed females and naked males of Long Island NY.
Long Island Daddies for sissy boys, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A place where Nassau and Suffolk dads can find the twinks, sissy or just plain old subs that need a firm hand
Long Island Dom/sub, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For peolpe who live on Long Island and enjoy Dom/sub life style. A place to meet new friends and to see the Dom/sub community if alive and well on LI.
Long Island Female Dominant, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
a Female dominant group on Long Island. Restricted to: Biological Female Dominants
Long Island Femdom Couples, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group for couples here on Long Island where the female is in-charge of the relationship.
long island fetlife newbies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
for men and women of all ages and fetishes new to fetlife
Long Island Kinky BiFemales, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For bisexual or bi-curious kinky women to discuss issues, get to know one another and possibly meet.
Long Island League of Kink, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the kinky folks of the Long Island/NY area
Long Island Leather N Roses, verified 2015-Mar-20
Long Island Leather N Roses (LILNR), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Long Island Leather N Roses, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Pansexual BDSM group. For kinksters 19+. Meets for demonstrations, presentations and socializing. Est. Oct 1997.
Long Island Littles, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-19
Safe place for littles to chat and relax, plan outings and hang out with others, have adventures and go places with friends.
Long Island Littles aka LIL’s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Those of us who identify as a “little” and the grown ups who love us that wish to get together once a month for some fun activities and a bite to eat, ie: a trip to the pumpkin farm and Applebee’s.
Long Island Littles Munch, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-26
Welcomes all Littles of Long Island.
Long Island Ravens MC, verified 2015-Mar-20
Gay “leather” social club. Encourages open-mindedness, diversity, and the right to an alternative lifestyle without discrimination, judgment, or persecution.
Long Island Rope Revival — LIRR, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Purpose: To promote rope bondage in any form, be it American, Japanese, decorative, damsel in distress or whatever permutation you might consider. Open to anyone, ages 19+ regardless of gender, orientation or level of experience.
Long Island Spanking, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
The purpose of this group is not to compete with any existing group in the New York area, but rather, to provide a place for spankos on Long Island to come and have fun.
Long Island Spanking, Electro, Wax, Asian, Age Play, Bondage, Newbie, Yada, Yada, Yada!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For a younger crowd looking to learn and safely explore BDSM- D/s
Long Island Tea, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
We will be getting together every couple months to have a Ladies Tea. The Teas will take form in different locations, and in different manors, no two teas will be alike.
long island threesomes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For long islanders to hook up and meet for threesomes and foursomes
Long Island Town 411. Which town do I come from?, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
This group is to list what town you are from on Long Island. Please start a new discussion with your town name in the title; maybe add the zip code as well. I would like to see one discussion group for each town, so check to see if you town is listed already.
Lower NY ABDL, Age-Players, Littles and Bigs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Have you a yearning passion for diapers, age-play, or anything related to the ABDL and Littles community? Do you live in the state of New York, just outside NYC to any side (including Long Island)?
The Manhattan Fetish Cruise., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Everything and Anything To Do With “The Manhattan Fetish Cruise”
The Manhattan Spanking Association, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC’s most exclusive spanking group. Accepting, non-judgmental, drama free group for those who share an interest in spanking. Hosts monthly spanking parties in Manhattan.
MAsT: Great Lakes Region, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For members of MAsT (Masters and slaves Together) who reside in the Great Lakes Region. To exchange information with other chapters in the region and post announcements regarding your chapters activities. Also, updates will be posted regularly for members of the region.
MAsT: Manhattan, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-28
Strives to provide presentations for the public followed by a circle discussion. Monthly. For anyone with an interest in M/s.
MAsT Metro NY, verified 2018-Jun-04
MAsT Metro NY, FetLife, verified 2018-Jun-04
MAsT Metro NY is a community-inclusive support group open to all adults (18+) interested in consensual power exchange relationships. We are comprised of members of all genders and orientations, and we encourage all who are interested in power exchange dynamics to attend and participate in our meetings. There is no requirement that you currently be in an M/s, D/s, or power exchange relationship to attend meetings.
Masters and slaves in Upstate New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To bring Masters /Mistress and slaves together from the up state NY area; to include, all surrounding areas. Open to those who identify as Master/Mistress and slave regardless of gender, sexual orientation or relationship status.
Masters and Slaves Together Long Island New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Explore mastery, service, direction, submission, authority and the myriad of concepts which may be included in a Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Find like-minded individuals who share your concerns, curiousities, and interests
Masters and slaves – Western NewYork, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Those who identify as Master or slave, to join this group for discussions pertaining to Master and slave dynamic. Will not discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation, race or relationship status.
Master/slave Dom/sub Lifestylers Social Club – Metro NY Area, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Meet initially once a month on any day of the week that everyone is willing to agree. M/s or D/s lifestylers can come for socializing, dinner, discussion, coffee, whatever way they want to participate and for any part of the time the club is “open” to meet at the host house. Discussions & explorations on 24/7 Master/slave relationships.
Men Spanking Men Parties In NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
From 35 to 55 hot guys of all ages. Spanking-paddling-hair brushing-caning. In a 5000 Sq. Ft. Legal, Clean, Well Equipped Play Space. Spanking Video’s, Great Music, and 7 hours of Hot Spanking Fun.
Metal’s world, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Intended for intelligent conversation, to discuss topics about the scene, vanilla world or when both coincide. Topics are NYC based and have much to do with the NYC scene in general.
Metro Munch! BDSM & Kink Meet-up, Buffalo NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Apr-01
In addition to kinkster camaraderie you’ve come to know and love, will be sampling all the interesting eats and treats that Buffalo has to offer.
MGP (meet greet play)Hudson Valley, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
To meet others, host parties/classes and meetups. Goal: To share and learn.
Middletown area kinkster and friends :-), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
All welcome from within Sullivan, Orange, Ulster and Dutchess Counties and surrounding.
Middletown Munch Bunch, Orange County NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Social networking group for munches, events and parties. To help you get your foot in the door, learn about many of the kink-related events and activities in your area, and meet people in your local kink community.
