NOTE: Links are listed in order by region, then month in which the event normally occurs, not city or specific location. Please click the mouse on the right to send us an update on an event or to suggest an addition.
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Eastern North America
April
Kinky Kollege
Spring Break
April 3 – 5, 2020
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site: http://www.kinkykollege.com
Contact: http://kinkykollege.com/contact/
Tagged: BDSM
60 classes by 17 instructors. 15,000 square foot play space with over 75 pieces of equipment. Lots of vendors
MTTA Academy
slave Weekend (Females)
April 2 – 5, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site: http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule: http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
An intense weekend experience, retreat-like, aimed to find your true slave heart, life introspection and clarity for your future. This event is open to males (cis or trans) slaves / subs regardless of their level of experience. If the event is full, ask for waitlist status.
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Sprung
It’s like a black family reunion but a whole lot kinkier!
April 4, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site: http://www.weekendreunion.com/sprung.htm
Contact: http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged: BDSM, AgePlay
At The Playhouse. Sampler Stations in the afternoon. Playdate Icebreaker at 4 PM. Dungeon opens at 9 PM. Little’s Day Care. We party all night! Friday from 8 PM to closing there is a cocktail meet and greet at a nearby hotel.
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The AIS Tri-State Scandal 2020
Cincinnati, Northern KY, Southern Indiana… Get ready for some AIS Style Kinky Fun
April 3 – 5, 2020
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site: http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/SCANDAL/home.html
Tickets: http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/SCANDAL/tickets.html
Info: baraknsheba@gmail.com
Tagged: BDSM,Rope
Hotel event with one day of classes, two nights of play, dedicated rope space, and more. Produced by the Adventures in Sexuality team. Limited to 200 tickets.
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Les Bon Temps Spring Fling Anniversary
Come help LBT celebrate our 8th anniversary!
April 18, 2020
The Rack Room, Milton, Florida
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/846927
Contact: https://www.facebook.com/RackRoomAdmin1/
Tagged: BDSM
Demos, Vendors, Play Party. A block of rooms have been reserved at a nearby hotel.
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The M/s Gathering
5th Year: Learn, Share, Grow
April 16 – 19, 2020
Wilmington, Delaware
Web Site: http://themsgathering.com/
Tagged: Leather, BDSM
2019 sold out in January. Registration scheduled to be available October 1.
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Beat Me In St. Louis
XXII: BDSM Event, Educational Seminars, & Play Party
April 26 – 28, 2019
St. Louis, Missouri
Web Site: http://beatmeinstl.com/
Contact: http://beatmeinstl.com/register/
Tagged: BDSM, Pup, Pony
Hotel takeover. The Mid-West’s Premier BDSM Event, Educational Seminar, & Play Party. Tickets available NOW.
Rochester Erotic Arts Festival
April 26 – 27, 2019
Rochester, New York
Web Site: http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish
Performances, Swing parties, Dungeon times, Workshops, and a nude swim.
Shenanigans Leather/Kink Weekend
Issue: 3!
April 24 – 26, 2020
Sawmill, Dade City, Florida
Web Site: http://shenanigansleatherandkink.com/
Contact: http://shenanigansleatherandkink.com/contact/
Tagged: Leather, BDSM, Camping
Demos, Classes, Vendors, the Florida Critter Contest, and SHENANIGANS in an atmosphere of inclusivity. Vendor Application
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May
All Day Shop and Play
@ Playhouse
May 16, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site: https://baltimoreplayhouse.com/allday/
Tagged: BDSM, Vendors
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Altsex NYC Conference
5th Annual
May 1, 2020
New York, New York
Web Site: https://altsexnycconference.org/
Tagged: BDSM, Polyamory
The AltSex NYC Conference is a forum designed to disseminate information in a respectful, sex positive, and affirmative manner, including but not limited to kink and BDSM, polyamory and consensual non-monogamy, non-binary identifications, and non-traditional relationship and kinship structures. NYS SW CE credits are available. Program is AASECT approved.
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Power eXchange Summit
A three day celebration of power exchange
May 10 – 12, 2019
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site: http://www.powerexchangesummit.org
Contact: https://twitter.com/pxsevent
Tagged: BDSM
Web site not updated for 2019 but dates are confirmed. As of Feb 26 Registration is still not possible.
Servant’s Retreat 2
SR2
May 10 – 12, 2019
Raleigh, North Carolina
Web Site: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/37-servant-s-retreat-2
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/749026
Tagged: BDSM
At Wingnut Stables. SR 2 is an action and results oriented weekend for those who serve.
Carnival Spectacular
@The Crucible
May 18, 2019
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site: https://calendar.google.com/calendar/r/day/2019/5/18?eid=N2xnMGZucjQ3M2xkdHViNDZnMnY4MmtqbXMgdGhlY3J1Y2libGVkY0Bt&ctz=America/New_York&sf=true
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/755519
Tagged: BDSM
Hosted by Sinfully-Naughty Playductions (Subby-Girl and secret_lady). Demo stations for fire play, flogging, mummification, wax, and more.
Beyond Leather
BL 13 – Positive Energy
May 28 – 30, 2020
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Web Site: http://beyondleather.net/
Info: slavebonnie@beyondleather.net
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
IPE Contest
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Memorial Day Weekend
PALS Annual Picnic & BDSM Olympics
May 23, 2020
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/874132
Contact: http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged: BDSM, Camping
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a day of games, free food, 50/50 raffle, and camping.