Mohawk Valley & Kinky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For individuals who live in the Mohawk Valley region of NYS and are looking for like minded kinksters, for conversation, sharing, etc.
Mohawk Valley Rope, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
= DISBANDED =
Monroe county, NY kinky co-op, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To share and trade ideas, tips and furniture and a place to allow the creation of meet up events locally where such trading, buying, selling and swapping can be done in a safe group environment.
Moveable Feast NYCFD, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC FemDom Potluck Group to plot and plan events with a Female Dominant theme. This is a closed group. Only those whom have been invited will be able to maintain membership here. Restricted to: Female Dominants who reside in New York City area.
Ms. Julia’s Dungeon, Yahoo, inactive since 2010, verified 2015-Mar-20
Nassau County BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
People joining this group can chat, discuss, meet and host topic discussions on here as well as set up meetings, trainings and just get togethers in and around places in Nassau County. This group is open to all BDSM interested people.
Nassau County TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinksters ages 18-35 in Nassau County.
New England 40 and Over Kinksters (You gotta love them), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinksters 40 and over (and those who love us), from all over New England and NY
New England BBW Kinks and Gang Bangs!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Welcomes all sizes of large women. All sizes of men welcome as well. Must either be a big woman or PREFER big women. New England-update NY
New England D/s, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
New England D/s, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
On-topic discussions, support, and more. For those who live in New England and NY who are interested in, involved with, or live the BDSM, D/s, M/s, and/or S & M lifestyle.
New England/NY/NJ Male Pantyhose Lovers & Wearers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Pantyhose fetish group for men who love and wear pantyhose in the Northeast, specifically New England-NY-NJ.
New England Rainbow Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For members of New England LGBTIQA community to talk and post announcements of upcoming events and news pertaining to the LGBTIQA leather folk ! Restricted to: New England-NY Residents
New Jersey Cuckold, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
An all inclusive group for people in the New Jersey, Metropolitan area, and all surrounding areas including New York State, Connecticut and Pennsylvania and anyone visiting or interested and have the common fetish of cuckolding of all types and from all sides of participation.
New Jersey/New York daddies and adult little girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Peek a boo, i see you! hehe
New Paltz Kink Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
Open to everyone.
New Queens Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The idea is to create a new, vibrant dynamic that coexists with but does not merge with any existing munch.
New York & New Jersey Anal Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Ceated to bring together people in the New York and New Jersey area who are obsessed with ass. If you live in, work in, or travel to the area and love anal sex, ass-to-mouth, rimming, enemas, or miscellaneous anal shenanigans, this group is for you.
New York Age Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Littles, AB/DL’s, Daddies and Mommies in the NYS and surrounding areas. The point of this group for now is to get to know the people in the area, figure out who is around, and have some good discussions.
New York BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Formed to serve as a network/discussion group for New York State.
New York Bondage Club (NYBC), verified 2015-Mar-20
Bondage, S/m play club for men interested in bondage and other S/M activities. Experts, novices, and those in between welcome. Explore fantasies as you play or watch. Wear as much (leather, rubber, etc) or as little (be naked) clothing as you wish or you can stay in street clothes until 11:45pm
New York Casual Sex, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinky people to meet up for NSA fun. Married, single, attached, it doesn’t matter what your home situation is. This group is to let out your wild side in a non-judgmental display of sexuality.
New York City Area Enema Medical Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all us kinky medical oriented New York area people to discuss enema suppository anal play.
New York City BBW’s Thick Curvy Women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For BBW, curvy and thick ladies of New York City and those who are fond of them.
New York City BDSM Submissives, Yahoo, Inactive since 2008, verified 2015-Mar-20
New York City High Heels, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group dedicated to those living or visiting New York City who have a deep appreciations of sexy high heels. All are welcome.
New York City Jobs & Giggs Spot!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For everyone that’s looking for work. Part time or full time. The economy is still in a bad place and I know a lot of people are looking for work so feel free to post ads here. Please try not to post multiple times. This is for NYC only!
New York City Leather Family, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Open to all friends and supporters of New York City Leather Family!
New York City Metro Area Classified! (for new to the scene Dominants & submissives looking to meet New Friends and Play Partners), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: people looking for friends and groups and parties that help make this happan
New York City Music Scene, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
All music New York. Whether it’s a show, or a band from NYC, it goes here. Want to promote your show? Go for it. Want to meet up at a show? Post here. Just want to wax rhapsodic about your favorite band? Go right ahead. Just keep it related to the best city in the world.
New York City Pro-Dommes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Pro-Dommes working in the NYC metro area to advertise, network, connect with interested parties and share suggestions for coping with increasingly harsh NYC laws.
New York City Pups and Handlers, see NYC-PAH ~ New York City Pups and Handlers
New York Cuckold – Hotwives, Cucks, Cuckqueans and Bulls…., FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
for all people interested in all aspects of Cuckolding:
New York Dominas, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group dedicated to the Dominas of, one of the greatest cities in the World, NYC!
New York Female sub/slave Forum, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
New York Female sub sisters Forum, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Where female submissives and slaves can go to be themselves. Free to talk about the many things that we experience within a M/s, D/s lifestyle. Exists to have an open forum to be able to discuss and share feelings ..quandries .. fears .. as well as every day life events
New York FemDom-MaleSub, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those FemDoms and male subs in New York and the general area to meet and make contact so that real time Activites can be planned, promoted and put on. This is not a Cyber group. This is for people that want to Live and Experience their Kink in Real Time.
New York FetLifers Who Live In Boroughs or Towns Not Listed, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Membership of this group is limited to those who live, work, or travel to NY.
New York Foot Fetish, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dedicated to not only the worshipping and adoration of feet in all its aspects; but also to create a place for NEW YORK foot lovers to come together
New York Glory Holes, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Try to list addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them.
New York Goreans, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Join us, and meet other goreans living in NY, If you been in the lifestyle, new to the lifestyle, or just curious. Welcomes all. Free and slaves alike welcome. Will meet and unite. Do events and form a real time gorean society in New York.
New York Kink Friendly Housing, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Those looking for fetish and kink friendly housing, rooms, and roommates in the New York City Area.