June
Pittsburgh Bridge Spring Fever 2019
May 31 – June 2, 2019
Camp Davis Campground, Boyers, Pennsylvania
Web Site: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pittsburgh-bridge-spring-fever-2019-tickets-53772100801
Contact: http://www.pittsburghbdsm.com
Tagged: BDSM, Camping
Clothing optional tent camping with kinky, sex-positive adults. Near Pittsburgh. Parties, play, classes, food, music, dancing, and fun.
Revival Kamp
In the Pioneer Valley area of Western Massachusetts
June 2 – 9, 2019
Massachusetts
Web Site: http://www.smakonline.org/kamp/
Contact: http://www.smakonline.org/kamp/#contact
Tagged: Camping
Salem MA Area Kink (S.M.A.K.) invites you to particpate in a unique Kamping experience that brings together people from every corner of the BDSM, leather, and the sex-positive worlds. Attendance is capped at 110.
SELF – Southeast Leatherfest
SELF 25: Connect
June 11 – 14, 2020
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site: http://seleatherfest.com/home
Contact: http://my.yapp.us/SELF
Tagged: BDSM, Leather, Fetish
Including the Southeast Person of Leather contest, and SouthEast Master/slave, SouthEast Bootblack, Ms. SouthEast LeatherFest, SouthEast LeatherFest boy, and Mr. SouthEast LeatherFest.
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CornCon
14th Year
June 22, 2019
Bloomington, Illinois
Web Site: http://www.leatherpalooza.com/corncon.html
Info: Leatherpalooza@gmail.com
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
Education, friendships, pup play and in the evening some dungeon time. Check Leatherpalooza on Fetlife.
Florida Leather Sir/ Leather boy/Community Bootblack Event Weekend
5th year
June 18 – 21, 2020
Parliament House Resort, Orlando, Florida
Web Site: http://www.flsb-fcbb.com/
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/755332
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish, Leather
Florida Leather Sir/ Leather boy/Community Bootblack contests. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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SEEN in Tampa Bay 2019
Sisters Empowering, Evolving and Networking
June 29, 2019
Largo, Florida
Web Site: https://levelupjourneys.wordpress.com/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/seen-in-tampa-sisters-empowering-evolving-networking-registration-55662593315
Schedule: https://levelupjourneys.wordpress.com/seen-in-events/
Tagged: BDSM
For 21+ women and those who identify as women, a day of classes, connections and community. Produced by Level Up Journeys.
July
TES Fest
Sexy summer fun!
July 3 – 5, 2020
Piscataway, New Jersey
Web Site: https://www.tesfest.org/
Contact: https://www.tesfest.org/
Tagged: BDSM, Leather, Fetish
BDSM/Leather/Fetish/Sex Positive hotel takeover.
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Club Edge Anniversary Play Party
9 Years
July 13, 2019
East Stoney Creek, Ontario
Web Site: http://clubedge.net/
Info: info@clubedge.net
Tagged: BDSM
Twitter See http://clubedge.net/Calender.html. Fetlife Event Page.
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MTTA Academy
slave Weekend (Males)
July 9 – 12, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site: http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule: http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
An intense weekend experience, retreat-like, aimed to find your true slave heart, life introspection and clarity for your future. This event is open to males (cis or trans) slaves / subs regardless of their level of experience.
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Southeastern VA Community Kink Fest
2nd Annual
July 12 – 14, 2019
Dragon Manor, Barhamsville, Virginia
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/689417
Tagged: BDSM
Near Williamsburg. Outdoor nudity permitted. Vendor fair, Presenters, Kinky Dessert Contest.
Summer WoW – Weekend of Wickedness
An all-inclusive BDSM weekend in beautiful upstate NY
July 8 – 12, 2020
Northeast of Albany, New York
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/groups/106232/about
Info: MKDesires@yahoo.com
Tagged: BDSM, Camping
Long laid back camping weekend with presenters – add Thursday if you want to. Reservations opened December 1, 2019.
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Weekend Reunion: Fireball
It’s like a black family reunion but a whole lot kinkier! 2020 date TBA
July 13, 2019
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site: http://weekendreunion.com/fireball.htm
Contact: http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged: BDSM
Fiery demos, outdoor cigar social, vendors with fireplay supplies. ¡Vamos a celebrar! Read this if you are new.
FetCamp 2019
July 19 – 21, 2019
Massachusetts
Web Site: https://www.fetcamp.com/
Contact: https://www.fetcamp.com/contact_us
Tagged: BDSM, Camping
$200 tenting, $250 cabin. Photo package: $20. Classes, playtime, outdoor fun.
August
Butchmanns On The Road – Cincinnati
4th Pansexual Butchmanns Experience
August 2 – 4, 2019
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site: http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/butchmanns-on-the-road-2019-tickets-49358539721
Contact: info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. Sponsored by The Power Exchange Event Centre, Inc./ MAsT ORV Cincinnati.
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C.O.P.E.