New York New Jersey New York! Everything BDSM!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Formed to serve as a network/discussion group for New York & New Jersey. If it’s about BDSM and If it’s going on in New York or in New Jersey, tell us about it
New York Panthers Leather Club (Currently on hiatus), verified 2015-Mar-20
New York Panthers Leather Club (Yahoo), verified 2015-Mar-20
New York Pegging Strap On Play, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the women that bend over the men and the men that let it happen
New York Renegades, verified 2015-Mar-20
The NY Renegades marked its 25th Anniversary in July, 2012, and that’s quite a milestone. What will the future bring? That remains to be seen.
New York state roommates n rentals/ resources, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Looking for a roommate/s? , Rental, have a room to rent ? rental to rent out?
New York University and Kinky, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all NYU students faculty and alumni who think J-Sex is more than just the President. Lame Jokes are a great ice breaker.
New Yorks Real BDSMers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
We are the ones looking for Supreme Dominants, (the true ones) and we are the ones who hope the Surpreme ones notice us. Anyhow, this is a group to post personal (real) ads offering yourself to the Supreme ones, or the Supreme ones to put adds out for looking for us. PERSONAL ADs ONLY.
Niagra Fetish Friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Est 2009. Community of people coming together to celebrate and promote Kink within their lives. Open to anyone who is open-minded, encourages exploration of consensual kink of various kinds. Meets regularly for munches, play parties and proud presenter of The BDSM Revolution in Buffalo.
NJ-NY-CT Black BDSM, Yahoo, inactive since 2010, verified 2015-Mar-20
NJ-NY-PA Masters & Slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Master/Subs, Dom/Sub or beginners to set real meetings to fulfill their needs regarding: anal, spanking, bondage, medical exam, toys play, enemas, gang bang, threesome, suppositories, BDSM, age play, Master/Slave-Daddy/Daughter-Doctor/patient-rape roleplay, TS, TV or any other fetish or fantasy
NJ-NY-PA Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Tell what you are into and what yuo are looking for to get replies to match your desires and possibly make a new friend
NJ Personals & Classifieds for Kinky People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A kink friendly Classified and Personals group for those in the lifestyle in NJ and the tristate area (NY, NJ, PA).
No Inhibitions/ Parthenon events, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-01
Play space in Manhattan. Clean, safe space where you can party and play all night amongst the best like-minded kinksters in the tri-state area. All welcome, from noobs to seasoned veterans.
North East Littles (NEL), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Serves social needs of the littles ageplay community in Northeast (CT-DE-MA-MD-ME-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-VT). Membership free, open to Adults over age 18 regardless of ethnicity, religion, sexual or gender orientation. For Littles By Littles.
North East Shooters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinky gun owners of New England and the rest of the North East to discuss all things that go bang
Northeast Dungeon Society, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20, SPAM
Northeast Native American Pathways, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
We keep the Old Ways alive by living them every day. We remember those who came before us, respect the elders and Mother Earth as we walk in the pathway of honor, honesty and community and listen to the Great Spirit. New England-Upstate NY-QC
Northeast Pennsylvania Littles Munch, verified 2015-Mar-20
NorthEast PA Littles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all ageplay-minded Bigs and Littles in NEPA. Possible munches, get-togethers, meet-ups and other activities. PA-NY
NorthEast States or Montreal, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Event postings as well as BDSM/fetish-related discussions of interest. English & French are welcome. QC-NorthEast.
Northeastern Pennsylvania Kinks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Mainly from NEPA, with bits of NY-NJ-SEPA thrown in. All welcome.
Northeastern submissive women, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dedicated to fostering supportive communication and relationships amongst submissive women in northeastern states. CT-DC-DE-MA-MD-ME-NH-NJ-NY-PA-RI-VT
Northeastern US Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For event listings for for Northeast Regional Events, not discussion topics, personal ads, etc.
Northern Westchester & Putnam Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The New Northern Westchester Munch. Come and enjoy a safe social atmosphere. Newbies are especially welcome.
NY and Long Island Fitness Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-13
Mission: Bring together NY lifestyle community on both individual level and community level through fitness and healthy living; offer discussions on nutrition, weight loss, exercise and fitness; promote live, local, fitness-related events.
NY Ballbusting, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Where NY ballbusting enthusiasts can connect, meet, chat, and play. Open to Ballbusters AND Ballbustees.
NYFDMS, Yahoo, see New York FemDom-MaleSub
NY NNJ BD SM Ds Fetish Society, Yahoo, see DomSubFriends NYC
NY Rape Play Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Do you live in NY? Do you want to setup a play-rape scene? If so, then this is the place for you!
NYC & Long Island Event Calendar, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
You can pimp your events and people new to our area can have one place where they can go to see what’s going on this week or this weekend and ask questions directly in the threads. Every real event, kink or non-kink is welcome, from any group around the area.
NYC Age Play Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For news, questions, and discussions regarding the New York Age Play munch and related age play topics.
NYC Age Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Queer/trans led, anti-classist, anti-racist, pro-pervert kink/BSDM/sex social & infoshare group for age players in NYC (as inspired by Instigate NYC – organized by Angel & Sebastien). Primarily social and infoshare group, providing a space for those who engage in, or wish to learn more about age play between consenting adults.
NYC Ageplayers, Littles, ABs, DLs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For ageplayers, littles, middles, caretakers, mommies, daddies, adult babies, diaper lovers, and interested people in NYC area.
NYC All-Gender All-Species Pet Play Romp, Fetlife, reviewed 2015-Jul-06
Hoping to create a monthly romp for NYC-area pups, kittens, ponies, wolves, foxes, bunnies, dinosaurs, pets and creatures of all kinds, and handlers, owners, or pet-lovers.
NYC Alternative, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC and surrounding areas alternative lifestyle forum for those who are into the BDSM, Swinging, and Gothic/Industrial lifestyle. You’re welcome to post your events and announcements.
NYC and NJ Black Doms and white subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
All African Americans will be given leader status and rights that enables. whites need to show respect to Doms.
NYC Area Chatter for Submissives / Slaves / Bottoms & Fetishists, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For NYC area subs to support each other. Dominants are welcome as well but please keep in mind that this is a “safe place” for submissives.
NYC Area Gay Bi Heteroflexible (M4M), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all of the men in the NYC area who are either same-sex oriented, or are open to such play. Open to all kinks, interests. Just looking to have a group where we can communicate with each other
NYC BDSM Videomakers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those interested in shooting or starring in BDSM related videos in New York City. Share your clips4sale links or ask for help to find someone to do camerawork or on screen “talent”
NYC Board Games Meet-up. FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Kinky people playing vanilla games… A group where people can get to know each other through non-kinky activities while still allowing us to be ‘ourselves’.
NYC COP (Creepy Old People) 45 and up, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Restricted to: 45+ and friends. Join us for some adult conversation! Let’s trade crockpot recipes, Quaalude stories, strategies for hitting on kids young enough to be our, uh, grad students, and hints for swinging a flogger when our osteo is acting up. And maybe some afternoon we’ll have a munch where under-45s are welcome — to be seen and not heard!
NYC Daddy Dom’s & Baby Girls, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A place where local NYC Dom’s and Baby Girls can meet, talk and share the special bond that we enjoy so much.
NYC FemDom Tea Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dominant women that gather together over tea and scones to socialize and share in an open and friendly environment. Focus: To host tea parties complete with sissy maid service on a semi regular basis.
The NYC fetish connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The place for locals to meet, chat, get to know each other & play in a safe, sensual manner.
NYC Fetish Singles, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group for NYC Singles to meet, hookup, pair up, marry, breakup, drunk dial, vent… Well you get the picture. Of course not just a group from couples, hetero’s, mono’s (is that the slang for monogamous people). All freaks, fetishist and pervs are welcome.
NYC Fetish Tribe, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A close knit group of like-minded individuals celebrating fetish and play in a non-judgmental environment. Anyone can be Tribe. All that is required is the right attitude and the propulsion to participate, contribute and be accountable for your actions. Often it is said to “be Tribe” simply means to “be cool.”
NYC Foodies, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Post here for recommendations, bad/fantastic experiences, places to pick up those extra special ingredients, plans for potlucks etc!
NYC Forced Feminization, TV Reformatory, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-01
Meeting place for those who already enjoy, or wish to explore forced feminization from either the Dom or Sub experience.
nyc freaky meet up nyc, nj, li only, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
All areas filled with kinky, freaky, fun people who are looking to connect. This group is a place where everyone can meet. Feel free to post Events, Post Personal Ads, Post Exactly what you are looking for. Conversations are always welcomed
NYC friend & play Connection, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Where we hope you will find that special person, couple or even group of kinksters to develop that amazing feeling one feels when a true connection has been reached. This group has been started for any single or poly kinkster looking for a new friend, play partner or lifetime soul mate.
NYC Gang Bang Sluts and Studs, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Where the sluts and studs who want to gang bang them get together. Please post your fantasies. Everything from a “vanilla” gang bang with 4:1 ratios to big 20:1 parties, gang rape fantasies, double and triple penetrations, interracial gang bangs should be talked about here.
NYC girls of Leather (NYCgoL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC girls of Leather (NYCgoL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Membership not limited by race, creed, orientation or gender; however, identification of Leathergirl is essential. Mission: Provide, camaraderie, and safe space to any individual who identifies as a Leathergirl; Provide community service within & outside of the NYC Leather Community at large.
NYC Interracial Masters/Doms/Daddys – slaves/submissives/babygirls, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
ONLY for heterosexual interracial male-led connections in NYC exist between: Doms/Masters/Daddys AND Subs/Slaves/Babygirls. Welcoming others such as kinksters, vanillas, etc…on a one to one basis. Our area to include: Bergen County NJ, Westchester County NY, Fairfield County CT, Long Island
NYC Kinky Artists Salon, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Brings together people in the BDSM/Swinger community who are creative or simply enjoy spending time with creative people. Intellectual conversation, showing new artworks, works in progress and also having the freedom to let an evening such as that evolve into a sensual, sexual situation.
NYC Kinky Campers & Outdoor Enthusiasts, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
For kinksters in the NYC metro area (incl LI, Jersey, upstate) who share the love of the outdoors. Will be planning fishing, camping, hiking, hunting (maybe), skiing/snowboarding, and anything else
NYC Kinky Gamers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For New York’s Kinky Gamers. Video games, board games, pen and paper, and everything in between.
NYC Kinky Living (NYCKL), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For us who see ourselves as kinky or alternative, and who want to or do live in long-term positive and healthy lifestyle relationships. Not for discussion of general BDSM and play-only oriented topics, but rather of many different kinds of long-term lifestyle relationships.
NYCLatexLovers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-04
For NYC latex lovers, rubberists to meet, organize get togethers, share latest inspirations. Local NYC designers encouraged to post about their work. Class postings, events listings, sales, etc welcome.
NYC Little Scouts Troop 212, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-06
Includes all 5 boroughs and neighboring areas. Kink (sex & sexuality) group based on a scout troop model, mostly with age players and animal players in mind, with uniform elements, earned merit badges, field trips, and regular meetings.
NYC Massage Connection, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
For people in NYC who enjoy either giving or receiving massages.
NYC Mixing sexplay with BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
a group of people who believe that sexplay can be intertwined with BDSM that there not be a line drawn between rope bondage and a gangbang
The NYC Liquid Fetish Meet’n’Greet, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
This group is dedicated to the organization of a munch-style meeting of New Yorkers with a fetish for urine play. All are welcome! Men, women, couples, singles, gay, straight, genderqueer, m2f, f2m.
NYC Novice, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC Novice – For Novices Everywhere, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For novices everywhere but based in NYC. A safe space to talk about just about anything you want. Everyone is welcome to give advice.
NYC-PAH ~ New York City Pups and Handlers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
NYC-PAH ~ New York City Pups and Handlers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-25
Exists for the furthering, growth, education and promotion of the pup community in New York City and the surrounding area.