BDSM Education and Playtime
July 31 – August 1, 2020
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site: http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/splash.html
Info: Owner@adventuresinsexuality.org
Tagged: BDSM
Hotel Takeover; 10,000 square foot dungeon. COPE: The Central Ohio Perversion Excursion produced by Adventures in Sexuality. Tickets on sale April 10, 2020.
Southeast Black & Blue
BDSM Educational Weekend
August 9 – 11, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site: http://www.sebbevents.com/
Info: nitro@southeastlsb.com
Tagged: BDSM
At the Atlanta Eagle! Southeast Black and Blue, LLC is a not-for-profit organization with 100% of the proceeds raised throughout the year going to support its educational outreach, resources and activities.
Steel City Eroticon
and The Bondage Ball
August 15 – 17, 2019
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Web Site: https://bodyshopclubs.com/events/23681
Tickets: https://bodyshopclubs.com/events/23681/orders/new
Contact: events@bodyshopclubs.com
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish, Polyamory
Poly mixer Thursday 7-9. Vending, art exhibits throughout the weelend. Saturday classes range from Kink 101 to Vulva Casting. Polyamory Discussion Panel. Erotic Fashion Show 5 PM Saturday. Saturday night Bondage Ball is a 21+ BYOB event, listed here separately. There are off-site play events.
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BDSM Writers Con
This event was canceled in 2018. No 2019 dates have been posted.
August 16 – 19, 2018
New York City, New York
Web Site: http://bdsmwriterscon.com/
Contact: http://bdsmwriterscon.com/contact-us
Tagged: Writers
Dedicated to writers and readers of Dominance and submission. We are the ONLY conference in the world to offer writers and readers the ability to discover the complexities of Dominance and submission through workshops, live demos, and fascinating hands-on experiences while you interact with your favorite–and soon-to-be favorite–BDSM authors.
Submissive Journey Weekend
August 20 – 23, 2020
Pigeon Forge, Tennessee
Web Site: http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/
Tickets: http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/apply-to-attend-sjw/
Info: info@submissivejourneyweekend.com
Schedule: http://www.submissivejourneyweekend.com/sample-schedule/
Tagged: BDSM
SJW is a relaxed weekend of classes, connections and camaraderie in the Tennessee mountains. Started in 2007 by a couple of Leather s-types who saw the need for us little letter people (LLP) to have our own hang-out, SJW has consistently proven itself to be a retreat that doubles as a personal growth seminar.
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Labor Day Weekend
Master/slave Conference 2020
Annual educational event dedicated solely to Master/slave relationships
September 3 – 7, 2020
Falls Church, Virginia
Web Site: http://masterslaveconference.org/
Contact: http://masterslaveconference.org/contact-us/
Tagged: BDSM
MTTA, Inc. presents a 5 day 4 night conference. Home of the Northeast Master/slave Contest. Keynote: Mister Blue, International Master 2018. Online Registration & Hotel Room Booking will open March 2020.
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September
Sex Down South
~Fluid~: 5th Annual Atlanta Sexuality Conference.
September 5 – 7, 2019
Atlanta, Georgia
Web Site: https://www.sexdownsouth.com/
Tickets: https://www.sexdownsouth.com/registration
Info: marla@sexdownsouth.com
Tagged: Sex
Sacred/Spiritual/Tantric Sexuality ~ Religion & Sexuality ~ BDSM/Kink/Costume Play ~ Polyamory/Non-monogamy ~ Sex in the South/Geographical implications on Sexuality ~ Race & Sexuality ~ Aging & Sexuality ~ Disability & Sexuality ~ Youth Sex Education ~ Communication & Healthy Relationships ~ Single Life ~ Trans*, Gender Non-Conforming & Genderqueer Sexualities ~ Lesbian/Gay/Same Gender Loving/Bisexual/Queer Sexualities ~ Reproductive Justice ~ Sex Worker Rights ~ Trauma and Sexuality
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SexPo Cleveland 2018
3rd Annual
September 7, 2018
Cleveland, Ohio
Web Site: https://www.facebook.com/events/2029227637313975/
Contact: https://www.facebook.com/SAVEatCWRU/
Tagged: Polyamory, BDSM
Hosted by CWRU Greek Life and SAVE, SexPo is a convention intended to remove the taboo associated with openly discussing sex and sexuality. We aim to open minds and push boundaries, giving everyone the chance to ask questions they may not be able to ask in any other setting, generate an ongoing dialogue regarding sex and sexuality, and encourage a sex-positive culture throughout Case Western and the greater community. (2019 date pending)
Florida Power Exchange
FPE VIII: Destination Diversity
September 17 – 20, 2020
Tampa, Florida
Web Site: http://www.floridapowerexchange.com/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/florida-power-exchange-2020-tickets-83877167867
Contact: https://fetlife.com/groups/74342
Schedule: https://my.yapp.us/FPE2020
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
Breaking out. Breaking even. Bootblacks, presentations, community, and fun! This is an adult alternative lifestyle-focused event involving all aspects and modalities in power exchange. Click here for contest information
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October
PALS Ample Samples
October 5, 2019
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site: http://pals-fl.com/
Contact: http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged: BDSM
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a day of education and a hotel play party annually.