NYC Puppy, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Group for pups and their trainers in the New York City area. Ponies, kitties and other pets are welcome, as well as people who are nearby New York City as long as you don’t mind traveling here. 🙂
NYC Queer Hook Up, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the dykes, fags, trannies, butches, femmes, FtMs, MtFs, bi-dykes, bois, grrrls, tranny-fags, genderqueers etc. of NYC and the surrounding metro.
NYC RopeBombSquad, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Mission: To increase creative and dynamic expression within their territory using primarily covert means, random locations, and as much rope as they can acquire. For rope enthusiasts and kink photographers
NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Seeks to bring the sex-positive community together in a fun and interactive way that results in the funding of sex-positive organizations. We believe that sexual freedom is a basic human right and we hope that our calendar succeeds in spreading that idea far and wide.
NYC Spanking Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Personal ads by spankers & spankees who live in the greater New York City metropolitan area
NYC Submissives Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A pansexual group that welcomes submissives and slaves into a dynamic and supportive environment through a network of kink influencers and advocates, special events, and peer-to-peer sharing. Our meetings occur monthly in real life and will be topically focused.
NYC Swingers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A Group for everyone involved, curious or interested in the NYC Swing Scene.
NYC TNG (The Next Generation) 18-35, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC TNG (The Next Generation) 18-35, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group established to promote and facilitate the gathering and interaction of people between the ages of 18 to 35 who are interested or think they might be interested in the BDSM or M/s lifestyle.
NYC T-Party, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all persons identifying themselves as TG/TS/FEMME/CD/TV and those who ADORE them; be they Dominant, submissive, or slave
NYC Trans Friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Transsexual, Trans Gender, Post and Pre Op in the City
NYC Underground!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those in the New York Metropolitan area looking for a little less of a public setting. Geared for the serious BDSM Lifestyler. Not only going to be about discussions, we have resources within the community and were willing utilize them.
NYC Waiting Room, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-17
For doctors, nurses, and patients or those who like to play them. To help like-minded individuals in the NYC area meet, greet and have fun.
NYC Watersports, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group for watersports enthusiasts in NYC.
The Oaks Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
= CLOSED =
The Other Fuckers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
We are a Family, a group of peers, community organizers, and a home for folks on the fringe, wayward kinksters, the in-betweeners, explorers of gender & identity, and non-hetero/queer spectrum rope & kink addicts
ONYX New York, verified 2015-Mar-20
Men Of ONYX, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Formed and operated by Men of Color who enjoy the leather lifestyle. ONYX sets as its’ goal, to provide an informational and social organization to address issues specific to people of color who chose to project the positive aspects of the leather lifestyle and support our community and economic initiatives.
Paddles NYC, verified 2015-Mar-20
Paddles BDSM Club In NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Paddles NYC, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Where people like you live out their fantasies. “the best equipped dungeon on earth.”
Paddles NYC OTK, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all members of the spanking/BDSM community who have, or wish to attend the monthly OTK Spanking Nights at Paddles BDSM club in NYC. This group will serve as an open forum for discussion regarding the munch and night at Paddles to follow.
People of the Great Lakes Alternative Lifestyle, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Please feel free to share information about yourselves, your events, start up discussions about your location, your club to stir up interest, ask any questions you wish about anything in the Great Lakes area.
PEP (People Exchanging Power): Buffalo, verified 2015-Mar-20
PEP Buffalo on FET, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
PEP (People Exchanging Power): Buffalo, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Sincere social and discussion group for all adults (18 and older). Accept all genders, sexualities, marital statuses, kinks, and fetishes, who are interested in BDSM and DS. Goals: To provide support, acceptance, dignity, communion, understanding and education for it’s members.
Phoenix Niagara, verified 2015-Mar-20
Phoenix Niagara, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Monthly munch in St. Catharines. Attendees regularly come from St. Catharines, Niagara Falls, Welland, Thorold, Port Colborne, Fort Erie, Lincoln, Grimsby, Niagara-on-the-Lake, Hamilton, Burlington, Buffalo, and Rochester.
Pike County NEPA and Friends, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For those who reside in or regularly travel to cities and towns in Pike County, PA. Bordering towns in other PA counties, NY, and NJ also welcome.
Plattsburgh/Adirondacks, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people in REALLY upstate New York to get together, get to know each other, and announce events.
Pleasure Salon, verified 2015-Mar-20
Pleasure Salon, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-20
Pleasure Salon, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Founded 2007. To help create a sex-positive NY and allow diverse sexual communities to cross-pollinate. Meets monthly. No cover. For open exchange of ideas and sensual expression.
Pocono Warriors, verified 2015-Mar-20
Leather/levi brotherhood club meeting several times a year, mostly in New York City and Philadelphia. Involved in helping the leather community through sponsoring and participating in charitable fundraising events.
Poly Cocktails, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Apr-04
NYC. Striving to create a safe consensual space for all those in or interested in open consensual relationships, regardless of sexual orientation, sexual identity or legal drinking age group.
Polyamory in New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all us poly kinksters in NY to meet and converse.
Private Catfights in the Northeast, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Arranges private catfights between women. Catfight challenge matches. Special challenges of hairpulling, wrestling only etc. Privacy a priority. Females ages 19-50. Novices especially encouraged. Focus area is the northeast, DC-DE-MD-NY-NJ-PA.
Professional Development: NYC/Tri State, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Looking for classes? Teaching classes? Demo Bottoming in a class? Post about it here for the NYC and Tri State Areas!
Puppy Play NY NJ CT PA, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
same as above
Puppy Play Of North Eastern NY and Western New England, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Anyone and Everyone into Puppy Play, even if you’re just curious about it and want to learn more! Everyone from pups, handlers, the experienced to the novice are welcome.
Queer Munch in Long Island, NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Queer Munch in Long Island, NY, Meetup, verified 2015-Mar-20
For any kind of queer – queer femme, butch, lesbian, gay men, trans, women who like to play with women, men who like to play with men, allies of the above
Queer Poly Players, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Queer people to discuss Poly. Not a dating or hook up group!
Rigger’s Delight (NYC), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Bringing quality people to teach amazing classes that we might not ordinarily get the chance to see & learn from. Open to rope lovers everywhere
RKS Power Exchange Discussion Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For RKS members and guests to discuss Power Exchange.
Rochester Ageplay and Diapers Munch, see Western New York Ageplayers
Rochester Forced Fem (Area CD/TV slaves), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20 = SPAM =
Rochester Grrlz!, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For/about transgendered grrlz born male but identify either in part or whole as a female (includes transsexuals, transvestites, crossdressers etc). Primary function: To get together in real time for social events, friendship, advice, sharing of makeup tips, shopping alerts etc.
Rochester GRUE, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-17
Graydancer’s Ropetastic Unconference Extravaganza. Key word is Unconference. Open format educational event where participants are encouraged to come and discuss and teach about the things that they are most passionate about. Attendees set the agenda for the day.
Rochester Kink Society, verified 2015-Mar-20
Rochester Kink Society – New York!, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Rochester BDSM, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Member-run organization for BDSM enthusiasts in Rochester. Dedicated to openness, tolerance, safety, and education. Does not discriminate by gender or sexual orientation. Wants to create an environment in which anyone can safely learn, practice, or discuss BDSM and related kink.
Rochester NY Area Bottom Types, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For ‘bottom’ types that will largely be used to organize a ‘submissives’ coffee social once a month. To help provide a warm welcoming atmosphere for those of us that are bottoms,slaves, and submissives. Restricted to: Bottoms/submissives/slaves of any gender or orientation identification.
Rochester NY Classifieds, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-13
Post what you need, want or desire.
Rochester Rams, verified 2015-Mar-20
aka “The Battering Ram, M.C.” Rochester’s foremost gay motorcycle club. Small band of men of similar interests: motorcycles, leather, fraternity, and good times. Provide community service both to the gay community and to the community-at-large.
Rochester Trans Group, verified 2015-Mar-20
All inclusive support, social, and educational group for gender variant people and allies ages 18+ that meets monthly
Rochester TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Group of 18-35 year olds in the Rochester area interested in the BDSM lifestyle. This group a part of Rochester Kink Society.
Rope Bite NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Rope bondage munch and skill share designed to get people talking about rope and helping to form community. Will, under the guidance of NYCAIR (New York City Allies In Rope), attempt to continue the tradition of good food, good friends and good rope.
Rope Bite Rochester, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Educational group within the Rochester Kink Society focused on building rope skills.
Sake Talk, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Intimate gathering spot where intelligent, sexy, beautiful, man-obsessed, and (occasionally) dick whipped women (of any D/s orientation) vent their frustrations with the male species over a smooth glass of sake (or two… or maybe three or four). Restricted to: Member of the Sake Klatch IRL.
SBU TNG, Facebook, verified 2015-Mar-20
SBU TNG, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
To bring together Stony Brook students who are interested in learning more about the fetish community as a whole. We intend to hold meetings at specific times during each school semester for open discussions free from judgement as well as lectures about different topics across a wide range.
Schadenfreude – the event, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
SCONY, see Spanking Club of New York
Scranton- Wilkes Barre, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Here to faciliate communication between people in the local area and the outlying regions. PA-NY-NJ
SHE Party NYC, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-31
Celebrates the sexual desires of all kinds of NYC women in a sexy, kinky, play party setting. Be you voyeur or participant you are welcome. Each month will get together for a Munch, Play Party, or some other sexy activity.
Shibari Niagara, verified 2015-Mar-20
Shibari Niagara, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Holding our monthly rope practice meetings in a free space that has been offered to us in downtown St. Catharines, Ontario. Feel free to bring your own rope but if you don’t have any there will be some rope available.
Situation Wanted/Classifieds/Personals New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Connect with what you need in the kink world…
SlutPile, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-24
Queer sex parties in Brooklyn.
SMack! NYC’s Premier Multimedia Fetish Play Party & Longest Running NYC Fetish Event, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
pushing the envelope with new Performers/Models/Fashion Shows, cutting edge music/DJ’s, VJ’s /video artists/projections, play equiptment/machines, Dungeon Play Space/Dominatrix Hosts
Small Town Western New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the people in WNY that do not live in the cities. Geneseo, Caledonia, Mt. Morris, Dansville, Batavia, Warsaw, Pavillion, and many others. Hopefully you can meet people close by to hang out with or even play.
Smut Club, FetLife, reviewed 2015-May-26
SSASE-affiliated book club dedicated to romance, erotica, kink & BDSM literature. Meets monthly. Collection of female friends active in the NYC kink community.
Soft Smiles Submissive Retreat, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Goal: To provide a welcoming, educational, and fun weekend for submissive (or other “s-type”) women.
South Shore Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Geared for those who live on the South Shore of Long Island and those who love them.
South Town Links, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
South Town Links, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
To learn, we have rope class munch and events South Town Links has a small play place and as this group grows so will are play place when coming to South Town Links for the first time its like coming home to old friends and family we have tried to make South Town Links enjoyable to to every kink
Southern Tier Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people in the Southern Tier of NY to get together, network and otherwise connect.
Southern Tier Poly, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-20
Poly friendly environment where people whom are engaged in, or curious about, the poly lifestyle can socialize, share experiences, and help each other with the various elements of poly relationships.
Spam Party, verified 2015-Mar-20
Spam Party, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Brooklyn. Play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and transgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. Safety’s name of the game with our SPAM quality control experts who circulate in order to maximize your nasty fun.
Spanking Club Of New York (SCONY), verified 2015-Mar-20
Spanking Club of New York (SCONY), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Spanking Club of New York (SCONY), Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Social organization for heterosexual spankers in and around NYC. Engages in interactive, group socializing to re-establish and secure timeless community standards through the use of old-fashioned, platonic, traditional, institutional, loving and parental discipline.
Spanks a lot NYC, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-24
Safe place where to meet others interested in spanking and being spanked.
Spiritual Kingston, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Based on keeping an open mind and heart. Learning and growing within the energies around us. There is no one direct focus… Wiccan rituals, meditation, learning in general as long as you are open to the experience.