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DomCon
Pro and Lifestyle BDSM/Fetish
October 10 – 14, 2019
New Orleans, Louisiana
Web Site: https://www.domcon.com/
Contact: https://www.domcon.com/home/custom?page=Contact+Us
Tagged: Fetish, Pup, Pony
Mistress Cyan presents The World’s Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention. Pet Show and Awards for Cutest Pet * Best Behaved Pet * Best Costume * Best Pet Trick
Jax Fet Fest
Oct 10 – 13, 2019
Jacksonville, Florida
Web Site: https://www.clubkinkjax.com/jax-fet-fest/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tickets-to-attend-the-2019-1st-annual-jax-fet-fest-october-10-13th-tickets-71221869529
Contact: https://www.clubkinkjax.com/contact-us/
Tagged: BDSM, Pony, Rope
Classes, Vendors, Raffles, Games, Dungeon time, based at Club Kink Jax. Buck of the Waterhole is presenting pony play. Blaise and Raven presenting rope. Marshall of EMT Toys leads the Spank A Thon.
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Unity Munch 2020
The largest annual black munch event in the world!
October 17, 2020
Baltimore, Maryland
Web Site: http://weekendreunion.com/unitymunch.htm
Contact: http://www.weekendreunion.com/contact.php
Tagged: BDSM
Dinner this year will be held at GrandE Buffet & Grill which is conveniently located 15 minutes from the hotel and features American, Asian and Mexican cuisine. After dinner we’ll head to the Baltimore Playhouse for a massive play party. If you’ve never experienced a playspace packed full of kinky black folks, you are in for a treat. See web page for complete info. Also, Read this if you are new.
Kinky Kollege
Homecoming
October 25 – 27, 2019
Chicago, Illinois
Web Site: http://kinkykollege.com
Contact: http://kinkykollege.com/contact/
Tagged: BDSM
50+ classes by 17 instructors. 15,000 square foot play space with over 75 pieces of equipment.
PhEERfest 2019
Sincinnati’s Only Halloween Edge Play Event
October 25 – 27, 2019
Cincinnati, Ohio
Web Site: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pheerfest-tickets-61342643498
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/723247
Tagged: Fetish, BDSM
Tickets are on sale now. Vendors, classes, parties!
November
Foundations in Mastery
When only excellence will do.
November 6 – 8, 2020
Fairfield, Ohio
Web Site: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/39-foundations-in-mastery
Info: asst2msgross@bdsmclasses.com
Tagged: BDSM
This three-day seminar is a call to excellence for Tops, Dominants, and Masters.
KinkyCon
KINKYCON XIII
November 8 – 10, 2019
Manchester, New Hampshire
Web Site: http://www.kinkyconnh.com/
Contact: http://www.kinkyconnh.com/contact
Tagged: BDSM, Polyamory
Kinky Con is an annual conference celebrating the education and exploration of BDSM, polyamory, gender identity, alternative sexuality, and welcoming people of all ages (18+), race, sexual orientation, gender identity, and spiritual belief.
MTTA Academy
Master Weekend
November 5 – 8, 2020
Springfield, Virginia
Web Site: http://www.mttaacademy.org/
Schedule: http://www.mttaacademy.org/curriculum
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
For all genders and orientations. If the event is full, ask for waitlist status.
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Swingset Takes Desire! 2020
November 7 – 14, 2020
Desire Resort – Riviera Maya in Cancún, Mexico
Web Site: https://swingsetdesire.com/
Tagged: Swingers, BDSM
Resort Takeover: Every room at the resort is booked by our group. We host workshops on non-monogamy, anal play, flogging, and more. We are the first group to erect a full BDSM Dungeon for a night in the disco, complete with St Andrews Crosses, flogging benches, and a suspension station, along with workshops to unleash your inner dom or sub. Every year sees play parties, gang bangs, and orgies both hosted and pop-up, themed costume nights, live podcast recordings, karaoke, wine socials, cocktails, prizes and giveaways, foam parties, and just relaxing by the pool, beach, or in the hot tub.
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Brimstone 666
6th Brimstone
November 28 – December 1, 2019
Piscataway, New Jersey
Web Site: http://brimstone6.com/
Tagged: BDSM, Pony, Pup, AgePlay
Hotel Takeover. Multi-faceted event that sells out at 600 attendees. More than twenty NY/NJ groups provide volunteers and support for this event.
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December
6th Annual ~Let’s Celebrate the Holidays~ Picnic
TOG Community Picnic
December 7, 2019
Lake Worth, Florida
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/834966
Contact: http://twitter.com/florida_dom
Tagged: BDSM
This is a VANILLA event. The South Florida The Old Generation group has already rented the pavilion and will make requests of local organizations, events, dungeons, munches, etc to help sponsor the picnic so this can be a FREE day for all the attendees. There will be hot dogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers, chicken, pulled pork, salads and more. There will be games and contests and fun for all. About 600 attendees expected.
Foundations in Mastery
When only excellence will do.
December 4 – 6, 2020
Middletown, New York
Web Site: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/39-foundations-in-mastery
Info: asst2msgross@bdsmclasses.com
Tagged: BDSM
This three-day seminar is a call to excellence for Tops, Dominants, and Masters.
February
PALS Fetish Fest
January 31 – February 1, 2020
Pensacola, Florida
Web Site: http://pals-fl.com/
Contact: http://pals-fl.com/panhandle-alternative-lifestyle-society/
Tagged: BDSM
Panhandle Alternative Life Styles presents a weekend of presenters and vendors, with a Saturday night party at a hotel.