Squirters of Upstate NY and Tri State Area’s, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Mar-30
For woman, couples and men who appreciate a squirting and gushing woman, to discuss and meet like minded squirt worshippers.
SSASE Long Island, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
Open to all female identified s-types. Focus: Providing educational and social events to help encourage a happy, healthy community and supportive friendships between women.
SSASE- Soft Smiles Association for Submissive Education, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
NYC-based. Goal: to provide welcoming, fun, and educational events for submissive (or other “s-type”) women; to be a safe place for women to build supportive friendships, fully embrace who they are, and to grow in their personal journeys.
SSASE Westchester, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-01
For Westchester County. Open to all female identified s-types. Focus: Providing educational and social events in order to encourage a happy, healthy community and supportive friendships between women.
Staten Island Kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For and about kinksters on Staten Island.
StrictlySpanking NY (SSNY), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A unique group of individuals who share a common head-space and have come together to create a place for all spanking enthusiasts to enjoy. Our primary goal is to create a safe, playful, fun environment for spankos of all ages, both newbies and seasoned alike.
Sub Club NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
New York-area submissives who are attempting to take some sort of ironic control of their lives. Also a safe place to share questions, concerns, anxieties, constant apologies, self-loathing, etc.
Submit Party Bklyn, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
City’s hottest sex & SM party for the women and trans community will feed your appetite, whether you’re a voyeur, experienced player, novice, or just curious. Huge collection of equipment including slings, bondage equipment, spanking bench, plenty of private cubbies, shower, tub, live sex, and and hot porn!
Suburban Kink, LI, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group of players. Who know that there are restrictions placed on many types of public venues, but in a more private setting between consenting adults, many interesting explorations can occur. We are looking to participate and organize gatherings, play parties, and fun events for those who are tired of restrictions.
Suffolk County BDSM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Group for like minded individuals into BDSM in all of its forms. Restricted to: The Long Island Area
Suffolk Munch, Long Island NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
S_SM Munch has met once a month since it was started in 2001. We are a likeminded group who gather together once a month to visit and enjoy a meal with friends. Will vary where we eat on a monthly bases, upon input from our members.
SUNY New Paltz Kinksters, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For SUNY undergrads, grad students, and recent Alumni to network, ask questions, and learn more about kink, fetish, and BDSM topics. Will arrange occasional meet-ups and discussion meetings.
Syracuse D/s Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Syracuse D/s Society, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Warm, welcoming BDSM lifestyle group for local kinksters. Promotes lifestyle-related learning opportunities and host private social events for members, including monthly munches and play parties held in the area.
Syracuse GNO, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-04
Get together of CD’s and transgenders in Syracuse to have a great time with like minded people in the area
TCNG – The Community Next Generation, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
This is the social forum of the parent group:The Community!
TEC@TES (The Equestrian Club at The Eulenspiegel Society), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Welcomes all creatures great and small! All human animals, afficionados, admirers, trainers, grooms, owners and the animal play curious.
TES – The Eulenspiegel Society, see The Eulenspiegel Society
TES Erotic Writing Workshop, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Writers of all levels are welcome and encouraged to join- we aim to be a supportive environment for your talent and creativity.
TES NYC Fetish Film Festival, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the NYC Fetish Film Festival, produced by TES.
TLGLI – The Lost Generation Long Island, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A discussion group for Long Islanders who are 30-45, but ALL are welcome as long as you spend a significant amount of time on the Island.
TNG Tri-State, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group of individuals located in the tri-state area who are under 35. A sort of meet & greet getting to know are younger locales.
Training sensual male submissive NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
You crave the connection and desperately want to please that dominant person. How do you find that person to surrender to in NYC.
transnyc, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all trans-spectrum individuals in NYC. Admirers welcome.
Triad Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Monthly gathering and social group for those in Edison and the surrounding metro areas (NY-NJ-PA) in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle. Open to anyone, male, female, Dom, sub, hetero, gay, bi, CD/TV/TS) who is interested in D/s, B&D or S&M.
Tri-Lakes Small town closet kinksters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A haven for those of us that live in the small towns of Northern New York and want to meet others like us but don’t want our faces plastered all over a small town. Restricted to: Anyone who lives in a small town, especially those in NNY and the 518
Tri State CFNM- New York-New Jersey-Connecticut, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-23
For Clothed Females who enjoy being in fun flirty atmosphere with Nude Males. Parties take place in Westchester & Rockland Counties.
Tri-State Financial Domination, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-03
For spoiled brats/princesses and their pay piggies. NJ-NY-PA
TriState Strap-On Divas, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the New York, New Jersey, Connecticut area Dominas, Lifestyle or Professional. It’s an open group, to find a sub or Dom, in these areas. Regardless of your agenda, you’re more than welcome, to promote yourself here. Reviews are also welcome, plus Literotica.
Tri-State Diapers, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
For diaper peeps in CT-NJ-NY. Straight, bi, gay, queer, questioning, FtM, Mtf, Trans, sissy, etc. All are welcome! A nice AB/DL, Bigs/littles inclusive group, maybe start to have some fun community events specifically focused around diapers in addition to age play.
United Submissive’s Coalition, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-23
For all varieties submissives in Buffalo and surrounding. All welcome, regardless of level of experience; male/female/ or any other variation of gender identity. Dedicated to fostering supportive communication, education, and establishing relationships among like-minded individuals.
Upstate Kink Society, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Upstate Kink Society, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Friendly little group, encompassing: Albany, Binghamton, Ithaca, Norwich, Oneonta, Rochester, Rome, Syracuse, Utica, and Watertown. Real Time Social and Educational, private members only club. Est Oct. 2000. Embraces motto of Consensual Kink.
Upstate Kinky Billiards, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-15
Kinky group of friends out enjoying some pool, drinks and food.
Upstate NY and New England Personals, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For kinky people in Upstate New York and New England to seek play partners, lovers, Dominants, submissives, or whomever you are searching for.
Upstate NY Doms/Domme’s & subs/slaves, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Friendly place for lifestyle enthusiasts in the UpstateNY area to correspond, offer topics, questions & answers, and get to know one another.
Upstate/Western NY TOG (The Older Generation), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-05
For people age 40+. Time in lifestyle unimportant. Purpose: To create an environment to meet, socialize, play, etc.
Uptown/Bronx Munch Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Uptown/Bronx munch in Riverdale, held monthly.
Uptown Male Gatherings, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Sep-08
Gents who gather regularly for sex parties. Safer sex supplies provided. All sexual orientations welcome. Transgender friendly.
Utica Kink Society, see Upstate Kink Society
Utica / Rome / Syracuse / Herkimer TNG (Young Adults 18-35), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For young adults 18-35 from the Mohawk Valley (Utica, Rome, Herkimer), Syracuse, and surrounding areas.
Watertown and NNY trans, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Sep-08
For CD/TS/TV’S of Northern NY to get to know each other, share tips, and make friends.
Watertown / ft.drum tng, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For anyone in the area that Are kinky or interested in being kinky. A group to meet play partners and teachers. Under 35 please
Watertown, NY Area Enthusiasts, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For the use of the fetish friendly, poly & BDSM enthusiasts located in the far, far upstate NY area. We are talking Watertown and its immediate surrounds
Waverly Elmira Society of Kink (WESOK), FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
We are a group of friendly kinksters in the Waverly, Elmira and Sayre area. We are looking for other people of like mind to join us.
Weight Loss Support in Central New York, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
A group for those that are having issues with weight loss. We are here to support and give advice to each other
Westchester CD/TV BD/SM, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
People from the Westchester County area into TV/CD and fun bondage and DID games.
Westchester Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
FetLife extension of the extant Westchester Munch that has been meeting continuously for 10 years.
Westchester, NY Polyamory, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-07
For anyone who is polyamorous or poly-friendly.
Western New York Ageplayers, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For people in Rochester and Central/Western NY region either active in or interested in diapers, adult baby play, “littles”, or other forms of ageplay.
Western New York Anonymous Encounters, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all people who are seeking NSA fun in WNY area.
Western New York Lifestyle Society, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
Western New York Lifestyle Society is a local (ON-LINE), Pan-sexual, group dedicated to the – D/’s Lifestyle. All are welcome here! TG, TS, TV, CD, Bi, Gay and Straight. This is a place for information, knowledge, open-minded communication, and learning
Western New York Poly People, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For polyamorous folks – and the people who love them – from the western New York area (Buffalo, Jamestown, Rochester, Niagara Falls, etc) to meet and discuss the ‘scene’ around town.
Western NY Submissive’s SEEC, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Real-time group dedicated to support, education, enrichment, and creating community for submissives and slaves. Come together to learn and share many aspects of our lives including service oriented skills and the nature of surrender, learn and gain the support of other submissives and slaves.
Wet and Messy fetish NJ/NY, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
For all those in the Tri-state area interested in WAM, includes foodplay, mud, etc. Discussion, roleplay, meetups, whatever. Newbies and curious more than welcome!
“Whisper Girls of NY NJ Ct Pa, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Started as a “Safe Haven” for Sexy Classy and Alluring TGirls Admirers Genetic Women and select Males to talk with one another about anything. Would like to get people together in person and go out to a club for monthly mixers or meet and greets
Wiccan / Pagan Toronto, Ontario and Canada, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jun-30
Designed for those in Toronto but as well as Ontario, Canada and surrounding areas like Buffalo, Niagara Falls, WNY and Rochester etc. Anything goes for chit chatting so feel free to talk about whatever
Wicked Ithaca, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
The ultimate Coolfest and alternative lifestyle sampler event! With multiple vendors selling a variety of wares from books and photos to weaponry and adult toys, and entertainment from Burlesque and Drag to Cult movies and Sideshow performances,
Wicked NYC, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
New York’s Newest Unique BDSM Organization – Complete With Educational Demo’s/Workshops & Play Space! Very upscale, doubles as a theatre & Performance space. The lower level keeps with the old school dungeon atmosphere.
WNY & Ontario Hypnosis and Mind Control, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Discussion wide open with topics including (but not limited to) erotic hypnosis, inductions, triggers, hypnotic suggestions, conditioning, social engineering, mind hacking, trance experiences, guided meditation, and practical psychology.
WNY & Southern Ontario AB/DL Events, Yahoo, verified 2015-Mar-20
For Ab/Dl’s in Western NY (Buffalo, Rochester, Syracuse, Southern Tier), Southern ONT to make plans to get together as a group. Not for individual dating or pics or profiles. Anyone who wants to participate and can travel to an event is welcome.
WNY Marketplace – Kinky Artisans & Kink Friendly Vendors, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
All inclusive group where Serious Local Artisans – Artists, Photographers, Craftsmen, Craftswomen, Wood Workers, Metal Workers, Leather Workers, Kink Friendly Businesses, Vendors as well as their Patrons can advertise & promote their talents, skills, products and services.
Wolf Manor, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Aug-10
Kink friendly party house in Upstate NY. Hosts kinky BBQs & pool parties, birthday parties and demos for the local community.
Wolfucking-Long Island, NYC and nearby, FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Rough, often primal/brutal sex that sometimes borders on non-consent, speckled with moments of tenderness. Tends to take place in meticulously planned situations designed to create intense experiences that tap into the deepest, darkest desires of sexually adventurous people.
Wolfucking Group- Western NY (Rochester/Buffalo area), FetLife, reviewed 2015-Jul-02
Rough, often primal/brutal sex that sometimes borders on non-consent, speckled with moments of tenderness. Tends to take place in meticulously planned situations designed to create intense experiences that tap into the deepest, darkest desires of sexually adventurous people.
Wrestling Party Brooklyn, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Yet Another Central NY Group, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Dedicated to the more social and fun aspects of the kinkier side of life in CNY. A place to meet, hang out, and socialize with others without judgement, but with lots of laughter!
Yonkers Munch, FetLife, verified 2015-Mar-20
Monthly. To give those who live in Westchester Co. (or as far as you want to come from) a chance to connect with each other. All welcomed to come, meet new people, and make new friends.