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Winter Wickedness
Save the date for something great!
January 31 – February 2, 2020
Columbus, Ohio
Web Site: http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/WICKED/home.html
Tagged: BDSM,Rope
Hotel Takeover,one day of classes, two nights of play in 10,000 square ft of play spaces, dedicated rope space, warm and wet room, more.
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Luxury Hotel Takeover
February 14 – 17, 2020
Washington, District of Columbia
Web Site: https://darkodyssey.com/
Info: info@darkodyssey.com
Tagged: Hedonism, AgePlay, BDSM, Pony, Pup
A vacation weekend where you can explore the many facets of sexuality in a private, intimate community of like-minded people. Performances, BDSM education, spirituality, more. Price changes and discount deals are announced on thier Twitter.
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Nightshade Halifax – The Rubber Ball
6th Annual
February 22, 2020
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Web Site: http://www.nightshadehalifax.com/events.html
Contact: https://www.facebook.com/NightshadeHalifax
Tagged: Fetish
Fetish, kink, gothic & BDSM. Flyer
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March
Kinky Karnival
A Vortex event
March 7, 2020
Des Moines, Iowa
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/757650
Tickets: https://vortexparties.com/vortex-des-moines/purchase-des-moines-admission/
Tagged: BDSM
Exploration at demo booths, carnival photo booth, prizes, play party. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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Freyja’s Fling
Save the date 2020
March 13 – 15, 2020
Edmonton, Canada
Web Site: https://freyjasfling.myfreesites.net/
Tagged: BDSM
Did you miss the first year? Presenters, vendors, entertainment, play parties. LQBTQIA+ friendly (zero tolerance policy for harassment),
April
Calgary Kinky Flea Market
April 13, 2019
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site: https://ca.groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/albertasocietyforkink/info
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/762971
Tagged: Vendor Faire, Fetish, BDSM
Presented by Alberta Society For Kink. Contact Dennis at masdenask@gmail.com, Sharon s.mclaren@outlook.com, call 403 398 9968. Forest Heights Community Centre, 4909 Forego Avenue SE, Calgary.
KinkFest
PLA
April 10 – 12, 2020
Portland, Oregon
Web Site: http://www.kinkfest.org/
Contact: http://www.kinkfest.org/contact.php?section=Contact%20Us
Tagged: BDSM
Dungeon offering 36,000 square feet of play space. Kinkfest Art Gallery, Presenters, Workshops, Community meeting space. Registration will open in September.
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Kinky Karnival
A Vortex event
April 18, 2020
Omaha, Nebraska
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/757650
Tickets: https://vortexparties.com/vortex-omaha/purchase-omaha-admission/
Tagged: BDSM
Exploration at demo booths, carnival photo booth, prizes, play party. Fetlife event page is for 2019.
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May
DomCon Los Angeles
Pro and Lifestyle BDSM/Fetish
May 6 – 11, 2020
Los Angeles, California
Web Site: http://www.domconla.com
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/395002
Tagged: Fetish
Mistress Cyan presents The World’s Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention
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Servant’s Retreat 1
SR1
February 7 – 9, 2020
Seattle, Washington
Web Site: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/seminars/detailed-seminar-information/37-servant-s-retreat-2
Tickets: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/registration
Schedule: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/sr1
Tagged: BDSM
SR 1 is an action and results oriented weekend for those who serve.
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June
Desire Leather Women Unleashed
May 31 – June 3, 2019
Palm Springs, California
Web Site: http://desireleatherwomen.org/
Tagged: BDSM, Camping, Leather
Your kinky family reunion in the desert. Women’s only BDSM weekend. Fetlife Event Page
Butchmanns On The Road – Oregon
All Male Butchmanns Experience
June 7 – 9, 2019
Oregon City, Oregon
Web Site: http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/all-male-butchmanns-experience-tickets-49348269001
Info: info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. At Lookout Lodge and Tripod Ranch.
CMN BDSM Group Freedom Camping
First Annual
June 13 – 16, 2019
Freedom Valley Campground, Cushing, Wisconsin
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/734284
Tagged: Camping
21+, tents and RVs, clothing optional, alcohol optional (drink responsibly), play space available, games and nightly campfire circles. See Freedom Vally Campground Wisconsin for information on the site.
LEASH Weekend 2020
June 12 – 14, 2020
Houston, Texas
Web Site: http://leashweekend.com/
Info: admin@LEASHweekend.com
Tagged: BDSM
Parties Friday and Saturday night. Classes all day Saturday, novice to advanced levels.
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July
Servant’s Retreat
SR1
July 12 – 14, 2019
Tempe, Arizona
Web Site: https://www.bdsmclasses.com/index.php/sr1
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/749020
Tagged: BDSM
This is the longest standing weekend event for submissives, bottoms, slaves and servants only continuously taught by the same instructor in the USA.
GWNN Bash
Bash XXVI – Pushing The Envelope
July 26 – 28, 2019
Round Rock,Texas
Web Site: http://www.gwnnbash.com/about-gwnn/
Contact: https://twitter.com/gwnnaustin
Tagged: BDSM
Presenters for 3 days of classes from novice to ninja levels including Consent Academy seminars. Two Parties, Lovely Hotel. Bootblacks all weekend. Keynote Brunch with Ms. Rhonda and Tomo.
Thunder in the Mountains
The one and only Thunder
July 23 – 26, 2020
Denver, Colorado
Web Site: http://www.thunderinthemountains.com/
Contact: http://www.thunderinthemountains.com/contacts.html
Tagged: BDSM, Pony, Pup
Huge play space, puppy mosh pit, and pony track/dedicated pony play space. Host hotel will sell out.
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August
Butchmanns On The Road – Oregon
All Women Butchmanns Experience
August 9 – 11, 2019
Oregon City, Oregon
Web Site: http://www.butchmanns-experience.org/
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/all-female-butchmanns-experience-tickets-49346279049
Contact: info@butchmanns-experience.org
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
Presented by Butchmanns. At Lookout Lodge and Tripod Ranch.
D.a.m. Ranch Camp
That one time at Camp
August 8 – 11, 2019
East of Porterville, California
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/749248
Info: AudioDiva@DamRanchCA.com
Tagged: BDSM, Camping
Camp must be paid for in advance. $50 per person, to paypal.me/TGIFBall and specify CAMP. Attendance is limited to 60 people. Web site, http://damranchca.com/camp.php. is out of date. Update info for 2019.
Ritual Revolution
NEW
August 14 – 16, 2020
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/834846
Contact: https://fetlife.com/RitualRevolution
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish
Ritual Revolution will feature rituals such as hook suspension, energy pulls, cleansing ceremonies and more. Our focus will be on how what we do to the body can help open up the mind and spirit. We welcome all experience levels, from those new and curious, to those who have flown a time or two.
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LeatherWoods
18th year, Camping
August 22 – 25, 2019
Salem, Oregon
Web Site: http://www.leatherwoods.org/Leatherwoods.htm
Contact: http://www.leatherwoods.org/contactus.html
Tagged: Camping
Leatherwoods is a membership-only BDSM campout which is open to all sexual persuasions, at a kink-friendly campground with opportunities for some delightful outdoor scenes. A clean and sober event.
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Rocky Mountain Rebellion
Rebelling Against Stigma
August 23 – 25, 2019
Salt Lake City, Utah
Web Site: http://www.rmrebellion.com/
Contact: https://www.facebook.com/RockyMtnRebellion/
Tagged: Leather, Fetish, BDSM
The Rebellion is a three day conference focused around Leather, Fetish, BDSM and Power Exchange Relationships. Home of the Rocky Mountain Puppy Trainer and Rocky Mountain Person of Leather contests.
TGIF 21st Annual Ball – WILD WEST
Social, education, vendors, music, dancing & more
August 23 – 25, 2019
Fesno, California
Web Site: https://www.tgifresno.com/about-us
Contact: https://fetlife.com/groups/6391
Tagged: BDSM
Social, education, vendors, music, dancing & more. Fetlife Event
September
Rebooted Revamped
A weekend of education, community, and play.
September 11 – 13, 2020
Tucson, Arizona
Web Site: http://rebootedrevamped.org/
Tickets: https://rebootedrevamped2020.eventbrite.com/
Tagged: Leather, BDSM, Rope, Polyamory, Pony
A dynamic, volunteer driven, inclusive event committed to creating consent culture. Education and empowerment of our diverse communities will be provided by cultivating a social environment with workshops and play space. Wide variety of education including Bootblacking; Pony Play; Rope; Relatsionships / Polyamory, and mild to wild SM. Volunteer @ this link.
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The Calling
September 13 – 15, 2019
Houston, Texas
Web Site: http://edgeliving.net/the-calling/
Info: edgeliving.thecalling@gmail.com
Tagged: BDSM
A weekend created for those on the ‘bottom’ side of authority-based relationships, hosted by Master Jim, slave marsha and Sir Cougar, the owners of South Plains Leatherfest and the International Master/slave Contest. Have you been called to serve?
SEEK Retreat 2019
SEEK: Superpowers!
September 19 – 22, 2019
North of Minneapolis, Minnesota
Web Site: https://seekmn.org/
Contact: https://seekmn.org/contact-us/
Tagged: Camping, BDSM
Support * Enrichment * Empowerment * Knowledge. Sponsored by Leather Journey. Cabin camping. Presenters, classes and group activities.
The Ledge Weekend Intensive
Hardy Haberman / River Dark & domenique
September 21 – 22, 2019
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/795332
Tickets: bentparty@gmail.com
Contact: https://fetlife.com/MissAndie
Tagged: BDSM, Leather
The Ledge presents it’s first Weekend Intensive. Six classes including: When It’s Not Just Fun & Games: Playing on the Dark Side – Old Guard Protocols and Why You Don’t Need Them – Strangulation & Asphyxiation: A Study in Breath Control – Putting the Sex Back in SM – Interrogation and Abduction. Dungeon party Saturday night and a wrap up session Sunday afternoon.
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Beyond Vanilla
Texas’ premier lifestyle kink event
September 27 – 28, 2019
Dallas, Texas
Web Site: https://beyondvanilla.org/
Contact: https://beyondvanilla.org/contact/
Tagged: BDSM, Leather, Fetish, Pup
Presented by NLA – Dallas. South Central Puppy and Handler Contest.
Folsom Street Fair
Worlds Largest Leather Event, Sunday
September 29, 2019
San Fransisco, California
Web Site: https://www.folsomstreetevents.org/folsom-street-fair/
Tagged: Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Parade, Pony
250,000 fetish enthusiasts spread out over 13 city blocks. Keep an eye on the Calendar
After Folsom Fuck Fest
September 29, 2019
San Fransisco, California
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/283816
Tagged: Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Parade, Pony
6:00 PM – 4:00 AM at Power Exchange. We know that a lot of you will be coming to Folsom, but… How many of you came to cum?. $10 Discount if you mention you saw this party on FetLife!
October
Calgary Kinky Flea Market
October 19, 2019
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site: https://ca.groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/albertasocietyforkink/info
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/826712
Tagged: Vendor Faire, Fetish, BDSM
Presented by Alberta Society For Kink. Contact Dennis at masdenask@gmail.com, Sharon s.mclaren@outlook.com, call 403 398 9968. Forest Heights Community Centre, 4909 Forego Avenue SE, Calgary.
November
Leather Reign 13
Advanced BDSM Education
November 8 – 10, 2019
Seattle, Washington
Web Site: http://leatherreign.org/
Tickets: https://www.cognitoforms.com/ELE2/LeatherReign2019
Info: Registration@leatherreign.org
Tagged: BDSM
Keynote Speaker: Mufasa Ali. Endnote Speaker: slavegirl j. Leather Reign is an environment where participants can discover their power to intentionally and intimately connect with primal sexuality, power exchange relationships, and each other.
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Ritual Steel – San Diego
November 8 – 9, 2019
San Diego, California
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/groups/179725
Tickets: http://bit.ly/RitualSteelSD2019
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish
Ritual Steel is a transformative ritual piercing event intended to provide a unique personal and educational experience that can result in a coming-of-age transformation, catharsis, and/or emotional growth. Friday evening we will be doing a presentation on the history of hook rituals, followed by a meet and greet. Saturday afternoon we will facilitate a hook pull, and in the evening we will facilitate flesh hook suspensions.
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Indigeo Victoria MINI-CON 2019
Back by popular demand! Indigeo’s Mini-Conception / Con
November 9, 2019
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/728217
Contact: http://indigeovictoria.com/
Tagged: BDSM
One day of classes followed by a huge Dungeon Party. Note: Conception 3 day Kink Conference will return November 13-15th. 2020! Watch for news on the event’s Fetlife group, Indigeo’s Conception Kink Conference & Parties.
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Leather Reign 14
Advanced BDSM Education
November 13 – 15, 2020
Seattle, Washington
Web Site: http://leatherreign.org/
Info: Registration@leatherreign.org
Tagged: BDSM
Keynote: BlueFrost. Endnote: Jack Thompson (IML 41). Leather Reign is an environment where participants can discover their power to intentionally and intimately connect with primal sexuality, power exchange relationships, and each other.
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January
Freyja Project Winter Festival 2020
resenters, Classes, Workshops & Activities Discussion Groups, Two Play Parties, and more
January 24 – 26, 2020
Madison, Wisconsin
Web Site: https://thefreyjaproject.org/page-18105
Tickets: https://thefreyjaproject.org/event-3637090
Info: freyjaprojectmadison@gmail.com
Tagged: BDSM
7,000 sq.ft. dungeon and photo studio open 7 pm to 1 AM, with dedicated medical play space and low-stimulation room. Numerous presenters. Meal plan available.
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February
Sin In The City
8: INFINITE SIN!
January 30 – February 2, 2020
Las Vegas, Nevada
Web Site: http://www.sin-in-the-city.com/
Tickets: http://www.sin-in-the-city.com/home-1/event-registration/
Contact: https://www.facebook.com/SinInTheCityLV
Schedule: https://my.yapp.us/SININTHECITY
Tagged: BDSM
Host of the International Person of Leather Contest.
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Lupercalia
2019 was canceled, 2020 planned?
February 15 – 17, 2019
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Web Site: http://lupercalia-edmonton.com/l
Info: GoddessLupa@gmail.com
Tagged: BDSM
Lupercalia is a 3 day alternative lifestyle/BDSM/Kink conference featuring workshops, discussions, play parties, special presentations and social opportunities for individuals, couples and groups wanting to learn and share with others who are active, curiously exploring or just interested in alternative relationships and various forms of consensual adult play. One of the longest running annual conferences of its types in Canada.
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Random Acts of Kink Weekend
Calgary’s Newest Kink Conference
February 14 – 17, 2020
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Web Site: https://www.randomactsofkink.com/
Tickets: https://www.randomactsofkink.com/tickets
Tagged: BDSM, Fetish
The event will feature a Fetish Ball on the Friday night followed by a full slate of cool and exciting workshops Saturday and Sunday with some sexy hot play parties each night. Monday is the Family Day weekend in Alberta (also Random Acts of Kindness day) so we hope our guests will stay up with us Sunday night before heading home on the Monday. Random Acts of Kink weekend has a goal of demonstrating diversity and inclusiveness through our planning and presenter team. We will be focusing on inviting presenters of with a diverse background with a focus on POC, LGBTQIA+, sex workers, disabled kinksters and TNG/new presenters.
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Europe
April
LIFESEXPERTS Conference in Porto
With Leah
April 6 – 8, 2019
Porto, Portugal
Web Site: https://www.lifesexperts.com/events
Contact: https://www.lifesexperts.com/contact-us
Tagged: Polyamory
Saturday, 6th April: Transform Your Relationships Through Better Communication. Sunday, 7th April: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink & BDSM – The Community, The Events, The Greater Potential for Pleasure. Monday, 8th April: The Art of Consent: Safe and Pleasurable Sexual Exploration
July
Kamping – into the woods
July 25 – 28, 2019
West Midlands, England
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/701090
Contact: https://fetlife.com/users/3310645
Tagged: Camping
Registration Workshops and playtime on 30 acres of private woodlands and campground. Tenting, RVs, hot running water, mains sockets. About an hour south of Manchester.
August
KinkFest 2019
6th year
August 10 – 11, 2019
Xtasia, West Bromwich, United Kingdom
Web Site: https://kinkfest.org.uk
Contact: https://fetlife.com/events/578406
Tagged: BDSM
UK’s Biggest and Best Kinky Conference Returns for its Sixth Year!
The Boat Party
26th Year
17 August, 2019
River Thames, London
Web Site: http://the-firm.org/boat.htm
Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-boat-26-tickets-61983509345
Contact: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-boat-26-tickets-61983509345
Tagged: Cruise, BDSM
We set sail at 9 pm from Millbank Pier (London, SW1P 4GT – opposite Millbank Tower), to the London Eye, St Pauls, Westminster, HMS Belfast & City Hall. Docking at 1am. Music by DJ Tina Storm. You can do SM with your lover while cruising right through the heart of one of the most beautiful capital cities in the world on a glorious summer night. Event does not include a buffet.
October
Fetish & BDSM Festival VIII – 2019
Hangar 43
25 – 26 October, 2019
Baasrode, Dendermonde, Belgium
Web Site: https://www.fetishfestival.be/
Contact: https://www.fetishfestival.be/contact.html
Tagged: Fetish
And MGP party.
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November
HunCon
BDSM Conference in Budapest
November 8 – 11, 2019
Budapest, Hungary
Web Site: https://hunbdsm-con.eu/
Info: info@hunbdsm-con.eu
Tagged: BDSM
Fourth year. Fourteen presenters. Capacity 200 attendees.
January
BDSM Winter Retreat
Unfortunately, the winter retreat 2019-2020 will not take place due to insufficient registrations.
December 28, 2019
Jagniatkow, Jelenia Gora, Poland
Web Site: https://7sensesart.com/en/all-events/viewevent/92-winter-retreat-2019-2020-jagniatkow
Tagged: Fetish, BDSM
An opportunity to explore the fusion of creativity, BDSM, and sex, in a minimally structured environment.
February
Rome BDSM Conference
International Presenters BDSM
Feb, 2020
Rome, Italy
Web Site: http://romebdsmconference.com/
Info: webmaster@romebdsmconference.alcova.biz
Tagged: BDSM
2019 Canceled. 2020 planning begins Summer 2019.
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Australia / New Zealand
June
Dark Night Art Exhibition and Performance
BDSM & Erotica Art Exhibition
June 20 – 21, 2020
Hobart, Tasmania
Web Site: https://fetlife.com/events/771683
Tagged: Rope
Save The Date. Outline: Saturday 4pm – Exhibition opening & Artists introduction; Saturday 6pm-9pm – Cocktails & Art; Sunday 2pm – Performance & Art.
September
Oz KinkFest
Year 12
September 13 – 23, 2019
Melbourne, Australia
Web Site: https://www.ozkinkfest.com/
Tagged: BDSM, LGBTQ+
Australia’s Ultimate GLBTIQ and Alternative Lifestyle Festival features vendors, 2 day educational series, club nights, and fetish fun. Fetlife Event is for the Fetish Expo, Saturday 14 September 2019 12 noon – 7 pm, Collingwood Town Hall, 140 Hoddle Street, Abbotsford.
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Multiple Locations
Various Dates
International Deaf Leather
25+ years
Varies, International
Web Site: http://www.internationaldeafleather.org/
Tagged: BDSM, Camping, Fetish, Leather, Polyamory, Pony, Pup, Rope, AgePlay
See the Events tab on their web site for a list of major Leather events that are Sign Language & Voice Interpreted.
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Virtual
March
International Kinky Women’s Day
Celebrating the Women in Kink and the Kink in Women!
March 08, 2020
Webinars
Web Site: https://live.internationalkinkywomensday.com/
Tagged: BDSM, Education
8:00 AM ET Webinar: Domme Breakfast
9:30 AM ET Body, Heart & Mind —All About Care
11:00 AM ET Support & Encouragement of Women?
12:30 PM ET Sensation Play
2:00 PM ET A Guide To Pleasure, Including Working Through or With Shame
3:30 PM ET Non-Women Supporting & Promoting Women in Kink
5:00 PM ET Sluts, Trollops & Tramps: Women in Ethical Non-Monogamy
100+ events
While events listed on this page may be of interest to Leather, BDSM, Furry, Geeky, Kinky, Polyamory, Age Play, or other Alt communities, it is unlikely that all events will be of interest to everyone. Please take what is useful to you and ignore the rest.
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